How to understand that a guy has fallen in love with you. How men fall in love. A man in love is generous and caring

In love, men and women behave differently. Before a man realizes that he loves a woman and desires Serious relationships, his feeling goes through several emotional stages.

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A man needs his feelings to be understood and his decisions to be made with a cool head. Many men prefer to act either within the framework of emotions or under the influence of logic. And to bring the mind and feelings into harmony, they need a certain time.

What can cause feelings?

It is impossible to understand by what principles men fall in love. Falling in love begins with attraction, emotions that cannot be explained or argued. You can feel your heartbeat more clearly when you see your beloved girl. The prerequisites are absolutely individual: smiles, random words, timid actions, but at a certain moment they become the source of emerging feelings. Mentality, character, experience in relationships, upbringing - all this determines how men fall in love.

Often, the deep awareness that a man can be surrounded by the attention and care of the woman he likes prompts him to fall in love. At an unconscious level, a man perceives possible reciprocity, so he begins to seek the girl’s company. He doesn't fully understand why he feels this way, but he notices something special about his lady that others don't have.

Stages of falling in love

1. In psychology, there are seven stages in the process of the birth of love in men:
2. 1. Assessment of external data.
3. 2. Interest, as a result of which the intention to create a relationship arises.
4. 3. Attraction: if a lady accepts the courtship of a gentleman, he develops a pronounced attraction and a desire to develop communication. At this stage of falling in love, a man tries to charm her in order to invite her on a date. The woman supports him with minor reciprocal signs of attention.
5. 4. The desire to impress, to touch the lady’s attention and her feelings.
6. 6. Reflections on the prospects for the development of relationships: meetings and communication between a guy and a girl take place. At this stage, the man reflects on all the advantages and disadvantages of the union, making a decision to take the relationship to the next level.
7. 7. Repeated persuasion: the man tries to understand his partner’s feelings.
8. 8. Falling in love comes with the conscious intention of creating a serious relationship.

Behavior and feelings of men

Men are less focused on emotions compared to women. It’s a rare man who makes a decision about marriage based only on what he feels. He evaluates many factors: the reliability of the partner, her environment, age. If there is a negative relationship experience and a person is cautious about feelings, then he falls in love for a long time, looking closely and analyzing, but without showing himself emotionally.

If there is only a need for sex, which is not supported by the partner, then the man’s feelings disappear just as quickly, and it becomes clear that he did not expect more. If a person is more prone to emotional attachment, then his feelings will be relatively long-lasting and constant.

The straightforwardness of a man's character does not require speculation, but in many cases young men analyze relationships while simultaneously assessing their chances of creating an alliance with a woman. They ask themselves questions about suitability and compatibility, in a deeper sense relationships, their impressions, they draw conclusions based on what they feel on a date with a girl. You may not notice that a person is experiencing any emotions while he maintains his distance and analyzes everything that is happening.

Signs of falling in love are manifested taking into account the preferences, taste, intelligence, and upbringing of a man. These include:

• changing habitual shyness to determination and activity; gaiety - to secrecy and isolation;
• the desire to take care of a woman in important and small things;
• presence of constant interest in your loved one;
• passivity and boredom in the absence of a partner, and vice versa;
• searching for a reason to communicate, trying to meet eyes, touch your beloved;
• attention: first of all, in the company of friends it will be focused on the girl you love;
• unconscious copying of the interlocutor’s actions, called “mirror”.

Sexual attraction cannot be characterized as falling in love: it is passion, affection, interest, which does not yet provide grounds for building a serious relationship.

Signs of desire for intimacy:

• an appraising look at a woman from the bottom up, in which greed is visible, in contrast to the tenderness of a loving gaze;
• indifference to the thoughts, feelings, dreams of the partner, interest exclusively in intimate relationships;
• tense behavior, possible defensive reactions in the form of caustic phrases, painful sensitivity or rudeness.

What causes falling in love?

In accordance with the peculiarity of male perception, if a guy does not like a girl’s appearance, then it is hardly worth counting on reciprocity and the development of a relationship.

However, in addition to appearance, a woman must have appropriate qualities that can evoke trembling feelings. Each man has his own preferences, but among them there are four main types:

A man becomes imbued with feelings for that woman who corresponds to his individual concepts of spiritual comfort, but not every love turns into true love. With communication, a deeper unity is achieved, or over time, disappointment comes, freeing the soul to love another.

Therefore, if a mature man inwardly falls in love, he hides his feelings until he is able to understand whether he can call the woman his own.

Women talk about business, insignificant things, and men listen to them, moving away from romantic experiences. If ladies allowed themselves to be soft and show hidden feelings, they would receive the same in return.

If a woman manages to show sensuality without risking her self-control, at a stage when a man does not yet allow himself frank confessions, then a passionate and exciting relationship is possible between partners.

Feelings of a married man

If a man is not free, but is caring for another woman, several factors could have pushed him to do this: lack of love in family life, haste in marriage, lack of compatibility with the spouse, disappointment. His search is not complete, and marriage does not resolve the existing problem.

Cases when a man is in love but hides his feelings are quite rare. Most often, men still begin to express themselves, one way or another, trying to get the attention of the girl who has won their heart. But this still happens.

So how can you understand that a man is in love, but is hiding his feelings? How to recognize the hidden desires and motives that a man hides under feigned indifference and indifference?

1. A man will try for you

The first and main rule by which you can identify a man in love (or at least a person who has sympathy and any feelings for you) is that he is trying for you!

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Therefore one of simple ways To understand that a man is actually in love, but is hiding his feelings, ask him for some help and support. And then watch his reaction.

If a man is in love, then most likely he will do everything possible for you, everything in his power to solve your problem. If something doesn’t work out for him, he will suffer greatly and try to correct the situation.

Remember: watch whether a man is trying for you, look first of all at his actions and deeds, and not at what he says (or what he is silent about).

2. He's just afraid of rejection.

Despite the fact that it seems that showing your feelings and taking steps to meet the girl you like is not such a big science and a giant obstacle, for most men it is a real internal feat. For many, this is comparable to climbing Everest! And it can be even more difficult!

A man, if he is truly sincere, truly feels something, and truly strives with his soul for you, will be very excited and will overcome his fears with all his might.

At the same time, the main thing a man will be afraid of is, of course, being rejected. Some stupid ladies, when an embarrassed man approaches them, overdoing himself and trying to get to know each other, instead of treating them with understanding and kindness, they harshly reject the candidate. This is a very strong blow to a man’s pride, his self-esteem and confidence. This is really very unpleasant and scary - for any man (if he is not a sheep at all).

Therefore, know that a man may be in love with you, but simply cannot overcome himself in his fears and embarrassment. And the stronger the feelings, the more difficult it is for him to do this. Try to “understand” this situation and help him open up.

3. The man will be embarrassed and act like a fool.

In continuation to the previous point: since it is normal for an ordinary man (and for a lover this effect is intensified many times over) to show his feelings towards a girl, this is really difficult and requires tension, then most often a sincere man will behave... how to put it in softer... not quite adequate))

That is, when a man meets you, he will be embarrassed, he may do some nonsense, behave like an idiot.

This is quite easy to determine, and most girls feel this attitude very well. If you see that a guy is embarrassed and feels awkward, this is a good sign!

Now compare such sincere behavior, although sometimes stupid and awkward, with the behavior of professional seducers who see in you only a piece of meat and an opportunity to satisfy their lust. Most likely, such characters will behave very confidently, speak Right words, do the “right” thing. The only problem is that behind this there is only indifference to you as a person, and the desire to quickly drag you into bed, and then wave your hand.

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4. He has social limitations

You need to understand that there may be various circumstances behind a man’s back. And even if he fell in love with you and is burning with inner passion, he may simply be limited by various conditions. What kind of conditions could these be?

The most banal and simple thing is that he is already married and has a girlfriend. In this case, if a man is sane and adequate, he will not show his feelings in any way, will hide them and overcome himself without letting you know about it.

Relationship with married man, this is material for a separate large article, but here I will limit myself to a brief summary: it’s not worth it! Even if you manage to pull a man out of marriage by hook or by crook and attract him to you, the first thing you will attract will not be his merits and good qualities, and his jambs and problems from his past marriage. After all, if he fell for you, then he certainly had serious problems there. A normal man who is happy with his wife will not change anything. And hoping that things will be different for you is simply very stupid. Will not be!

The second reason is age. Is there a big age difference between you? Maybe the man thinks that he is too old for you, and it is simply indecent for him to open up to you? This is a serious social constraint and should not be discounted. For many men this is critical, and they will not go beyond such boundaries.

Think about it, maybe he has some other social restrictions that will not allow a man to be with you and express himself?

5. Psychology, behavior, facial expressions, gestures

A man in love who has realized the scale of his problem will begin to change in some way. It will quickly become obvious to him that there is no water under a lying stone, and if he wants to attract the girl he likes, he needs to do at least something. If a direct cavalry attack seems too reckless to him, then the man can give himself away by other signs.

First, he will begin to change his appearance. Men, by and large, put themselves in order and take care of themselves, for the sake of women. And if, until the moment of falling in love, he may look best case scenario like a sloppy weirdo with no fixed abode who lives at the station, then he will suddenly start to preen himself, maybe even buy himself new jeans (and throw away the old ones, which already have a hole the size of one of his buttocks). If you notice serious changes in a man’s appearance, this is a sign :)

Secondly, no matter how hard a man tries to hide his feelings, he will still want to look at you and look at you. This is our nature: we really like to look at girls :) Nothing can be done about it. Therefore, regular, even fleeting glances in your direction, if he has fallen in love, will be guaranteed to you. Just watch this a little more closely. A man will not be able to restrain himself from gawking at the beauty, and you will notice it.

And thirdly, the man’s facial expressions and gestures will also change. In your presence, he will behave differently than before. He will gesture differently, the intonation of his voice will be different. The main thing you should do is just watch carefully and see these changes. If they exist, there is a chance that the man has “sailed” to your shores :)

6. He might not actually like you.

This may be a painful point and unpleasant information, but there is a very simple and possible variant: He doesn't really like you! And he really doesn't love you. Despite the fact that this may be unpleasant for you, I am adding here this possibility, which may be quite real.

Often girls build castles in the air in their heads, which can dissolve when they meet reality. Think about it, could this be your case? Is there a chance that the person you think you're secretly in love with isn't really into you?

Just try to be a little more careful and careful. Follow the man, draw conclusions, be visible and open to communication, and the man will definitely reveal and show himself if there really are any feelings and sympathy.

Results

Of course, you can show careful initiative, try to stir up a man and bring him into the spotlight, and give him the opportunity to begin to actively act. In rare cases this is actually worth doing.

But more often than not, it is better for a woman to carefully observe and attract a man with her openness, energy and atmosphere of happiness around her. This will work much better than forcibly trying to get his feelings out of a man.

Your person will certainly see this atmosphere in you, and will really want to be with you. He will overcome himself, all his fears and prejudices, take a step towards you and show that he is a worthy candidate for your attention :)

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When a woman falls in love, she stops noticing all the shortcomings of her chosen one, who becomes almost ideal for her. Spends all her money on him spiritual energy. But is it worth it and does the man reciprocate? We'll talk about sure signs that a man is reverently in love with you.

Sometimes we so passionately want to find our love that we are ready to believe even the slightest similarity, we manipulate facts, add details, invent motives. We feverishly pick off the petals of the eternal daisy: “Does he love you - doesn’t he love you? Will he spit - will he kiss you? Will he tell you to hell - will he press you to your heart?”

We examine his every action, every glance as if under a microscope: “He looked in my direction, he offered his hand while getting off the tram, he held the door, he paid for the coffee... Maybe he loves me after all?”

1. He is experiencing sexual attraction

Since the primary impulse of our rapprochement is the attraction of the sexes, then... The main sign of a man in love is desire, sexual attraction. If a man wants this woman, she has a chance to become loved. But this is not yet a guarantee that he is really in love with you. After all, any man by nature is in a permanent desire for physical connection, the instinct of procreation is the strongest human energy.

Let’s be honest: when a man looks at a woman, he almost always scans her for possible intimacy. In his brain, regardless of his consciousness, a toggle switch lights up: “Would she go to bed with me?” Chick!

And all his subsequent behavior can stem from this natural male interest in opposite sex. The hunter in a man awakens. Moreover, the more inaccessible the prey, the stronger and more sophisticated the desire for possession.

With the help of sex, a man asserts himself. This is proof of his masculinity. But sometimes this is just a way to overcome self-doubt. So he achieved his goal. Interest wanes. This means that desire does not always indicate love.

But can we be satisfied with one point? Right! We can’t, because with every fiber of our soul we crave not just an erection, but love and tenderness. Just like them, however.

2. He is looking for emotional intimacy

Therefore, let’s move on to the second sign, which is expressed in the need for mental contact. In emotional attraction, friendship. He seeks your company, calls, writes, hangs out at the front door, talks about himself, even listens. He is everyone possible ways trying to find contact with you.

Others call ICQ for help, mobile phone, while someone needs only visual and tactile contact. And they stick like bath sheets to famous places, bringing total preoccupation with his person into your life. Sometimes they even get pretty boring. But!

Try to evaluate this, take a step towards it. If his efforts were aimed not only at achieving physical contact, then he will be happy, and you will not be able to help but notice it. And it is also useful for us to remember one obvious truth. Every man, just like a woman, has his own character, his own characteristics, and habits.

And to comb everyone with the same brush, calling typical manifestations of love, would be stupid. Some of them can talk beautiful words and even sing serenades, but some people can’t even put together two words. Some people can give expensive foreign cars and jewelry, while others only have enough imagination for the stars from the sky. Not in this case. It's a matter of a general trend. If he is looking not only for your body, but for your company, your soul, attention, opinion, then he is really in love with you.

3. Willingly allows you into his life

In general, men are so conservative that the opportunity to let someone into their life, space, bachelor pad is perceived as an attack on their precious freedom. If he still persistently tries to attract you into his actual space, this a clear sign love.

But be on your guard: if he allows you to rearrange his apartment and clean up his scattered things, cook his food or wash his shirts, this does not mean that he loves you madly. Maybe he's just too lazy to do it all himself.

The fact of your presence in his life, your willingness to reveal some of your secrets, to make public your weaknesses in the form of unwashed socks or an unwashed plate speaks not only of his laziness, but also of his trust in you.

He asks you to stay, to stay with him longer, to live together. He doesn't run away early in the morning after barely taking a sip of coffee, and he doesn't look at his watch, recording the time he spent with you. You become part of his life. It is stupid and selfish to hope that you will be his whole life. But a man in love, of course, puts his beloved woman in the leading role.

4. He is ready to make sacrifices

He is happy to change, make concessions, adjust his plans, life, spend time, effort, energy on you and your relationship. Any rapprochement requires us to be ready to adapt and make concessions. We have to sacrifice something for the sake of our loved ones.

If a man is ready for this, values ​​your opinion, your presence in his life and you, then he will readily prefer to give up his habits, the established rhythm of life and even friends.

He can sacrifice his tastes, the TV remote control and even his place at the computer. Just don’t abuse this readiness.

Because if a man gives up his business or his fundamental positions in life, his mother, his dear social circle for your sake, then the price may turn out to be disproportionate, especially when you cannot compensate him for the lack of all this. And why do you need such sacrifices?

5. He strives to take care of you.

Don't reduce everything to material things. Not every man manages to satisfy women's diverse needs for well-being, especially in our time. But appreciate his desire to do this.

He tries to adapt to the mood and guess the desires. And he gets terribly upset if he doesn’t succeed. He rejoices like a child if he could bring you joy, make you laugh, surprise, calm, protect.

And finally, the last thing. For some women who like to turn a blind eye to obvious manifestations of dislike, this is perhaps the most important thing.

6. He doesn't hurt you

This means that he cannot hurt you on purpose. He will never use you, methodically deceive and betray you. This is simply unthinkable for a man in love. The involuntary troubles that we so often cause each other due to our bad manners or narrow-mindedness do not count.

We are talking about deliberate cruelty or pathological rudeness, humiliation, psychological pressure, which destroy the inner world, and sometimes the body of another person. But women very often turn a blind eye even to blatant facts, believe promises and are deceived, never tired of coming up with excuses for the bad.

Sometimes scoundrels can be so tender in bed. For the sake of these miserable moments of pleasure and seemingly stolen tenderness, a woman is ready to forget even baseness.

Do not abuse your grievances, suffering over trifles and global sobs. When they are part of the usual list of everyday manipulations, a man does not perceive them as your actual pain. But don’t let yourself be deceived, don’t obey your fear of losing him.

If he is indifferent to your sincere tears and suffering, run away from him. He doesn't love you, even sometimes!

Trust your intuition

I would like to end on a note that, no matter what they say, should still belong to a woman, because it is a woman who is the conductor of love on this planet.

She knows her better than any man. She has perfect pitch for this melody. After all, she feels it. And for this you don’t need any external signs, only one thing is necessary - to have a heart and soul, in which this main knowledge about love is concentrated, allowing one to recognize it unmistakably, even if a man is completely unable to speak on this topic.

And in general, if he still doesn’t know how to show his love, then maybe it’s worth finally teaching him this?!

Romantic relationships are always a whole storm of emotions and experiences that lovingly try to carefully hide at first. Then they can turn into something deeper and more serious, but, first of all, a woman will repeatedly ask herself the question: how does a man in love behave, is the feeling really mutual, and how long can a man hide his feelings if he falls in love.

Characteristics of male behavior

As you know, men differ from women not only physiologically. Behavioral characteristics also differ significantly. You shouldn’t think that men are not capable of falling seriously in love and worrying deeply.

A man may have the most serious feelings for a woman, but the manifestations of these feelings cannot be immediately determined. Women's psychology more open and emotional - it’s easier for a girl to express and cry than to carry her experiences inside herself.

A man, on the contrary, tends not to waste time on explanations, but at the same time worries just as much. A man’s perception is in many ways more purposeful, strict and deliberate, while women succumb more to emotions than to reasoning.

The way a guy in love behaves depends on his temperament and character, upbringing and social environment, and his ideas about what love is.

It cannot be said that the following signs male love serve as some kind of criterion by which one can judge all the male half of humanity, without exception. But in part, a man’s love can be determined by these parameters.

Shyness

Perhaps one of the most common behavior patterns that accompanies men when they fall in love. Confident and successful man someone who has a high position and social position may become intimidated in front of a girl, let alone young guys.

He may feel awkward and clumsy, stammer or laugh loudly, and then remain silent for a long time, thinking. In any case, if such behavior has never been observed before, this can be regarded as signs of falling in love in men.

Anxiety

Women's intuition, if it is not clouded strong feeling, is able to recognize feigned and genuine concern. The psychology of a man’s love is such that, following his instinct, he will try to take care of and protect the woman.

This manifests itself in simple little things. For example, in a wish good morning and good night, concern about health and mood, careful study of her problems and help in solving them. A man subconsciously wants to show that he is strong and confident in his abilities, that he will be a reliable wall for the woman he loves.

Coolness

No matter how paradoxical it may be, the gestures of a man in love can be cold-blooded. There may be two reasons for this: he saw that his father treats his mother rather coldly, but, nevertheless, takes care of her and the family, and considers this sufficient. The second reason is that he heard somewhere that women do not like those who constantly chase after them, and there is some truth in this.

If such a man is secretly in love, he will find a way to hint about his feelings, for example, by sending a bouquet of flowers or giving a helping hand where no one wants to help. But you can understand that a guy is in love only by calling him out. straight Talk in this case.

Such men will willingly take a step forward if you offer to discuss your relationship, and will be extremely frank if you make it clear that he is not at all annoying or intrusive.

Openness

Regardless of what zodiac sign a man has, whether a man in love is Libra or Scorpio, he can show openness, even if his zodiac characteristics say in black and white that his feelings are hidden.

Listen to what this man is telling you. Perhaps he trusts you with his secrets, secrets, problems that he cannot find a solution to on his own. After all, this is one of the forms of deep trust, which is impossible without falling in love.

Such a man will try to show everyone around that you are closer to each other than to others, for example, in a company he will sit next to you, volunteer to take you home and talk on the phone, accidentally mentioning your name in front of friends.

Practicality

Sometimes, to understand that a man is in love, but is hiding it, it is enough to talk with his friends. This communication is necessary for the purpose of finding out how his close friends usually see him, and whether there are any changes.

Some men are practical to a fault. Having fallen in love, they immediately begin to worry about how much money to give their beloved gifts for, where they will live and what to name their children. But at the same time, as long as such a man’s love lasts, he forgets to communicate his intentions to his beloved. And deeply offended when she, out of ignorance, chooses someone else.

Jealousy

It's not about a guy being jealous if he's in love. Falling in love among men can be quite incomprehensible to female logic, but the techniques remain common to both sexes.

By his manner of communicating with other girls and his behavior, as well as what nonverbal cues he serves, you can find out that the man is in love. This category of men shows his beloved that he has many fans and is simply in great demand. But when communicating with others, he will certainly look at least once at the true object of his love.

Duration of feelings

Many women believe that male love is short-lived and wonder how long an adult man’s love lasts. In fact, guys are capable of loving as much as women, scrupulously collecting theater tickets and memorizing telephone conversations.

The problem is that girls often abuse their position as the object of adoration, begin to play around and take advantage of this attention, imagining that a man in love, in order to warm up interest, must be forever refused.

In fact, this is not true. You shouldn't take advantage of a relationship if you've just fallen in love with each other. Man's love can last a very long time if it is reciprocated.

Do not bother or impose your ideas and views on the guy, let him understand that you are completely self-sufficient and can occupy your leisure time, you have hobbies and favorite activities, but without him you cannot cope with some things and require his protectorate. Such a woman will be interesting at any stage of the relationship, and even after a long separation, such love does not go away.

The psychologist's advice on this part is as follows. Regardless of the stage of the relationship, do not try to force your feelings. Don’t try to achieve symptoms of love in every man who offers your hand.

Today, good manners are often perceived as a sign of love. And since recognizing feelings for this reason becomes more difficult, enjoy communicating with a person, show him how developed and interesting you are, and finally become a spiritual friend.

If you peer into a guy’s eyes on every specific occasion and expect confessions from him, even a person who is truly in love can back down and lose all respect because of your impatience.

People are different from each other, especially men from women. They think and act differently. Their actions defy explanation. A woman can naturally read information from gestures, eye and facial expressions. How can you tell if a guy you know is in love but is hiding his true feelings? Let's figure it out together.

Why does a guy hide his feelings?

The young man likes the girl, he does not show feelings for her. Think about it, maybe there are reasons for this:

• believes that feelings and tenderness are a sign of weakness;
• afraid of looking funny;
• fears being misunderstood and rejected;
• he has a family;
• is in shock from what happened.

Signs of a guy in love

Love is a magical feeling that makes people change for the better. No matter how a man tries to hide it, behavior and actions reveal his true nature. In this case, pay attention to signs of sympathy.

Manners

The man becomes flexible and caring. It is important for him to see the woman he loves more often; he looks for any excuse to meet.

He tries not to offend his beloved, selects the necessary words, and pays more attention. Listens to advice and agrees with the lady of his heart in everything. If the passion needs help, he will immediately lend his shoulder.

Between them are installed trusting relationship. He shares plans, experiences, talks about the past and dreams. But this is not so easy to do, even if you have a friend in front of you.

How else can you understand that a guy is sincerely in love, but desperately hides his feelings? He is cheerful and witty. Boasts of achievements, successes, financial opportunities.

With all his might he wants to appear with the best side. It is important for him that the woman sees a serious, promising and responsible person in front of her. The best best wishes.

Sight

The lover is betrayed by a look full of tenderness and delight. The guy keeps him on his passion for quite a long time. But at the same time, it is difficult for him to withstand her gaze; he looks away. After a while, he again examines his beloved woman. And she intuitively grasps his feelings.

Appearance

Another sign of falling in love is a sudden change in appearance. He is all clean and shaved, smelling of perfume. Changes hairstyle. Some men start going to the gym because they really want to please the object of their worship.

The guy becomes more neat and tries to dress tastefully. New beautiful things and accessories appear. Many people change their style radically.

If a young man experiences only sexual attraction, his back is straight. He shows the woman that he is strong and portly. A person in love, on the contrary, develops a certain stoop and awkwardness in movements.

Gestures

How to understand by gestures that a guy is in love, but makes no attempts to get closer and hides his feelings. You can always see a lot if you look closely at a person.

Such a man is betrayed by trembling excitement, he is not calm. Hands are constantly in motion: shifting various small items, fiddles with them in his palms.

The guy wants to touch the woman he loves. He uses every moment to make close contact with her (straightens his hair, removes a leaf from it, etc.).

Looks intently into the eyes. He often straightens his curls with his hand and smoothes them. This gesture suggests that the young man wants to please the lady.

An exception

It happens that in the general picture of manifestations of love there may be exceptions. Many men don’t show their feelings because they don’t know how to do it. They are too proud, unsure of the true motives of love.

However, such a man can be “declassified” by his behavior. He avoids communicating with his crush, stays away from her. Afraid to show feelings, hides them behind a mask:

• indifference;
• increased attention to other women (causes jealousy);
• hypertrophied care (trying to please, to be gallant);
• jealousy of other potential competitors (if the person is not jealous at all).

Women's tricks - options for “exposure”

How can you tell that a guy is in love if he shows interest but hides his feelings? Let's go for little tricks!

Option #1. If there is a party at which the object of worship will be present, allow the other man to give you a little attention and gentle advances. Or arrange in advance with a friend to come as a fan.

Look at the test subject's reaction. His behavior may change:

• demands attention;
• speaks louder than usual;
• jokes a lot;
• deliberately starts a quarrel with an imaginary gentleman;
• restless.

Option #2. Invite your crush on a date. Come up with a simple reason for a meeting without hints of an intimate relationship:

• go to a classical dance lesson together (need a partner);
• spend time at the skating rink;
• visit an art exhibition that has opened (if the guy is knowledgeable, invite him as an expert);
• go to a concert of your favorite singer (you have an “extra” ticket).

Important!

Maybe you will have other ideas to communicate with the object of adoration and check his attitude towards you.

His behavior will reveal his true intentions. How to understand that a guy is in love if he is not indifferent, but at the same time hides his feelings?

The guy's first reaction is the most sincere and truthful. If a man loves, he will happily respond to one of your proposals and reschedule things.

If you tried in every possible way to provoke jealousy on the part of your chosen one, and in response you received complete indifference, this indicates indifference. And don’t have any illusions about the guy’s secret crush.

Sometimes you need to take the first steps towards yourself, to understand the existing relationships and feelings. Sometimes it is they who help the man he loves to open up, give him the opportunity to confess his feelings and get closer to his beloved.