So, you decided to use all possible methods and find out how to meet a girl on the Internet and did not miss the article that will ensure your success? You did everything right, and taking into account all my advice, the acquaintance will be more than successful.

Basic rules of online dating

Let's start, perhaps, with what without which all your further actions will be meaningless - with the rules and fundamentals of behavior on the Internet.

Be well mannered

You simply do not have the right to be vulgar and rude. Forget it will not give you points in the eyes of the lady. At best, she will simply think that she is dealing with a gopnik, at worst, with an unbalanced pervert.

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Try to master your literacy

Yes, some girls are also “not a fountain”, but you still try to write correctly. After all, if one out of 10 does not notice your gross mistakes due to their own illiteracy, then 9 will definitely pay attention to it. You may not have all the commas placed correctly, but the words “girls” or “want” are an irreparable stain on your reputation.

If your spelling is very bad, use special services to check texts. Finally, write your messages in Word, copy and paste into the dialog box.

A few tips

If for some reason you can’t see a girl’s photo or you can’t find out her age (this often happens on forums and dating sites), you can try using these tips:

• If a young lady is very capricious and touchy, most likely she is beautiful (or at least considers herself so).
• Cowardly, a little stupid and quite naive - most likely she is a teenager.
• If he brings up a topic about work, weekends, lack of free time, earnings, etc. - Most likely, she is already over 20.
• If she starts talking about her studies, she is either a schoolgirl or a student.
• If on a girl’s page you only see photos of her face, try to make sure you see her completely. You can just ask for a full-length photo of her if you are already close enough. Otherwise, you run the risk of seeing something on your first date that is far from what you were hoping for.

The advice is banal, but sometimes we forget to pay attention to such little things and what we get is not at all what we pictured in our minds.

Let's meet on a dating site

How to meet a girl on the Internet? Of course, on a dating site - they are all open to communication and dating, they don’t have boyfriends and they are just waiting for their prince. But on the other hand, there are thousands of active users on popular sites and they are not sitting idle.

Your task is to stand out from the twenty men who wrote to your beauty at the same time as you. What do I need to do:

1. Never write to a girl what you could write to everyone else. That is, “you’re beautiful, let’s get to know each other” won’t work. And most likely, 15 of those 20 people will write to her exactly like that. Look at her profile and write something unique to her.
2. If the site is designed in such a way that messages are conveyed with a subject, always make it beautiful.
3. If possible, write to girls who are “online” - this way you will immediately see the result if she does not want to continue communication.

Young woman: « Marina, brunette, 17 years old, student at the pedagogical school"

Letter:

Subject: “To the most charming girl in the pedagogical school”

Then I would like to tell you about myself: my name is Oleg, I do programming, and in my free time I prefer active recreation. I will soon turn 22 years old and for my birthday I would like to meet a wonderful girl with whom I can go on an interesting journey.".

1. The second rule follows from the written letter: a message on a dating site should not be too short. You have to make a girl read it and think about you. A simple 25th “Hello” risks even going unnoticed. But a long, interesting letter is sure to stand out from the background of banal one-word messages.
2. Romance and mystery won't hurt you. For example, in communication, do not be shy about doing strange things: write that you are inviting her to a slow dance. In your next message you can write her the name of a beautiful slow song that she should listen to.

Experiment + example

For the sake of the experiment, 10 girls were chosen, the introduction was the same, and the answers were not particularly different. The goal is to get a phone number.

Me: Hello, are you looking for love?)
She: Maybe / Just communicating / Of course / No
Me: It’s unlikely that you can find anyone on this site, they only offer all sorts of nonsense...
She: Exactly / That's right / Bla-Blah-Blah
Me: I hope you’re a good girl, you’re not writing anything bad?))
She: No / No, I’m good / I don’t write...
Me: To be honest, I haven’t visited such sites before, and apparently I won’t go again, after what they write here. Let's talk on the phone for 2 minutes. Write the number)

Result:

• 2 wrote their number after the last message;
• 4 wrote the number after several messages, basically I complimented and said that I was in a hurry;
• 3 continued the conversation, later giving a number (banal conversation about interests + intrigue);
• 1 refused to give her phone number and the conversation was not continued

The dialogue is a little truncated, but the essence of the correspondence is clear, I will reveal the psychology of such an acquaintance in the following articles, if you are interested, please write in the comments.

How to meet a girl on VKontakte

This site is known to you firsthand and you have probably already received many refusals. I want to warn you that this will continue. According to statistics, even with the most correct approach, girls on VK do not respond to messages in 45-50% of cases. Such a harsh truth. But if you do it wrong, you may lose those 50% of girls who respond.

How to learn

To understand how to properly meet people on the Internet, you need to develop an approach. So, in order:

1. You weed out the girls you will train on. Choose absolutely any city and put the same one on your page. You need to gain experience before writing to a girl you really like, and those with whom you will communicate will even help with advice!
2. Next, you choose 10 normal, not “fashionable”, not “scary”, but simple pretty girls “online”, perhaps with cockroaches - good for training.
3. You write everyone the same message with an individual character for each of the applicants. below↓
4. Let's call it exercise. You need to repeat it until 8 out of 10 girls continue the dialogue with you. Once a week is enough.

Thanks to such training, your page will be filled with interesting girls from whom you can ask for advice, and you will gain confidence in your abilities and can easily develop a dialogue.

Your task:

1. practice a certain model of communication that is inherent to you on the Internet;
2. learn to determine which message suits a certain type of girl;
3. be able to develop a dialogue until its final completion or its goal;

It is important to have a goal for communicating with a girl, that is, set a goal and achieve it in various ways, otherwise you will waste your time.

Everything must be perfect - 6 stages of preparation

If you have taken into account the rules, put a good photo on your avatar and filled out your page with suitable information, do not rush to relax:

Stage No. 1. Hide unnecessary albums

If you managed to post online photos from a wild drinking session, leave romantic photos with your ex-girlfriend, etc. - hide them. You must have an ideal profile: photos of moments of your success at work, photos in the company of your friends (adequate, sober...), photos in nature, on a trip, at a concert, etc. Hide everything that is compromising far away - leave what characterizes you from the best side.

The same goes for vulgar videos, vulgar idiotic songs, subscriptions to porn groups, etc.

Stage No. 2. Clean up the comments

Get into the habit of erasing comments that show all your cards. Entries like “Zai, yesterday was very good” should be deleted immediately (if you don’t stop at one girl).

Stage No. 3. Recognize fakes

To avoid wasting time on decoy pages, learn to recognize them immediately. If you see that everything about a girl is too perfect or she has very few photos other than her avatar, it could be a fake. You need to take her photo, upload it to Google image search and see in what other profiles and on what sites this image appears. If you see her on various sex sites, etc. - it's fake.

You should be alarmed by the imbalance between the comments under the photo and the number of friends. Also, fakes often have over 1000 friends, and the page was created relatively recently.

Stage No. 4. Find the “right” girls

Your task is to find the girl with whom you have something in common. According to statistics and personal experience, ordinary compliments are powerless here, but common interests work very well. Go to the groups of your favorite musical groups, open the list of participants and look for pretty girls there. So from the first messages you will have a topic for conversation - “she also loves the group Nirvana.”

• The same goes for groups dedicated to your favorite films, TV series, books, writers, places, travel, etc.
• If you are not interested in anything at all, find common interests in her. She has beautiful legs and you like them? Most likely, she also likes her long legs. Why not a topic for conversation?
• You can search for girls with the same last name as you. First act like you think you're related. Then just turn it into regular interesting communication.

In short, develop effective tactics, and don’t just add just anyone.

Stage No. 5. Be vigilant

You will have to add a huge number of girls as friends, among whom you may meet friends. But you are “not a noble womanizer, but a simple good guy who decided to meet a beautiful girl,” so you can’t get shot. As soon as you go to a girl’s page and see that your mutual friends are the one with whom you had a nice conversation 5 minutes ago, run away from there.

But if you have mutual friends who do not relate to the process of your hunting for girls, this will only be a plus for you. When girls see mutual friends, it seems to them that you already know each other, that they can trust you, etc.

Stage No. 6. Do not disappear

Be prepared for the fact that you will have to correspond with the girl for about two weeks. If you suddenly disappear for a week, things can get out of control. Therefore, do not be too intrusive, writing to her all day long. But don’t get lost for long.

Take pauses between messages, but the girl should not think that you are slow and squeezing out an answer.

The most important thing is the first message to a girl

All sites tell you that the first message on VK is the most important part of your acquaintance. But I’ll express a different opinion: if you have an awesome account, looking at which a girl thinks “he’s cool,” 85% of the work is done. In this case, it is enough that your first message is just normal.

1. Do not write an offer to have sex in your first message, no matter how veiled it is.
2. Don’t just write “Hello,” even if you follow it up with “How are you?” Girls almost never respond to such messages. You must come up with a phrase that will lead to the development of the conversation.
3. Don’t be too cocky: “Sly, you’re going on a date with me today.”
4. There is no need to be too sweet, from the first messages telling about how you dream of taking her on a date, so that she can caress you, etc.
5. Also, be calm with compliments: beautiful, amazing, magnificent - this is too much for the first message.
6. When you add as a friend, know why you are doing it and let the girl know about it.

Here are examples of how you can start a conversation:

• You simply write: "I know something about you." She will definitely want to know what you know. In response, you can write about her what you noticed while studying her page, and what you yourself liked about her.
• “When I saw your photo, I was simply amazed at how much Photoshop can do.” This phrase will touch her pride and make her pay attention to your message. Most likely she will answer that her photo is natural and she looks the same in real life.
• "Hello. You look like an energetic girl. What sports do you do?”
• “I noticed that you play tennis. How long have you been training?

The last two phrases can have hundreds of variations. All you have to do is understand what the girl is interested in and come up with a message about it .

It is important that the first message provokes the girl to answer you, that is, you need to ask a question at the end of the monologue!

• "Hello. You seem like an attractive girl to me. Yes, and I'm not bad. We’re just destined to meet, don’t you think?”

This sounds atypical and a little provocative. You don’t shower her with compliments, raising her self-esteem to a sky-high level. But at the same time you say that she interests you. You yourself also behave with dignity, showing that she will receive a lot of good things from you. It’s clear from the example that you made her laugh with your non-standard behavior, but that’s good! Then you can develop the dialogue, because the girl is already ready to communicate.

If you have a good sense of humor, show her this, and don’t write “you know, I have a great sense of humor.” You can joke and even tease her - this will only cheer up the girl. But always control what you say: in extreme cases, your jokes and jokes can really be offensive.” You can even start your dialogue with some kind of joke, for example: “Wasn’t it you who ate all the tangerines in the supermarket yesterday? Continuation: It seems similar - that girl was so pretty too".

In general, a joke may be suitable for the first message, but not vulgar or offensive. You don’t need to immediately shower her with compliments or show her what a super man you are, saying, “As you said, so it will be.” Just be yourself, communicate naturally and easily, letting her know about your interest, but without showing that you began to idolize her from the first glance at the photo.

I want to tell you that even this hated “Hello” can work if you completely fit into her framework. That is, if on your page she found a photo of a young man attractive to her, and then reinforced this opinion by reading the information on the wall, she will even respond to a regular greeting. That is why there are no 100% methods, phrases and methods. You can only remain yourself and not do anything stupid in communication, thus getting what you want, and using our tips you will understand how easy it is to meet people on the Internet.

If you have suggestions or real examples of your online dating success, write them in the comments, everyone will be very interested in supplementing their knowledge.

How to meet a girl on the Internet? This question occupies young guys who want to find a soul mate. In modern society, there is an opinion that making acquaintances virtually is easier and simpler than doing it on the street or in a cafe. This statement is due to the fact that making direct acquaintances seems more difficult than striking up interesting communication with the help of modern information technologies. In fact, this is a controversial statement, however, in recent years it has indeed become fashionable to look for a mate using the World Wide Web. How to properly meet a girl on the Internet? Let's take a closer look at this issue.

Start of communication

When you are about to take the first step, you need to understand that a positive outcome depends on it. It’s always difficult to start, but then it will be easier to meet the girl you like. It is important to acquire the appropriate skill and develop the right tactics. The guy should remember that he has many options in order to make an original acquaintance. That's why you don't need to despair after the first few failures. Girls often refuse, and this happens to everyone, which in itself is not a reason for frustration. Such cases indicate a lack of necessary experience rather than something truly disappointing.

Special sites

There is an opinion that dating a girl on the Internet does not lead to anything good. Allegedly, such meetings end in inevitable separation. In reality this is, of course, not the case. Much depends on the activity of both parties, on how the man and woman understand the goals of the acquaintance. Today on the Internet there are many platforms that are created specifically so that you can meet a girl. Finding your soulmate here is quite simple, you just need to show imagination and ingenuity. First, you should look for questionnaires that will meet your existing internal expectations. You can meet a girl on the Internet on special websites and social networks, of which there are a great many today. First you need to find the right person, then it will be easier.

Correspondence rules

When planning to meet someone, you need to remember that a lot depends on how online correspondence happens. Phrases for getting to know each other are of great importance, especially at the very beginning, when people are just getting to know each other. At this moment, no one is rude to anyone, everyone tries to show their best side, to demonstrate their outstanding character qualities. Individual preferences tend to fade into the background. Both guys and girls pay great attention to phrases for dating and begin to carefully select words. After all, a hastily written sentence can ruin the first impression and lead to you not wanting to communicate further. This is why you should not seriously give in to emotional outbursts.

How can you start a conversation? What to talk about with girls on the Internet, on social networks? In fact, it’s not as difficult to please here as it might seem at first. After all, girls are not so unapproachable, so you shouldn’t be afraid to do or say something wrong. In the very first case, you need to try to give as many compliments as possible. There is no need to be shy about saying beautiful words, especially if they come from the heart. This is the best answer to the question of how to quickly make acquaintances. The fact is that girls are very sensitive to beautiful words. It will be much easier to conquer a representative of the fair sex if you try to pronounce words of praise addressed to her every day.

Positive impression

Whatever it is, you need to know what to write to a girl. Compliments are always pleasant, but you can’t get by with them alone. Otherwise, you will get the impression that the guy is openly flattering and, moreover, doing it deliberately, pursuing some bad goal.

How to continue meeting a girl on the Internet? Of course, you need to ask questions. However, the questions should not be too intrusive. Otherwise, it can only repel and spoil the first impression. You should demonstrate your erudition in the issue that is closest to the guy. For example, if a young man is knowledgeable in the areas of art, then you can start talking about this. Deep knowledge will amaze the girl and create a pleasant impression.

It is important to have a positive conversation. Sullenness and unsociability only repel. It’s unlikely that anyone would want to correspond with a guy who constantly complains about life and is dissatisfied with everything. In this mood, it’s better not to think about how to meet a girl on social networks.

Name

Many guys, when starting to communicate with girls, make the same mistake - they do not call their interlocutor by name. This is a big mistake that does not make a very pleasant impression. And this fact is generally extremely unpleasant for girls, since they are more sensitive to everything. For them, this is tantamount to losing sight of the most valuable and significant thing in their person.

A name for any person is the most pleasant sounds in the world. That's why psychologists recommend not to neglect this advice. If you really like a beautiful lady, you should often address her by name. And, of course, don’t forget to compliment her regularly. If the sympathy is truly mutual, then very soon it will begin to develop into something more.

Literacy

When it comes to dating via the Internet, many young people are lost and don’t know what to do correctly. It should be noted that spelling literacy is important. If a young man writes with errors, then such a circumstance can alienate the girl. No compliments will help if the chosen one’s speech is replete with jargon and slang. Literacy always makes a good impression. This should be remembered when intending to make an acquaintance.

Photo

Online dating always requires that you create a special page. And here many guys get lost, they don’t know whether they need to upload a photo to their profile. It is a rare young man who is delighted with himself. Most young guys have some kind of complex. For this reason, they avoid posting photos. There is not and cannot be any clear advice here. If you don't want to insert a photo, then you don't need to do it. However, in this case you should not count on great success. It's not all about good looks. It’s just that it’s more comfortable for any person to communicate when there is some idea about the interlocutor.

Conversation Ideas

How to start a conversation with a girl on the Internet? To make a good impression and gain interest, you should avoid cliched phrases such as: “Hi, how are you?” They bring nothing to themselves, but only cause boredom. We must also remember that a young man has many competitors online. If a girl fails to be interested, she will most likely start communicating with someone else. You need to think through the conversation very well, and only then start it. You should not take the posture of waiting for mercy. If a guy tries to please a girl in everything, she will very soon lose interest in him. You need to interest yourself and keep the intrigue at the same time.

Being an interesting person is not only about having good erudition. It is also important to create some kind of attractiveness around your image. For example, you can talk about your hobbies, but not go into details. By creating the image of an active and cheerful person, a guy builds self-confidence. The girl will be more willing to pay attention to him, and not to that young man who constantly remains silent and does not know what to say.

Meeting in real life

This is the moment for which, in fact, people start looking for a mate. It’s unlikely that anyone would want to just waste their time on endless correspondence on the phone or computer, with no hope of continuing their acquaintance. After meeting a girl on social networks, you can invite her to meet in real life.

You should not delay the pleasant moment of correspondence for several reasons. Firstly, while a guy and a girl are writing messages to each other, each of them creates a certain image of a partner in his head. It will be a great disappointment if expectations are later disappointed. The longer people communicate, the more strongly they become attached to each other, even when the communication is not so deep. It happens that after a meeting people are openly disappointed in each other and do not want to waste their time interacting with an uninteresting and unsuitable person. That is why the meeting must take place on time, before young people get too carried away with creating the ideal image of a partner.

Thus, in the question of how to meet a girl on the Internet, a certain amount of reasonableness should be observed. Compliments certainly have their meaning and power, however, it is impossible to get along with them alone. A young man must take on serious responsibility, which will allow him to win a girl. If he is constantly afraid of making a negative impression, then this fear will not allow him to go beyond the limitations that exist in his head.

Instructions

Register on a dating site or one of the social networks. The registration procedure should not be particularly difficult, since all the necessary steps are accompanied by appropriate tips. As a result, you will be given access to your personal profile.

Fill out the information in your personal profile in such a way that yours will be of interest to other people. Post your best and most beautiful photo. Write something interesting about your lifestyle and hobbies in a way that will attract maximum attention.

Use the search form on the website to find a person to talk to using the required parameters: locality, age, appearance, etc. In the list that appears, select the person you like and follow the link to his page. Write a message. Greet your new interlocutor and offer to get to know each other.

Try to wait until they write to you if you are hesitant to take the first step. Many display visitors who have been to your page, so it's easy to guess whether someone is interested in you or not. Depending on the degree of attractiveness of your profile, after a while someone should definitely write to you.

Start communicating with your interlocutor if he has given his consent. Ask how his day went, what interesting things have happened to him lately. It is better that the first few remarks are neutral and do not involve any personal information. This will give the person a favorable impression of you as a polite interlocutor.

Move on to more personal topics of conversation. You can find out more about a person's hobbies and outlook on life, or even invite him to a meeting. But it’s better to try asking him to send a few more photos of himself or other contact details first to make sure that some scammer is not trying to deceive you. If the resource allows, add the person to your friends list. Now you can freely communicate on almost any topic.

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Communication on the Internet should not replace meetings with friends and relatives. But you shouldn’t ignore the communication capabilities of the global network for establishing new and maintaining old connections.

Instructions

You can look for interesting people on social networks, dating sites and thematic resources. But the first option – social networks – is the most promising. On social networks, people make contact more easily and respond to letters and comments from strangers.

You need to communicate with new acquaintances on the Internet correctly. Avoid the tired dating classic: “Hi. How are you?" These three words are unlikely to force anyone to write a response to a stranger today.

But there are also big disadvantages here:

1. When communicating via the Internet, a lot of information is lost compared to real communication.

A lot of information is conveyed by gestures, facial expressions, gaze, intonation, voice and other non-verbal manifestations of a person. Often, these manifestations are used to determine the basic psychological state. When communicating, you can really feel whether you are comfortable with a person or whether there is something annoying. These factors can be decisive when living together.

2. Most of the courtship period takes place virtually.

Courtship is an important stage in the formation of a relationship. If it is crumpled, then the partners cannot recognize each other’s manifestations in many situations, for example, whether the partner knows how to care or sacrifice something for the other. It is also important to look from the outside at how your partner interacts with other people, how he expresses himself - after all, the way a person behaves with other people, the same way he can behave with you.

3. People mostly communicate with an imaginary image, and not with a real person.

Since communication is based on a tiny amount of information, we ourselves begin to invent many things, attribute them to our partner and believe that he has some qualities that in fact he does not have. You can also create the illusion that there is some positive quality, such as kindness or integrity. In real communication, it would immediately become clear that this is an illusion, but in a relationship such an illusion can be maintained for a very long time.

4. Communication via the Internet takes a lot of time.

Virtual communication takes a lot of time, while a real meeting in many cases immediately puts everything in its place. While we are building virtual images, waiting for time, the very first meeting often answers the question of whether this is my person or not.

So, we conclude that communication via the Internet can develop into strong feelings only if it is quickly followed by communication in reality.

Online dating has long been firmly established in our lives. Today, no one is surprised that you can quite successfully find a partner with just a few clicks of the mouse. And yet you need to know how and where to properly meet people on the Internet in order to find your person.

The first thing that comes to mind, of course, is dating sites. These services are specially created so that people who want to find a partner come to them. This is what makes them convenient: you don’t need to think about how a person will react to an offer to talk or meet, since all visitors are ready to find someone or be found. By the way, this is another advantage of dating sites: no matter what your position in life is - active or more passive, you will still find yourself in the attention zone of representatives of the opposite sex.

How to act better on dating sites

Among the tips that can be given to visitors of dating sites are the following: be sure to choose a good photo, or better yet several, where your appearance is presented in the most favorable light. Think about what exactly you are looking for on the site: a serious relationship or a little flirtation, then write out the questionnaire in detail, fill out all the points in it, so that the system does not send your page to unnecessary people. Don’t rush to meet the first person who responds; first, chat to get to know him better. People are different, it may not be worth wasting your time meeting a person with whom you have different values ​​and interests.

One of the negative characteristics of dating sites is the large number of paid services on them. On some sites, even personal messages are paid. In addition, not all the people you like will respond to you, and even more so, not all people who are beautiful in the photo turn out to be as pleasant in character or appearance in reality. The discrepancy between expectations and reality can be quite painful during the first time of communication on these resources.

Social media

Social networks have become the second popular place for dating. They were created just for communication between people of different genders, ages, living in different cities and even countries, but you can also find your person here. Social networks have both specialized groups for dating and groups for various interests where you can find pleasant interlocutors. Dating groups are usually focused on a specific city, but in an interest group you can immediately find a person with similar tastes. For a more accurate result and to find a partner as quickly as possible, try to determine the range of your interests and communicate in groups dedicated to them, but do not forget about dating in public areas specially designed for this.

Dating on forums

Various forums and chats are also very popular. As a rule, they are thematic, that is, dedicated to a specific range of interests. But they also have topics for regular communication and dating. Therefore, forums are universal sites for finding new acquaintances or partners. However, it is worth considering that not all people come to meet people. This means that you need time to not only find an interesting interlocutor, but also to find out whether he is ready for closer contacts and whether he needs them.

Tip 5: Virtual love: how to find a guy on the Internet

Many people think that only modest and shy people use dating sites. This is actually not true. Thanks to the World Wide Web, you can meet a variety of people.

To get started on a dating site, you need to fill out the application form correctly. It is advisable to present information about yourself briefly, but interestingly; it is unlikely that a man will want to read a long and boring speech.

Attach a beautiful photo to your profile and start communicating!

What to do if your profile appears on the site and men start writing to you?

1. Don’t rush to agree to a date immediately after a man’s first invitation; chat with him on the site for at least a week.

2. Carefully study his photo; often appearance can tell a lot about a person. And if there is no photograph, then most likely the man is married.

3. When you're with a potential suitor, try asking him a couple of tricky questions so that he won't be able to guess that you're counting him out.

4. If you really like a man, give him a little push to ask him out.

1. When trying to meet a young man on the Internet, remember that you will have to read a large number of messages where you will be offered sex. Just ignore these SMS.

2. Be careful and vigilant, because a scammer or a person with an abnormal psyche may write to you. During the correspondence, carefully study his behavior, ask him to tell about himself, ask him to send photos to his email inbox.

3. If you like a guy, show that you are seriously interested in him: keep up the conversation, ask about something, tell different stories.

4. If you are in the mood for a serious relationship, meet guys who live in your city, this will make it easier for you to date. Otherwise, your relationship will be limited to virtual communication only.

Photoshop is a very powerful force, so it can easily happen that your subject of interest with your profile photo only has the number of limbs in common. Instead, expect an enhanced photo and expect a much worse reality. Learn to decode terms used during dating. If he describes himself as a nice person, that means he is, at best, "moderately overweight" or even homosexual. "Everyone says I'm very handsome" implies: "My mom says that almost every day." “I will give everyone a chance” should be understood as a hopeless case that the woman has not looked at for several years.

Do not respond to advertisements like: “Looking for a woman for general moments.” These generalized words won't tell you anything. Apply introductory mathematics: subtract 10 centimeters from the indicated height, add 10 kilograms, divide income by 2 and add 10 years to age. This way you will get a picture much closer to the truth.

Meeting a girl is always a very exciting and difficult moment for any man of any age. Therefore, in order to overcome this stage of relationships, many guys resort to online dating services, since meeting a girl on the Internet is much easier than in real life, however, there are also subtleties that should be taken into account and today’s article will be about them.

Where to start meeting a girl on the Internet?

It is better to start any acquaintance, no matter whether it is virtual or real, with a sign of attention, a compliment or a gift. If you want to meet a beautiful girl on a dating site, you must immediately come to terms with the fact that you will have much more competitors than usual, so you must somehow stand out from this gray mass. Fortunately, this is quite easy to do, if only you had money. Many services provide the opportunity to make a gift in the form of a virtual toy or flowers, which will subsequently be placed on the page with the girl’s profile. For special gifts, there is even the opportunity to give VIP status on the site, which allows you to significantly expand the capabilities of a girl’s profile (decorate your page, be invisible, hide age, etc.).

We agree that a gift requires money, which is not always available in sufficient quantities, but we are now talking about your potential future. Don't you already feel sorry for 1-5 dollars?! In addition, if you met in real life, you would most likely invite her to a cafe, restaurant, buy flowers, etc., which would cost much more than a harmless gift.

From all that has been said above, let us sum up the first conclusion: you should start meeting a girl on the Internet with a virtual compliment - flowers, VIP status, a soft toy, etc. In any case, the girl will like such a gift, she will pay attention to you, understand the fact that you really liked her, and you will be able to take the next step.

What to write to a girl when meeting online?

Now let's move on to the main thing and one might even say the final step on the path to acquaintance. Since your future joint relationships will depend on him: will they be friendly, loving, or absent altogether.

There are several rules that will include advice on what you can write to a girl and what you can’t:

• Never reveal the whole truth about the purpose of your acquaintance with her. The answer should always be the same: “First of all, I’m looking for a girlfriend, and then how fate will turn out...”. Even if you want to marry her, want children from her and live together until the end of your days, do not write this. Some will understand this as a joke, others will perceive it as childish and frivolous. And of course, you don’t need to write about sex if you are looking for a girlfriend for an intimate relationship. Yes, you are being deceitful, but only in this case will you be able to win the girl.


• Start the conversation by complimenting her. Appreciate the beauty of her hair, eyes, waist, long legs, flat tummy, etc. But just don’t resort to vulgarity - you don’t need to point out her breasts, buttocks or thighs at the first message. This needs to be mentioned, but not now!


• Don’t rush to get her phone number or make an appointment, 80% will refuse right away. You must interest her first, and only then invite her to a cafe.


• Be careful with punctuation and expressions. Your turns of phrase and mistakes will tell you a lot about you. Excessive “literariness” will show your pedantry, seriousness and may even scare off the girl a little. Keep it simple, build your sentences more concisely.


• Ask questions more often, talk less about yourself, unless she asks for it herself.


• Call her by name more often; it captivates any person when he sees or hears his beautiful name.


• Before asking questions, study her profile and ask questions based on it. This way, you will have topics for conversation: hobbies, work, life principles, taste preferences, etc.


• If you feel that your supply of ideas is running out, end the conversation (just name an important reason) and offer to continue it in a cafe over a cup of coffee.


• Be sincere in your conversation, but present any fact beautifully. Even if you are an ordinary salesperson in a store, call yourself a consultant in the field of trade. Let there be a mystery in you.


• If she asked you about having a car that you don't have. Walk out of the situation proudly: “I’m still saving up for a car... I don’t want to waste money on the cheap auto industry!” If you are ashamed of the brand of the car (Tavria), then answer that for you a car is not a luxury, but a means of transportation.


• Don't pause in conversation! Try to ask her as many questions as possible, and as soon as you see that a certain topic arouses her interest, develop it by asking leading questions and telling your own stories or news read.


• Keep it simple! Don't memorize certain phrases or sentences; your speech should be natural but interesting.

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