There are many Russians folk proverbs indicating that people from ancient times have attached particular importance to the influence of parental behavior on the formation of the child’s character. These are such as “The apple does not fall far from the tree”, “Like the oak, like the wedge”, “Like the roots, like the branches” and “Like the seed, like the tribe”. Apparently, this is why few are surprised when difficult teenagers grow up in families with alcoholic parents or criminal parents. “What can we expect from this poor child,” the people around sigh. Like the parents, like the children.”
For many years, scientists have been basis Scientific research has tried to find the dependence of human behavior on genetic factors. Nowadays, the science of psychogenetics studies the role of heredity in the formation of human character and behavior.
According to psychogeneticists, predict Whether the temperament of the parents and their character traits were inherited by the child or whether they were formed as a result of the influence of the environment is very difficult. But none of them doubts the fact that the character of a child is greatly influenced not by genetics, but by the parental example. Children adopt the character traits and behavior patterns of their parents, therefore the main condition for raising a child to be a harmonious, interesting and intelligent person is a worthy role model for the parents themselves.
Parents who understand and love their child, do not punish him, but try to explain everything to him and show him how to overcome difficulties by their own example, they raise purposeful people. They are not afraid to praise the child, but they also do not indulge all his whims. These are authoritative parents, they know what the meaning of life is and try to make the life of their child happy and joyful. Children with authoritative parents from an early age show great curiosity, they are self-confident and energetic, thanks to these character qualities they achieve good success in life.
From a young age, children try to imitate behavior parents, so before you demand discipline and teach your child order, look at yourself. Do you wash your hands before eating, do you hold cutlery correctly, do you not slouch while sitting at the table? If a child watches every day how his parents get up at the same time, wash themselves, clean up the bed and dishes, brush their teeth and do exercises, then very soon he himself begins to perform these same actions without coercion.
In adulthood he will not be late for work, his distinctive character traits will be accuracy and responsibility. And, on the contrary, with parents who read a newspaper or watch TV while eating, talk to each other in a raised voice, do not wash the dishes after themselves and throw things around, the child behaves in the same way as the parents themselves.
Exception to this rules are only those children who grew up exposed to the influence of other authorities, for example, grandparents or uncles, who became role models for him. In these cases, a child of neat and orderly parents may grow up to be a slob, while a child of thrifty and thrifty parents may grow up to be a spender. All adults who stay with the child for a long time serve as role models. Therefore, the choice of nannies and child’s friends must be taken very responsibly.
Open relationship between parents and children - this is very good, but they should not cross all boundaries. There is no need to judge or speak badly about your parents, relatives, teacher or teacher in the presence of children. Tell your children about the bad things your loved ones do, but also remember to tell them that you love them even though they make mistakes.
In modern world many people put everything at the forefront and throw themselves into work headlong, thereby giving preference to satisfying their desires rather than properly raising a child. Most parents are constantly overloaded with work, they are very tired at the end of the working day and get irritated when the child does not obey them from the first word, scatters toys and makes noise.
In these cases parents it seems that the child should understand them, but children are just children; they do not understand anything without explanation. Authoritarian parents who believe that the child must obey them in everything, grow up irritable and conflict-prone children. They, like their parents, lack patience; the meaning of life for them lies in satisfying material needs. Indulgent parents who do not control the child’s behavior and allow him everything, raise aggressive and impulsive children. They do not want to take responsibility, are afraid to make their own decisions and have no goals in life.
Memories childhood and relationships with parents accompany us throughout our lives, we follow some of them, and reject others, considering that the behavior and life experience of the older generation is unacceptable for us. But the parental example of behavior and their manner of communicating with us remains in our minds and manifests itself with particular force when we ourselves become parents.
To leave in memory Give your children vivid impressions and raise them to be happy people, watch your actions. Do not lie, swear, or commit unseemly acts under any circumstances, even if you have your own justification for them. A child should not think that he can do bad things if there are good reasons for doing so.
Currently, in our country there are a large number of children's educational and development institutions of various forms of ownership: preschool institutions (kindergartens), schools, boarding schools, after-school groups, early development centers, mini-kindergartens. However, they do not in any way reduce the role of the family in raising a child.
The family is one of the main links in raising children. The personal example of parents plays a major role in the process of shaping a child’s personality from birth. A positive example is an important factor in education and a means for a child to learn about life. Kids still do not sufficiently distinguish between what is good and what is bad, and therefore they imitate both the good and bad actions of their parents.
For a child, parents are everything! They lay the foundations for the most important personality traits of their baby: kindness, hard work, respect for others, neatness, honesty and other qualities. Each parent has their own goals for raising a child. Even in the same family, parents do not have the same views on the upbringing process. The main principle of raising children is the personal example of parents, because it is this that lays the foundations of morality and moral properties of the child’s personality. Sometimes people around us argue that dysfunctional children also grow up in prosperous families. Yes, this happens, if you consider that the example of parents is only one of many principles of raising children. Of course, many other factors influence the child, but we are considering one of the main ones - the personal example of the parents.
WHAT IS THE PERSONAL EXAMPLE OF PARENTS?:
◦ The behavior of parents is an example for their children to follow. Children absorb more of what they see. If a mother uses affectionate words in her speech, then the child will use them too. If parents allow rude expressions, then children will use profanity in games and communication;
◦ Expressing a personal attitude to surrounding events. If parents see a person smoking, they should specifically and accurately say that this has a negative effect on health. And no meaningful words. It is necessary to express your attitude sincerely;
◦ Correspondence of words to deeds. If you demand something from a child, then fulfill this requirement yourself. For example, if you require your child to neatly fold his things, then always fold your things neatly yourself.
If a child has a choice - to do as the parents say or as they act, then they will choose the second option. You can tell your child a hundred times: “You can’t lie!”, but you yourself often tell lies in front of the child. In the worst case scenario, you persuade someone (for example, dad) to tell someone something that is not what actually happened. You are pushing the child to lie.
MISTAKES OF PARENTING IN THE FAMILY:
Problem children are most often the result of improper family upbringing. There are several groups of mistakes that many parents make. They can be divided into groups:
1. Incorrect expression by parents of their feelings;
2. Incompetence of parents;
3. Misunderstanding of the importance of parental example in the process of raising children.
Let's take a closer look at the third group - a lack of understanding of the importance of parental example in the process of raising children.
Socialization of your baby initially takes place at home, in the family. It is parents who demonstrate through their behavior vivid and typical examples of behavior patterns in society. Therefore, it is not surprising that boys can imitate an aggressive father, and girls can imitate a rude and unrestrained mother. The vast majority of children become antisocial because they have followed the example of their parents.
Very often, many parents underestimate the role of their own example in the process of raising children, and also demand from them what they do not do themselves. Children raised in this way begin to be capricious, disobey adults, and their parents lose authority for them.
A big and no less serious mistake in parenting is the lack of uniform requirements for mom and dad. An unfavorable psychological microclimate at home leads to the appearance of isolation, mental disorders, and sometimes even hatred of the parents themselves.
ABOUT THE ACTIONS OF ADULTS...:
Very often, parents, when expressing complaints about their child’s disobedience, use the expression: “No matter how much I tell you, it’s all to no avail.” Many parents think that a child can be raised with words. Is the word the main means of education? In raising a child, what is important first is love and care for the child, then the personal example of the parents, and only then the words of an adult. The personal example of parents is the most important method of education. From the first days of life, a child absorbs what he sees around him. The child does not act as he is taught, but as his parents act. Everything they see is conveyed in their games. If you watch their role-playing game “Family,” you can see a copy of family relationships. A bad example for a child is when the words of parents differ from their deeds.
Therefore, when dad says that girls must be respected, but he allows mom to be rude, will the boy behave decently with the girl? If an adult allows rudeness in front of a child, the child will copy it. Sometimes parents wonder where their child gets bad habits. Adults begin to blame everyone who surrounds their child. Unfortunately, they do not see that the baby copied this bad habit from them. Parental behavior is the most important factor in education. It is important to always remember that adults raise a child not only in the process of talking with him, teaching him, giving orders. They actively and imperceptibly shape the child’s personality every minute of his life: how parents dress, communicate, are happy, and sad. All life principles of adults have a huge role for the baby and his future life in society.
CHILDREN COMPLETELY REFLECT THE ACTIONS OF ADULTS:
In order for others to change their attitude towards you, you need to change your personal emotions. This is also the case in the family. Children learn about the world around them through their family. If parents are always in a good mood, do not lose heart, and are confident in themselves, then the child will perceive the world positively and they themselves will treat people well. If parents are often in a bad mood, anxious, and lacking self-confidence, then the child will also perceive the world around him negatively and expect trouble from the people around him.
It is very important for parents to monitor their facial expressions, feelings, and condition. If parents are anxious and afraid of everything, then their children will experience such feelings. In such situations, you need to start with yourself. Calm down, stop worrying about anything, control your intonation, voice, and facial expressions.
To make the child feel the love of his parents, speak to him kindly, direct a friendly glance at him. It is very important to maintain a friendly psychological atmosphere at home; pay attention to the colors and sounds around you. Talk to family members in a soft voice, monitor television viewing, and monitor the games your child plays. There is a wise proverb: “Whatever you are looking for, look within yourself.” Therefore, if you notice any behavioral disturbances in a child, analyze your actions, hobbies, and personal characteristics. When raising a child, start with yourself. Children monitor the behavior of adults, so parents must control their actions. When adults do the right things, children do not need to talk about them; they absorb all the good things without additional information.
Dear parents, when raising a child, start with yourself, with your positive actions, then the child will develop positive character traits!
HOW DO PARENTS INFLUENCE CHILDREN?:
1. Children receive 70 - 80% of their qualities from their parents by inheritance, the rest - in the process of upbringing;
2. Parents are not always an example for their children. For example, a prosperous family does not always produce obedient children. Also, a dysfunctional family does not necessarily have to have problem children;
3. In upbringing, the attitude of parents towards the child is important. The attitude of parents towards a child can be of different types: blind love, normal attitude, lack of attention to the child, indifferent attitude towards the baby, lack of parental feelings towards their child.
ATTENTION! THERE ARE CASES::
Some children do not respond to the positive influence of their parents;
Some children from disadvantaged families are not like their parents;
In a family of several children, there is a child who is not like his parents.
WHY DO NOT CHILDREN ALWAYS IMITATE THEIR PARENTS?:
◦ A child inherits his qualities from his ancestors, from both parents, which are intricately intertwined in him, so as a result we get a child who is often not like them in both internal and external qualities;
◦ If a child is born with the gene for independence, then he implements it from childhood: he does not listen to adults, does not trust people, independently explores the world around him;
◦ If a child was born without the gene for independence, then he is obedient, conflict-free, and a good student. In this case, parents consider their child to be similar to themselves.
PARENTS' ATTITUDE AS AN EXAMPLE FOR CHILDREN:
If parents treat their child poorly, then over time the child will develop a negative attitude towards them. When parents have a bad relationship, their children will eventually treat them poorly. This can be especially pronounced in independent children. But even dependent children can develop bad attitudes towards such parents over time. In this case, parents set a bad example for their children. However, when a child becomes an adult, he can repeat the fate of his parents, despite the fact that he himself condemns his parents. But there are cases when children distance themselves from their parents in childhood and build their lives differently from their parents. Parents are always role models for their children because a child knows his parents better than other people.
The objectives of parental education are to develop the positive and suppress the negative qualities of the child.
The degree of influence parents have on their children largely depends on the authority of the adult. The higher the adult’s authority, the stronger the influence on the child’s actions. The authority of a parent is a very important condition for upbringing. If adults are not an authority for a child, then he does not listen to them, is capricious, and rude. Children should see their parents as their best friends. The authority of adults falls when they lie in communication with others or excessively show blind love for a child, satisfy all their desires, and also humiliate or suppress the child’s personality.
WORKSHOP FOR PARENTS:
Here are some simple exercises that will help parents evaluate their behavior and analyze the impact it may have on the process of raising their child.
Exercise “Household Conversations”
Remember what you talk about with your children at home? What attitude do you convey when talking about people and events? Analyze. Draw a conclusion. Children develop an attitude towards their surroundings depending on what they hear in a relaxed atmosphere.
Dear parents! If you have committed a bad act in front of your child, do not be afraid to admit it, explain to your child what made you do it. Your honesty and openness will only strengthen family relationships and will be an excellent example for children.
Exercise “Requirements for a child”
Parents need to fill out a table of three columns: in the first, write down the requirements that you place on your child; in the second - what requirements do you place on the child, but do not fulfill them yourself; in the third - what requirements do you fulfill for the child and therefore can demand their fulfillment from the child.
Now it’s time to analyze the table and understand what points the adults themselves need to work on so that the requirements for the baby are competent and reasonable, and the upbringing is productive and effective.
Dear parents, before raising a child, start with yourself, with your positive actions, and friendly attitudes towards others. Only in this case will your child develop positive character traits! Be an authority and a true friend for your child!
The development of a child’s personality is significantly influenced by family and family relationships. He imitates his father or mother, their actions, behavior, relationships, expressions, manner of communicating with adults and children, acquaintances and strangers. A boy, as a rule, imitates his father, a girl - her mother. Using the example of his father, the son develops an idea of what a man should be: hardworking, decisive, brave, helps his wife with housework, helpful, feels responsible for raising children. The role of the mother is great in the family. The upbringing in children of love and respect, a kind attitude towards others depends on it. The moral qualities of the mother most influence the formation of communication in the family. It is the mother who serves as an example for her daughter to be delicate, patient, raising children and running a household. Those parents who actively include their children in family life and teach them the responsibilities that they will need in their future family life do the right thing. A child who has known parental care, attention, and the joy of shared experiences will not find it difficult to create a good family of his own over time. In some families, there is an unjustified focus on “women’s” and “men’s” work. If you have watched children, you know that before school, boys are just as willing as girls to help their mother cook and wash dishes. But if in a family they begin to make a difference between boys and girls from an early age, then by school age the boy develops contempt for “girls” and their activities. It is necessary to teach boys, on an equal basis with girls, everything that one cannot do without in life and ignorance of which makes a person helpless and makes one dependent on others. The family has favorable conditions for attracting a child to work. In the family, children often enjoy doing those types of work that are not very common in kindergarten: laundry, washing dishes, vacuuming, participating in cooking, buying groceries, etc. When assessing the actions of a child, it is not enough to say to him: “Well done” or “ Wrong”, you should specifically indicate what the child did well and what he did not quite succeed. Children are highly imitative. Everything they see, both good and bad, is reflected in their behavior. Therefore, wanting to instill independence and accuracy in children, parents should be role models. If they themselves do not put things in their place and handle them carefully, but begin to demand this from the child, then they will not be able to instill in him the habit of neatness. It should be determined by discussing with the child what responsibilities he will perform around the house. At first, it is better to do the work together with the child, teaching him rational techniques. Children, starting a business, are not able to foresee the difficulties that may arise on their way, or to evaluate their strengths, skills, and knowledge. If they do not receive the necessary help in a timely manner, they may lose interest in the matter and give up on the goal. Therefore, the task of adults is to provide the child with some help, to make him want to overcome difficulties and achieve results. Older children (5-6 years old) already have access to a variety of knowledge about the flora and fauna, and about natural phenomena. A child’s communication with nature should not be limited to either utilitarian activities (picking mushrooms, berries, flowers) or sports and recreational activities (sunbathing, swimming, playing in nature). It is necessary to teach a child not only to look, but also to see, not only to listen, but also to heed, to be able to notice, appreciate and cherish the beauty of nature. A child’s behavior in nature is sometimes contradictory: having a positive attitude towards objects of nature, children often commit negative actions (pluck flowers they like and immediately throw them away, look at a bug and then crush it, etc.) And parents here cannot ignore such children’s actions. Wander around with your child, observe, just look around you, sit on a hillock, listen to the birds singing or the babbling of a stream. Tell children about nature conservation, about plants that need to be protected. Involve your child in caring for plants, working in the garden, and at the dacha. When visiting nature outside the city, do not throw garbage yourself. Remember that children imitate you and repeat your actions. Therefore, your example should encourage children to have a moral attitude towards nature, contribute not only to the child’s knowledge of nature, but also affect moral feelings.
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The development of a child’s personality is significantly influenced by family and family relationships. He imitates his father or mother, their actions, behavior, relationships, expressions, manner of communicating with adults and children, acquaintances and strangers. A boy, as a rule, imitates his father, a girl - her mother. Using the example of his father, the son develops an idea of what a man should be: hardworking, decisive, brave, helps his wife with housework, helpful, feels responsible for raising children. The role of the mother in the family is great. The upbringing in children of love and respect, a kind attitude towards others depends on it. The moral qualities of the mother most influence the formation of communication in the family. It is the mother who serves as an example for her daughter to be delicate, patient, raising children and running a household. Those parents who actively include their children in family life and teach them the responsibilities that they will need in their future family life do the right thing. A child who has known parental care, attention, and the joy of shared experiences will not find it difficult to create a good family of his own over time. In some families, there is an unjustified focus on “women’s” and “men’s” work. If you have watched children, you know that before school, boys are just as willing as girls to help their mother cook and wash dishes. But if in a family they begin to make a difference between boys and girls from an early age, then by school age the boy develops contempt for “girls” and their activities. It is necessary to teach boys, on an equal basis with girls, everything that one cannot do without in life and ignorance of which makes a person helpless and makes a person dependent on others. The family has favorable conditions for attracting a child to work. In the family, children often enjoy doing those types of work that are not very common in kindergarten: laundry, washing dishes, vacuuming, participating in cooking, buying groceries, etc. When assessing the actions of a child, it is not enough to say to him: “Well done” or “ Wrong”, you should specifically indicate what the child did well and what he did not quite succeed. Children are highly imitative. Everything they see, good and bad, is reflected in their behavior. Therefore, wanting to instill independence and accuracy in children, parents should be role models. If they themselves do not put things in their place and handle them carefully, but begin to demand this from the child, then they will not be able to instill in him the habit of neatness. It should be determined by discussing with the child what household responsibilities he will perform. At first, it is better to do the work together with the child, teaching him rational techniques. Children, starting a business, are not able to foresee the difficulties that may arise on their way, or to evaluate their strengths, skills, and knowledge. If they do not receive the necessary help in a timely manner, they may lose interest in the matter and give up on the goal. Therefore, the task of adults is to provide the child with some help, to make him want to overcome difficulties and achieve results. Older children (5-6 years old) already have access to a variety of knowledge about the flora and fauna, and about natural phenomena. A child’s communication with nature should not be limited to either utilitarian activities (picking mushrooms, berries, flowers) or sports and recreational activities (sunbathing, swimming, playing in nature). It is necessary to teach a child not only to look, but also to see, not only to listen, but also to heed, to be able to notice, appreciate and cherish the beauty of nature. A child’s behavior in nature is sometimes contradictory: having a positive attitude towards objects of nature, children often commit negative actions (pluck flowers they like and immediately throw them away, look at a bug and then crush it, etc.) And parents here cannot ignore such children’s actions. Wander around with your child, observe, just look around you, sit on a hillock, listen to the birds singing or the babbling of a stream. Tell children about nature conservation, about plants that need to be protected. Involve your child in caring for plants, working in the garden, and at the dacha. When visiting nature outside the city, do not throw garbage yourself. Remember that children imitate you and repeat your actions. Therefore, your example should encourage children to have a moral attitude towards nature, contribute not only to the child’s knowledge of nature, but also affect moral feelings.
Actions speak louder than words.
English proverb.
Children naturally observe and imitate what other people, especially their parents, do. In fact, it is the highly developed ability to imitate the actions of others that teaches them how to act in a given situation. Children reproduce the types of behavior that they see in everyday life. A positive example is of great importance for the success of education. If parents want to see their children endowed with certain personality traits and virtues, then the most effective way is to develop these traits in themselves as role models. Children involuntarily try to be like their parents in everything, even if the latter would not always want this. We all make mistakes, but we must strive to act in accordance with the principles that we want to teach our children.
If parents want to see their children endowed with certain personality traits and virtues, then the most effective way is to develop these traits in themselves as role models
If parents are consistently polite and kind to their children and to each other, and are ready to help their loved ones at any time, then children, as a rule, learn to behave in the same way. Being in an atmosphere of mutual love, they learn to love. If elders have the habit of thanking each other and expressing appreciation for the most ordinary things, children also learn to appreciate simple kindness and respect. Always listen carefully to your children and help them solve problems that arise: this will increase the likelihood that they, in turn, will treat you with the same attention and concern at the moment when you are upset about something.
Allowing yourself to raise your voice and be confrontational will teach your children to behave in the same way. If you are not patient enough and constantly yell at them instead of communicating respectfully, then they will likely also tend to lose patience and try to get their way by yelling, easily disrespecting others. Of course, it is not always possible to restrain your anger, but those parents who allow themselves to shout every day or many times a week ultimately ensure that their children stop obeying the shouts, and at the same time they adopt the habit of being irritated from their parents.
Always listen carefully to your children and help them solve problems that arise: this will increase the likelihood that they, in turn, will treat you with the same attention and concern at the moment when you are upset about something.
In everyday life, parents should always act honestly, and not just call for it in words. The habit of telling lies in order to avoid trouble or smooth over a tense situation usually leads to the fact that children also begin to behave dishonestly. By asking your child to tell someone on the phone that you are not at home, you convince him that lying is not only possible, but also useful. Be careful with money and never bring home things that don't belong to you. When you find a lost item or any other item, always honestly try to find its owner. Do not break the rules or cheat in games and competitions. Failure to comply with these simple guidelines can teach your child to deceive and appropriate the property of others.
The habit of telling lies in order to avoid trouble or calm a tense situation usually leads to the fact that children also begin to behave dishonestly.
Make it one of your basic life principles to always keep your word and keep your promises. By breaking your word, you are setting your child an example of irresponsibility and even dishonesty towards people. The concepts of honesty and nobility also include the ability to admit one's mistakes. Ask for forgiveness every time you showed excessive rudeness, reprimanded your child too harshly for something, acted unfairly or offended someone - the child will only feel respect for you and understand how important it is to be able to answer for each of his mistakes.
If you don’t want your children to become addicted to alcohol or cigarettes, first of all get rid of your bad habits yourself. Everything else—demands, threats, requests, persuasion—influences children’s choices much less. If you do not give up your addictions, in addition to the habit of blindly imitating you, children will acquire a distorted understanding of these addictions and their place in life. For example, by allowing yourself to drink in excess and suffer a hangover the next day, you are teaching your children that such excesses are a form of release and permitted entertainment that is part of adult life.
If you don’t want your children to become addicted to alcohol or cigarettes, first of all get rid of your bad habits yourself. Everything else - demands, threats, requests, persuasion - influences children’s choices much less
Parents' conscientious attitude towards their household responsibilities helps to instill this in their children. People who neglect housework or quarrel over its distribution have a much harder time teaching their children to do it than those who do it calmly and joyfully day after day, without making a problem out of it.
When touching on the topic of raising children, it is necessary to talk about a whole complex of factors that influence the child’s behavior. First of all, it should be noted that parents play a key role in shaping the child’s worldview, behavior and attitude towards life in general, being for him example from early childhood. Only after being born, the child sees his father and mother next to him, considering them the center of the universe. He remembers their voices, gets used to their facial expressions, and later, having become a little older, the child begins to imitate his parents, trying to be like his father or mother.
No wonder they say that parents are an example for children. If you want your child to grow up as a worthy person, receive the necessary knowledge and be able to use it correctly in life, become an example for him in this. From an early age, children should see correct parenting behavior in the family, good, sincere relationships. It is from the parents that the child receives the base of values that remains with him until the end of his life. Of course, it is not only parents who influence the child’s worldview. These include kindergarten teachers and school, from where the child gains a lot of new knowledge, meets new people, and joins a new team. And here it is very important that the child does not go down the wrong path, ending up in the wrong company. That is why parents should instill in their children the key concepts of what is right and wrong from childhood.
Some parents believe that you should not show visible love for your child, otherwise he will become spoiled. However, in fact, when a child feels the true love of his parents, he grows up uninhibited. Parental love is the foundation on which the child’s character and personality are built. If it is not there, it leads to isolation, aggression, and depression. In addition, having felt the love of his parents since childhood, the child will grow up with a strong feeling that he should also have such a warm relationship in his family.
Psychologists say that the most important thing in raising a child is deep psychological contact with him. This primarily means communicating with the child. Dialogue is what is most important in the relationship between parents and children, as psychologists emphasize. For a dialogue to succeed, it must be built on a common vision of the situation, a common direction. A child should not live his own separate life, sitting in a corner and playing with toys. Unfortunately, this is exactly what happens in many cases. Some parents believe that once they buy their child a new toy, they may no longer pay attention to him. This is by no means the concern we are talking about, but simply a dismissal of parental responsibilities, expressed materially.
If you want your child to become a worthy person, pay attention first of all to yourself and your attitude towards life. Exactly parents are an example for children. Actions, behavior at home and in society, a value system - the child sees all this first of all at home. If you want your child to respect you and take your opinion into account, become an authority for him. You just need to start from childhood, otherwise later it may be too late. If the parents' behavior leaves much to be desired, the child may eventually follow the same path. Don't be a negative example for your children, and then you will have a reason for pride and reliable support in old age.
