Being a grandparent is a great joy and happiness for many older people. But they all behave differently with their grandchildren. In this issue of the newspaper “In Retirement” we offer you a small test that will tell you what kind of grandmother you are. Try to treat the proposed characteristics with humor, especially since many of you will correspond to several of the proposed classic types at once. In the morning you are a restless grandmother, in the afternoon you are busy, and in the evening you turn into a mother hen...
The most ordinary grandmother
- You are always ready to help and will find a solution to any situation.
- You do not always accept the rules of upbringing that are established for grandchildren by their parents, but you do not show active dissatisfaction.
- Always feed your grandchildren, sew on a button and “close your eyes” to small pranks.
Grandmother-mentor
You practically do not help your children in messing with your grandchildren, but you are always ready to point out improper upbringing.
. You study superficially various techniques education and then demand from your children that they strictly follow them.
. You won't get any pies or knitted hats, or any other help.
- Even for the sake of your grandchildren, you are not ready to leave your job, to which you have given your all.” best years life."
- You can allocate a maximum of a couple of hours on the weekend to communicate with your grandchildren.
- On weekdays, sometimes you are ready to answer your grandchildren’s questions by phone in the evening, but only if they call you.
Worried Grandma
You think that parents do not fully engage with their child: they do not take him to the theater and zoo, do not hire tutors and do not send him to hobby groups. In your opinion, the child should engage in a variety of activities and are ready to do everything for this.
- If your grandson gets sick, then a local pediatrician is not enough for you; you convene a consultation.
- Your children did not follow in your footsteps and did not become what you wanted to become? Then you will try to realize all your impossible dreams in your grandchildren.
Mother hen
- For you, your grandchildren come first and you are ready to give up everything for them at any moment.
- You keep the child’s parents away from everything possible: you yourself put the child to bed, read a fairy tale, and pick him up from kindergarten...
- You are sure that your upbringing methods are the most correct in the world and only thanks to you the child will become a real person.
Hello dear grandmother Anya!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father will be imprisoned. Because he said ouch to the policeman! And my daughter began to look like pigtails. This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the forest? My dear granny, give me a hair. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to look like a gun on its own. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we celebrate it well! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother Tanya!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father was imprisoned. Because he told the policeman Everyone is stupid!!!. And my mother began to look like a priest. This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the house? My dear granny, give me some panties. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to become a gun in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I look forward to seeing you for the New Year! I hope we have a good one! ! Bye bye!
I'm from Kazan too)))
somehow not very
MY PSYCHE IS FLYING
Hello dear grandmother Old woman at the entrance!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that they loved my father. Because he told the policeman Sashaaaaaaaa I love yaoi. And my Self has become like Chechnya. This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the Closet? My dear granny, give me a ChSV. For such a gift, I will be simply glad! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started on its own Roskomnadzor. Kick-ass huh? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it Hype! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother marijuana Ivanovna!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost fine, except that my father will be forced to sleep with the corporal. Because he told the policeman, “Oh, my leg hurts.” And my levi has become like a polynomial. That’s my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, have you gone to the ass of the world? My dear granny, give me anime figures. For such a gift I will be simply happy! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to go cold on its own. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we see it normal! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother Valya!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost fine, except that my father was almost killed. They wanted to die for what he told the policeman. And my mother became like a whisperer. This is my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the house? My dear granny, give me an eye. For such a gift I will be simply happy! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be cool in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it normally! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother Lucy (Lyudmila)!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father will be praised. For what he told the policeman, where will I fall from?. And my Apple has become like a lot. This is my news. How are you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the toilet? My dear granny, give me some brains. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started jumping on its own. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it normally! Bye bye!
A lot of mistakes. + 3
Hello dear grandma Luda!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that they stroked my father. Because he said damn to the policeman. And my Oksana became like a Drug Addict. This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to Most? My dear granny, give me an eye. For such a gift I will be simply glad! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started firing on its own. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it normally! Bye bye!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father was Raped. For what he said to the policeman Ppt. And my mom and dad started looking like Farts. That’s my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to prison? My dear granny, give me Shoes. I will be simply glad for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to become a pistol in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we’ll see it like that)! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother Tonya!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father was imprisoned for what he said to the policeman. And my sister began to look like a fool. This is my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the park? My dear granny, give me some money. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be accurate. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m looking forward to seeing you for the New Year! I hope we have a nice New Year! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother Larisa!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost fine, except that my father will be put in prison. For what he said to the policeman. And my sister has become like a pea. That’s my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the chair? My dear granny, give me some thoughts. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started firing on its own. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will meet it, I’ll think about it! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandma field!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father will be shot. For the fact that he told the policeman to f*ck. And my Sasha has become like an ass. That’s my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to my bed? My dear granny, give me a hair. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there !Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be heavy in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m looking forward to seeing you for the New Year! I hope we have a nice New Year! Bye bye!
+2
Hello dear grandmother Alla!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father was killed. Because he told the policeman how damn it hurt. And my fame has become like a finger. That’s my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the park? My dear granny, give me some sweets. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to turn rye on its own. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it normally! Bye bye!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father will be sent to prison. For what he told the policeman, Damn it. And my mother has become like Ty. This is my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the park? My dear granny, give me teeth. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be big in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will see it well! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandmother Nadya!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father was punished. For what he said to the policeman, I seem to be falling, falling aaaaaaaa. And my Boyfriend has become like a sausage! This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the cinema? My dear granny, give me some music. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel, or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun has become dangerous in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes have started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will meet it Zdorovsky! ! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandma
Augustine!
I'm fine, well almost
good, except that
My father was spanked. For that
what did he say to the policeman
Your mother. And my mother became
similar to Kuoska. These are the ones
news to me. How are you doing?
you? How is grandpa? By the way
did you go to the sky?
My dear granny give me
Thoughts for me. For such a gift
I'll be just glad! I'm waiting for you
send it by parcel or bring it
him to us in Kazan, just
Let's take a walk there! Imagine
our dacha neighbor's gun
started on its own
Ugly. Kick-ass huh? Oh
forgot to say that's fucked up
it means cool and terrible. A
everything is fine at the dacha. by the way
your tomatoes have started to grow.
We closed them for the winter
sawdust, are we right?
done? I'm waiting for you to come to us
New Year! I hope we have it
Let's meet Norm! Bye bye!
Hello dear grandma granny!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that they thanked my father: 3. For what he said to the policeman ahaha. And my stubborn one: 3 became like a stubborn one. This is my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, have you gone crazy? My dear granny, give me nothing. For such a gift I will be simply happy! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be big in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will see it cute;) ! Bye bye!
But I didn’t like the insert about my mother. +2 I WILL BE SORRY!!!
Hello dear grandmother Alla!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that they put my father in a corner. Because he told the policeman B+++b. And my mother began to look like GROSHIK (name). This is my news. How are you doing? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the water park? My dear granny, give me some flesh? !Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to look stupid in itself. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it normally! Bye bye!
Hello dear Grandma Rose!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost fine, except that my father was sent to the prison camp. For what he said to the policeman, damn it! And my dad became like squirrels in his pants. This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to the living room? My dear granny, give me your hand 0_0. For such a gift I will be simply glad! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there !Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be a big o.O. Kick-ass huh? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. And at the dacha everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will celebrate it, are you stupid? ! Bye bye!
Everything is fine with me, well, almost good, except that my father will be praised for what he said to the policeman. And my mother has become like a little brat. This is my news. How are things with you? How is grandpa? By the way, did you go to bed? My dear granny, give me problems. I will be simply happy for such a gift! I’m waiting for you to send it by parcel or bring it to us in Kazan, we’ll just have a walk there! Imagine our dacha neighbor’s gun started to be made of iron. Kick-ass, right? Oh, I forgot to say kick-ass, it means cool and terrible. But at the dacha, everything is fine. By the way, your tomatoes started to grow. We covered them with sawdust for the winter, did we do the right thing? I’m waiting for you to come to us for the New Year! I hope we will see it normal! Bye bye!
I didn’t like it either... +1
From generation to generation, the problems of mothers and grandmothers do not change. Both sides are convinced that they know better how to raise the baby. But it’s still worth stopping and thinking - do you understand and do everything correctly?
If your baby is still snoring in a stroller, it doesn’t matter, you will probably be interested in understanding what kind of grandmother you will make. To do this, answer the questions on the proposed test and see the result.
Test questions:
1. What did you think when you found out you were pregnant?
a) Finally it happened!!!
b) Someday it was bound to happen anyway.
c) What a horror! How could this happen?
2. Who was the first (after the doctor) to find out about your pregnancy?
and parents;
b) future dad;
c) girlfriend.
3. While expecting your baby to be born, you:
a) from the very first days they were proud of their position;
b) hidden until the last moment;
c) tried not to pay attention to all the changes.
4. A child is, first of all:
a) huge responsibility;
b) material costs;
c) a heavy burden.
5. What upsets you most is the lack of time?
a) for a child;
b) on friends and relatives;
c) on yourself.
6. You dream:
a) so that children never grow up;
b) you have no time to dream;
c) so that the child grows up faster.
7. How many children would you like to have?
a) the more, the better;
b) two or three;
c) one is enough.
8. Children need to be born:
a) the sooner the better;
b) how it will turn out;
c) first you need to get on your feet and live for yourself.
9. When you become a mother, you:
a) constantly worry about your child;
b) try to share worries with grandmothers;
c) you often forget that you even have a child.
10. How does your mother (mother-in-law) cope with the responsibilities of a grandmother?
a) she is a wonderful grandmother;
b) gives too much advice;
c) shirks his responsibilities.
11. In your opinion, a grandmother should:
a) do not interfere;
b) help when asked;
c) take on maximum care for the grandson.
12. As a child, your grandmother was:
a) second mother;
b) a close relative;
c) practically a stranger.
13. Do you think relatives should:
a) help each other;
b) meet on holidays;
c) do not interfere with each other’s lives.
14. Your mother:
a) is just beginning to live a normal life;
b) managed to live for pleasure;
c) doesn’t she really see that her personal life is already over?
Test results:
For each answer “a” give yourself five points, “b” three points, “c” - one point. And calculate the result.
From 70 to 56 points – grandmother is intrusive
You have a hypertrophied sense of responsibility. You are sure that no one but you knows how to act correctly. Now you live for the sake of your children. And when you become a grandmother, you will be ready to sacrifice everything for your grandchildren. But there is no guarantee that, having escaped from your care, the children will happily entrust you with raising their kids. Most likely, your excessive care and sacrifice will irritate you just as the intrusive advice of your mother or mother-in-law irritates you now. In general, to avoid disappointment in the future, you will need a bit of healthy selfishness. Start taking care of yourself, your beloved, right now, without waiting for a baby snoring peacefully in a stroller to make you a grandmother.
From 55 to 28 points - reasonable grandmother
You will be the most the best grandmother in the world. Your ability to find a compromise, to easily maneuver between your desires and the desires of others will help you find the one golden mean. Your grandchildren will adore you, and your children will appreciate your willingness to help without imposing your company on them.
Less than 28 points – grandma is selfish
You always think about yourself first. All your care for your grandchildren will be reduced only to duty calls about health and the transfer of gifts on holidays. So don't be surprised if they return the favor. In general, you can hardly count on tender, deep feelings and support. You are for the grandchildren best case scenario You will be a distant relative, or at worst, just a stranger. To change the situation, you will have to learn to consider the desires of others, and not just your own.
Of course, there are hardly many of our readers who already have grandchildren. However, the problems that arise between the younger generation and their grandparents worry many. So we highly recommend that you carefully slip this article to them. Look, their views on raising their grandchildren will be able to change at least a little!
Have you often come across tests designed for grandparents? I’ll say right away: there are not many of them. For some reason it is believed that if old man If he has sufficient life experience, he will also make a much better teacher than young parents. But, probably, many of you have already encountered the fact that this is not so. In general, it is a myth that love for grandchildren is stronger, wiser and completely devoid of selfishness, unlike love for children. And not every person is able to learn from mistakes.
Ideal options are rare: it is unlikely that a grandmother who has made a number of pedagogical mistakes while raising her son or daughter will decide to change her life principles at the end of her life. Moreover, most of them are firmly convinced that they are right for the simple reason that they are older, which means their children should continue to obey them while raising their own children. More than one family has suffered bloodshed in endless conflicts with the older generation over the upbringing of their grandchildren. Literally every second request from patients who come to a psychologist for family counseling is related to this topic.
The test, which was developed by St. Petersburg psychologist L.M. Pankova, is aimed at ensuring that the older generation, busy raising their grandchildren, answers the question: “Am I a good teacher?” The questions are simple, the situations are very vital, found in any family. The main thing is that the grandmother or grandfather agrees to answer them truthfully. This alone indicates a readiness to change something, correct something, and understand whether everything is being done correctly. This means that fathers and mothers have a chance to establish a constructive dialogue with the older generation allowed to raise them. And one more note: if some situations, due to the fact that your grandchildren are still small, have not yet happened in your life, then try to imagine your actions in the near future and still answer the question.
A child got into a fight with a classmate and you are urgently called to school. Your actions:
a) first of all, punish the child;
b) find out why the fight occurred and then determine the punishment;
c) first of all, talk to the class teacher.
While helping you clean, your child accidentally broke a vase. Your actions:
a) slap on the head;
b) an irritated phrase: “Get out of here, I can manage without your help!”;
c) try to calm the child down; it is possible that he did not do this on purpose.
You punished a child, and then realized that you had acted unfairly. Your actions:
a) remain silent so as not to lose your authority;
b) apologize to the child;
c) not only apologize, but also try to explain why you did what you did.
The child demands attention, overwhelms you with questions and requests, and you are tired. Your actions:
a) interrupt him with the phrase: “Give me at least a little rest”;
b) answer without thinking, frivolously, just to answer;
c) explain that you are very tired and ask to reschedule the conversation for another time, which you immediately set.
A child asks you to help him write an essay. Your actions:
a) write a draft for the child to rewrite;
b) strictly say: “Work yourself! This is the only way to learn something”;
c) help you choose a topic, select literature, and offer to write on your own.
A child asks to buy him an aquarium with fish (get a cat, a dog):
a) “No way, it will only take up your time!”;
b) Well, come on, if you want it so much, I’ll help you take care of the aquarium”;
c) “First of all, think about whether you have foreseen everything and how serious your aspiration is. We will buy fish, but remember that you and only you will have to take care of them.”
If you, dear grandparents, were honest when answering questions and did not show off in front of other household members and in front of yourself, then now you can calculate the results.
If you chose option “c” all six times, then you are a good teacher and an equally good psychologist. You critically evaluate yourself and the behavior of your grandchildren, do not boast of your age and life experience. At the same time, you have enough wisdom to act in such a way as not to break the child’s personality, so that whether he is 2 years old or 15 years old, he still wants to talk to you, respects and appreciates you. Feel free to give advice on raising your children; they have a lot to learn from you.
If you chose option “c” at least three times in six questions, then you need to reconsider your beliefs and habitual ways of reacting in some way. They do not always benefit your grandchildren, and even more so, they do not contribute to your mutual understanding. This is not to say that you are a bad teacher. Maybe you are let down by excessive emotionality and at first you act impulsively, and then regret it. Maybe you are too tired because you are trying to take on all the tasks in the house, trying to do everything and thinking that the children will simply disappear without you or do something wrong. Remember often that the most important thing you can give to younger generations is your wisdom, calmness and love. And love wise man is never blind.
If you have chosen option “c” less than three times, then you need to seriously think about your pedagogical techniques and methods of education. If you are ready to reconsider your position in the difficult task of raising grandchildren, then here is the first piece of advice: remember yourself as a child more often. It’s not easy, because it happened so long ago, but it’s necessary. Remember how you behaved during conflicts with your parents or with the older generation. Live those old situations as fully as possible, remember your sensations, words, feelings. What was the reaction from adults? What reaction would you most like then? Now compare your little self and your grandson or granddaughter and try to understand what can be changed or added to in your relationship with him?
They sent me an interesting test "Grandmothers and grandchildren"
You can determine whether raising your grandparents is beneficial or detrimental to your children using a test prepared by Bulgarian psychologists. Grandmothers can also answer the test questions honestly. Perhaps they will change something in their attitude towards their grandchildren.
I want to say that this test, like other similar tests, gives only an approximate and “averaged” answer. In life everything is a little different. So don't take it too seriously.
1. The child asks for ice cream or candy. Do grandparents find the strength to resist the request?
A) if before eating, then find it;
B) not always;
B) are not found.
2. The child scattered things and toys. What are your parents doing?
A) make a remark;
B) demand that everything be put in order immediately;
C) take on the cleaning themselves.
3. The grandson says bad words. How do grandparents react?
A) prohibit, explaining the reason;
B) punish;
C) do not pay attention or laugh.
4. How do they encourage their grandson to work?
A) personal example;
B) coercion;
C) on the contrary, they are freed from all labor.
5. What do you do if a child asks to buy a toy?
A) they buy only if he behaves well;
B) decide depending on the cost of the toy;
C) always fulfill a wish.
6. Do grandparents teach you to distinguish evil from good?
A) they don’t have enough time for this;
B) yes, trying to encourage goodness;
C) no, they believe that life will teach.
7. While helping to clean the apartment, the child broke his grandmother’s favorite cup. What is grandma's reaction?
A) does not hide his disappointment, but does not make any comments, helps to collect the fragments;
B) reads notations for a long time;
C) prohibits cleaning the apartment in the future.
8. How do grandparents feel about the child’s independence?
A) from an early age they are actively taught to self-service;
B) rejoice at this quality;
C) they believe that there is no need to poison childhood with worries.
9. B kindergarten, at school the child is involved in cleaning the area. How do grandparents look at this?
A) remind you that you need to try;
B) do not discuss this issue;
C) show displeasure.
10. You punished the child for an offense. How do your parents react to this?
A) adhere to neutrality;
B) approve of the punishment;
* Result
67-100 points. Your parents actively help you in raising your children and in shaping their good beginnings. They are quite strict and do not deviate from their principles.
33-66 points. Grandparents allow relaxation in raising their grandson. They do it involuntarily kind heart. Sometimes disobedience causes them resentment and irritation. Talk to them tactfully, naturally, in the absence of children. Explain that it is necessary to support the parenting model you have chosen. Contradictions will have a detrimental effect on children.
32 points or less. The love of grandparents for a child and the desire to fulfill his slightest whim are excessive. This is how a selfish, selfish person can grow up, who gray hair will exploit parents. It can also happen differently: such upbringing will give rise to laziness, lack of will, and helplessness.
