There are many popular beliefs about the bride's bouquet. They concern not only the creation of the composition and the subtleties of the purchase, but also the further fate of the flowers. Modernity, of course, makes its own adjustments to such a set of rules. The choice of bouquet depends on the specific couple, or more often, on the bride.
Folk beliefs
Our ancestors believed that only the groom or his male relatives should buy a bouquet for the bride. Women were not recommended to even touch flowers in the name of well-being married life newlyweds.
It was considered a good omen if, when buying a bouquet, the groom received change. This assumed the couple's financial independence in the future. There was even a ritual for acquiring it. The groom had to leave the house with right leg, without saying a word to anyone, but return home along a different road, and enter the room with your left foot.
It was impossible to throw away the bouquet itself. It was dried and stored for many years.
Floral etiquette
When composing a composition for a bride's bouquet, it is important not only to combine it with the wedding dress, but also to fill it with meaning. Most florists, knowing the meanings of flowers in various religions and nationalities, do not include some of their types in the composition. This helps to avoid misunderstandings during the wedding, and, if you believe the signs, after it.
There are a number of flowers that are customary to bring to funerals or lay at the graves and monuments of soldiers:
- callas;
- azaleas;
- lilies;
- red carnations.
They are not used in the bride's bouquet, as this can bring bad luck.
As for lilies, they have several more negative qualities. Their pollen sheds intensely, and this can ruin the appearance of the bride's outfit. In addition, the lily aroma can cause headaches.
Adherents of strict adherence to all traditions consider roses that are white, yellow or tea-colored to be flowers of sorrow.
Experienced florists make sure that the treasured composition does not include quickly fading flowers or plants that are afraid of the cold. Considering all of the above, it is better to purchase a bouquet from specialists.
Purchase
All beliefs are similar in one thing: the bride’s bouquet is a sacred object, the selection and acquisition of which cannot be entrusted to a random person.
Taking into account the modern minds of young people, freer from prejudices, you can entrust the purchase to the groom, father or groom's witness, the bride's parents, and bridesmaids. Of course, the girl herself can buy the bouquet.
The most romantic option is for the groom to buy flowers. This creates additional intrigue before the celebration. After all, this is how a girl gets the opportunity to look at herself through the eyes of her beloved. Find out what flower she resembles in appearance and character for her future husband.
When it is known in advance that the young man is not burdened with knowledge of floristry, the girl can unobtrusively hint which compositions are preferable by showing him several photos on the Internet. The same approach applies to the groom's friends.
An excellent option would be for the bride to choose her own bouquet. After all, the girl herself knows exactly which option would be better suited to a wedding dress and will be to her taste. Sometimes you need to see a plant twig or bud to make your choice. In this case, the groom can simply pay for the purchase. Another advantage will be that young man you don’t have to break an important tradition and ask about the design of a wedding dress.
Bridesmaids can also solve the problem of choosing a bouquet, however, only if the bride is not superstitious.
Appearance the girl in the dress and her preferences will be known to them, which will help them decide on options. For the bride herself, this option will save time on planning other details of the celebration.
In the case when the purchase of a wedding bouquet falls on the shoulders of the parents, it is better to discuss some nuances in advance. After all, the older generation does not always understand modern trends fashion, including floral. Therefore, you should not actively criticize the choice of parents. The best solution in this situation may be an experienced florist. And in order not to injure your relatives and not be left without the desired bouquet, you can meet with him in advance and discuss all the details.
Well, if the bride doesn’t mind a surprise, then parents will be pleased to participate in creating the image of their daughter or future daughter-in-law. In some situations, this can help improve relationships with your husband's parents.
Selection rules
An important point The choice is the size of the bouquet. It is determined based on the external characteristics of the bride, the design of the wedding dress and the rules of floral design.
A bouquet in the form of a cascade works well tall girls in a long straight dress. If plants with large buds are selected, there should not be too many of them. IN otherwise the bouquet will look too voluminous. On the contrary, there should be more small plants.
For short brides wearing fluffy multi-layered skirts, a round bouquet with short-cut stems is suitable.
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In the event that a small girl chooses straight dress, buy a compact bouquet, decorated in a romantic or classic style. A “pomander”, which has a spherical shape and is attached with ribbons to the wrist, is also perfect.
For girls who prefer to more clearly emphasize their individuality, florists offer asymmetrical bouquets of unusual shapes. The composition is compiled by a specialist based on the character of a particular girl.
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But whatever the bride’s choice, such an important element as a bouquet should be taken care of in advance. In most flower salons and shops, you can place an order for a specific date of celebration, and the composition will be ready on time.
You will learn how to choose a bride's bouquet and not make a mistake in the following video.
An indispensable attribute of the bride for a long time has been a miniature bouquet, which the newlywed does not part with throughout the day.
These seemingly ordinary flowers have a special value: they are not only a beautiful element of a wedding dress, but also a tribute to the tradition of the newlyweds.
There are not many options for answering this question:
- groom;
- the bride herself;
- girlfriends of the newlywed;
- parents.
Groom
Of course, the first one who comes to mind will be the groom. According to tradition, it is he must take care of buying flowers, and on your wedding day bring them to your beloved. In the old days, accepting a bouquet by the bride also had a secret meaning: it meant the girl’s consent to marriage.
- not an easy task for a man. In this situation, knowledge about what flowers your chosen one prefers is clearly not enough.
What else need to be taken into account, deciding on the filling of a flower arrangement?
- Bride's image. It is clear that Wedding Dress No one will show the groom in advance, but at least finding out his color is not forbidden. The girl’s external characteristics (features of her figure, shade of hair and eyes) will help the florist understand the shape and color saturation of the bouquet.
- If the wedding is planned in some specific colors, for example, red or blue, then the color scheme of the bouquet should match them. A “blue” bouquet will look ridiculous at a holiday decorated in red tones.
- The groom's bouquet and boutonniere must match by style and color, so it is better to order them at the same time. These wedding accessories look harmonious if they are made up of identical flowers.
- Smell. Try to choose flowers without a strong smell. They can give the bride a headache.
- Quality. Flowers must be fresh, because they will spend the whole day with you.
Attention! If you want to follow traditions and, at the same time, completely please your beloved, then before buying a bridal bouquet, you can ask the girl to select photographs of the options that she likes best. An experienced florist will recreate the desired wedding composition from a photo.
When to buy flowers for a wedding?
You should consider options and order flowers in advance. It's better to do it approximately a month before the celebration. When can I pick up the finished bouquet? Don't rush and make a purchase on the eve of the wedding.
Important! Under improper storage conditions, buds and decorative greenery may lose their appearance even overnight. Order delivery in the morning on the day of the holiday.
When to give?
Usually, the groom presents flowers to his beloved the moment they first met on their wedding day. This can happen when he takes his future wife from his father’s house and leads him down the aisle. If a young man needs to ransom the bride, then the bouquet is given when all the tests have been passed and the groom has reached his chosen one.
If the groom sees the bride only at the altar or, then according to European tradition, in the morning the newlyweds stand with their backs to each other, exchange words of love, the man gives flowers and then they meet only at the ceremony.
Bride
Oddly enough, this option is the most optimal solution. According to customs, the groom should not see his betrothed before the wedding, which means he has no idea what her dress, hairstyle, or overall image will look like. But ideally it should be in harmony with the girl’s outfit.
This is why some brides prefer to choose flower arrangement on one's own. In this case, there will be no surprise, but you can be sure that the flowers, their design and color scheme will match the image of the bride and the style of the wedding. Such harmony is especially valuable for a photo shoot of newlyweds.
Reference! The bride has the right to choose the bouquet herself, but it is still the groom who gives it, so the issues of payment and receipt one way or another will still fall on the man’s shoulders.
Girlfriends
This option is also quite acceptable. Most often, a girl chooses a wedding dress and accessories together with her friends. She also consults with them about hairstyles, makeup and other paraphernalia. Having information about appearance brides, a friend can order flowers for her.
Of course, it is better to discuss the image and shape of the bouquet with the newlywed beforehand, and not choose it according to your own taste. The decision to entrust the purchase of a bouquet to a friend is convenient in two respects: the bride will get what she wants and will not burden the groom searching for the ideal option.
Parents
If there is absolutely no one to buy flowers for the bride– ask your parents for help. They will not refuse your request. However, it should be taken into account that the general bustle and worries of preparing for the celebration will overshadow the issue of purchasing flowers. For them, they will seem like an insignificant detail in comparison with the celebration as a whole.
Be prepared to gratefully accept the option your parents choose. Nitpicking and whims will be inappropriate.
And in this video, a florist from the DARI Flower Workshop (Kazan) talks about the basics of choosing and arranging flower arrangements:
Before you trust anyone to buy your wedding bouquet, think about what is important to you. Do you want romance and surprises? Then entrust the care of the bouquet to the groom.
Do you want everything at the wedding to be perfect, every detail complementing each other? Choose the composition yourself. Still, it is much more pleasant to receive flowers from a loved one. This can be easily accomplished by describing your wishes to him.
Marriage is not only a holiday and the most joyful event in a person’s life. This day is associated with a huge amount of troubles and preparations: choosing a dress and a restaurant, writing invitations, visiting a beauty salon.
You need to take care of even such an insignificant detail as. The signs and traditions associated with it are very important to observe at the ceremony.
The importance of traditions for newlyweds
Customs and traditions to celebrate the creation of a new family. All rituals performed on this day are aimed at blessing the newlyweds happy life. Any deviation from tradition is considered a good or bad omen. With its help you can find out how the newlyweds will live.
What do flowers symbolize?
The tradition of using a bouquet at a celebration was preceded by another custom. The guy collected flowers and gave them to his chosen one. Each flower told about the feelings of the lover. If a girl accepted a sign of attention, the guy could woo her.
Nowadays, the bouquet is selected taking into account the preferences of the bride. Today only professional florists know the language of flowers. However, those who wish to observe ancient traditions must remember that:
- has long been considered the main symbol of love. A white rose represents sublime feelings, a red rose represents passion and carnal desires. It is not advisable to use yellow and tea roses for a wedding celebration;
- talk about friendly sympathy. Husband and wife should not only be passionate lovers, but also friends with each other;
- indicate serious intentions future spouse. He expects the same intentions from the chosen one as his wife;
- - a symbol of fidelity and affection for your beloved.
Superstitions
The newlywed's bouquet is handled with care. There are various signs about a wedding bouquet and there are a huge number of them. For example, there are signs on what to do with a wedding bouquet during and after the wedding.
The petals are used as a talisman for marriage. To do this, they need to be sewn into the pillows on which the newlyweds sleep. You can also shower your children with petals on their wedding day. It is believed that such a ritual will bring them happiness and parental protection.
How to throw flowers
One of the main signs about the bride’s wedding bouquet says: unmarried, she will soon meet her betrothed. This tradition is associated with the desire of single women to receive something from a friend who has already managed to get married. Together with the item received from the young wife, it was supposed to receive part of her luck, which would help her meet her beloved man.
Lonely friends often tried to tear off a piece of a veil or dress. To avoid damage to the wedding dress, a more “legal” way of getting good luck was invented. In the middle or at the end of the holiday, the bride turned her back to unmarried girls and threw her bouquet. Fate itself had to determine who would receive the energy of success contained in the wedding flowers. In order for a thrown accessory to bring happiness to the girl who caught it and not deprive the newlywed of good luck, you need to take into account the nuances.
- Before throwing, the bride must turn around her axis three times.
- You should mentally say the words of wishes for happiness to your friend.
The tradition of throwing flowers appeared in Western culture. In Rus' it looked different. Lonely friends danced around the hero of the occasion. The bride had to stand in the center with her eyes closed. At a certain moment, the round dance stopped, and the newlywed held out flowers to the person opposite her.
Expert advice! After one of those present catches the bouquet, the bride must take it back. If this is not done, according to the sign, new family will not be happy and will soon fall apart. You can give only one flower to a friend for good luck in her personal life.
How to buy correctly
There are also a lot of superstitions associated with purchasing flowers. For a wedding accessory to bring good luck, you must follow the following signs with a wedding bouquet.
Customs or beliefs. All these traditions have their origins in ancient times. To believe in them today or not is an individual matter for everyone. But, you must agree that deep down we still trust old signs, we expect something good from them and spit over our left shoulder to avoid the bad.
As for the Russians wedding signs- a wedding bouquet, then many traditions of our ancestors are also associated with it, which are still passed down from generation to generation. The site invites you to familiarize yourself with the main ones.
Choosing and giving a wedding bouquet
One of the most important attributes of the bride's image is the wedding bouquet. The flowers in the bride's bouquet must be fresh and ideally match the bride's outfit.
According to tradition, the bouquet should not be bright in color; the preferred colors are white (a sign of purity and innocence) and pink (a symbol of youth). However, today bright flowers are popular - this way the bouquet looks better in photographs against the background of the white robe of the young wife.
According to custom, the bouquet is purchased and given to his bride by the groom before the wedding ceremony. If the bride accepts the flowers, she gives her consent to the marriage.
There are some other important signs for a wedding bouquet, namely the choice and meaning of flowers. Each flower symbolizes some feeling of the groom towards his chosen one. By understanding the flower alphabet, you can find out how your future spouse will treat you. Below we offer short description color meanings.
- Roses. The most popular flowers for a wedding bouquet symbolize love and passion. However, a lot depends on the color: white roses - purity and innocence, red - admiration and passion, pink - elegance and sophistication, yellow - joy and pleasure, Tea roses - parting.
- Lilies. They signify the innocence of a young soul, hope and gratitude.
- Orchids. A symbol of rare beauty, sophistication, aristocracy, pure affection.
- Chrysanthemums. A sign of sincere friendship and loyalty, a declaration of sincere love.
- Gerberas. They bring joy and lightness. They symbolize flirtation, mystery, interest.
- Tulips. They mean pure love and shared happiness.
Ancient and modern signs about a wedding bouquet
In ancient times, of course, there was no such choice of flowers, moreover, exotic ones for Russia. Only wealthy people could afford ready-made bouquets. Simple brides wove their own wedding bouquet from specially selected herbs and flowers. Each plant also had its own special meaning, and the bouquet generally protected the bride, and then the young couple, from all sorts of misfortunes and damage. That is why they took care of it throughout the entire wedding day, and then dried it and stored it in the house.
This tradition has continued to this day. Modern bride should not let go of her bouquet from her hands. The only exceptions can be her mother and young husband. On wedding banquet flowers can be placed on the table in front of the newlyweds, and after the wedding they must be brought into the bedroom. It is believed that if you let go of a bouquet from your hands, your happiness will fly away like a bird.
However, there is another custom that contradicts the first - throwing a bouquet to unmarried friends. What to do: you need to save the bouquet and give it to another girl. For this, a trick has been invented, namely, to order another similar bouquet especially for this tradition. You can safely throw a fake bouquet to single friends; the one who catches it should soon get married.
There are signs about a wedding bouquet that you can see in a dream - this means quick joy and fun. And if you catch the bride’s flowers in a dream, very soon you will find your long-awaited love.
Planning a wedding is a complex process, consisting of an innumerable number of details. This element of the ceremony is the bride's bouquet. There are many customs associated with it. Who traditionally buys a bridal bouquet? The groom must purchase and solemnly present such a gift to the bride after the ransom. This detail should be in perfect harmony with the bride, decorate her, and complement the image as a whole. In modern times, a bouquet is a real work of floristry art.
Wedding bouquet - signs and superstitions
The wedding bouquet is the main attribute of the bride’s image. The flowers in it must be fresh and ideally complement the outfit. According to traditions, this element should not be bright; it is preferable to choose pink, which personifies youth, or white, symbolizing innocence and purity. But today, bright flowers are popular, which look impressive in photographs against the background of the bride’s light-colored attire.
According to traditions, the bride should not let go of the bouquet during the entire wedding. Only a young spouse or mother, not a guest or a friend, is allowed to entrust flowers. During the banquet, the color composition is placed on the table in front of the newlyweds, and then transferred to the bedroom. According to legend, if you release flowers, then happiness will fly away like a bird. However, the tradition of throwing them to girlfriends, like a garter to men who are still single, directly contradicts the above. What should I do? It is necessary to order a similar bouquet, which one of the girlfriends should catch.
Who should buy a bridal bouquet for a wedding?
In the old days, when brides got married, they wove wedding bouquets themselves from specially selected flowers and herbs. Each plant had its own meaning, and the bouquet played the role of a talisman for the young couple, which protected them from damage and misfortune. In this regard, the flowers are carefully stored throughout the ceremony, and then dried and placed at home. So who should buy a bridal bouquet for a wedding? According to customs, the groom does this and gives it before the wedding ceremony. The bride must accept what it means to agree to this marriage.
We have sorted out the question of who buys a bridal bouquet for a wedding. Let's touch on the nuances of choosing this holiday detail. First of all, decide on a company that provides floristry services. Order the bride's bouquet in advance, three weeks before the celebration. Florists in some cases accept orders the day before the wedding, but such a composition is assembled from what is available at the moment. In addition, the freshness of the flowers will not be up to par.
It would be wiser to order from a florist rather than an intermediary. The latter provide a very wide range of wedding services. When working with them, you may come across inaccuracies in the order details. In addition, it will be unclear who should be held responsible for a poor-quality product. The price from intermediaries will also be higher. In addition, choose a company that offers a service such as morning flower delivery. In this case, they will be the freshest and your storage problem will disappear.
Let's move on to the questions that you should discuss directly with the florist:
- When creating a color composition, listen to the recommendations of a professional or use your imagination by determining own design. In the latter case, you need to explain to the florist how you see the composition, what shape, size. It is not forbidden to order a repetition from a photograph.
- Such a wedding detail should emphasize and complement the dress, but not merge with it. Therefore, it is important to describe the model and color of the dress to the florist. The bouquet itself may contain fabric elements in the decor, which should match the fabric of the bride's outfit. In addition, it is worth considering the bride's hair color and other external data. If the girl is fragile and graceful, a spherical bouquet will not be suitable; for a newlywed with curvy figures, it is better to choose a composition with flowing buds.
- Discuss with the florist such moments as who, when, and how will pick up the flowers. If you plan to pick up in the evening, ask for recommendations regarding storage conditions.
- Do not choose flowers with a strong smell, otherwise the bride may have a headache.
- The boutonniere and bouquet should be in the same style.
Don't forget about the color scheme. If the wedding dress is bright and unusual, then the flowers should be in rich colors. But remember that bright colors They look harmonious with a young bride, but in the hands of a mature lady they look ridiculous. In the latter case, choose calm and gentle tones. Flowers can be decorated with eucalyptus, ivy, fern leaves, threads of beads, beads, pearls, ribbons and other accessories.
What flowers to choose for the composition?
The rose is considered the most verbose. The traditional color is dark burgundy, symbolizing eternal beauty, red is the color of passion, cream is a sign of happy love, white is deification. The combination of red and white roses speaks of unanimity, agreement, yellow ones - of congratulations. If the thorns on a rose are cut off, this indicates that the future spouse will protect his chosen one.
Lilies are often used to represent happiness and hope. Myrtle is considered the flower of royal young girls. Orchids convey admiration for beauty, tulips protect against unrequited feelings, phlox indicate passion, and asters indicate overwhelming joy. Gladioli, daffodils, and camellias are used least often in bridal bouquets, since they symbolize both triumph and sadness.
Flower size and bouquet shape
When choosing a bouquet, remember that the lady will have to wear it all day: at the registry office, on a walk, at a photo shoot, so leave the heavy armful of flowers for a more suitable occasion. When choosing a size, take into account the bride’s build and height. The bouquet should be discreet, but expressive. Also keep in mind that the bouquet can have different shapes:
- Cascade - the shape of an inverted drop, waterfall, arc. Created by arranging flowers with a long stem.
- Biedermeier - a small dense bouquet. Flowers are arranged in rings located inside each other.
- Glamelia - flowers are separated into petals and collected into one large bud with glue. It looks very original.
- A ball bouquet is the shape of an ideal ball, the flowers are fixed in a spherical base.
- Round – looks like a hemisphere.
- Formo-linear - elements arranged randomly, different in color and shape, with a violation of proportions and the introduction of asymmetry.
