Raising this issue, we decided to provide an opportunity for readers of the site, as well as patients, to get acquainted with the opinion of our leading specialist, who heads the department of urology. This is Yury Georgievich Chigrin, who took the time to answer some very important questions!

This article material will be provided for review in the form of a question and answer, and we are sure that you will find a lot of useful information here!

Yuri Georgievich, what can you say about the statistics of venereal diseases in Krivoy Rog?

First of all, she is not happy. Every day we meet in the corridors of our clinic a lot of people whose age is no longer limited by some framework. It can be middle-aged men, and generally young boys and girls.

Statistics on venereal diseases in Krivoy Rog is constantly getting worse, and in most cases, it is promiscuity that leads to this. Negative results for AIDS in Krivoy Rog, which, unfortunately, leads in this terrible disease in the Dnipropetrovsk region, which in turn is in second place in Ukraine.

In general, it is necessary to keep statistics, but personally, I think that it is necessary to deal not with numbers, but with the treatment of patients, and try to work with everyone individually, because today there is no single way to treat all diseases!

Yuri Georgievich, you mentioned promiscuity... why do you think their number is growing today?

Well, it's hard to say, but it is likely that the institution of marriage suffers somewhat in our country! You know, this is many thousands of years ago, when people were uneducated and generally far from civilization, everything was focused on survival and reproduction. Then there were probably even more promiscuity. But over the years, everything changed, and there was a certain selectivity in the selection of a sexual partner. Today it is enshrined in the form of marriage and family, but, unfortunately, this institution is really shaky, and there are also a lot of reasons for this...

In fact, this is not about this, that is, not about the behavior of people and their moral character, but about what such behavior can lead to, if we are talking specifically about sexual relationships.

For example, men seek outside connections because of unfavorable family situations or public opinion about polygamy. Women, in turn, because of the lack of attention... Young people and in general today consider it normal to have several sexual partners, and many even proudly declare it... that adults, and the elderly, all the more, consider it completely immoral . But such is life ... and the problem is not even who sleeps with whom, but what he does in terms of his health and the health of his sexual partner.

Excuse me, what do you mean now? Can you be a little more precise?

Yes, of course...meaning that promiscuity, which is also called promiscuity, in view of the above question on the statistics of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS, is very dangerous!

The main rule of today's patient is not to go to the doctor until it gets really bad! People endure, are treated at home, stuff themselves with antibiotics, which they learned about from the Internet or on TV, drink weed. Accordingly, if there is no clearly defined diagnosis, in 99% of cases this does not lead to anything good. The disease progresses, and complex preparations cause additional harm to the body, for example, to the liver and stomach.

But there is another side of the medal... some diseases may not manifest themselves for weeks and months, but at the same time develop, disrupting the functioning of the genitourinary system, causing various complications, affecting reproductive function. It is also worth mentioning prostatitis, which is experienced by young people for several years with minor manifestations, and when the patient comes to the doctor, it turns out that prostatitis has become chronic, and it is much more expensive and more difficult to treat it! Therein lies the danger!

Yuri Georgievich, thank you for such a detailed answer. But an additional question: how to avoid sexually transmitted diseases if a person still leads a promiscuous sex life?

To tell the truth, there are many ways. Of course, the most important thing is to reduce the number of sexual partners, the ideal situation is when he is alone! Then you understand that the person is healthy, and there is nothing to worry about. But that's when sexual partners several, it is necessary to use condoms, follow the rules of personal hygiene, and also check with a doctor on time. At least once every six months, it is worth taking tests for STDs, talking to a urologist, talking about the symptoms that appear, telling the specialist about what is bothering you.

And tell me, what are the main symptoms of venereal diseases? What should you pay attention to, what changes in health, even if a person lives a sexual life not with several, but with one sexual partner?

There can be a lot of symptoms, as there are a lot of STDs today. In addition, one disease can have quite a few symptoms, as well as the same symptom for several diseases. Therefore, it is important to take tests and explain clinical picture specialist so as not to be mistaken.

Today, first of all, among the symptoms of sexually transmitted diseases, it is worth declaring the following:
Itching and burning with and without urination;
Swelling and redness of the genitals;
Discharge of an unpleasant color, texture and smell;
Lower abdominal pain;
Frequent urge to urinate;
Discomfort during sexual intercourse;
The appearance of neoplasms on the genitals - rash, sores on the mucous membrane, papillomas;
Perhaps an increase in lymph nodes, fever.

Yuri Georgievich, what diseases are identified according to these signs?

It’s hard to say right away, since many sexually transmitted diseases have similar symptoms. Therefore, a doctor's examination and tests for STDs are necessary. But you can identify a wide variety of sexually transmitted infections. Mycoplasmosis, ureaplasmosis, gonorrhea, trichomoniasis, chlamydia, genital herpes, and then prostatitis, many complications. The list, unfortunately, is quite large!

Clear! Thank you! And what advice could you give to the residents of Krivoy Rog, the patients of the Mediton Clinic?

The first, and perhaps the most correct one, is to never self-medicate! If you feel discomfort or changes in your own body, this is an occasion to contact a specialist. Further, everything is purely individual, since the behavior of life in each person is different, and the body, and diseases with their stages and forms. Therefore, there is no need to be shy, no need to delay visiting a doctor. Take care of your own health, because we can only do this if you come to us!

Thank you very much for your time and conversation.

Please. Be healthy and take care of yourself!

Important information:

Causes of promiscuity (promiscuity)

Promiscuous sexual relations with continuous change of sexual partners
called promiscuity.
Sexual contacts with casual partners (or partners) in
teenage and even childhood may be the result of incorrect
sexual education and the lack of a moral and ethical position, when
parents do not explain to the child the basics of the relationship between representatives
male and female, in dysfunctional families where the father or both
parents are alcoholics, or one of the parents is immoral
life, and the sexual intercourse of drunken parents with random partners occurs
in front of the children.
Mental and emotional immaturity inherent in this age,
does not allow for long-term attachment to one partner.
Insufficient sexual development does not allow adolescents to distinguish between
good and bad sexual partners, and even more so if partners
are the same immature peers (or peers).
Initially, the girl may lose her innocence out of curiosity,
the desire to appear "adult" or "modern", for fear of refusing
partner in intimacy, and sometimes as a result of rape, when her
forced to drink alcohol, and then in turn raped all the members
companies. Feeling fear and shame, the girl hides it from adults. Or
due to her mental immaturity, she is not fully aware of the consequences
happened, and subsequently "goes from hand to hand", and it can be used
everyone who wishes.
Messy sex life maybe in antisocial teenage
a group with a heterosexual composition, where the guys spend all free time in
drunkenness, card games, sexual orgies and commit petty
offenses.
Girls, members of this group most often have pronounced mental
deviations and mental illnesses, originate from dysfunctional families.
They drink with the boys and cohabit with all members of the group.
Or such girls are outwardly very unattractive, do not use
attention of other peers, and numerous sexual contacts in
within their group serves as a kind of compensation for the lack of
attention and care of boys.
They may be attracted to the group by a leader with a criminal record, usually more
older than the rest of the group. At first he uses
girl to satisfy their own sexual needs, and then
"gives" her to teenagers, and he "recruits" another.
Subsequently, many of these girls become underage prostitutes.
on their own initiative or become dependent on pimps.
Some men for fear of possible impotence, especially if
they are sexual problems, tend to "compensate" for this by indulging in
endless amorous adventures, preferring young girls who
undemanding in sexual intercourse.
They brag about their many "victories" to their buddies,
showing them another "passion", and thus create an image for themselves
"sexual giant", although in fact their sexual capabilities are "lower
average".
Continuous change of sexual partners with multiple sexual
intercourse (up to ten or more) is observed with ephedron addiction in
any age due to strong sexual arousal that occurs in
drug intoxication.
Promiscuity is also characteristic of some representatives of creative
professions. In some cases, it is demonstrative, deliberate. it
characteristic of people with hysterical character traits who seek
attract attention in any way. Therefore, they not only do not hide,
but vice versa, in every possible way advertise their many love affairs,
which gives them the opportunity to constantly be in the spotlight of the press due to
numerous scandals connected with their name and the names of their lovers,
which increases their popularity, albeit a very scandalous one.
Some movie actors and movie actresses "collect" only the famous
lovers, and the longer the list of love affairs, even very
short-term, the more they acquire a reputation as a "sex bomb",
"sex symbol" or "hero-lover".
Their own sexual appetites can be quite different - from
elevated sexual attraction(nymphomania in women, satyriasis in
men) to very moderate.
In the latter case, the very fact of a love affair is much more important for them.
with a popular person, which, in their opinion, creates a certain
image of a temperamental lover (or mistress), since they managed to
win favor famous person.
In fact, they may have many problems with sex, and
numerous connections serve to hide them and assert themselves.
Demonstrative change of sexual partners may be in some
people of homosexual orientation in order to hide their
true inclinations.
In some people, promiscuity is due to hypersexuality and
inability with the help of one sexual partner to satisfy their
increased sexual desires, for example, in nymphomaniac women.
A clinical example is described in the chapter on adultery.
And some people have promiscuous sex and a constant change
sexual partners is caused by an emotional defect, underdevelopment of higher
emotions and incapacity for stable, permanent attachments.

Clinical example.
Olga N. 27 years old. Was not born in Moscow, in an intelligent family, the eldest
from two daughters.
By nature, she was always frivolous, careless, she lived "like
moth", "fluttering through life". She graduated from the Institute of Culture in Moscow, worked
editor.
The beginning of sexual activity from the age of 17, since she came to Moscow.
She doesn’t remember her first partner, somehow she drank a lot at the student
party and fell asleep. Waking up, I found a young man next to me and
drove him away. She lived in a hostel, the morals there were quite free.
Lovers change all the time.
At the age of 20, she married one of them, a Muscovite, but life with her husband is not
developed, he was petty, greedy, jealous, and she was always attracted to noisy
and funny companies. There were 3 pregnancies, but she did not want to have children, and did
abortion. Two years later she left her husband and lived either with one lover or with
another.
Outwardly, she was always very attractive, with a doll face, plump
lips and long hair. She was promiscuous in sexual relations, could
come to a party with one lover, and leave the party with another. About her
everyone said that she did not value herself, as if she had "found herself in the garbage heap".
Men said about her that "you pour a glass for her, and she is yours." During
one party could have sexual contact with several men,
secluded with them either in the bathroom, or in the toilet, or in another room, or even on
landing. Tried and group sex. in sexual behavior
was very relaxed, and despite her inconstancy, men greatly appreciated
her as an experienced sexual relationship mistress.
But in her words, she herself treated sex "as a sport." Orgasm
rarely experienced, as she was undemanding, and if another lover
did not conduct the necessary stimulation, then did not insist.
One of the wives of her many lovers splashed her in the face out of revenge.
some kind of aerosol, the liquid got into the eyes, caused chemical burns skin
person, and by "Ambulance" was delivered to the Research Institute. Sklifosovsky, where am I
and talked with her. She asked for a consultation herself in connection with
alcohol abuse.
Mentally immature, infantile, incapable of feeling for anyone
long-term attachment. Moral and ethical position is not formed.
The concept of shame, a sense of gratitude is absent. Higher emotions absolutely
undeveloped. Considers love romantic relationship"fiction for girls."
Feels no regret or embarrassment even when getting into bed
with the husband of a friend who gave her temporary shelter, says: "What about
this one?". Although she herself did not feel any attraction to her friend's husband -
"He wanted to, but I didn't care." The same applies to others
to their sexual partners. Agrees to intimacy with a man and sober
state, and intoxicated. May agree even after the first minutes
acquaintance. Have had sexual intercourse more than once in the presence of other people,
if it did not bother the partner. She herself did not feel uncomfortable.
He talks about everything with cynical details.
There are no real plans for the future. The only concern is how it will reflect
burns on her appearance. No plans for future sex life
builds "how it goes". Assumes that if she stops drinking,
maybe her life will be sorted out somehow, but maybe not. No action on my own
is not going to do.

The cause of promiscuity may be a personal tragedy
in a person's life, for example, when a partner is cheating on him (to a woman -
partner), whom he loved very much and regards betrayal as a betrayal.
In this case, with the help of a frequent change of sexual partners, a person
as if trying to annoy the cheater, to demonstrate that he is without
he lives beautifully, and does not tear his hair out of grief, so that he who has changed
felt regret because of the gap or humiliation that he quickly found
replacement, and not one.
The reason for the constant change of partners after disappointment in personal life
and a breakup with a loved one, which led to mental trauma, maybe
and fear of repeating it.
A person does not want to experience the pain of loss again, so he changes his mistresses
(or lovers) "like gloves", afraid to get attached to someone as a result
long-term relationship and subsequently experience another disappointment.
He regards sexual partners as a means for pleasure and
mercilessly disposes of them as soon as he feels that there may be
continuation of the relationship. Disappointment in the past makes him (or her)
the belief that all women (or men) are prone to infidelity, and that
not to experience feelings of humiliation again, abandons his partners first.
The reason for the frequent change of partners may be the constant search for some
"ideal" that the seeker assumes in each new partner, and
getting to know each other better, he is convinced that he (or she) is far from what he is looking for
ideal, and again looking for perfection. And since perfect people like
known, no, then these searches can continue indefinitely.
Frequent change of sexual partners may be associated with the complex
guilt. For example, if a girl (or boy) in the past had any
sexual contact (such as rape) that causes them
consider themselves defiled and unworthy to belong to a good person
or get married, they thus "punish" themselves for their "sin".
This can happen if a girl lost her virginity early, and this
contradicts her upbringing and her own ideas of morality.
Some overly conscientious and suspicious young men have such a complex
guilt can form after sex with a prostitute or a woman
significantly older than himself, or in an intoxicated state.
The consequence of the guilt complex can be either "monastic asceticism" with
complete renunciation of sexual life, or the opposite - disorderly
sex life as punishment.
The latter is more characteristic of people prone to masochism, therefore, in
this self-punishment, the feeling of being "vicious", "dirty depraved",
humiliation they get the necessary sexual satisfaction.

Thanks

Have you ever come across the term " promiscuity»?
Most likely, many of you have already heard about it.
Do you know what exactly is hidden under this term?
Promiscuity is nothing more than promiscuous sexual relations, which may involve one woman and many men, or one man and many women. Simply put, promiscuity is sex without rules or obligations. Older people refer to this type of behavior as an abnormal way of life, as well as moral licentiousness, sexual intemperance, perversion, sexual unbridledness, and the like. But young people consider promiscuity normal. People who tend to lead this kind of lifestyle are called polyamorous, that is, people who have many beloved women or men. For such people, words like "fidelity", "family", "love", "marriage" and the like simply do not exist.

If we talk about promiscuity, then this term is used to refer to people whose sexual organs are the most developed, which in their particular case play the role of not only the soul, but also the brain. It turns out that in their life there is only one goal, namely sexual satisfaction. They are not interested in the true feelings of their sexual partners. For them, the main thing is to achieve orgasm, as well as to discharge the accumulated sexual energy.

If we talk about the advantages of promiscuous sexual relations, then this is, first of all, the complete absence of any obligations, as well as boundaries. But do not forget that in such a relationship there is not a single gram of love. Corruption is considered to be the most significant disadvantage of such a relationship. Man is constantly on the lookout. As a result, nothing and no one satisfies him, since almost everything becomes known to him after six months or a year of such a life. As a result, the feeling of dissatisfaction still continues to haunt.
So why is all this necessary?

It is also important to note the fact that promiscuity is also a high risk of infection. In the end, you can turn from a decent person into a tramp, a homeless person, a prostitute, and so on. Especially often those individuals who at least once, but had a chance to take part in group sex, begin to engage in promiscuity. Often, women or men also take this path because their previous love ended in betrayal on the part of their beloved. Thus, they try to prove to him or her that they will never be alone.

Polyamorous most often remain single until the end of their days. They have neither a family nor people close to them, and all because such people are most often not needed by anyone, since they are considered complete egoists. Of course, in old age they begin to realize their errors, but it is no longer possible to correct the course of events. It is not surprising that these people, having lost their former beauty and fame, in old age they go into moralizing or are fed into religion.

Before use, you should consult with a specialist. With the onset of the sexual revolution, the world learned what promiscuity was: promiscuity, frequent partner changes and entry into intimate relationship without love ceased to be something out of the ordinary. If in women such behavior is still condemned by society, then in men, promiscuity causes only positive ones. Often, young people even boast among themselves which of them had more partners. So, if a normal man usually does not have more than 10 women before marriage, then men who practice promiscuity may have 100 or more women. Moreover, as a rule, after entering into a legal marriage, the “macho” does not stop and continues to replenish his list. Promiscuity, as a model of sexual behavior, is characteristic not only for traditional heterosexual contacts, but also for homosexual ones. Moreover, among homosexuals, promiscuity occurs even more often; in individuals, the number of sexual partners can reach and even exceed 1000.

Of course, it is hardly possible to call such behavior the norm. Psychologists have long known what promiscuity is and classify it as a sexual pathology. The difficulty of correcting this psychological disorder lies in the fact that many patients do not consider themselves as such, attributing their tendency to promiscuous sexual intercourse to character traits, lifestyle, etc.

Promiscuity: Causes and Consequences

Like all other psychological disorders, promiscuity has a very deep cause. One of the main psychologists called low self-esteem, self-doubt, the presence a large number complexes. In this case, by changing sexual partners, a person subconsciously tries to raise his significance, to prove to himself and others that he is attractive and desirable. Psychological trauma associated with sex can also lead to promiscuity, be it rape, a bad first sexual contact etc. Many people who practice promiscuity treat sex life as entertainment, which is also not right from the point of view of the human psyche.

Even knowing what promiscuity is, many do not consider this behavior to be something terrible. However, the consequences can be dire. Thus, the frequent change of sexual partners significantly increases the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. In women it is possible unwanted pregnancy, and, as a result, an abortion, which often leads to infertility. Also, the tendency to promiscuity reduces the chances of building a normal family, which means that in the future a person will be lonely.

Promiscuous relationships, or they are also called promiscuity, which comes from the Latin word promiscuous. This word means - mixed or common. Some researchers who have studied this issue say with confidence that promiscuity is a very common phenomenon during the formation of society, during the time of Napoleon, revolutions and crises. Promiscuity existed freely, it never occurred to anyone before that it could be immoral or wrong. In the past, people had sexual intercourse with whoever they could, and none of them thought about the consequences. This was taken for granted. Then people had no such thing as a family or monogamy. Yes, men and women started families and children, but for them it was like something optional. Men and women cheated on each other, made lovers and mistresses, slept with everyone. Unfortunately, the concept of promiscuity is also popular in our time. But, it differs from our times in that people have ceased to strongly advertise such connections.

What provokes people to promiscuity?

Why do people indulge in all serious? Why, people, realizing that promiscuity will not lead to anything good, do it anyway? People are smart creatures, they are able to love, suffer and give other people their tenderness. Why do they lose their morality, their spirituality and engage in promiscuity? In fact, there are answers to all these questions. They contain reasons such as sex education, the society in which a person lives from childhood, depression leads people to disorderly relationships, problems with men or women as potential partners, diseases associated with the psyche, complexes. Sometimes, people who engage in promiscuity in order to take revenge on their partner.

Unfortunately, our liberated time, young people believe that promiscuity is cool and fashionable. They believe that if you change partners every day, then a person will become more popular and more experienced. They do not think about the future, about the family, about the fact that they can become infected with infectious diseases.

Men and women who do not lead a very correct lifestyle believe that this is quite normal, consider themselves smart and healthy, and that nothing is happening to them, that they just chose such an intimate life. Also, such people will not scream left and right that they are addicted to promiscuity. And if they tell someone, then often no one believes them. They do not know how many partners they had, such people believe that it does not matter.

Men and women are in no hurry to rant about their achievements. Firstly, in society they will not be understood and possibly ridiculed, and, secondly, promiscuity can be considered as a disease. Those people who eventually take up the mind, then in most of them, problems arise in family life, in intimate life and problems with people in general.

Basically, people who have led a chaotic lifestyle for too long, then they cannot stop, it becomes their essence, they thus try to prove something to themselves, not to be lonely.

Promiscuous relationships will never be judged as something right and good. Think about whether you need the condemnation of your friends and loved ones, whether you need health problems. If you still want to stop, but you yourself do not have enough willpower and common sense, then contact a psychologist. A specialist will help you find the main reason why you started to live this way, help you cope with it and find right decision. It will help you find peace and purpose, help you become a serious and responsible person.