Unusual ways to satisfy women. How to satisfy a woman so she screams from orgasm

Humans differ from animals in their ability to speak - it’s just that not everyone realizes this. Especially men. Here he is sitting next to me at a table in the club, looking into my eyes - expressive, like a Vrubel painting - and is silent. And I, therefore, have to wonder what he wants from me - affection and tenderness, or for me to stop shaking ashes on his knee. The silence of men is still a brake on progress...

After all, all relationships are divided into stages, and you can overcome these stages only by saying the correct password. Moreover, it is advisable that you do it on time. Ts is there at the right moment. Do not understand? Well, I'll have to explain. Here are 9 phrases that a man should theoretically say to his girlfriend someday.

Because we expect them from you. For us, these are not just words - these are Milestones of relationships.

“You have beautiful eyes, figure, gills”, “I have never seen such an attractive face, look, umbrella”, “I want to look without stopping at your forehead, bust, laptop...”, etc.

Compliments... No, they, of course, warm our souls, but... Ideally, I would like to hear about beauty a little later. At least half an hour after you paid tribute to those of our qualities that we are most proud of, for example, intelligence, a sense of humor, the ability to paint in oils or masterfully fight with traffic cops. So that the girl understands: she attracted you with her Personality, and not just big breasts and a round butt.

Natasha, 22 years old:
« For some reason, it is believed that a guy must say these words during the first conversation. You could say right off the bat. But it seems to me that we have to wait with this. And so it is clear that the beauty of the soul worries him less...»

- May I kiss you?

“If I put my hand on your shoulder, won’t you be offended?” “And if I press my knee against yours, aren’t you going to jump up and yell: “Mom! Police!"

Mila, 25 years old:
« The first thing that comes to mind when I’m asked such a question is how cute that is, is he kidding me? Of course you can! Well, or of course you can’t! He himself should see everything from my face!»

Katya, 26 years old:
« I usually say “no” right away, I’m just wondering how he’ll get out of it now»

- I want you

It is better to avoid any other variants of this phrase at first. Highly artistic detailed periods about “abyss of desires and volcanoes of passions” will make the girl doubt your sincerity (“he’s probably not really crazy with desire - if he’s still able to call so smoothly”). Not highly artistic, but honest confessions of what you really want can end with an unpleasant “bang” sound and a burning sensation in your left cheek.

Depends on a situation. Sometimes it’s nice to hear this even 10 minutes after meeting in the dark crampedness of a nightclub, sometimes it’s advisable to carry sweets and bouquets into the girl’s lair for a year or two. But not until you are allowed close enough to the girl that you can say it by touching your lips to her ear.

Ksenia, 25 years old:
« I wouldn't want to hear this before he kisses me. After the first kiss, at least I usually already know whether I want it. However, I usually hear these words during kisses, so everything is fine»

- Let's do it from behind

“Turn around,” “Can I do this?” (you don’t say anything at all, you do everything silently).

After the first time it is not even discussed. The only possible position for starting, so to speak, dating is face to face. Standing, sitting or lying down - it doesn’t matter, but now we need to look into your eyes. And only after making sure that at the moment of orgasm you don’t grow Chikatilo’s teeth, we can relax and let you sneak up from behind.

Masha, 23 years old:
« Such proposals are submitted for consideration somewhere between the phrase “I want you” and the second or third orgasm. At least that’s how it was in my practice. Although... there was once a case when a guy I ran into at a bar carefully looked me up and down and said: “Do you prefer doggy style or should we do it standing up?” Never do this»

Options

“Kiss me there”, “Touch me with your lips.”

The case when saying what you want is a million times better than starting to persistently push the girl’s head towards the intended goal. This pushing is terribly annoying! And you can make this proposal when your side has already taken similar steps. Yeah, this is called cunnilingus, and after it you already have every moral right to ask for the same intimate caresses from her. (Attention! Cunnilingus that lasts less than 10 minutes does not count!)

Inna, 19 years old:
« If a guy asks for a blowjob on the first date, he risks being alone. In general, I prefer not to be told this to me directly - but rather, in translucent hints... And certainly only after we make love for the first time»

- I love you

No options. “I treat you well”, “You are so cool!”, “I love you... well, you understand” - all this does not fit at all. Sand is a poor substitute for oats; If a girl has firmly decided that it’s time for her to hear this treasured combination of 10 phonetic symbols, there is no adequate replacement. Even “Ay love yu!” or “Ikh liebe dikh!” will only work if you didn’t learn Russian at one time just because Lenin spoke it.

This is a very important stage, and the main thing with it is not to delay it... but not to rush it either. The magic phrase is like a stock that rises in price the longer it holds, but it's important to get rid of it before your stock market crashes. There is no exact hour X, any relationship develops individually and unevenly... but on average, it would be good if this simple phrase matured in you somewhere around the tenth night spent together. Because, starting from the eleventh night, a countdown counter turns on inside me and our relationship begins to slowly and surely turn from “a new wonderful romance” to “yes, nothing serious.”

Lena, 24 years old:
« This phrase is always nice to hear, especially if the feelings are mutual. But if you don’t hear her during the first three months of a stormy relationship, then it’s no longer interesting to continue»

- Let's live together

“Yes, bring your things to me!”, “I ordered second keys - they are next to your purse,” “Listen, won’t your dad have anything against if I live with you? I eat little and hardly use the light in the toilet...”

A couple of months is the minimum. No, if you are both eighteen years old, then, of course, a day goes by in two, and a week in four, and the desire to definitely buy joint frying pans and start living “like real adults” outweighs all the arguments of common sense... But in reality adults independent people There is no rush to cut short this wonderful phase of “regular meetings.” When every date is perceived as a holiday and the gloomy grimaces of everyday life in the form of unpaid bills or outstanding garbage bags have not yet sunk their yellow teeth into the high feeling of Romance.

Natasha, 24 years old:
« If a guy invites me to move in with him the next morning, I, of course, will refuse. We need to get to know each other better, otherwise you never know what habits he has. Suddenly, for example, he dries his uniform after the gym without washing it on the radiator. Or he collects squashed cockroaches in a special album - I read in some magazine about such a psycho»

They begin to mastibulate at early age and do this until a permanent sexual partner. When sex becomes full-fledged, it is done less and less. Previously, there was an opinion that it was impossible to mastibulate, since this could provoke various diseases.

Now this issue is being considered from a different perspective, because in the absence of a permanent partner, mastibulating can relieve accumulated sexual tension. This is an instinct that cannot be overcome, and cannot be gotten rid of, but can only be accepted. Mastibulating means satisfying yourself, only alone.

How to properly mastibulate a woman?

You need to set aside enough time for yourself, because you can mastibulate in the morning, before the start of the working day. Another thing is that if you engage in mastibulation without being limited in time, it’s a completely different sensation.

To begin, retire to a pleasant and calm place, take the most comfortable position. During mastibulation, some women like to lie on their backs, others on their stomachs, and some mastibulate while sitting.

Today everyone knows that clitoral stimulation helps achieve orgasm, this is facilitated by the nerve endings present in this important erogenous zone. Touching the erogenous zone causes a slight trembling in the body.
Most women have a very sensitive clitoris, so you can start with stimulation (external genitalia), gradually moving inward.

Then, continuing to stimulate the clitoris with one hand, you can touch and caress other erogenous zones with the other. The movements can be circular, slow, light or striking. You can press lightly with your index finger and then release the erogenous zones. To enhance the sensation, you can press the pubic area with your knuckles while the pads continue to stimulate the clitoris.

You can use various sexual devices, such as vibrators. You can tease yourself with a silk scarf or feather. You can also use various (lubricants).

Excitation control

To delay orgasm, thereby intensifying it, you should stop mastibulating for a few seconds.
It's very nice to mastibulate while in the shower. You can simply relax while the water jets caress your erogenous zones. You can get special pleasure by directing a stream of water to the clitoris.

To achieve excitement, you can use your imagination, this is very good helper during mastibulation, especially if having sex alone is not too exciting.

If during the process of all these manipulations a surge of warmth and increasing tension appears, it means that orgasm will come soon. At this time, you cannot interrupt mastibulation, since the sensations achieved, not brought to climax, will begin to fade away, and it will be very difficult to make up for them. There is no need to despair; if you fail to bring yourself to orgasm, then next time everything will work out.

These days, ladies have quite big demands. Many men are lost, not knowing how to satisfy a woman now. We offer some valuable ideas.

Below are universal techniques that work flawlessly on almost all women. If you put them into practice, your girlfriend will be simply happy. She will have a great reason to be proud of you and even brag about you to her friends. Of course, you don’t need to take everything from the list, you know your girlfriend/wife better, so stick to those options that, in your opinion, will be closer to her.
1. Melodic romantic songs sung in a velvety, slightly hoarse voice.
A thick, hoarse voice in almost any woman will “launch” a program of incredible sexual arousal. It wouldn’t hurt to ask on the eve of the serenade taste preferences. Some people will like Rammstein, but others will only like Leps.
2. Remember “Gone with the Wind”: lie down, watch, “hugging like crazy.” You don't have to grow a Clark Gable mustache.
3. Use condoms without unnecessary reminders or requests from her. But don’t forget them later inside.
4. Hug her from behind by the shoulders more gently and bury your chin between the collarbone and neck. Turn your head slightly. If your friend's thighs and arms are covered in goosebumps, then you've hit the right spot.
5. Don't cover yourself with a sheet when she's looking at you. Let her touch where she wants. Surprisingly, men often do not like it when they are the object of sexual attention from their women.
Some psychologists believe that this may be a consequence of homophobia, the fear of attracting attention from a partner of the wrong gender. In some men it can even take grotesque forms. They may not even allow their wives to touch their buttocks or penis.
6. Whisper in her ear.
7. Caress your friend’s inner thighs and arms more often. This is where the skin is most sensitive.
8. Carry it in your arms. You can spin, hug and kiss together, forgetting about everything in the world.
9. Strawberry or cucumber flavor.
It was possible to establish for sure that the aroma of fresh strawberries or cucumber excites women. The smell of freshly prepared baked goods has a similar effect on women.
10. Don’t forget where your friend’s clitoris is and what it’s for.
11. Come up to your child at night. For a loved one to be happy, she also needs rest.
12. Tell her in full detail when and how you lost your virginity. True, if she asks you about it herself. It is better not to impose such things.
13. After sex, try running your finger across her face: from her temple, through her cheek and lips, right up to her chin. And smile tenderly.
14. Bite her nipples - carefully and gently. You can do this with other parts of the body: neck, fingertips, palms and even the most intimate places. Experiment: sometimes such caresses are much more effective than touching with your tongue and hands.
15. Bed linen made of pure silk: its touch is like a caress for many women.
16. Don’t be shy to tell her that you want her, and right now.
17. Don't forget about the classic pose. She will allow your friend to look you straight in the eyes during sex, and also to kiss. All this will easily bring her to the highest point of excitement. Some women experience orgasm from a well-timed kiss.
18. Well-groomed, clean hair, including a short crew cut, is very pleasant for every girl to touch. And not just with your hands. Let's say, try moving your head along her inner thighs or along her pubic area.
19. Do you feel that she is close to orgasm? Increase the rhythm of frictions.
20. The sensations that arise when you rub her eyelash with the tip of your finger are incredible: from top to bottom.
21. Don’t forget about boxers. Surveys show that most women find this men's underwear very sexy.
22. It may sound strange, but try sucking the big toe on her foot.
23. Regularly tell her how sexy and beautiful she is.
24. Kisses - only dry ones: grown men do not indulge in nagging.
25. Even if you are both very excited, continue to caress her, delay the main action. Just don’t overdo it so that the girl doesn’t get tired of it.
26. The ideal for any woman is a man’s pumped up abs.
27. Don't leave her body immediately after orgasm. Keep moving a little more after that. Don't get out of it abruptly, do it gradually.
28. Don’t forget to take pictures wrist watch before going to bed. After all, they not only scratch unpleasantly, but also pull out hairs.
29. When thinking about how to satisfy a woman, do not forget to express your desires, and as openly as possible. Even if they are strange and unexpected. Don’t be afraid to be embarrassed or, conversely, to have fun.
30. It is not for nothing that nature chose the “doggy style” position as a classic position for sexual intercourse for almost all living creatures. But the usual “man on top” position for people is inconvenient for conception, but that’s not all. It also greatly limits the feelings of partners. It became so widespread as a result of several centuries of persecution of any other positions, for which a couple could even be publicly executed “for debauchery.”
31. Don’t be lazy to look for and find her next erogenous places. Pay attention, say, to the bend of the leg just below the knee or to the fold under the buttocks.
32. Do not under any circumstances have complexes about the size of your penis or the truth of her orgasms.
33. Have sex when the girl wants to pee a little. There are a number of clean physiological reasons, according to which it is at this moment that her G-spot, the triggering element of any woman’s orgasm, is especially effectively stimulated.

34. Don't forget about morning coffee in bed.
35. If you unclasp her bra, don't leave it dangling around her neck. Don't forget to remove it completely. It is also better to remove panties from both legs, and not just one.
36. Tanned skin is not just beautiful: it feels smoother to the touch even in the dark.
37. Show initiative even in the “girl on top” position. Lift your hips off the bed and move in the same rhythm as the woman.
38. Braid her hair. For many women, as they themselves admit, styling and combing their hair is very erotic. Modern science has even been able to explain this point. When combing the hair on the scalp, nerve endings are affected, of which women have much more than men.
39. Enter her slowly, without haste or fuss. Do not observe rhythm in movements. So she will not be able to predict your movements and prepare for them. From surprise, her sensations will become stronger and brighter.
40. Real men are familiar with the previous points (or most of them) even without our advice. Passionate nights and pleasant moments of solitude to you.

Probably each of us has heard that in relationships, and in family life overall, the most important factors are mutual understanding, respect and interest in each other. Of course, without all of the above a strong family simply impossible. But sometimes it happens that at first glance a complete couple, where everything is smooth, without quarrels and peacefully, suddenly breaks up. What can cause a break in a relationship where all these factors are present in abundance? We'll talk about intimacy.

Some people are embarrassed to raise this topic with their loved ones, others think that this is normal. Well, some are simply not even aware that a huge role in achieving sexual pleasure play erogenous zones. By the way, there are much fewer women who don’t understand things like this among men. But things are a little worse for the opposite sex. Research by scientists has shown that sometimes even the most experienced partner does not pay enough attention to these “love points” on a woman’s body.

So, female erogenous points. Are there many of them? Oh yes, certainly not five or six. Dozens, if not hundreds. Moreover, the set can be individual for each. Therefore, now we will list only the most basic ones for women, which are usually the most common. Let's start at the top, gradually working our way down the body.

1. Lips. Do you think why a girl can get aroused almost instantly? Yes, precisely because on the lips there is precisely such a sensitive point to caresses. It is observed in almost every representative of the fair sex.
2. and the space behind it. Truly, women's erogenous zones are unpredictable. Some people experience much greater pleasure when they are tenderly kissed behind the ear than when they impatiently lick their lips with their tongue.
3. Neck. Perhaps you have heard about this zone better than others. After all, it’s rare that a lady won’t melt from a tender touch to her tender neck. However, be careful, one awkward move and excitement can turn into irritation. This often happens if caressing results in a tickling effect. And few people will like this.
4. Erogenous on the chest are, of course, the nipples and the halo around them. However, even touching your collarbone can be a signal to your partner that it's time to relax and have fun.
5. Back. Run your fingertips along the spine and you will receive an answer languid look from your partner. Surprisingly, in these areas the skin is very sensitive to any physical impact. This is why massage has such a specific effect on most of the fairer sex.
6. Buttocks. Unlike her breasts, a woman’s butt can withstand tougher “hugs” very well. And if the nipples perk up from a light breath of breath or the touch of a feather, then here man's hands They have every right to give themselves free rein. This will only excite your partner.
7. Pubis, perineum and labia. Everything here is permeated with extremely sensitive nerve endings, so when stimulated, particularly acute excitation occurs. But avoid rough and hard movements. Remember that the tissue in this area is extremely delicate.
8. It has long been noted that the erogenous zones of women do not end at the clitoris. Light stimulation of the anus can give your partner unearthly pleasure. This is especially effective when she approaches orgasm.
9. quite often remains without due attention. And this is a significant mistake. After all, kissing precisely on these parts of the body can lead a partner into passionate trepidation.
10. Legs and feet. Areas also very sensitive to stimulating caresses female body. Give it to your girlfriend and be sure that it will put her in a romantic mood. The touch of the tongue has a special effect. Therefore, if you want to enhance the effect, carefully lick the female leg.

Never stop at this list. Open your woman up to yourself like an unread book every time you go to bed with her. And you will become the most amazing lover for her.

Today we'll talk about ways to get excited sexual desire in men. Many of them are described in the “Night Book”, which was given to newlyweds in the East. Nowadays, this treatise is known as the Kama Sutra, but its popularity is low, so they use various ways, adapted to modern conditions.

The modern macho sometimes needs to be conquered. If you don’t know what aspects contribute to male arousal, then the mission will remain unfulfilled. No wonder the mass women's magazines replete with ways to excite guys before sex. Let's try to understand this issue from a medical point of view.

Sexopathologists say: if a guy’s potency is fine, there’s no need to worry him: a slight hint of pleasant circumstances is enough.

A woman will have to make a lot of efforts if a man is diagnosed with one of the following problems:

• Lack of sexual attraction to a lady.
• Difficulty achieving an erection (erectile dysfunction).
• Psychological aspects (it is possible to strongly excite a guy only in a certain environment: an elevator, a park, a busy street, a car). There are men who are exclusively concerned about their partner’s pregnancy, or who are dependent on another fetish.

Under such circumstances, ordinary advice will not have any effect: doctor’s recommendations and some therapeutic measures will help to effectively arouse a man. The latter may be especially necessary if one or another form of impotence is observed. In such cases, to excite a man, radical measures will be required - ordinary ingenuity and looseness in bed are unlikely to help. But most often the situation is much simpler.

Paradisaic delight

According to the advertisement, it is easy to bring heavenly pleasure to a woman - just treat the lady to a chocolate bar with coconut flakes on the shore of the clear sea. Such a trick will not work with the stronger sex, so the lady will have to try hard, trying to find the most suitable ways to excite a man.

In the absence of organic problems, the technique of arousing a guy will not cause any particular difficulties, but there are some nuances. So, what actions does a lady need to take to quickly excite a man, giving him pleasure:

• Touching the hair.

If the guy's head doesn't resemble a billiard ball, you can very slowly play with the curls of the hair, moving from the top of the head to the treasured occipital fossa. There are several sensitive points here that will make the “beech” a pliable sexual partner. You need to touch gently, excitingly, unobtrusively.

• Ear biting.

Masters erotic massage It’s not for nothing that they pay attention to the earlobes: they bite, suck, hinting at another organ with which similar manipulations can be done. If a stimulating ear massage is undeservedly ignored, a woman can expect disappointment in bed. Touching an organ that is distant from the notorious G-spots is quite capable of arousing a man.

• "Cinnamon Cake"

You can excite a guy by touching his chest with your hand, the sensitive areolas around the nipples. Cinnamon, which is used as a “seasoning” for caresses, is especially popular among hot-tempered people. Girls also experience a storm of emotions when they give men this spicy, exciting massage.

• Ice on my back.

It’s worth doing something nice for the guy: play the game “ice and fire”, putting your partner on his stomach, rolling a piece of ice along the spine from top to bottom. This will bring the body into good tone, excite the man and set him in an intimate mood.

• Little finger massage.

A foot massage greatly excites a man. The little toe is considered especially sensitive. You can use any massage aromatic oil that both partners prefer. The arousing scents that men prefer are discussed below.

• Path along the pigtail.

This method is a win-win because it excites guys the most . It’s worth walking along the “path” that starts under the navel and hides in the thickets at the base of the penis, and soon the guy will turn the bed into a huge, boundless “testing ground of love.” After this, the lady will not need any female pathogens.

• Let's look in from the back door.

Most men respond very gratefully to stimulation of the anus and buttocks. If a guy has a lot of erotic points located “from the back door,” you can try to excite your partner by giving pleasure this way. A man should not massage this sensitive area too zealously. It is better to prepare for this in advance by familiarizing yourself with the specific technique.

• Expensive egg...

Often a girl excites a guy by lightly touching his testicles. It has been proven that they are hypersensitive, but the organ must be handled with extreme caution, since at the slightest touch the testicles reflexively “run up.” But if you touch the “twins” very gently, the man’s readiness for intercourse occurs much faster.

• Take the reins.

The frenulum on the penis is the very point that, by touching it, you can certainly excite a guy. For a small V-shaped thing, a light manual massage is enough, and the guy is guaranteed unearthly pleasure. A sense of proportion will tell you how to do such manipulations better. The wrong approach is to use force and excessive passion.

A great ending can be achieved by focusing on special points of pleasure during arousal. These areas can be stimulated both during foreplay and during the intimate process:

1. Point H. Head of the penis.
2. Point F. Bridle.
3. Zone R. Perineum and scrotum.
4. Point G. In the depth of the anus (permitted interval is 5 cm from the anus) there is a prostate gland. It is this location that is most sensitive in guys. It is necessary to remember: too intense prostate massage is unacceptable. The vulnerability of this organ should be taken into account.

However, you should not assume that these recommendations are suitable for all couples in love without exception. Before you begin to implement tips on arousal techniques, it is advisable to know the boundaries that are undesirable to cross. The video posted in the article will clearly and easily demonstrate how to correctly write your own bed story.

What else?

A beautiful “wrapper”, a gentle look, words, perfumes and recipes – a woman’s arsenal of arousal is huge. But to please a guy and excite him, you need to find your own methods.

• Beauty and surroundings.

It’s easy to excite a man by trying on a sexy dress. You can read smart advice as much as you like, but if your wife has eternal curlers on her head and a washed-out robe, the man is unlikely to become aroused. And you shouldn’t be offended that your husband is not ready to love anyone, because the woman herself is unlikely to be delighted with the “couch macho” in frayed sweatpants.

• The power of aphrodisiacs.

It’s not difficult to understand the basics of intimate “cuisine”: just study which herbs, spices, and foods are considered aphrodisiacs, that is, substances that can stimulate sexual energy. The entire arsenal of stimulant products is beyond the scope of this article, but some herbal items can be mentioned: nuts, bananas, citrus fruits, seafood, spices, herbs. As for drinks, you can sip tequila or wild rum before sex. Drinking a lot of alcohol is strictly not recommended, since an unlucky lover can expect the opposite effect.

• Compliments.

Many men go into ecstasy from compliments - this is an indisputable fact. You can give pleasure not tactilely (with your hands) - just say a few inspiring phrases, and the stern heart will collapse at the feet of the seductress.

• Artificial stimulants.

There are a lot of male potency stimulants that are quickly brought to the desired condition with the help of natural or chemical substances (Viagra, Alicaps, etc.). They must be taken with caution, since many drugs cause side effects.

• Seductive aroma.

To excite men, ladies often use different scents. Which essential oils Are they popular in this difficult but enjoyable task? Fragrant substances can be either pure form, and can be found in gels, shampoos and even scented candles. Rose oil, neroli, sandalwood, ylang-ylang, and ginger are considered aphrodisiacs.

• Photo 9 by 12.

Pictures, photos, videos of erotic content are sometimes included in a man’s arsenal of seduction, but often you shouldn’t get virtually aroused, because the best object for this is a real, beautiful girl.

What to do if a lady not only lacks quality seduction, but is hampered by too strict upbringing or outright ignorance?

Possible mistakes

It’s very bad when women make banal mistakes in seduction without even realizing them. According to statistics, most divorces happen due to sexual incompatibility, but what is the reason?

"Errors" in girls:

1. Puritan upbringing. If a lady feels bad from just the word “sex,” then she won’t be able to excite a guy or give him pleasure. It would be more correct to contact a sexologist (psychologist), who will help you become more liberated.
2. Absolute darkness. The anticipation of sex in the dark and under the covers is not very inspiring for a man. Contemplation of a woman's body is the initial stage of arousal, and should not be ignored. For example, it is an undeniable fact that men are turned on by female breast. The answer lies in the genome of the stronger sex. This attachment has existed since ancient times, since breasts have always been considered a symbol of beauty, femininity, and it is no secret that this organ is one of the main erogenous zones a woman who can completely liberate her.
3. Shyness. There are no absolutely perfect bodies, so imperfections can be skillfully disguised under exquisite negligees or loose capes, presenting to a man’s gaze only those places that are beautiful and capable of arousing.

In order to greatly excite a man and give him pleasure, you do not need to master all known techniques or 15 ways of obtaining pleasure at once. The main condition for success is mutual emotional attachment. If both partners are spiritually close, it is easy and effortless to excite a man.