Close your eyes and embrace the power erotic massage... Awaken desire and lust, give unforgettable intimate moments to yourself and your partner! How to give an erotic massage that can drive you crazy and ignite a spark even in a fading relationship?
Origins
Erotic massage has its roots in the ancient East, where the division of manual massage and intimacy was not dictated by society - on the contrary, they were connected. Of course, such a massage cannot be called a craft - it is a real art. Knowledge about it was obtained precisely from Asian techniques, and these people knew a lot about pleasure - just remember the Kama Sutra, Tantra Yoga and Taoist practices of love.
India, with its fragrant oils and spices, gave the world the opportunity to smell aphrodisiacs. Chinese knowledge about the body and the impact on certain reflex points revealed the secret of long lovemaking and the ability to control an erection.
Modern people can also learn how to do erotic massage. Anyone can master the technique of such a gentle and at the same time exciting influence on a partner.
How to do an erotic massage correctly: preparation for the process
Before the session, you should consider these points.
- Manicure. Long nails can break or injure your partner’s skin, which is quite unpleasant in the absence of orgasmic sensations. The skin of the massage therapist’s hands is ideally soft and silky, without abrasions or hangnails.
- Hands must be warmed up to touch the warm skin of the back or other parts of the body. This rule is one of the most important.
- When starting a massage, moisten your hands with cream or oil by rubbing it. But under no circumstances apply lubricant directly to your partner: the sensations are not the most pleasant.
- It is advisable that the bodies of both partners be washed beforehand. In addition to the cleanliness effect, warm water relaxes, speeds up the blood and puts you in the right mood.
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They can fully answer the question of how to do erotic massage special courses, video tutorials, books. And we will only outline the main nuances.
Essentially, erotic massage is smooth sexual stimulation of erogenous zones. Classically it is performed on naked body, but we will not follow the instructions “in the army style”, but will act intuitively, subconsciously understanding the needs of the other side.
Start
First you need to connect with your partner physically and mentally. Adjust your breathing to a rhythm with him, because he has not yet recovered from the worries of the day. Gradually bring his tense and frequent inhalation and exhalation to a relaxed one. To do this, place your hands on his knees and slowly move down to the foot, stretch the muscle a little by pressing on his toes. Then place your palm on the pads of your fingers and apply pressure, stretching the muscles of the lower leg. There should be a slight heat in your legs.
Stroking
You should make smooth, moderately strong movements of your hands along your partner’s body from top to bottom. There are 3 main directions for the back: from the tailbone to the shoulders, to the hip bone and to the armpits. Hand movements are symmetrical, equally intense and gentle.
The highlight of erotic massage is the ringed movements. The main movement of the hands is with greater force from the bottom up, and then back, but a little easier. And be sure to hint at eroticism to your partner: when returning your hands, raise your palm and move only with your fingertips. By moving along the back to the tailbone in this way, you can make your partner flinch from the current running to the lower back.
Rubbing
Performed with the entire palm or its edge, more intense, but still gentle and alternate with stroking. They are more open, extending into the chest, buttocks, and also from the shoulder blades to the hip bones in front. You need to enter the groin territory carefully and gently, while keeping your partner waiting. Swipe along the regular lines several times and then across his intimate area.
Kneading
Produced by fingertips that move in a circle. The fingers are folded into such a “tassel” and run from bottom to top along the back, arms and legs. Kneading is diluted with stroking, which relaxes the partner. It’s good if you also feel some kind of excitement, because here you should be more frank and bold and direct massage movements to erogenous points: the groin area, spine, base of the neck, chest, scalp. It’s nice if at the beginning of the massage you “carelessly” touched them with your breasts or accidentally touched them with your lips. But don’t play around - save the “sweets” for the end of the massage.
The final
Closer to the expected end of the massage, knead, stroke and completely excite your partner, affecting the erogenous points of the body. At the end, add visualization - turn him over from his stomach to his back and stroke his upper body, going down to the groin and up again - play a little.
Thai massage
Thai massage in the classical sense is not an intimate service, but a therapeutic procedure that uses important energy channels and brings the body into balance. Its specificity lies in applying pressure not only with hands, but also with forearms, elbows, knees, and feet. The massage therapist performs flexion and extension of the body to influence the deep-lying muscles. “A peculiar dance of the many-armed Shiva above you” - these are the reviews left by people who have visited real Thai masters. By pressing on certain points, the functioning of organs, blood flow and lymph is improved. Typically a session lasts from 1 to 3 hours.
Thai erotic massage
This is a kind of mixture of excitement and relaxation in one bottle. How to do Thai erotic massage, close to the original? This is a rather complex task that requires knowledge of many nuances. It is no coincidence that the Thais say that a woman who masters the technique of Thai massage masters the male subconscious. Still, something can be done.
The whole body is lubricated massage oil, which relaxes the partner. Next, deep kneading is carried out. Be sure to pause and touch your partner's body with light sliding movements. Use the “anmo” technique - use your fingers to move the skin, approaching and touching the erogenous zones. The most stimulating technique is perhaps “awakening the dragon” - the groin area is massaged with the pads of the fingers, but the genitals are not affected. After 4 minutes of manipulation, you need to kneel between your partner’s legs. The end of the massage will be a “shower” of long hair gliding across the skin.
Nuances of erotic massage
- Do you want a stormy and passionate continuation of the massage? Be ardent even before your “shah in the harem” appears. Take a bath, massage yourself - get a slight buzz before meeting a man.
- The importance of smell is great. When a partner enters the house, he will first feel it. It would be good if it was the aroma of fresh baked goods or vanilla. You can light candles/sticks or warm up a bun in the microwave.
- Clothing can be different: from a peignoir to cute woolen socks - the only ones on the body. The main thing is that you must like yourself.
- Sandalwood and jasmine in the form of oils have a hormonal effect, while rose, patchouli, and ylang-ylang relieve tension and relax.
Without a doubt, our health is connected with the sexual sphere. And if there are no problems there, then we enjoy life to its fullest and do not lose hope of receiving the highest satisfaction. It is important to consider that, doing erotic massage correctly, it is necessary to influence all corners of the body where there are sensitive points. For example, if you slowly press your palms onto the skin, use slow rubbing, this will help your partner relax and feel your care, and if you use a faster pace and stronger pressure, the massage will become stimulating, aimed at getting your loved one as quickly as possible. was ready to interact.
Let's look at the main types of erotic massage and learn how to do it correctly:
— Help you relax quickly Rubbing will help you forget about pressing matters. This method is also useful for circulatory problems. Internal processes will all come into shape. Erotic massage will turn into a wellness massage.
— Stroking at the beginning of the massage and at the end- an integral part of any massage. Don't forget about this. And one more thing - do not under any circumstances confuse which types of movements to use for the back and legs, and which for more sensitive points, otherwise you will get the opposite effect and your partner will regret agreeing to such a session.
It is also worth noting such a positive feature of erotic massage - that this is a process in which you can slowly get to know each other’s bodies, identify those features that you previously did not notice when the lights were turned off. You shouldn't be ashamed of your body size, even if your body isn't quite perfect. Your partner will not pay attention to this unless you yourself direct him to this thought.
- When we just touch fingers towards the partner's body, thousands of goosebumps run through him, if at that moment he is naked, then millions. Therefore, movements such as stroking and sliding techniques will add more sensuality. Put your soul, love and passion from the very beginning and control the pressure, angle tilting your hands. Don't constantly look at your partner's face waiting for what he will say. Let him rest and enjoy the process. You can only occasionally glance at his facial expression to know if he has fallen asleep. Otherwise, it will be a shame that you started doing erotic massage with one goal, and in the end you put your partner to sleep.
- Light tapping will occasionally tone up the partner, so to speak, he found the massage not boring and even a little a fun activity. You can carry out this action not only directly on his skin, but also by placing your palm on his back. That is, you knock on your palm, and he receives light echoes inside himself. This is also useful.
- Alternation of movements. The “carrot and stick” method. YOU can add interest to the massage if you first slowly move your palms over the body, and then finish with tapping. A proper erotic massage does not have a strict sequence of movements, so everything will depend on you.
Now let's talk about how to correctly move from one part of your partner's body to another.
There are 3 main rules here:
- No harshness.
- All the means that you decide to use for the massage should be nearby, and not in another room or not at all.
- Talk less to the person you are giving a massage to, let him relax and be completely transported to the pinnacle of bliss.
Let's talk a little more about each of these points.
- If suddenly you start thoughtlessly changing your position. To start massaging another part of the body, you can accidentally hit your nose with your elbow or hit your rib with your heel. So approach everything wisely, keeping the rules in mind.
- When you work with dry hands, it will bring joy, but not the kind that a fragrant cream or gel can provide you with.
- When you want to relax, you try to avoid extraneous sounds. Likewise, someone who is currently busy receiving pleasure would not want to have a “radio” next to him. Therefore, give moments of silence.
Many girls have a question about how to start a massage.
A guy returning from work is not always able to behave adequately with a girl who is standing almost naked. He may pass by, or he may fall asleep right in the hallway. So, if you don't want your Romeo to leave you unattended, take the initiative. Approach him, slowly run your palm over his cheek and lips, and kiss him. Next, whisper in your ear that you have been waiting for him for a long time and now there will be a surprise. Next, take him by the collar of his shirt and lead him into the room where the massage will be performed. Just prepare everything in advance so that he understands that it will be an erotic massage, and not just another adult with toys.
Start the massage by unbuttoning the buttons on his shirt and slowly removing his pants. Or you can wait for him to get out of the shower and have an erotic massage session with the same success.
During the massage you can make teasing movements. For example: reach for a tube of gel, without removing your palm from your chest, stretch through it, arching back. Stroke yourself. Let the hair down his back and draw with the ends of the strands.
Make an ordinary erotic massage unforgettable!
Now you know how to properly give an erotic massage.
Massage can bring a very special joy - the joy of touching. Erotic massage, incredibly pleasant and exceptional useful activity for both partners. Offer your girlfriend an erotic massage - your touch will help her relax and forget about the worries of the day. The massage will not only calm her down, but also stimulate her sexual desire, because erotic massage only relaxes the body, but the feelings, on the contrary, are heightened.
By giving your girlfriend a massage, you get a unique opportunity to see her body in all its glory. If she doesn’t want to make love in the light, offer her an erotic massage, she probably won’t be able to refuse. And then you will see it in the lighting that you like, because the massage therapist must see what exactly he is massaging.
Erotic massage: let's prepare the situation
Fill the bath with water, add a couple of drops of any essential oil with a relaxing effect and invite the girl to soak in fragrant bath. While the girl is getting herself in order, take care of the intimate atmosphere in the room. Candles (only for fans! I don’t recommend experimenting if you’re not sure that your girlfriend likes such smells), quiet melodic music...
Undressing can be turned into a whole ritual. Go slowly, take your time, try a little play - for example, undress each other without using your hands. Just don’t get carried away, you were going to get a massage, even an erotic one. After she is undressed and awaiting your touch, carefully lay her on the bed, or better yet, on the carpet. The good thing about the bed is that it is warm and soft. However, there is much more space on the floor, and you can be on either side of your partner during the massage.
A small nuance: to make it comfortable for a girl to lie on her stomach, prepare a small cushion in advance, for example from a towel. She will place this roller when you massage her back. If the room is cool, bring a light blanket or a large terry towel to cover those parts of the body that you are not currently massaging.
A few words about oils used in erotic massage. Any oil will give your hands the ability to glide over your partner's skin. Simply rubbing oil into the skin can give (and deliver) a lot of pleasure. If you or your loved one is allergic to essential oils, use a hypoallergenic cream or special oil for massage. – a powerful weapon of a massage therapist. The smells of various essential oils can help you relax and fall asleep, or vice versa, heighten your senses and awaken desire.
Where to start erotic massage
It is logical to start massaging from the periphery - that is, from the arms and legs. The hands are an erogenous zone for almost any woman, so give them every possible attention, smoothly moving from gentle stroking to more intense, but always gentle kneading. Foot massage is performed according to a similar pattern - stroking, then rubbing. You can rub it different ways- with the pads of the fingers, the edge of the palm, the middle phalanges of the fingers clenched into a fist. Vary your movements, pressing and rubbing, sometimes weaker, sometimes harder, sometimes faster, sometimes slower, you will make your partner tremble with excitement. Just take your time, otherwise you may bring her to orgasm.
When massaging your back, be aware of the “cat spot.” Usually this is the point between the shoulder blades; a gentle touch to it will cause a strong sexual reaction. But don't forget that erogenous zones in women they may shift. That is, what she liked a week ago may now be unpleasant. Therefore, during an erotic massage, you are faced with the task of discovering as many of these zones as possible. Massage is the most The best way find them, because you gradually “walk” through her entire body, observing her reaction. When massaging your back, alternate strong kneading with light stroking and gentle pinching.
Whatever tales they tell about erotic massage, rest assured that there is nothing complicated about it. Every girl can handle it, the main thing is to know a few simple tricks, which we will tell you about. And don’t forget to hint to your beloved guy that by following the same rules, he can please you.
What should the situation be like?
You can start the massage in the bathroom. Invite your man to wash his hair (many representatives of the stronger sex simply melt from touching the scalp) and rub his back (discard the washcloth and start gently massaging his skin with your palms).
After bath procedures, move to the bedroom. It should be warm (at an uncomfortably low temperature it will be difficult for the muscles to relax) and not very light (total darkness is also not suitable for us, because visuals are an incredibly important component of the process). A small lamp located far from the bed or a few lit candles are ideal.
To create the mood, the room can be filled with incense aromas (incense sticks or an aroma lamp will help).
Invite your man to wash his hair (many representatives of the stronger sex simply melt from touching the scalp) and rub his back.
Ideal scents for erotic massage are sandalwood, patchouli, ylang-ylang and jasmine. Essential oils with the same aromas can be added to the cream or oil that you will use during massage. Remember that essential oils cannot be used in their pure form for massage!
What should the movements be like?
The beauty of erotic massage is that it promotes both relaxation and sexual arousal. Therefore, your movements should be relaxing and exciting at the same time.
Soft and gentle touches can lull your partner to sleep, and instead of enchanting sex, you will get a sweet dream in each other's company. To prevent this from happening, alternate stroking and gentle pressure with intense patting and light blows with the edges of your palms. This will allow your man to stay in good shape.
The movements must either be alternated (first weak for some time, then strong for the same amount of time), or gradually increase the intensity of the pressure (start with a weak one and come to a stronger one). In erotic massage, the instrument is not only the hands, but also the lips.
You can gently kiss and lick your chosen one, as well as lightly bite him. It is also important to alternate movements here: gentle kisses will relax you, and playful bites will set you in the right mood.
Sequencing
1. Start the massage with your feet or hands. Gently stretch each finger, varying the intensity of movements. Some men experience incredible sensations when a woman kisses and sucks their big toes. After this, move directly to the foot or palm. Knead from the center to the periphery - first with one thumb, then back side wrists.
2. Move to the back. Move from the neck to the lower back, varying the strength of the pressure. Stay on the buttocks; here it makes sense to use more intense movements.
3. Move to the chest and stomach (for this the man must turn over). Movements should be light, because the skin in these places is more delicate. Pay attention to the nipples - contrary to the stereotype, this is a very erogenous zone male body. An equally important area is located around the navel: make circular movements with your hands or tongue - your man will definitely appreciate it!
If up to this point your man has not pounced on you and fallen asleep, then you did everything right.
4. Avoid touching your genitals. Otherwise, your massage will turn into intense love foreplay. Gently ignore the penis and testicles (rest assured, this will have a stimulating effect) and work on the thighs - you can rub them intensively, and then gently and gently stroke them. Then pay attention to your legs and feet.
If up to this point your man has not pounced on you and has not fallen asleep, then you did everything right, and the reward for this will be magical New Year’s sex (which is also included in the mandatory anti-stress program).
Increase sexual desire and thereby promote harmonious intimate relationships Many acupressure techniques will help.
How to increase sexual potency in men.
Sacrum. To prevent loss of sexual activity, apply pressure on the lumbosacral region (Fig. 48), where the lumbosacral plexus passes. Light pressure on the points of the lumbar vertebrae and sacrum ten times for three seconds each solves problems of male sexual potency.
Epigastrium. Pressing on the epigastric region with three fingers (Fig. 44; ten times for five seconds each) reflexively affects the lumbosacral plexus and helps to increase sexual activity.
Liver. Liver diseases, often observed in people with mental work, cause a decrease in sexual potency. Frequent pressure below the right costal arch (Fig. 39) will increase sexual activity.
Sigmoid colon. Constipation weakens all body functions, including sexual function. To eliminate it, carefully knead the abdominal area to the left and downward from the navel - the area of the sigmoid colon (Fig. 31).
Bladder. Pressing the area between the navel and pubic area stimulates the function Bladder and as a result – enhances the sexual reaction (Fig. 49).
The anus and perineum area. Firm pressure, first around the anus and then on the perineum between the anus and scrotum, stimulates sexual response.
Testicles. Rubbing the superior pubic ligament located at the edge pubic bone, increases the sensitivity of the testicles.
Premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation can occur in young men with insufficient sexual experience. However, even experienced men with strong sexual arousal, they are not able to perform sexual intercourse of normal duration. Frequent massage on the epigastric region and sacrum can eliminate this phenomenon (Fig. 44, 48).
How to increase sexual desire in women.
There are a number of points whose massage has a reflex effect on the endocrine glands and sensitive areas that stimulate sexual response.
Thyroid points located on the front surface of the neck above the collarbones (Fig. 17).
Adrenal point– at the level of the XI-XII ribs (Fig. 50) (pressure on these points is carried out with a fist). The point of the endocrine gland is on the sternum (Fig. 51). Points in the groin area are on the inner surface of the thighs (Fig. 52). Impact on the sacrum in women helps solve problems of sexual desire (Fig. 48).
How to deal with frigidity.
In case of frigidity, it is necessary to act as follows:
- – the woman should lie on her stomach;
- – downwards, with the entire weight of your body, press on the points on both sides of the III, IV and V lumbar vertebrae (II lumbar vertebra is at waist level);
- – gently press on the points in the buttocks area (Fig. 20);
- – complete the massage with full impact on the front surface of the neck (thyroid gland area), sensitive areas in the medulla oblongata, mammary glands and inner thighs.
Impact on these points can be carried out at any time of the day and in any convenient place, which plays a big role in maintaining marital sexual desire. It should be remembered that a correct and harmonious lifestyle contributes to increased sexual desire.
Thyroid.Pressing on the points of the endocrine glands stimulates the production of hormones, which contributes to good skin condition and preservation of the figure.
Massage can be performed as follows. The neck should be tilted slightly forward and press the “pad” of the thumb on the fourth point on the neck (thyroid gland area) for two seconds (Fig. 17). Repeat this pressure five times on each side.
Perform a complete series of pressures on the left and right three times. By acting on these points, you can also prevent early graying of hair. A good result is obtained by using this method while taking a bath.
The attractiveness of a person is largely due to the expressiveness of the eyes. To keep your eyes clean, clear and attractive To quickly eliminate eye pain, headaches, heaviness or bloating in the head caused by working indoors, reading or watching too much TV, follow these instructions:
- – press with three fingers, placing them along the upper edge of the eye socket, towards the eyebrow three times. Make sure that your nails do not touch the skin (Fig. 53);
- – press the lower edge of the eye socket from top to bottom three times;
- – use the “pads” of your thumbs to press on your eyelids for about ten seconds.
- Complete the series with a full complex of shiatsu for the face.
Additionally, if time permits, you can press with three fingers on the zygomatic bone (trigeminal nerve) or on the temples. If these actions do not give the desired effect, press on the area between the upper corner and the inner edge of the shoulder blades.
How to enlarge the mammary gland.
The most effective course of massage for enlargement of the mammary glands consists of pressing on the thyroid gland, the medulla oblongata, the shoulder girdle, and the shoulder (Fig. 54). Kneading massage of the mammary glands not only helps to enlarge them, but also helps maintain the shape of the breasts.
How to eliminate problems associated with menopause.
Menopause is a natural phenomenon because age-related changes inevitable. However, its course depends on physical development, number of pregnancies, births, nutrition, etc. It usually begins with a violation menstrual cycle which can last for years. As the ovaries atrophy with age, egg development and ovulation become irregular and then stop altogether. Hot flashes and neurosis, combined with age-related symptoms caused by disorder and dysfunction of the endocrine glands (especially the anterior pituitary gland, thyroid gland, adrenal glands and pancreas), as well as disruption of the autonomic nervous system that controls them, usually accompany menopause.
Tension of the sympathetic and parasympathetic parts of the autonomic nervous system causes disorders of the motor nerves, dizziness, heaviness in the head, constant headache, increased sweating, hysteria, tinnitus, menopause arterial hypertension, tachycardia or bradycardia, facial flushing, hot flashes, loss of appetite, taste disturbance, persistent diarrhea or constipation, depression, irritability, melancholy, insomnia, memory impairment.
To remove or reduce these phenomena, follow the following instructions: – start by pressing on the front surface of the neck (in particular, on the four points of the thyroid gland) (Fig. 17); – continue pressing on the medulla oblongata, shoulder girdle, shoulders, abdomen, epigastric region and lower abdomen.
From the book by D. Grace "Massage from A to Z"
Massage and touch are good at reducing stress, fatigue after work, helping to get rid of all problems, and it is also a wonderful gift for your beloved girl. There is no one who does not love effective soothing massages.
You don't know how to massage a girl? Thanks to the instructions that you will read below, you will soon see that your girlfriend will feel like she is in heaven!
Stroking.
We always begin and end each massage with stroking. Gentle stroking, using little force, will relax the body. And vice versa - strong and energetic stroking will stimulate the body.
We perform stroking along and across the body and - for example. around the shoulder blades. We can perform stroking with the pads of the fingers, the entire surface of the palm, the balls of the thumbs, and the like.
Trituration.
We massage the body with circular movements, performing at least 3 small circles in one place. With each subsequent lap we increase the force of the attack. We also start this part of the massage from the waist, gradually moving towards the shoulders.
We can make circles with the pads of our fingers, the entire surface of our palm, and our thumbs. It is best to start by rubbing with your fingertips, performing 3 circles in one place, moving towards the shoulders along the ridge. Then move your palms again to your waist and repeat these movements 2 more times. Then rub the entire surface of the palm, again massaging from the waist towards the shoulders, 3 circles in each place.
After such a massage, you should repeat all the movements described above transversely to the axis of the body (across the course of the muscle fibers).
Kneading.
Transverse crushing. We perform movements from the ridge towards the side. Kneading consists of squeezing muscle segments between the thumb and other fingers, and then transferring this segment to the other hand. We transfer a piece of muscle with the fingers of one hand to the thumb of the other and vice versa.
Longitudinal collapse. We perform movements from the waist towards the shoulders. We perform the movements in the same way as the previous ones. We grab the belts of muscle fibers (starting from those closest to the spine) with the thumb of one hand and the fingers of the other, and then we pass the thumb of one hand to the fingers of the other.
Oppression. With our thumbs we press the skeins of the muscles along the ridge, starting from the waist, ending near the neck. We oppress the muscle on the right side of the ridge with our right thumb. We gradually reduce the force of oppression and at the same time begin to oppress the muscle, which is located on the left side of the ridge, with the left thumb.
S-mining. We perform this kneading with the help of our thumbs on the muscle, which is located directly along the ridge. We place our thumbs on the muscles on opposite sides of the ridge, at different heights at a distance of several centimeters. Holding the muscle fold with our thumbs, we move the right thumb over the left, then left over the right, and so on. The muscle being moved should settle down like the letter “S” (hence the S contraction).
Download (mouse). We grab the muscle between the thumbs of both hands and the other fingers. We move the fold in the direction of the shoulders, without lifting the thumbs from the skin of the shoulders. We move the fold by moving all fingers except the thumbs, which should firmly adhere to the skin.
Springy blows.
You should always “hit” the transverse muscles. We make light blows with the pads of our fingers and palms, placed like a teaspoon. You should never make springy blows in the area of the kidneys!
Attention! All actions described below should always be performed in the direction of the heart. We massage the muscles - not the spine. Massage should not be performed on a person who has a fever.
Erotic massage is one of the most best gift what a man can do for female body. It not only perfectly relaxes, but also delivers a lot of sensual pleasures and in some cases it can even bring a girl to orgasm. From this video you will learn how to give an erotic massage to a girl, how to prepare her and what to do in order to give her an unforgettable experience and a lot of vivid emotions. Before you begin, remember 2 main rules: tenderness and leisurelyness.
How to prepare a girl for an erotic massage
A good erotic massage requires a good preparation of the girl. Make an appointment with your loved one, agree on a specific time and prepare the appropriate atmosphere in your room. Use all your senses for this - it's called a sexy move. So what should your room look like? The light in the room should not be bright, light candles, light a fire in the fireplace and warm up your room thoroughly. Add scent by lighting scented candles or sticks. Now about the sounds. Lyrical, calm, romantic music will help establish the right atmosphere in the room. And don't forget to turn off your mobile phone. Let's talk about tastes. A little food and alcohol will help you relax. As for touching, think about how you will conduct an erotic massage. Prepare, focus and relax. Remember, no matter whether you are giving a massage or someone is giving it to you, you always get pleasure together. Experience the joy of touch. If you have sexual intercourse before, after or during a massage, that's great, but don't make it your goal. Your main task is to please your beloved. Interact with your partner's body through warm relations, affectionate touches, jokes, curiosity, love &mdash, enjoy. Remember that you interact through touch.
The best place to give an erotic massage to a girl is a massage table, or if there is none, then you can lie on the carpet or bed. Lightly heat the massage oil in a cup filled with warm water. There are 4 main hand positions: tapping, pressing, pinching, straight hand strike, one finger strike and edge strike. Remember, you need to massage hard tissues and muscles, but in no case bones. Once you start the massage, try to constantly maintain contact with her body.
Romantic evening with an intimate massage it will undoubtedly be more pleasant than if you went to a movie, restaurant or some concert. Erotic massage is the best conductor of your feelings.
Back massage
Slowly position your girlfriend in your space and touch her gently. Take some oil into your hand and warm it. Smear the erotic massage oil evenly over the entire surface of her back. Initially, let her know what you're going to do: hard hitting, gentle pinching, or both. Smoothly move your hands down her back, then to the sides, and up to her shoulders. Do this several times. On opposite sides of the spine, move all the way to the bottom. Continue these movements in the same way as in the previous version. Gently tap your fists on your back. Using your fingertips and also tap the surface of your back on each side down your spine. Finish this part of the massage with light stroking. Draw small circles with your thumbs on either side of your spine. Walk down your spine towards your buttocks and then back towards your head. Repeat this for several minutes. Under each shoulder, use your thumbs to draw a semicircle with one finger in one direction and the other in the opposite direction. Kneel between her legs and use your fingers to push until you reach her upper back. Using your index and middle fingers, run along her spine from top to bottom, placing your fingers on opposite sides of the spine. Repeat this a couple of times, increasing the pressure. Place your left hand on the girl's lower back with your fingers along the spine, and with your right hand move along her spine from the buttocks to the head using light pressure. This movement should last from 5 to 10 seconds. Increasing the pressure each time, continue to do this for about 2 minutes. Then start running your palms from her sides towards her spine. Repeat this several times, then the other side.
Foot massage
Move the reverse surface of your hands to your feet, then turn your hands over and head down. Do this several times. Grasp your leg at the heel with both hands different sides, and place your fingers together in the middle and lightly pressing them in the middle, move your hands to the buttocks. And when you move your hands from the buttocks down to the feet, you move your fingers towards your palms. Repeat the same movements with the other leg. Now work on your partner's calf muscle.
Now you massage the calf muscle, thigh, buttock of one leg, and then moving to the other leg, do the same thing only in a different order. That is, when you reach the buttock of one leg, move to the other buttock and go down. Then, pressing with your fingertips, you run along your legs in the same direction, starting with one and finishing with the other. In this case, it is better to skip the back of the knee. After this, make light stroking movements with your fingertips.
To finish the erotic massage on the back of the body, use your forearms. Place one forearm across and in the middle of her back and the other in the middle and across her hips. Now, using light pressure, bring your hands together and then spread them apart. Do this several times. After this, leave one hand on your partner's back and lie next to her and rest, or you can lie on top of her.
If a girl gets aroused after such a massage, that’s good, but if she doesn’t get aroused, everything is absolutely fine, since arousal is not the goal. Your intention is a sexual experience. Save your sexual arousal energy for the future.
Massage the front of a girl's body
With one hand you begin movements clockwise in the abdominal area and with the second too. Alternating your hands, slide from your partner's back over the ribs and to the stomach. So you move from the pelvis to the shoulder and back. On the breast, make circular strokes with each hand, moving your hands around the nipple clockwise or counterclockwise. Men also enjoy doing this exercise. On the nipple of the other breast, begin to lightly pinch the nipple and then slide your fingers from the nipple to the sides. Repeat the same with the other breast. Let your fingertips dance across your partner's body with ease.
Kneel behind your loved one's head and grab her head so that your thumbs are against her ears and the rest of your fingers are behind her ears. Slowly turn your head to the side. Use one hand to move across the top of your head, then down to your neck and around your shoulder and under your shoulder. Turn her head the other way and do the same. Taking the head in your hands, move your fingers as close to her neck as possible, and then to the top. Then, with movements towards yourself, slide your fingers back and forth. Gently and slowly massage your entire head as you would when washing it. Place your partner's head on the pillow. Finally, gently stroke your neck and face.
Gently make a fist and with your other hand move your hand along the outside of your arm. Hold the girl's hand in a vertical position so that her hand is in contact with your body. Move your thumbs along his arm to the elbow, and then release the pressure back to the hand. Now move on to the hands and palms. Using circular pressure, massage the outer part of the hand. Use your fingers and index finger to massage your partner's thumb. Thumbs massage her palm with your hands. Then slowly massage each individual finger of your hand.
Massage the front part of the thigh by alternating pressure with your palms. Grasping your partner’s leg with both hands at the foot, slowly move upward, pressing with your fingers. When finished, turn your hands and move them along both sides of your legs. Do this several times. With your hand wrapped around the girl’s foot, move towards the tips of your fingers as if you were trying to pull off a sock. This should be done alternately with both hands. Then press on the toes so that they are turned outward, and with the other hand massage the sole of the foot. Use both hands to massage your foot, then each toe individually and around them. Then take your index finger and push it between all your fingers like an awl.
Slide along the inner thighs moving to the outer. Then a circular motion and repeat. When finishing giving an erotic massage to a girl, touch her skin only with your fingertips, barely touching. Move from the neck to the tips of the socks and back. Then also from the shoulders to the arms and back. When finished, place one hand on your partner's chest and lie down next to him.
A good erotic massage is the best way to ignite passion and desire in her body. With its help, you will learn not only to give each other pleasure, but also to develop your sexual relationships.
In the article about a woman’s sexual energy, a lot was said about
Now the continuation of the article by massage therapist Bogdan Lukyanov:
A brief plan for developmental massage of erogenous zones.
I) When doing a massage to develop the sensuality of the body, you first need to induce sexual arousal in the woman’s body. To do this, we find places that are pleasant and exciting to touch, and release the sexual energy accumulated in them. If it is not possible to find such energy-charged zones, then we first use the taboo one, that is, intimate area(buttocks, inner thighs, lower abdomen), and if this is not enough, then the intimate area. Of course, if the client herself is ready for this. But this is a last resort if the rest of the body is generally insensitive.
II) Maintaining a certain level of sexual arousal in the woman’s body (but not allowing her to become overexcited), the master (or sexologist) continues to work with the whole body, and, carefully listening to the woman’s reaction, identifies her sensitive and erogenous places, and then unwinds and opens them sexual potential. This is the main and most enjoyable part of the job.
III) And when a woman is already tired of sexual arousal, it gradually subsides, and the massage therapist simply relaxes and calms the body. The erogenous massage session ends.
Again, I want to remind you that erogenous zones are not only the groin or chest, but also the hips, buttocks, neck, abdomen, feet, hair... - any place the impact on which creates a release of sexual energy in this particular woman. And the main advantage of an exciting massage is precisely that it allows you to influence erogenous zones anywhere, on many different exciting points, and at the same time. It's like playing a musical instrument, each string of which - each erogenous zone - gives its own unique sound, and together they create an amazing symphony of bodily pleasure.
It is important to understand that erogenous release (i.e. the release of accumulated sexual energy from exciting places) is not only pleasure that develops female sensuality. Many women need regular erogenous massage as a wellness procedure - it is absolutely necessary to maintain their beauty and health.
They need to regularly discharge their erogenous zones from the sexual energy accumulating in them.
After all, where this energy stagnates, first there is distension and swelling of the tissues, which turns into tension, over time it thickens, tissue fibrosis begins, cellulite begins, the figure deteriorates, weight gain occurs, etc.
And one of the main reasons for all this is the stagnation of sexual energy in the body.
The most typical example is problems of the buttocks and hips. They are located near the sexual center, and therefore this energy first fills the hips - they begin to burst with energy, they begin to bulge, and the butt grows.
So yes, a fat butt is a result. sexual problems women.
A thin girl came to see me with stretch marks all over her butt, despite the fact that she had never given birth and had never weighed more than 53 kg. But at some point in her life, her hips simply burst from an excess of unrealized sexual energy. She remained just as thin on top, but her buttocks were literally bursting from the inside - and, as a result, stretch marks formed on her. If this girl had come to me for a massage at that time, she wouldn’t have these problems now.
But while the tension there is still soft, massage of the hips gives the woman fabulous pleasure. Precisely because this releases the sexual energy accumulated in the hips, and this is always pleasant. With a sensual or light erotic massage, you feel directly with your fingers how tension turns into energy and it spreads throughout the body. But if you do not massage this area for a long time, then the thighs gradually become hard and lumpy, and then massage in these places will be painful. This means that it is advisable to solve this problem further initial stage while stagnation of energy can still be turned into pleasure.
And, concluding the article, I will repeat
general:
1) Initial relaxation – preparing the body for pleasure.
2) Relieve acute pain (if any) by rubbing and kneading.
3) We turn pleasant pain into pleasure with the help of the right touches.
4) We massage the whole body - let the woman feel it properly.
5) Find and reveal the pleasures of the body.
6) We cause sexual arousal, find and develop a woman’s erogenous zones.
7) And at the end of the erogenous massage session - general relaxation of the body.
Naturally, for full development, a woman needs to undergo some kind of course of such massages. The woman herself decides how many sessions there will be: when she feels that she has had enough, this course will end for her.
