The most important rule: do not consider yourself smarter than your enemies and do not rely too much on your friends - betrayal always lives next to them.

It is impossible to be good in this life. Once you offer help, they start looking for a catch. If you accept help, you run into betrayal!

A person who has committed treason lives in endless torment, constantly expecting retribution... (Fazil Iskander)

False comrades are nearby when the sun shines brightly, but as soon as the shadows appear, betrayal is born.

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Centuries flow like an endless river, space and the universe change, but the rotten essence of betrayal remains the same.

Only true comrades will go through not only your joy, but also your tears!

It is much better to love your friends more than to hate your enemies more.

In the animal world there is no betrayal, treachery, or betrayal. Alas, only people are inherent in the disgusting!

Don’t be afraid to offend your friend with the truth - no one but you can do this!

“Judas Iscariot, when he realized that he was a traitor, hanged himself. Luckily for you, you’re not very intelligent at all.”

Keep your friends with you and you will keep your enemies.

A friend is one soul living in two bodies.

A man can forgive a woman everything - betrayal, stupidity, even betrayal. The only thing that a Man will never forgive a Woman is superiority over himself...

Two are more than You and Me. Two are Us...

It’s good when a dog is a friend, it’s bad when a friend is a dog...

You and I were an absolutely perfect couple. I am perfection, you are ideal :-)

Betrayals are most often committed not due to deliberate intention, but due to weakness of character

The soul that has committed betrayal perceives any surprise as the beginning of retribution

A betrayed friend is a friend who has been betrayed...

The only thing worse than an enemy is a traitor...

A true friend is someone who will hold your hand and feel your heart...

Pain. Betrayal. Resentment. Silenced the beating of the heart, I recognized this power, Revenge... yes! Her name is!

I'll get burned, but I'll leave a smoke for a friend

Friendship is when you arrive half an hour late, knowing that no one will be offended by you, and you see that no one is there yet.

The wider you open your arms, the easier it is to crucify you

It is not the lack of love, but the lack of friendship that makes marriages unhappy.

“A friend is not the one who will jump out of the window after you, but the one who will catch you from below...”

Trust is the first condition of friendship. (Jean de La Bruyère)

Cheating is the most cruel betrayal towards a loved one, because of which it hurts so much that life becomes black and white, and the world simply ceases to exist!

“I don’t need a hundred friends... I don’t need a hundred rubles!” I need a friend who will give me a thousand.”

looking at animals, one becomes ashamed of people... anger, betrayal, hatred are characteristic only of humans..

“The most wonderful gift given to people after wisdom is friendship.”

Betrayal is pain, whatever you call it, there is no resentment, because it is stupid to be offended, no anger, because it is a waste of energy... Just aching pain!!!

A true friend is like a bra - close to the heart and always supports...:-D

if there is noise and fighting somewhere, if bottles are being broken, if girls are screaming, it means our people are drinking

My friendship is great: I swore at him for half an hour - it never happened again!!!

Friendship based on business is better than business based on friendship.

Betrayal, like the law, has no retroactive effect

Never alienate your friends, much less your enemies.

Betrayals are most often committed not out of deliberate intention, but out of weakness of character.

YOU CAN'T BUILD YOUR OWN HAPPINESS ON OTHER PEOPLE'S MISCELLANEOUS

Unite people! Look: zero is nothing, but two zeros already mean something.

Friendship, like life, is a complicated thing. But if life passes, then true friends remain...

The most vile crime is abusing a friend's trust.

Friends - how good health: you don’t appreciate it until you lose it.

A dog is man's friend. I had a friend...a dog 😀

After losing her best friend Illusion, she met another woman Reality, but their relationship did not work out.

Why do people who are usually protected with their breasts get stabbed in the back?

There is no mercy for a person who betrays friendship.8oI

Finding a good friend is only half the battle, you also need to be one yourself.

Friendship is love without wings. (Byron)

The betrayal of a friend cannot be forgiven... but in the future we must take into account that in life there will still be such scum..

Betrayal is a blow to the ribs that you are not prepared for...

A friend is someone who knows the melody of your heart and can sing it when you forget the words!!!

One of the common basenesses is to blame absent friends in order to please others.

You don’t need to have friends... You need to be friends with them.

If a Boy follows you persistently, This boy is blue, Which is very dangerous) 😀

Yes, we are not perfect, so what? but we are perfect for each other!

Each of us is an angel, but with only one wing. And we can only fly by hugging each other

LET'S LET'S HAVE A DRINK, FRIEND!!)))

Friends, they may not be alike. But friends will always see support in each other’s eyes...

All the nasty things your worst enemy can say to your face are nothing compared to what your best friends say about you behind your back.

Your best friend is your pillow. Trust your pillow, not your girlfriend. 😀

A friendship that ended never actually began :-)

a friend is that person who knows everything about you but nevertheless loves you!!!

Friends come and go, but enemies accumulate.

Women's friendship exists as long as the interests of women do not intersect!

Much makes sense as long as there are people with whom you can drink tea in the attic and sip martinis on the roof.©.

Before they come to visit you, real friends will first ask: “Do you have anything to eat?”

if you have friends, then they have you...

Friends are people who will remind you of your mistakes all your life and laugh at them!…

There is no justice in this life... you want what’s best, you help people, but you come across betrayal and mistrust.

The soul that has committed betrayal perceives any surprise as the beginning of retribution. (Fazil Iskander)

betrayal is the worst thing you can expect from loved one.

the first betrayal taught me not to trust first impressions

If all my friends are jumping from a bridge, then instead of jumping with them, I will catch them under the bridge.

Friends are known in times of need... or when you need guarantors...

If things get tough in life, look at your friend’s face))

It's good to have a dog as a friend. But when your friend is a dog...

...it is only with their tacit consent that betrayal and murder exist on earth.

Let better leg shakes a shoe like a scoundrel shakes your hand!

I will drive away the dull pain that hurts my heart like a knife. I could forgive everything, but not betrayal and lies!

A friend can be closer than a brother, and a brother is more than a friend...

Thank you friends for having me!!!

Lie at least once - say that I am your friend...

Evil enemies do not bother us as much as cunning friends!!!

People love to call the most vile things by noble names. For example, betrayal is called a tactical necessity, and lying is called protective mimicry.

Betrayal, like the law, has no retroactive effect

A person cannot go without communication for a long time; he needs to discuss what he saw, heard, consult, and brag. But it is impossible to approach the first person you meet and dump your joys and problems on him. That's why we have friends and family.

Every girl has a close friend with whom she shares her innermost secrets and desires. But often life presents an unpleasant surprise - your best and most beloved friend betrays you.

For a person who does not expect anything bad, the betrayal of a friend is a knife in the back, an event that horrifies and drives. All people are different, some experience the situation in their souls, others go into depression, stop believing people, others vomit and rush.

So what is betrayal? Is your friend deceiving, keeping secrets, revealing your secrets to a third party, or maybe seducing your boyfriend? Be that as it may, and no matter how serious the offense on her part is, it is a betrayal. This attitude towards friendship is unacceptable and sooner or later it happens conflict situation which leads to a major quarrel.

What’s better: forget and communicate as before, forgive and stop communicating, or maybe take revenge? Hurt her as much as it hurts you now?

What to do if your friend betrayed you?

Psychologists advise not to take revenge, even if you want to. Need to be treated ex-girlfriend with indifference, ignore her. For a traitor, the fact that nothing has changed in your life will be unpleasant, you continue to live calmly and happily. Such a punishment will be severe for any person; such behavior will hurt more than any revenge.

If, nevertheless, revenge clouds your reason and you want to humiliate your ex-girlfriend, you can disgrace her. Making a mockery of other people is an easy method of revenge - you know about all the secrets of your ex-girlfriend. You can even do this carefully and anonymously so that people do not judge you, you know the weaknesses and disadvantages of this person. But do you really want to be like her? What is this for?

If your friend puts you in an unpleasant light in front of others, do not rush to do the same to her, approach the situation wisely. If a friend spreads untrue rumors about you, appeal them. Thus, the ex-girlfriend will appear as a liar and a gossip. If your friend reveals the deepest secrets that you told her, act in such a way that everyone will take it as a joke. If the traitor laughed at you in front of mutual friends, laugh with them, then the situation will go away, and your friend will look stupid.

All this is very unpleasant, but nothing really terrible happened, even if strangers found out your secrets. Soon everything will be forgotten, people have their own problems. But both you and others will know that the person who betrayed you...

If you decide to remind your ex-friend of her betrayal, do not lose sight of the fact that when you do dirty tricks on another person, no one goes unpunished. This rule works throughout a person’s life. If you do and send negativity into the environment, then it will definitely come back to you in the future. Let go of the situation and forgive your friend.

How to behave with a friend who betrayed you?

First of all, pull yourself together. If you don’t want to part with your friend, then take a closer look and watch her. After some time after such a decision, you will feel whether it is worth communicating with this person further.

Figure out why your friend treated you this way? What if this situation is also your fault? If the traitor asks to listen to her, agree and let her explain her behavior.

Women are emotional and therefore friendship between them constantly encounters various problems, which sometimes lead to quarrels, conflicts and showdowns.

To avoid possible misunderstandings and make sure that there was a place for betrayal, carefully consider the situation:

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Women are impulsive in life. This character trait leads to rash actions in moments of rage and despair, which are later regretted. Therefore, first of all, calm down, think about it, and only then take action against your friend.
Sometimes people make mistakes, so understand the situation. Maybe your friend didn’t want to betray you, it’s just the way the circumstances turned out.
If your friend did something bad to you consciously, try to understand why this happened. Maybe you could have offended her and acted wrongly towards her.

Only after you fully understand the situation, accept correct solution, which will allow you to get out of the situation with minimal losses. If your friend acted deliberately, then it is better to break off the relationship with such a person. Such people cannot be trusted. If you decide to forgive the traitor, then over time a similar situation may repeat. Of course, this does not mean that you need to completely remove it from your life. Communicate with her, be in the same company, but show that you no longer trust her.

How to forgive a friend?

The opinions of most psychologists agree on one thing: in case of betrayal, it is best to simply forget it, erase it from your life. This is better for you. By forgiving, you let go of the situation and the stone from your soul, and life becomes simpler and easier.

Every person in life can make a mistake in their actions at least once. Maybe she didn’t want to do this, but now she wants to correct the situation and make peace with you. And if you decide to continue the relationship, you don’t need to remind your friend of your mistakes every time and reproach her for the offense she committed. Over time, you will understand your friendship and understand whether it can be trusted further.

Why do friends betray?

To answer this question, first of all, let’s understand the psychology of betrayal. There are cases when a person unknowingly betrays a friend. And this happens not only with friends, but also with other close and dear people. Sometimes a person does not understand that he is betraying close friend, and the payback is always very unpleasant.

People living at the present time misunderstand the meaning of some things and words, since it was incorrectly laid down for them. That is why such situations arise and serious problems arise in life. Most people understand that they did something wrong only when they are old, and this is a sad fact.

Betrayal by a friend is a nuisance in a girl’s life. If you look at this story from reverse side, then everything is not so terrible.

After analyzing the situation, you will understand how important this person is to you as a friend. After all, she was able to cause you a lot of pain, and even your friendship did not stop her. Even though you have lost your friend, there is no need to be upset. You don't need that kind of friendship. If you have a part in the betrayal, just learn a lesson and don’t make similar mistakes in the future.

For every person, the betrayal of a loved one brings grief and disappointment. Most people say that betrayal from someone close to you cannot be forgiven. If you look at it, each case is individual, and it is you who should make the decision, not someone else. Only a sober look at the problem will allow you to do the right thing.

When you can’t deal with betrayal on your own, it’s best to turn to a psychologist who will help you make the right decision and teach you not to be angry with your friend.

The main thing to remember is that there is no need to cry or worry after such situations. You are surrounded by people who are capable of truly being friends, take a closer look. Yes, even when forgiving a betrayed person, it is difficult to forget the very fact of betrayal and it is difficult to start trusting other people again. But you need to live on and it’s better to do it with a light soul and without the burden of revenge on your heart.

There can never be too many friends, there can only be many acquaintances. And there will only be one best friend. We offer you a selection of statuses, quotes and aphorisms about friends. Some of them will help you understand what true friendship is and what a fine line it has, while others will amuse you and lift your spirits. We are sure that in humorous statuses about friends, almost everyone will recognize themselves or their friends!

Friendship is a relationship that a person becomes immersed in as a child. While playing in the yard, children begin to make friends, then friends appear in kindergarten, at school, and among students. At work, finding a friend is already much more difficult; as a rule, by this time a person already has friends, and possibly experience of betrayal, so he is in no hurry to let someone get too close to him. In addition, the spirit of championship and competition is always in full swing at work, so it’s good if friends are not connected by a common type of activity - then they have nothing to share.

Friends are not just people you can meet to chat and have fun. Friends are, first of all, people to whom you are ready to open your soul. A true friend will never envy, but on the contrary, will only rejoice at the achievements of his friend. A friend is a person who always speaks the truth, perhaps even criticizes in private, but in front of others he will never dare to talk about the shortcomings of his friend. A friend is a person who believes in you, who can give you a magic kick and tell you that everything will work out for you!

It's strange that we are afraid to be friends with those with whom we shared the best moments of this short life. Who else can we be?

It happens that friends with whom you have lived a lot highlights, they just become acquaintances...

Friends should be valued regardless of their origin. (Kate Morton)

Friends are much more valuable than diamonds.

A true friend is always by your side. He shares your joys and sorrows. When you are in trouble, he is always ready to sacrifice himself for you, without thinking about the consequences, without expecting a reward, you rarely come across such friends, if you meet him, take care of him. It is your strength. (From the movie Rebel Spirit)

A true friend is support and moral support, but he does not expect benefits and always helps unselfishly.

The best cure for melancholy is meeting with friends.

With friends, the world becomes brighter and life more fun.

It's not hard to die for a friend. It's hard to find a friend worth dying for.

True friends are ready to do anything for each other.

In friendship, unlike in love, friendship requires obligatory reciprocity. And equality at all costs. But not in the sense of sameness. (I. Efremov)

Friends are the same in their rights, but in tastes they can be different.

A friend in need is a friend indeed. (Russian folk proverb)

Understand who is next to you a true friend or not, only difficulties and trials will help.

If you went to visit a friend, then the sight of his children even before you entered the house will tell you whether you are considered a friend. If the children greet you joyfully, you can be sure that your friend loves you and you are dear to him. But if his children did not come out to meet you, it means that your friend does not want to see you. Then turn around and return home without hesitation. (Menander)

Now I’m waiting for my friend to finally have children, I want to check if he’s happy to see me...

Everyone sympathizes with the misfortunes of their friends, and only a few rejoice at their successes. (O. Wilde)

A true friend will never envy, he will only be happy with all the successes of his comrade.

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In a circle of true friends there can be no sharp corners.

Among friends there are no traitors, liars and gossips.

Where is the wise and true friend? Become one yourself!

To have a good friend, you must first become one yourself.

Who himself good friend, he also has good friends.

Your friends are a reflection of you.

A true friend is the person to whom you don’t need to say “make yourself at home.” He's already at the refrigerator.

A friend and his family are something like close relatives.

Friends are those people who hate your ex more than you...

Friends are ready to tear up anyone who hurt you.

Probably, each of us has a “pen pal” who lives far from us, but at the same time knows more about us than those who live nearby.

Because he doesn’t know anyone from your circle, and won’t tell anyone anything, which means he won’t betray you.

Friendship is not 538 friends on the site, but one friend in life, whom you won’t give a damn about, because you’ll have to go there with her, so as not to worry about how she’ll get there.

They don’t send friends, because they may never return.

True friends are friends who won't let you do stupid things alone.

True friends will either talk you out of stupid things or go with you to do them.

About betrayal

You won't understand anything about friendship until the friend who was the best betrays you.

To become real, friendship must go through difficulties. If one cannot stand them and betrays them, then there was no friendship...

When you're in a car, with money -
Friends rock you in their arms.
When you buy them wine -
They laugh with you at the same time...
You give gifts, you rush to them,
You worry and value friendship.
You come and help them in trouble.
You're crying... Where are your friends today?
When you don't have a car, but are in debt.
When not above the ground, but at the feet.
Take a closer look at who's next to you,
Is this a friend given by fate?
And those who laughed in unison
And we spent a million with you,
Today they will also laugh,
It’s up to you to discuss with your enemy.

The more money you have, the more “friends” you will have...

When friendship begins to weaken and cool, she always resorts to increased politeness.

They don’t stand on ceremony with friends and they don’t get offended by anything, because that’s how they are, but with acquaintances you have to treat them politely...

Friends are not capable of evil, otherwise they are accomplices.

And if one friend is capable of causing harm to another, then he is a traitor.

There is no enemy more cruel than a former friend. (Andre Maurois)

After all, he knows so much about you...

An enemy is usually made out of a friend.

From friendship to enmity, as well as from love to hatred, there is one step.

Do not make acquaintances with those who betrayed old friends - just as they betrayed old ones, so they will betray new ones.

Don’t make friends with him, don’t expose yourself to betrayal.

Why do those who, as a rule, protect with your chest, stab in the back?

A friend is the closest, and at the same time the most a dangerous person, because he knows everything about you.

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Mom was right. It's better to have a hundred friends than a hundred toys. Especially when your friends are as funny as Petya. (From the song V. Thunder Ship)

Only out of these hundred will only one be the best.

There is only one person you can rely on.
- I thought there were two of us. (From the movie Dr. House)

In friendship, two people must be confident in each other.

True friendship is when the message “I’m sick” is answered with “Are you nuts??”

After all, there were so many joint plans...

Girlfriend is a news service, a liquor store and a psychological support center rolled into one!

Sometimes this is also a stylist, makeup artist and... spy...))

A true friend is not the one who sympathizes in trouble, but the one who shares your joy without envy.

“Suddenly the sky bent lower, and the rain began to knock on the roofs...” - what a country, everyone knocks, even the rain!

Pain. Betrayal. Resentment. Silenced the beating of the heart, I recognized this power, Revenge... yes! Her name is!

Damn the world where betrayal is called practicality.

She was devoted, but she became betrayed... just one letter that can break a person...

She was ready for betrayal from anyone. Except yourself.

There are three things in life that you can never predict, these are..... Love, Betrayal and Death.

Believe in true love, friendship without betrayal and in Santa Claus...

Erase everything from your memory, forget your promises, spit out poison with the taste of betrayal. How many days and nights will it take this time for the wound to heal?

I always didn’t understand people talking about betrayal of friends, I believed my own. Yesterday I found out what they think about me. Knife in the back...

You say smoking is the most bad habit? But what about hypocrisy, betrayal, egocentrism?

Friends need to be chosen wisely. If there was betrayal, then in any case this person was not your friend...

The soul that has committed betrayal perceives any surprise as the beginning of retribution.

A woman does not cheat in two cases: if she believes that her man is the best, or if she believes that they are all the same.

Behind everyone successful man A woman's love is worth it. Behind every successful woman's career is the betrayal of men.

The owner abandoned the bunny. The bitch deceived the bunny. I played and forgot. Broke the bunny's heart. He started drinking and became depressed, but did not resign himself to the insult. From the mistress's betrayal. The bunny turned into a monster. He took revenge on her cruelly. I chopped it into cabbage. Because you really need to respect other people's feelings.

A golden man is easier to sell.

Of all the men who are incapable of betrayal, I have only my father...

It is the betrayal of a loved one that makes you think about those around you...

Sometimes you don’t know what’s better, losing a friend or forgiving her for her betrayal...

Judas Iscariot, when he realized that he was a traitor, hanged himself. Luckily for you, you are not very intelligent at all.

Each stab in the back has its own face.

How damn good are you in the intervals between betrayals...

I swear to never fall in love again, because my heart can no longer handle betrayal. I swear!! I want to forget the word PAIN forever... I can... you hear, I CAN!!!

Lie. Deception. Betrayal. Growing up is hard work. We see everything, but we don’t want to understand.

People love to call the most vile things by noble names. For example, betrayal is called a tactical necessity, and lying is called protective mimicry.

The world is full of similar stories. Life, love, betrayal, revenge, escape - all this is boring and has already happened...

We overcome difficulties with ease, we courageously endure betrayals and endure insults, we laugh in the face of troubles and walk with our heads held high, but the choice of dress for the evening often drives us to hysterics...

You cannot forgive betrayal, lies and betrayal!!! Especially friends!

No mortal can keep a secret. If his lips are silent, his fingertips speak; betrayal seeps out of him through every pore.

There is nothing to be done - either we indulge in love, or love betrays us.

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Is there anything more offensive than being betrayed by a friend? Girlfriends may behave poorly for a number of reasons, many of which have nothing to do with you. She may be jealous of you, secretly annoyed with you, or suffering from low self-esteem.

It is not necessary to find out the cause of betrayal in order to cope with it. Here are some tips on how to get over your friend's betrayal and regain balance in your life.

Clarify what type of betrayal you are dealing with

What one would call betrayal, another would perceive differently. Find out whether your friend's actions were truly a betrayal and give yourself some time to reflect. When you finally respond, let it be from a place of forgiveness and strength.

Learn to forgive even if you end a friendship

The first step to leaving a friendship behind is forgiveness, especially when you don't feel like forgiving. Make the decision to forgive, process all the emotions that arise, and over time your feelings will transform. But the first thing to come is the decision to forgive.

If you are having difficulty forgiving, try the following exercise. Think of your heart as a container for all your emotions. Visualize the anger and hurt you feel because of your friend's betrayal and imagine how it takes up space in your heart. Now visualize a happy thought/image, such as meeting someone new girlfriend or the feeling of being in love.

Imagine how these happy thoughts and images try to fill the space of your heart. Watch how they lack space because of the anger and resentment that remains in their hearts from their friend’s betrayal.

While this visualization exercise may seem like a simplistic view of forgiveness, it can help you realize that the pain and negativity from your friend's betrayal should not linger in your heart, coloring the present moment or getting in the way of positive emotions altogether.

If you continue to hold onto a grudge, you are limiting your opportunities to experience good things in your life. Make a conscious decision to let go of any residual feelings of resentment until thoughts about your friend's action fade from your focus.

Are you continuing your friendship? Do not hurry

While it is admirable to be able to sincerely tell your friend that you have forgiven immediately, the reality is that it may take some time before you can consciously return to the friendship you had before. Moreover, the chances are that your friendship will never be the same again.

This does not mean that you will no longer have any friendships, but you will have to give your emotions time to mature so that you can return to previous relationships. Just because you've forgiven her doesn't mean your friend has regained your trust. While you shouldn't bring up her betrayal over and over again, you should be careful not to say that you've "figured yourself out" when you haven't already.

Friendship can become stronger after betrayal, but this will not happen overnight. Your friend may sincerely want things to go back to the way they were before, but you should let her know that this process will be slow and you won't rush it. Meet with a friend and plan leisure time together, but “monitor” your feelings. The way you spend time together will likely be different than before.

For example, you may feel more comfortable if:

• You will be together in some company.
• You will limit your leisure time together (short dinner, meeting for coffee and no more, etc.).
• You will agree on some limits on topics of conversation if they are involved in betrayal. For example, if your friend slept with your ex, avoid the topic for a while. If she's been gossiping behind your back, be careful not to talk about other friends with her unless you're sure it's worth doing.

If it pains you to have to take these steps, it should be so! It is not easy to survive the betrayal of a friend, but there is nothing impossible about it. It is possible that you will have to explain to your friend what you need in order for there to be trust between you again.

For example, you might prefer that your friend stop calling you for mindless chat for a while because you don't care about the little things in her life. Or maybe it would be better if you go out to dinner with her instead of meeting at your or her place, because the cafe seems more neutral and safer for you. Express what you need in a gentle manner. Even though your friend betrayed you, your emotional background It will always be better if you behave with dignity and do not be fooled by pettiness or the desire to explain to her.

If you break up, do it without regret.

Ending a friendship is always difficult, even with someone who has treated you badly. You'll likely feel guilty about ending the relationship, which is why you'll want to make sure it's something you really want before you officially break up with your friend. But once you do, don't beat yourself up about your decision later.

It's hard to understand why some people we care about treat us badly, but don't beat yourself up about it. Bad behavior is something your friend has to deal with, not you. Give your emotions time to settle after a friendship breakup, and then go meet someone else.

The best way to get over your girlfriend's betrayal is to spend time with friends who treat you well or meet a few new ones. Add to this the processing, and the betrayal will be left behind, as well as any residual emotions that may be hidden somewhere deep inside you.