Relationships are one of the most difficult things in the whole world. Every day couples come together and part, some are having a wedding, and some are crying from unrequited love. Starting a relationship is difficult, but ending it is even more difficult.
Sometimes it happens that a person simply stops attracting, and there is nothing wrong with that. In this case, you just need to break up with him quickly before things get worse.
But how can you make sure that a guy and a girl remain friends after a relationship? And how beautifully to part with a person who was so dear?
People sometimes want to leave in order to be able to yearn, wait and rejoice at their return...
Having watched enough American melodramas, where the main character, beautifully brushing away a tear, so beautifully tells the guy about breaking up, girls often make mistakes in speeches prepared in advance.So what phrases should you avoid if you want to remain friends with your significant other? Let's find out together:
- “The problem is not you, but me.” Yes, this is one of the most common phrases when breaking up a relationship. It doesn’t matter who says it, a guy or a girl, the effect will still be the same. After these words, I just want to say: “Since you are so/so problematic, then why did we start dating in the first place?” This phrase should definitely be avoided.
- “I am not worthy/worthy of you.” This phrase generally makes you laugh hysterically and shake your head nervously. This is perhaps the worst way to justify yourself when breaking up with a loved one. It’s the same as saying: “Hey, how are you, find someone better, otherwise I’m attracted to bad guys/girls.”
- "I'm not ready for a relationship"- another phrase that should never be said. After these words, I just want to roll my eyes and say: “Hmm, then the question is: why did you start something at all?”
- “I got another one.” This is perhaps the worst way to end a relationship. After this phrase good friendly relations most likely will not be achieved. It’s better then to keep silent about the presence of another loved one.
- “I like you, but only as a friend.” Ooh, friend zone. Really, The best way ending a relationship once and for all (without the option of friendship and communication) means sending your ex-other half to the friend zone. This is one of the most common phrases, which, oddly enough, is still said today (although one could already understand that it is stupid and unpleasant).
- “I didn’t think/thought it would turn out like this.” After this phrase, I just want to say: “Then what were you thinking about? Do you even know how to think?” It’s better not to say these words, especially to a girl.
Phrases you can try using
Of course, it is best to speak from the heart, and not just choose innocuous phrases. When a person speaks honestly, it is always visible, and even some respect appears for such an individual.But to make it easier to navigate in your head, below are phrases that you can try to say (it all depends on the degree of intimacy and the situation):
- "I'm sorry it happened like that." Perhaps the apology sounds too pretentious and pretentious, but if you say it from the bottom of your heart, your partner will not be able to resist. The word "sorry" is business card many womanizers, which helps them part with their other halves.
- “I had a good time with you.” It’s always nice to hear these words from a person, even if you have to part with him.
- “I really wanted/wanted for us to succeed”- another phrase that sounds pretentious, but works in most cases.
Conclusion
In fact, there are no correct phrases for breaking up with a guy/girlfriend. After all, there are different situations, these words are suitable for one, but not for another.The most important thing is to speak honestly and directly. There is no need to prevaricate and think about how to say it correctly. You just talk and that's it.
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Sad sayings about breaking up with a guy!
It’s a completely different matter if a tragedy occurred in your life and you broke up! That's it, the relationship is complete! And you no longer exist as one whole. There he is, and you are two parallel lines that will not intersect. The bitterness of resentment and regret, anger at oneself, sometimes hatred of each other and pain. This whole range of feelings overwhelms two people who only yesterday swore to each other eternal love. And it is at such moments that statuses about breaking up with a guy appear on your contact page! On Statuses-Tut.ru you will find interesting selection the saddest, saddest, angry statuses about breaking up.Statuses about breaking up with a girl for strong guys!
Ah, these treacherous daughters of Eve, temptresses. How much suffering and painful days of waiting have to be endured because of you by the stronger half of humanity. How easily and carefree, like butterflies, you flutter from one man to another. They say that men don't cry. You may not see their tears, but their hearts are crying. And at this moment I want to punish my ex with an angry, furious quote! She should feel what you feel when you see her with someone else. The best thing would be to place it on your pages in in social networks statuses about breaking up with a girl! All your mutual friends should know what she really is like.Statuses about breaking up with your loved one - the saddest quotes!
Parting is a very difficult and painful process in the life of any person, which almost all of us have had to face. During this sad time, as a rule, we are unable to think about anything other than this event. It becomes paramount and the only topic for our thoughts, conversations and experiences. And everyone experiences it differently. The main thing at this moment is not to withdraw into yourself, not to remain alone with the pain, but to find the strength to start all over again. After all, life is so short! Best statuses You will find information about parting with your loved one on our website! A little sad or, conversely, cheeky statuses that will accurately reflect your mood after breaking up with a once close person.The best breakup statuses are here!
Personal statuses about separation will help you reflect the storm of feelings that is raging inside you on the Internet pages of your favorite social network. If you have rethought the problem of separation and are optimistic, humorous statuses about separation, which, of course, are available on our website in sufficient quantities, are perfect for you.“Separation is what it is:
without expecting anything
we do not flinch from the knock,
but from hope in him"
All life is a series of partings, but the most painful thing is if they don’t even bother to say goodbye to you.
It sometimes happens that life separates two people only to show both how important they are to each other.
If a person is meant to be by your side, he will be. Under whatever circumstances you break up, and no matter how much time has passed.
You are in the middle of a meadow, there are billions of stars in the sky...
- Do you think I broke up with him in vain?
- In a place where you feel good, they don’t ask questions.
There is no need to be afraid of breakups. And at a distance you can love deeply, and up close you can quickly part.
In order to get to know a man well, you need to break up with him. Olga Anina.
Perhaps, in the end, all life is a series of partings. But it’s most painful when they don’t even bother to say goodbye to you. Life of Pi
“If you finally decide to leave a place, think about where you are heading, and not about what it was time to say goodbye to long ago.”
Elchin Safarli
Never try to return someone who once abandoned you.
They always talk about the grief of the abandoned. Have you ever thought about those who leave? Anna Gavalda
You need to be able to leave on time. So that after your departure they will breathe not with relief, but with regret.
Never go back. There is no point in going back anymore. Even if there are the same eyes in which thoughts were drowning. Even if you are drawn to where everything was so nice, don’t ever go there, forget forever what happened. The same people live in the past that they always promised to love. If you remember this, forget it, don’t ever go there. Don't trust them, they are strangers. After all, they once left you. They killed faith in the soul, in love, in people and in themselves. Just live what you live and even though life looks like hell, look only forward, NEVER GO BACK...
Omar Khayyam
We are never so defenseless as when we love and never so hopelessly unhappy as when we lose the object of our love or his love.
Sigmund Freud
People sometimes leave even if there is nowhere else to go.
so hard to find the right words to hold you. This is probably due to the fact that I understand the pointlessness of these attempts.
Anyone who cries at a train station must pay a fine.
Longing for the person who has left us or has left us, as it were, decorates with a halo the one who comes later.
No matter how strong you are -
Don't be separated from your loved ones.
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They say that the inability to accept loss is a form of madness, perhaps this is true, but sometimes it is the only way to survive...
I don't feel lonely, but I feel abandoned.
Let go without letting go of your heart.
Leaving is always much easier than staying.
Perhaps all breakups are like jumping off a cliff. The hardest thing is to decide. Once you're in the air, you have to let go.
Farewell comes before realizing your feelings.
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Sometimes all that remains of a person are memories, but everywhere...
When people leave, let them go. Fate excludes the superfluous. This doesn't mean they are bad. This means that their role in your life has already been played.
You won't know what it is real love until you want to get rid of it.
Sometimes changing your phone number only changes the life of one person. The one who will never call again.
It all started as usual and ended as usual. Big and bright love was canceled due to technical reasons.
The absence of your presence in my life no longer bothers me.
Distance is not so scary when it is in kilometers of the earth, and not in kilometers of the soul.
When you want everyone to leave, it’s easier to leave yourself.
Separations and meetings are the two main parts from which happiness will someday emerge.
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Absence kindles the passion of the heart... To someone who is closer.
Never go back to what you decided to leave. No matter how much they ask you, and no matter how much you want it yourself. Having conquered one mountain, begin to storm another.
Two weeks, that's all we had. Two weeks to fall head over heels in love with you. And now we are parting for a year, but what do we need a year of separation if we had these two weeks.
We would not value life without knowing death. We would not value meetings if there were no separations.
Whenever we part with someone we care about, we hope that the Universe will reward us for our selfless choice.
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When you leave, go away and don’t think about coming back, but I will say “goodbye” and hope.
Having parted with a person for an hour, you can then search for him throughout eternity.
Closing the door behind you, I realized what a moth feels when a candle is blown out in a room.
You can't break up without anyone suffering.
Her kisses froze on my body, like snowflakes on an icy window. For some reason it was getting cold. Now I understand. Farewell kisses lose their warmth. They contain the cooled tenderness of parting...
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Absence weakens a slight infatuation, but intensifies a greater passion, just as the wind extinguishes a candle, but fans the fire.
Separation is sweet sadness.
Separations and meetings are the two main parts from which happiness will someday emerge.
The confidence that we are loved softens the pain of separation.
Of all the injustices of fate, separation is the most terrible for hearts. (As-Samarkandi)
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Separation only strengthens the power of those we love. (Romain Rolland)
In separation, three-quarters of the grief is taken by the one who remains, while the one leaving takes away only one-quarter. (Ibn-Hazma)
How to avoid breaking your leg if you fall from the roof of a house? All you can do is group yourself and mitigate the consequences. It's the same with our tender life companions. “Let’s remain friends”, “It’s not about you, it’s about me” - banal and excuses for a breakup that only cause irritation. At the request of TTR, the author of the public page “Cozy Psychology” Dmitry Kagdin came up with five phrases that need to be said to a girl so that she accepts your departure as painlessly as possible and does not want to kill you, at least in the first five minutes of the conversation.
There are no such feelings as there were before
A phrase that attacks the common, modern opinion that love does not last forever. In a sense, you can show a girl that feelings are fading. This is especially useful if she was naive and believed that you were sent to her from heaven. Many books claim that feelings can go away. People’s revelations also tell us that “there are no such feelings as there were during the first date.” Every girl guesses this, but hides these fears deep inside. It’s easier to live this way than to tremble every day, crossing out a three-year calendar, at the end of which love will surely die. If we hit this place, we will provoke her personal growth, which we can then brag about to our friends. And her suffering will pass faster, since subconsciously she was ready for such an outcome.
Understand, now you think I'm the one, but by dating me, you might miss out on true love.
Sweet honey for a girl's ears. The natural reaction would be refusal, but the phrase itself is a classic Trojan horse. Accepting it with refusal, the girl will emotionally load your words, and later, having understood them, she will understand that there is a prince who is waiting for her, and you were only his likeness. The embedded meaning conveys the message to her - “you need to look for someone else, why waste time to suffer." This is a modernized phrase that does not cause aggression due to its originality: “You will find something better for yourself.”
Sorry honey, I'm not a sadist. My love is gone, and if we don’t part, I will torment you with this. I can't do this
With this phrase you will show that you still care about her, and make it clear that if she does not let you go, it will be worse for her. There will be no more flowers on Fridays, anniversary celebrations, gifts and attention. In general, everything a girl needs. At the same time, you mean that you don’t want such a life for her. You stay for her good friend who protects her. They love it.
If we continue to be together, we may break up and hate each other, and I don’t want to lose a person like you, so it’s better to break up now
Another modernization, this time of the banal: “Let’s remain friends.” The difference is that you are describing the prospects of friendship, which, by the way, may never come true, you both know it. But you give it to her nice words, which will be her soft pillow. The standard manifestation of care in the form of “I don’t want to lose a person like you” works very well for her social memory, laid down by many generations, as well as films about love, songs and poems. And again, you are a hero, you see the danger and prevent it. Overall, he deserved applause!
Sorry, I've changed. I realized that relationships are not for me. I'm attracted to other girls, but I don't want to ruin your life by cheating
“Oh, you’re so caring, stop it!” - this is not what you will hear from her after this phrase, but still, you are declaring that you are frank and honest, which in itself is a manifestation of care and respect towards her. There is nothing to blame you for, you are a free person and live as you want. If you want others, you have the right.
There is no universal magic phrase that will make you fall out of love painlessly. The girl is a living person with her own emotions, we can only soften and shorten her suffering in time.
Breakups only hurt if it's your first. And then from numerous breakups it just becomes boring.
Parting is terrible not because you are then left alone and want to die... It’s scary - you gave a person a part of yourself - and he took it with him. Forever. A piece of soul...
Painful experiences destroy rose-colored castles. A person becomes a realist. And in general, breakups help you move forward and find true love.
She thought - at least get through. Tell him that you love him. To apologize. And hear - everything will be fine. And he... didn’t even pick up the phone.
If you abandoned someone, don’t become enemies. Write sometimes, call. If they abandoned you, have pride. Disappear from the person's life. Don't bother him. After breaking up, you will find something better - but he won’t.
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The confidence that you are loved softens the suffering of separation. The last “sorry” even loses its bitterness when the echo of love is still heard in it. Joseph Addison
Hypocritical love is worse than hatred.
We must willingly let go of the future we planned in order to accept the life that awaits us. Joseph Campbell
Of course, time heals, but when you heal, it will leave you too...
But is it possible to judge for feelings?
The best moment of love is when you go up the stairs to your beloved. Georges Clemenceau
Separations and meetings are the two main parts from which happiness will someday emerge.
When you want everyone to leave, it’s easier to leave yourself.
After separation, the hardest thing is simply accepting the fact that something happened in your life that should never have happened.
It sometimes happens that life separates two people - only to show both how important they are to each other.
Look at life from the front, Windshield, and not through the back. Bird Baggett
The absence of your presence in my life no longer bothers me.
From love for a woman everything beautiful on earth was born.
But there is passion in scandals... Alan Titchmarsh.
And the warm spring shower will wash away your traces, and I will be able to breathe easily as before...
A breakup is not a one-time action; you will have to get used to this state every day, again and again. Dawsance Creek
God is closest to the broken-hearted. Jewish proverb
The flame of love ultimately smacks of cold loneliness.
That this “bad” always turns out for those whom we least want to offend...
Friends say that if you love someone, you should let her go, but they don't say anything about what to do if she doesn't come back.
Condemn? Don’t forgive... A man’s sketch from the phrase “I don’t forgive.” I will never forgive this.” a phrase that has firmly settled in the mind and is a preamble to the fact that the man has firmly decided that this is the end - after all, She managed to do me bad.
It is difficult for those captured by love to overcome the torment.
There are things on Earth for which it is impossible to forgive... Murder. Betrayal…
We don't want something to happen but we have to accept it, we don't want to know about something but we have to study it, and there are people we can't live without but we have to let go.
Break. Everything happens suddenly. A minute ago you were walking down the street together, holding hands, and now you are sitting on the floor, legs crossed, helplessly shedding tears.
Love is like a puzzle. When you're in love, all the parts fit together perfectly, but once the feelings have passed or you've been dumped, it takes forever to put them all together.
It’s better to strangle me, don’t torment me - meet occasionally... take away your sadness-frost... it will be better this way - we will be the best - staying apart
Time heals troubles and quarrels, we change and are no longer who we were. Pascal
Any exit is an entrance somewhere. Tom Stoppard
To love someone means to give them freedom, to let them go. Kate Winslet
The ability to forgive quietly and confidently move on is a gift from the Lord; and from myself.
They say that time heals any wounds, but it still doesn’t stop me from thinking most of the time about how much I miss you. Ezbez Wilder
I want to open the window and shout so that the whole city can hear: “I’m happy without you, do you hear?!”
I made a choice and my little world shook. So what? My choice of future direction may be wrong, but my decision to change my life is not. I just have to move on with my life. Stephen Sondheim
You won't know what true love is until you want to get rid of it.
But what should I do if I probably know that the deepest egoism lies at the basis of all human virtues? And the more virtuous the deed, the more egoism there is. Love yourself is one rule that I recognize. Life is a commercial transaction... F. M. Dostoevsky
By rejecting love, a person not only rejects God, but also loudly calls out to the devil.
Whoever managed to receive a kiss deserves to lose what was given to him if he does not get the rest. How much was left to do after the kiss to fulfill all your desires.
Why don't we fall in love with someone new every month? Because if we parted, we would have to lose a piece of our own heart. - Sigmund Freud
First you fall in love with him, then you kiss him, and then you shed tears for him. The usual story.
In separation, three-quarters of the grief is taken by the one who remains, while the one who leaves takes away only one-quarter. Ibn Hazma
People sometimes want to leave in order to be able to yearn, wait and rejoice at their return. Janusz Wisniewski. Loneliness on the Internet
Always hidden in every separation new meeting. Leonid Solovyov
Friendship needs time, love needs space. Mikhail Zadornov
When people leave, let them go. Fate excludes the superfluous. This doesn't mean they are bad. This means that their role in your life has already been played.
When someone has hurt you or offended you, cry a whole river of tears, build a bridge and cross it to the other side.
True love has no happy ending because it never ends. Therefore, let your past say Forgive - and Goodbye!
The whole magic of first love lies in the fact that you don’t yet know that there will be a second one. Benjamin Disraeli
When it all ends, the pain of parting is proportional to the beauty of the love experienced. It is difficult to withstand this pain, because the person immediately begins to be tormented by memories.
That is why we must endure separation calmly, because everyone is separated for a long time, even from those who are close. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)
Like the fruit of a tree, life is sweetest just before it begins to fade. N. M. Karamzin
What is just above the heart? Soul? Are they leaving there?
You can communicate with absent friends as often and for as long as you like. When we are apart, we enjoy this communication even more. Living side by side makes us spoiled, and although we sometimes sit together, walk and talk together, when we go our separate ways, we stop thinking about those we just saw. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)
Don’t worry if, after a loving separation, you feel empty - the sun also plunges into darkness every night, only to shine again the next morning and warm everyone with its warmth.
What is the opposite of the two? My loneliness, your loneliness. Richard Wilbur
There is no need to miss and pine for someone from your past. After all, there are very real reasons why they are not present in your present and future.
Breaking up is never easy, but staying in a dead relationship is never easier. Your strength is measured not by how you cling to the past and to what will never be, but by how ready you are for separation. Len Santos
I thought we'd be perfect partners, not perfect killers of each other.
Forgive yourself for your mistakes and let go of your guilt, otherwise simply don’t expect anything good from the future. Les Brown
Distance is not so scary when it is in kilometers of the earth, and not in kilometers of the soul.
The most short night- before parting, the saddest messenger is dawn. Someone, having regretted everything, will say: “goodbye,” but there is no road to the past... Bernard Weber
Trying to forget someone means remembering him all the time. Reflections and memories only strengthen love. Jean de La Bruyère
Your blackened faces, the pain you carry everywhere. Your funny discovery - that love is not located in the head, but just above the heart - it hurts and hurts there..
Separation reduces moderate love and increases strong love, just as the wind extinguishes a candle and fans the fire. La Rochefoucauld
Separation is for love like the wind is for fire: it extinguishes the weak, and fans the great. Roger de Bussy-Rabutin
A sure way not to go crazy in other circumstances: remember the unreality of everything around you and not part with it. – Emil Michel Cioran
Friendship is not such a pathetic flame that it can go out in separation. Johann Christoph Friedrich Schiller
Sometimes all that remains of a person are memories, but everywhere...
Temporary separation is useful, because constant communication creates the appearance of monotony. Karl Marx
Love has its own honor. Once you lose her, love ends.
And you know, the fact that we broke up is probably even better, because someone left their feelings in the past...
Yes, you have suffered a loss. But it's better than if you had nothing to lose at all.
A breakup does not always mean the end, but is often a stepping stone for upward mobility. - Erich Maria Remarque.
Absence only increases the power of those we love. Romain Rolland
In both friendship and love, sooner or later the time comes to settle scores. Bernard Show
Bitter separation makes the poor lovers decidedly mute. William Shakespeare
The consequences of a breakup depend on how long and sincere the feelings were. – Georges Elgozy
It sometimes happens that life separates two people - only to show both how important they are to each other. Paulo Coelho
Death is easier than separation. Death is just a moment; in separation we suffer all our lives. Abdurrahman Nureddin ibn Ahmad Jami
The separation must be sudden. Benjamin Disraeli
Only if you finally break up with a person do you begin to be truly interested in everything that concerns him. - Erich Maria Remarque
The cure for hatred is separation. Przekruj
Without you my life is a waiting room. - Frederick Beigbeder.
Don't cry because everything has already happened, but laugh because it happened to you.
I don’t want to lose you, but I don’t want to use you just to have someone next to me. Patty Smith
I absolutely don’t know why life is so short. So as not to get bored, of course, because life is also an artistic work of the creator himself in the final and impeccable form of Pushkin’s poem. Brevity is the first condition of artistry. But if anyone is not bored, they should be allowed to live longer. F. M. Dostoevsky
In order not to part, people bind themselves with chains, although they must not break their thread. Maxim Valerievich Vulkanov
I love your funny conversations. Your confused look, your inflamed look.
I lived for two days without seeing you, and thereby proved that I am able to endure anything. George Bernard Shaw
Perhaps part of love is knowing when to leave.
When you forgive and just walk away from your ex-love, you acquire an invisible but powerful charge of positive energy. Eugenia Tripputti
Separation weakens a slight infatuation, but intensifies a greater passion, just as the wind extinguishes a candle, but fans the fire. Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Some friends are good at a distance, others close; those who are not very suitable for conversation can be excellent at correspondence. Distance smooths out flaws that are unbearable in close communication. Baltasar Gracian y Morales
To love passionately is, of course, wonderful, but to love selflessly is even better... Only those who are loved even in their weaknesses and in their misfortunes are truly loved. To have mercy, to forgive, to console - this is the whole science of love.
Love is fire, longing for happiness. Every creature is subordinate to its irresistible power.
All rejected lovers should have the right to a second try - with someone else. – Mae West
Sometimes changing your phone number only changes the life of one person. The one who will never call again.
The extreme opposite of love is not separation, not jealousy, not oblivion, not self-interest, but quarrel. Lope de Vega
Love has a bad habit - it always passes.
Only a man who respects a woman can break up with her without humiliating her. – William Somerset Maugham
You were so cold.. that I was afraid of catching a cold..
The best way to forget about your broken heart is time and friends. Gwyneth Paltrow
I know for sure that love will pass,
Don't cry when the sun has set, otherwise your tears will prevent you from enjoying the stars. Violeta Parra
If humanity knew about its future, it would not laugh so much when parting with its past. – Shenderovich Viktor Anatolyevich
When two hearts are separated by the sea. Lope de Vega
All the joys of earth are brightened by the opportunity to be among friends. The bitterest torment in the world is separation from close friends. Abu Abdallah Jafar Rudaki
It all started as usual and ended as usual. Big and bright love was canceled due to technical reasons.
