The realization that a guy likes her is great happiness for a girl. Conviction of this makes her more confident and happy, relieves her of painful torment and doubt.
But how to recognize male interest? To do this, it is enough to analyze his behavior. People cannot control their behavior 100% by willful efforts. A person in love certainly gives signs. They signal his sympathy and he does them unconsciously.
Psychologists have long identified actions that “signal” sympathy. It is worth studying the main signs of behavior of a lover young man and you will be able to understand it without words.
The first thing that reveals a person’s sympathy is his gaze. A young man will always admire the girl he likes. He can do this openly or secretly.
A guy likes you if:
- you constantly “catch” the young man’s gaze;
- he looks at you (intensely or cautiously) when you turn to the side (this can be seen with peripheral vision).
When you meet the eyes of a young man you are interested in, be sure to pay attention to his pupils. A clear sign interest - dilated pupils when looking at you. IN in this case you can even talk about falling in love.
A good sign is that a guy periodically looks at you when he tells something in a group. So he wants to track your reaction to the words he spoke. It is worth paying attention to what semantic load the text carries. This can be a brilliant hint for a girl.
If you haven't chatted yet
It often happens that a young man arouses sympathy. But you don’t communicate with him personally (or don’t even know him). You can meet him periodically at school, work, places of recreation, entertainment. He might like you too. Similar conclusions can be drawn if he watches you and strives to be near you. Particularly brave individuals start casual conversation, ask questions.
A sure sign of sympathy is a person’s emotions; his state changes when you appear. You find yourself in his field of vision, and he begins to smile or feel embarrassed, blush, and express himself more actively.
A guy who is trying to check if you are interested in him may do a little provocation: flirt with another girl. At the same time, he will quietly observe your reaction. You can repeat this manipulation by chatting nicely with another young man. If this causes a negative reaction in the guy you like, we can talk about jealousy.
By correspondence
Many young people often communicate on the Internet. Analyzing correspondence is a great way to understand a guy's feelings. An interested young man regularly writes first. He will be interested in the girl’s affairs, her mood, thoughts, preferences. In communication, he regularly takes the initiative, answers questions in detail, rather than briefly and laconically, and asks questions. They contribute to the continuation of the dialogue.
A very positive sign in correspondence - the guy actively expresses himself, but is embarrassed in personal communication. This is how young people in love behave.
Signs at school
It’s quite easy to understand a guy’s feelings if you study at the same school. At this age, he can choose radically opposite strategies of behavior:
- Be nice, look at you furtively, congratulate you on holidays, protect you from others, look for an opportunity to be together, entertain, offer help or ask for it.
- Show yourself a little aggressively, make malicious jokes, catch on. This is how some teenagers behave. They try to hide their interest. Many boys believe that this way they can hide their sympathy.
In contact with
The social network VKontakte is an excellent tool for studying the behavior of a young person.
The interested interlocutor will be the first to write, like photos and published posts. He often accompanies his messages with emoticons. This emphasizes the emotional significance of the dialogue.
If a girl doesn’t visit her own page for several days, he may wonder where she went. Such a gesture indicates the presence of a certain attachment. It is with you that he seeks communication on VKontakte if he leaves the network after you have done a similar action.
3 main signs that a guy likes a girl:
- He pays attention.
- He is interested in you, asks mutual friends questions about you.
- He shows certain actions towards the girl.
Test to find out if a guy likes you
A simple test will help you check a guy's attitude. The questions should be answered “Yes” (2 points are awarded), “Sometimes” (1 point is awarded), “No” (0 points are awarded).
Questions:
- He's trying to talk to me.
- Smiles at me.
- Shows concern (helps to put on a coat, offers assistance).
- He gets embarrassed when he sees me.
- I think he likes me.
Results:
- 7-10 points - in love.
- 3-6 - interested.
- 0-2 - does not show sympathy, or is too modest.
A guy's behavior if he likes a girl
There are many other behavioral characteristics that indicate male attraction.
Among them are:
- Constant attention.
- Compliments.
- Positive reaction to the girl’s jokes and her stories.
- Attempts to “mirror” the girl’s behavior are to unconsciously repeat movements.
- In the presence of a girl, a young man straightens his hair, clothes, and straightens his posture.
- When standing or sitting, point the toe of your foot in your direction.
- Tries to touch.
- He tries with all his might to please and make a positive impression.
- When communicating, puts one leg forward.
The girl should analyze the guy’s behavior in detail. Then she will be able to understand his attitude towards her. You should also rely on your own intuition.
Many girls are tormented by the question: how to understand that a guy or man likes you, reveal the secret of a young man’s soul, and understand how to act? Should you be active, behave more aggressively with him, or, on the contrary, push him away and wait for his actions? After all, if you like him, then you need to do one thing, and if you don’t, then you need to do something completely different.
In fact, understanding this is not so difficult, and we will talk about how to do this in this article. There are several clear signs that a guy is interested, and the chances of a relationship are there, and they just need to be “counted.” Well, then act according to the circumstances.
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Sign 1. The constant presence of a guy in your life
The main signal that a man is interested in you is that you will begin to meet him surprisingly often in different places, finding yourself in the same establishments, seeing someone next to you over and over again.
If we are talking about the fact that you work with him or study together, in any case, you will see him nearby in companies, in the canteen, and somewhere else. Perhaps, if you are not actively communicating, he will try to talk to you, to express himself in some way.
Sometimes these meetings will seem random, sometimes very strange. But in any case, whether it’s chance or fate, we can try to understand whether we’re really dating this man just like that? Or is something leading us to each other?
Just don’t rush to make wishes and build castles in the air, imagining how you and him get married, give birth to children, and live happily ever after in love :)) While there are no prerequisites for this, and it is very dangerous to make wishes and dreams about that may not come true at all, or come true, but with another man.
For now, your task is to understand whether the guy is really interested in you, or if it’s just a coincidence.
Sign 2. Gifts and courtesies
Does your boyfriend give you gifts? Does he present you with flowers or please you with cute little things? If this does not happen, then you should seriously think about whether he really likes you?
After all, gifts and attentions are signs love relationship, manifestations of feelings. A guy who feels something for you and is interested in you will definitely have a desire to give you something, please you somehow, and give you a compliment. Not only in words, but also in deeds - in the form of gifts.
If a man gives you something, and this happens not only on March 8th, when all the girls are congratulated, but also for no reason, this is already a sign of interest. It's time to sincerely thank and give the guy a smile. And look at his reaction.
If you see that your smile sincerely pleased him, inspired him, and he filled with energy went about his business - there are chances in a man’s interest, and great ones. If he showed himself indifferent and did not react to your impulses in any way - well, maybe he will show himself in something else.
It is also very important that the guy gives you not just gifts, but surprises you with something. Made surprises. This is not always possible at that stage of a relationship when there is no relationship yet, but if this happens, then bingo! The likelihood that a guy likes you is very high.
Sign 3. Views and observation
Believe me, if a guy or man is interested in you, and he likes you, he will look at you. Men love with their eyes, they like to watch the beauty of a woman, her grace and her gestures, figure, and so on.
Therefore, on your part, in order to detect signs of interest and first love, all you need is to be very attentive yourself. Try to periodically turn sharply and unexpectedly in his direction. What will you see?
If time after time you catch his gaze on you, sometimes embarrassed, sometimes confused, sometimes curious, it’s obvious that the young man is looking at you. If he looks at you, it means he’s interested, and he already likes you. Guys won't waste their attention and time on girls they don't like.
But the ones they like - men are drawn to them like a magnet, or as if you were anointed with honey))
A man simply cannot resist the temptation to turn in your direction and look at you again and again, and it is at these moments that he can be “caught” and brought to light.
But if you look back over and over again at a guy in the same room with you, and he didn’t even bat an eyelid, and looked anywhere but at you, this is a reason to seriously think: does he really like you? Maybe you are generally uninteresting and indifferent to him?
Sign 4. A man’s diligence and diligence
A guy who is in love with a girl, or sees in a girl someone he would like to date and be with all the time, may act like a weakling - and will simply remain silent and do nothing. Or he will start trying.
What does it mean he will start trying? You will definitely feel and see it!
He will strive to talk to you, spend time with you, fulfill your wishes, listen to you, and do everything that depends on him - as long as you pay attention to him.
This is diligence and diligence. And here it doesn’t even matter whether a man is rich or not, what matters is how hard he tries based on the resources he has at the moment. After all, why would you date a guy who, let’s say, is rich, but at the same time he doesn’t really care about you, and he perceives you as a cheap prostitute, and is not going to invest in you and spend money, time and other resources on you?
Sign 5. Reaction to your requests
How does a guy react when you ask him for something? Will he fulfill your request, or will he be deeply indifferent?
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Try asking him for something and watch his reaction. If a guy tries and does it, maybe he likes you. He didn’t do anything, and only found excuses for the fact that there were no results - most likely he doesn’t care about you.
It's simple and effective way reveal a man's feelings. Use it wisely. The main thing is that before starting any relationship, do not try to put all your problems and their solution on the guy - otherwise the horse may die, and he will decide that what the hell is it for - since he has so much at once.
Sign 6. Words of recognition, love, compliments
You need to be careful with words of love and recognition. On the one hand, yes, they show the man’s interest in you, and obviously make it clear that they are after you and want to be with you. It’s unlikely that a guy will go overboard for a girl he’s not interested in.
But, on the other hand, they say that it is better not to listen to a man at all! Yes, what the guys say should be taken approximately like this: “blah blah blah.” After all, words mean nothing! These are just words, and almost anyone can say something.
What's really important? What matters is how a guy acts and what he does for you! I repeat - he does it specifically for you, and not just like that. After all, if he does something for another woman, or for himself, then what good does it do you?
Therefore, any words a guy says should be taken with irony and humor. Thinking to yourself: “Talk, talk, but let’s see what you do in reality.”
And then look - either the guy actually does something, and you thank him for it, or his words are just an empty sound, and a waste of air - and he does not fulfill his promises. In this case, it is better to run away from such a guy. After all, he has not yet become a real man, and it is not a fact that he ever will.
By the way, many men are indeed very silent and can be withdrawn, but you should not reject them. It is quite possible that he will be a wonderful husband or father in the future, because he will do, instead of talk, and pour molasses into your ears. beautiful words and compliments.
Sign 7. Facial expressions, gestures and embarrassment
Your interest in a person you really like is actually quite difficult to hide. If you communicate with a guy, then you just have to feel that he is not behaving quite normally.
He may sometimes be embarrassed, although there seems to be no reason, sometimes his facial expression becomes absent or alarmed.
There are many small and noticeable signs in the facial expressions and gestures of a young man that will tell you that not everything is so simple here, and perhaps he is really interested in me and feels sympathy.
In fact, girls usually have very strong intuition, and feel such things at the subconscious level. Relationships are a woman's thing, so perhaps you just need to talk a little more with a man, and then everything will become clear by itself. If you still don’t communicate, you can find some outside reasons and talk about various non-deep topics. And watch the guy’s reaction, and your feelings.
Sign 8. Polite and gallant treatment
If a guy just “pulls your pigtails” or makes some caustic remarks, supposedly thereby showing his interest, then this is kindergarten. A real man, if he likes a woman, behaves carefully and gallantly with her.
That is, the man understands your need to behave politely and correctly with you, and will comply with these rituals. However, this does not mean that a man should bend under a woman, indulging and pandering to her in everything. Of course, a man must be tough enough, with a backbone, and sometimes make decisions and behave confidently, not allowing you to shy away.
But a man who likes you will not do it in a boorish way, but in such a way that you yourself will really like it.
Sign 9. Jokes and jokes from friends
There is one more indirect sign that the guy liked you. And this is the behavior of his friends. It happens that young people share their feelings with friends, or friends notice their strange behavior and understand the reason.
In this case, if you communicate with the guy’s friends, then it is quite possible that various jokes and jokes will be thrown at you and him.
Sometimes they can be quite harmless, sometimes even sharp and unpleasant. But in any case, if they are coming, then perhaps there is a reason for it. Perhaps your friends saw that the guy was behaving strangely, and primarily towards you, and “saw through” him.
If this happens, this is a signal to you that a man is interested. You can also talk to your friends directly, but try to do it carefully. Because again, they can then convey this to him, and convey it in a distorted form, like it’s you who are interested in him. And then the guy may begin to behave inappropriately after learning about your interest.
Sign 10. If a guy likes you, he’s pursuing you
And the last sign and secret, which is the simplest - and in fact the most effective. If a man likes you, then you will not ask the question: “How can I understand whether he likes me or not?”
Because a real man He will definitely show his feelings, start courting you and woo you with all his might. Will overcome obstacles, difficulties, problems. He will show care towards you, give you gifts, invite you somewhere.
In general, a man or guy who really likes you will act! And not sit back and whine to yourself about how beautiful and interesting girl, and I’m such a loser, so I can’t even tell her about it.
I repeat - if you are looking for an answer to the question - how to understand, then with a high probability - the guy doesn’t really like you. This may sound offensive or cruel, but it’s true.
Or he likes you, but he is still very weak and behaves like a child, instead of showing himself as a man. And why do you need him like that then? He was embarrassed to come up to you and start communicating, or he was embarrassed to start courting you - and when the gopniks attack you in the gateway, will he also step aside and be “embarrassed”?
Do you want to be with a real man, strong and caring, or with an incomprehensible slob? Think about it.
And it’s quite possible that when you relax and understand that you shouldn’t worry too much about whether someone likes you or doesn’t like you, then most likely the guy or man who really likes you will definitely show themselves! And then you will be 100% sure that there is interest on their part, because it will be obvious!
conclusions
Remember the main thing: it is unnecessary to ask the question “how to understand whether a guy or a man likes you?” - it’s not worth it. Because the guy in a relationship should always be the active party. He must pursue you, he must do something so that you notice him, he must prove himself and behave like a man.
On your part, you must simply look at his behavior - and either approve of good actions or reject bad ones, not allowing incorrect and unworthy behavior towards yourself. That's all! And just accept advances if they exist.
If you chase imaginary affection for a guy who doesn’t like you, you might even be able to woo him and start a relationship with him. But in this relationship, you will always be “pulling the cart” of your relationship, on which your man will sit and rest. Do you need it?
It’s better to just be active, bright, watch your appearance and mood - and a guy or a man will definitely be attracted into your life, when he appears you won’t ask the question - does he like me? You will be sure that he likes you - 100%!
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The girl feels an irresistible sympathy for the guy and traditionally asks the question, “Are the feelings mutual?” Everyone wants to believe in a long-lasting relationship and strong love. To find out, it is necessary to determine the signs that characterize the true attitude of a young man. Let's try to figure it out together.
Sign No. 1. The guy is interested in talking together
Pay attention to his demeanor, gestures and general subtext of the conversation. The young man in love speaks in a deep, quiet voice, attracting like a magnet. The guy can express himself measuredly and with short pauses, wanting to be understood perfectly.
Watch whether the young man maintains eye contact. If he absentmindedly moves his eyes around, this only indicates disinterest.
Take a closer look at the young man’s behavior in front of strangers. Is he easily distracted and loses track of the conversation? The guy is bored and uninterested. Does he not pay attention to anyone, focusing on the interlocutor? It is quite possible that the young man feels sympathy.
Sign No. 2. He shows interest in you
If a guy teases, makes caustic but harmless jokes, he is not indifferent. In a similar way, the young man tries to provoke a response, developing full-fledged flirting. Go ahead and maintain an entertaining dialogue!
A clear sign of the manifestation of feelings is an interest in personal life. Does the guy start asking about his relatives? Find out how your day went overall? You've got him hooked. Another scenario for the development of events suggests that the young man himself will begin to share personal data, discuss pressing matters and ask for advice. Excessive frankness indicates interest.
Does the guy compliment you, praise your ingenuity, and when you meet him say that you look charming? He has sympathy.
Wanting to reveal the true intentions of a young man, pay attention to his behavior among his best friends. Have you noticed that in your presence the guy tries not to use obscenities or tell vulgar stories? The opinion of the lady present is important to him. He tries to control his speech and not be too brutal, even if his friends do not approve of this. In a similar way, the young man tries to show that he respects his interlocutor.
Often male interest manifests itself in interest in rivals. Comes from afar and tries to find out if you are dating someone? Great, he likes you, otherwise such interest would not have arisen. If a guy tries to set up a girl with another young man, it means that he only sees her as a friend.
Sign No. 3. The young man is skeptical about other girls
Listen to the context in which he speaks about other girls. Perhaps the guy is asking you for veiled advice and making it clear that he likes Svetka from the neighboring yard. In this case, everything is clear.
If a guy is skeptical about other female representatives, his heart is occupied with you. If a young man says that he cannot find a companion, in fact he wants to hint about his feelings for you.
There is a type of insincere guys. They see girls as trophies to be won. Try to protect yourself from such people. Their behavior is characterized by an aggressive manner of speaking, pathos, and excessive pride.
Many guys pretend to be womanizers, wanting to hook a girl and make her jealous. Does the young man often talk about his adventures in love? Check if this is true. Otherwise, you will understand that he is doing this only to attract attention.
Sign No. 4. He's trying to impress you with his literacy
The age of technological progress contributes to interpersonal connections. Not all guys easily make one-on-one contact; many prefer to communicate through social networks or by phone.
In the correspondence, did you notice the correct placement of punctuation marks and the long blinking of the phrase “Printing a message...”? The guy selects words to impress his interlocutor with his spelling. He spends time wanting to show intelligence and intelligence.
Analyze how often you call each other and how long the conversation lasts. Does the guy get nervous during a conversation? If yes, then he has sympathy and is afraid of looking ridiculous. Communicating on the phone is an intimate act, because you cannot see each other, you can only use your voice. In cases where a young man calls on business and the conversation lasts no more than 2 minutes, he is not interested.
Regular tagging of posts and comments on the wall prove sympathy. Keep track of what photos your guy likes in social networks. Perhaps he likes his girlfriend Nastya, who is present in almost every picture.
Does the guy use emoticons in messages or write in dry language? Asks about important things, wants to prolong the conversation? Posts funny videos or pictures? He makes an effort, wanting to communicate fruitfully. The young man is interested in the further development of relations.
Sign No. 5. The guy wants to appear closer
Learn to recognize body language. Have you noticed that he often touches you “by chance”? Holds your hand longer than expected? Moves closer when you are in common company? These facts indicate his sympathy.
Besides tactile sensations, have you noticed that the young man does not take his eyes off you? He admires the appearance. Hold his gaze, he will smile in response and realize that he was caught red-handed.
Pay attention to body language, it will help you understand whether a guy likes you or not. During a conversation, does the interlocutor not cross his arms over his chest and gesticulate freely? He is open to conversation. A sign of sympathy is the body bending forward, in this way the guy wants to appear closer. He may often lean over to whisper something in your ear and touch your arm as he does so.
Sign No. 6. He provides full support
A man in love tries to help the girl he likes by any means possible. Take a closer look at what assistance is manifested in? Perhaps the guy drives you to your destination or helps you move.
Pay attention to the more subtle advances that come in the form of buying your favorite pastries or ordering pizza to your home. Sincerity lies in the little things. Does a guy often take care of you? Does he buy medicine when you are sick? If the answer is yes, you can safely assume that the sympathy is mutual.
An interested young man is worried about his passion. Do you remember how often he calls? Does he ask questions about where you are? These facts indicate serious intentions. No guy will waste time on a girl who is not interesting to him. Men are nearby when they want to develop an existing connection.
Sign No. 7. The guy doesn't want to talk to other girls
Watch how he behaves with other female representatives. Does he often call them and flirt? If he is truly interested in you, he will not flirt or joke with anyone.
If you notice that in a common company he wants to be next to you, and not with Tanya, Anya, Sveta, then you are the only one he needs. If a guy flirts with absolutely all the ladies within a ten-kilometer radius, he’s just a womanizer.
When the conversation turns to other girls, is the guy reluctant to answer questions? This fact indicates that he has already identified you as a companion. Discussing former passions or just girlfriends confuses him, the guy perceives this as a kind of betrayal on his part.
Sign No. 8. He introduces you to loved ones
A sure sign of a guy's sympathy is meeting his siblings, parents and best friends. He wants to show everyone that he has chosen you as his companion. Many guys decide to do something like this after six months of communication, sometimes more.
Analyze what you do together, what places you visit. If a guy invites dozens of unfamiliar faces to joint meetings, most likely he only sees you as a friend.
Determine the degree of connection. Do you do common things as friends, or do some family activities slip in like shopping together or going to the cinema? If you often cook dinner or go grocery shopping together, most likely the young man already regards you as a future companion.
Another sign that a guy likes a girl is this: he invites you for a walk/to the cinema/to a picnic where only couples will be present. In this way, the young man almost openly hints that he wants to reach a new level.
Sign No. 9. The guy chooses romantic places for meetings
Most effective method find out the true intentions of the young man - evaluate the establishments in which you spend time. Have you noticed a lot of kissing couples around? Naturally, the guy is not indifferent, so he chose the appropriate place. If he sits down with you in the university cafeteria or invites you to McDonald's, your relationship is purely friendly.
Did you call me to the cinema? Great, rate the genre of the film. Whether it's a romantic comedy or a tearjerker, he likes you. In cases where a young man invites you to watch an action movie, thriller, horror or western, most likely he simply has no one to go to the cinema with.
Don't sleep at night, dreaming about a guy? Proceed with a full-scale operation! Determine the nature of the connection, pay attention to compliments, the tone of the conversation and watch your body language. Really evaluate whether the guy cares about you or not, whether he provides support. Watch his communication with the other girls, ask personal questions and expect a detailed answer.
Video: how to tell if a guy likes you
Feelings and relationships between people are quite fragile matter. Sometimes it’s scary to even think about them; many boys and girls who fall in love are afraid to admit the feelings that have arisen even to themselves, not to mention the object of sympathy. None of the teenagers often manage to talk to one of the adults, because parents always tend to ignore the feelings of grown-up children and consider them insignificant. But how can you find out if a boy loves you if he or you are 12 years old? Let’s try to figure it out on the pages of “Popular About Health.”
All girls know that boys are very different from them. And not so much in its structure, but even in relation to the world and in its behavior. And such differences remain relevant in at different ages. But it is at school that they appear for the first time and become especially obvious.
While girls gather in groups, discuss teachers, hairstyles and outfits, other girls or boys, boys play football, fight, throw papers and misbehave in every possible way.
Questions of sympathy in school age are a rather controversial issue. Many boys grow up to be quite brave; they can confidently talk about their preferences. But many also try to hide their feelings, sigh secretly and not even try to make contact. There is also a whole group of guys who can only show their attention by pulling hair, throwing things and other various pranks. It is simply impossible to understand what the chosen behavior strategy depends on.
Of course, if a boy is brave, then he can easily approach the girl he likes and invite her to go for a walk with him. In such a situation, everything is quite simple. And if the sympathy is mutual, then it’s just wonderful. But what if the boy is shy and in no hurry to take the first step? First, of course, you need to understand whether he likes you or not.
Secret knowledge
Many girls, trying to find out everything about a guy’s likes, use all sorts of “cunning” moves - anonymous notes and questionnaires, various fortune-telling and tests. But in fact, the use of such methods is completely unreliable.
Not a single book or fortune telling can reveal a person’s soul. And relying on the answers obtained as a result of such tricks is simply stupid.
We focus on obvious signs
Of course, if you meet a boy only occasionally, by chance, it is difficult to understand whether he likes you or not. But if you are in the same class or take some courses together, you can try to analyze the situation.
First you need to pay attention to how the boy looks at you, especially when you don’t see it. But, of course, you need to examine your gaze especially carefully. After all, a guy can look at you with interest only because you yourself don’t take your eyes off him.
You can also focus directly on the boy’s attitude. It is necessary to analyze exactly how he behaves with you, and how much time he spends with you.
Perhaps the boy periodically glances at you and lingers with his gaze. Most likely, this is how unexpected sympathy manifests itself. But don’t scare him away, because at the age of twelve, teenage boys often cannot understand their feelings. Therefore, the look is the first thing you can pay attention to. If he glances at you while talking to his friends, but tries to do it without them noticing, perhaps he really is in love.
Many boys try to attract the attention of a girl, turning to her for any reason. They can write notes, ask to borrow a pen or an eraser, let you write off an unfinished task, etc. Guys can also be interested in something, try not to object and show that they have some common interests with you: music, films, blogs, etc. etc. Also, a boy in love can sometimes unexpectedly come to your aid if something has fallen or your bag is too heavy.
Sometimes a guy’s selective playfulness can indicate sympathy. If he constantly tries to tease you, throws snowballs or wads of paper, constantly pushes and touches you, perhaps he simply does not know how else to attract your attention, feels insecure and wants to touch you somehow.
Some boys, when they like a girl, begin to behave terribly stupidly when they meet her - they say nonsense, are embarrassed, blush, and behave disgracefully. This is how the still unfamiliar feeling of falling in love makes itself felt.
Sometimes unexpected changes in a boy’s appearance can indicate falling in love. If he always came to class in a wrinkled shirt and dusty shoes, and then suddenly began to shine and even changed his hairstyle, maybe this is how unexpected feelings manifest themselves.
It is worth noting that many boys at the age of 12 are sure that they should behave like real men. And often their idea of masculinity is very questionable; boys believe that they need to treat girls with pointed disdain, or even pretend that there are no girls at all. Sometimes, a friendly and friendly attitude towards female classmates is not encouraged in the company of guys. Therefore, when faced with the feeling of first love, a boy needs to have the fortitude to ignore the ridicule of his peers. Many are simply unable to go against the flow, and try not to show their feelings in any way.
A 12-year-old girl should not try in every possible way to interest a boy. True, you can try to disappear for a few days and see how he reacts to her appearance. Or maybe he will give himself away altogether by calling or writing to find out what happened.
A boy can offend a girl he likes, pull her hair, tease her and take away her school supplies.
In that case it's better talk to him without witnesses and explain that you don’t like this behavior.
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Signs of sympathy in girls:
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If you have not previously communicated with a girl in an informal setting (all contacts took place only in group school games, clarification of educational issues, etc.), then she does not yet have a strong idea of you as a person.
In this case, you can arrange a conversation in an informal setting and show your best side, forming a positive first impression with your loved one.
Have to prepare conditions in advance: offer to take you home, invite you for a walk, or invite you on a date. If you can’t overcome your shyness and openly ask her out on a date, you can ask her for help with homework after school, citing her good grades in the subject.
It is also advisable to find out in advance the girl’s range of interests in order to easily support interesting conversation. You can get information both from friends and during group conversations during breaks (the only important thing is to listen carefully to the topics that the girl discusses).
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