Many families face loss mutual feelings- years pass life together, love dissolves, sensitivity and attention are erased, and everyday life turns into a second job, filled with responsibilities and claims. Less sensitive men are not able to notice changes in their wife’s behavior, because outwardly she smiles, performs usual actions, listens, but inside her a plan for a future life without him has long been matured. How to get your wife back later?
Men are focused on making money; it is important for them public opinion, social status. They forget to give the wives they have already achieved with warmth, care, and manifestations of love. This is considered the norm of behavior, so the male sex is not able to notice the beginning of problems - they immediately have to face the consequences in the form of “I was abandoned and betrayed.” How to return your wife's love? There’s definitely no point in shouting and blaming her - you need to calm down and consider the situation.
Causes
Why did the wife stop loving? Why did you cool down, if everything is fine? In fact, feelings don't go away suddenly. This must be preceded by a certain push - frequent scandals, financial difficulties, heavy losses. The main reason why a woman stops loving her husband is the routine of life - monotony can kill even the strongest feelings.
On the one hand, it’s wonderful to wake up together, have breakfast together, and watch your favorite movies in the evenings. But on the other hand, regularly performing the same actions leads to irritability and negativity. Spouses get so used to it that they become a burden, not a soul mate. A woman needs shocks, surprises, unusual actions so that she feels those “butterflies in her stomach” and understands “they love me.” She is still dear to her husband, and he is ready to surprise and conquer her. Men who take care of their women never have the question “how should they be a wife”?
Men will say that they are tired after work, they have neither the time nor the desire to be romantic, because after some 10-12 hours they will have to go to the office and work again. All they can think about is “they don’t feel sorry for me, they don’t appreciate me.” But other halves do not need daily manifestations of care - it’s enough to come up with something interesting or at least unusual for the family once every 2 months, and she definitely won’t have any thoughts of leaving her husband.
The situation is similar in intimate relationships- monotony will kill even sexual attraction. If the scenario is repeated every time, sooner or later the woman will not stand it. Neglect of a spouse is also the cause of missing feelings - if on weekends a man behaves selfishly, strives to meet with friends, play computer games or do other “own things”, then there is no doubt that in the near future the wife will either immediately report that she has fallen out of love, or scandals will begin. Your loved one should be included in your weekend plans. Nobody limits your freedom, you can alternate between relaxing with your family and relaxing with friends, but the regular absence of your husband leads to indifference.
How to understand that love is gone?
What are the signs that she has truly fallen out of love with her husband? Please note a few points:
- A woman refuses sex.
- She communicates with other men and is interested in their successes. In this case, the presence of physical betrayal is not necessary.
- Change of priorities - her husband is no longer interesting to her, she prefers to meet with friends, go to the movies herself, make plans on her own.
There are also secondary signs:
- I stopped hiding my shortcomings;
- Often unreasonably jealous;
- Irritated for any reason;
- Ignores husband's presence;
- Became selfish, rude;
- I stopped cooking and taking care of the house;
- No longer advised in making important decisions.
These are the main signs of indifference on the part of a woman - how to behave if at least one of the points arises in a relationship? You should take action before love fades away completely!
What to do?
How to return your wife's love? Many men mistakenly believe that it is enough to make a substantial gift, for example, buy a car or expensive decoration. However, women notice not the amount of money spent on them, but the units of attention given to her. Gave flowers for no reason - plus one, invited to the cinema - another plus, got up earlier and made coffee - another plus. Small actions are remembered by women much more firmly than monetary gifts.
But what to do if your wife has fallen out of love and is determined to leave? Or does my wife say she doesn't love me anymore? It is unlikely that in such a situation she will want to go to a concert or a romantic walk in the park. The critical moment has come, and you need to act quickly, thinking through every step.
Sure ways
How to return your wife's love if you know for sure that you are ready to fight for it? Take advantage in the right ways that will help improve relationships:
- Most effective way problem solving - straight Talk. You should choose a moment when both partners are calm and have free time, and just discuss the situation. Try to analyze the relationship together and find the reason why it deteriorated. It is important that the conversation does not develop into another scandal.
- When the wife left and said that the reason for this was a specific action, and the man knows which one, he will have to apologize. You can make amends by organizing a surprise that she will definitely like. If we are talking about betrayal, then perhaps she will never forgive, but you have to try.
- If your wife has fallen out of love, then she needs to fall in love again! Help around the house, decisive actions, interest in her life and what is happening at work will make her understand that her husband is still the best.
- In order for a wife who has fallen out of love to return, you need to call her for a conversation and listen to all the complaints and criticism without interrupting. The main thing is to find out what exactly doesn’t suit you, so that you can then think about your actions and understand whether the man is ready to change and return her.
- Parting - indeed, if she has fallen out of love, give her the opportunity to live alone. During this time, both will comprehend life alone, and later they will be able to decide whether to get together again or not.
- Help from a specialist - advice from a psychologist during consultations saves 60% of couples. If she says that she does not want to attend such sessions, then you need to independently study the information on this topic, personally go to the reception and try to do everything possible to improve the relationship.
- If no one wants to behave differently, concessions are a psychological barrier for both parties, mutual alienation is felt, then it’s time to part ways forever. It's easier to break up than constantly quarrel.
How to get your wife back? Change everything! If previously a man behaved like an absolute egoist and did not pay attention to his beloved, now he must show understanding. There is no need to constantly remind her of her shortcomings; it is important to listen to the woman, help and support her. After all, you won’t be able to get your wife back if you promise her absolutely new life, changing only for a few days. Next time she will leave again, and most likely forever.
Keep or accept?
How to save a family if your wife stops loving you? Before answering this question, a man needs to understand whether he wants to return his wife who has fallen out of love? At this stage of life, there are two options for the development of events - to fight for the love of the person you value, or to accept the situation and, as if nothing had happened, start searching new woman. When abandoning your spouse, you should evaluate the entire period of your life together, remember how it all began, how you cope with everyday issues, with raising children. Think about how your wife treats you, how much attention she shows.
If the couple really a good relationship, there are no special scandals, and there is no talk of betrayal, which means there is something to restore. But when the spouses are suffering together, constantly making mutual claims, then perhaps it is worth gaining willpower by taking this step - getting a divorce. However, you can separate at any time, so any psychologist will advise you to first try to reconcile.
Often the reason for separation is mistakes made by a man. If he wants to return his beloved, he needs to begin to win her trust and affection again. 3 main pillars of reconciliation: facts indicating that the husband is worth returning, patience and attention.
A man must be prepared that re-conquering his wife will require not only effort, but also time. But he has many trump cards in the form of information about a woman or common children, the proper use of which contributes to reconciliation.
Reason for leaving
The way to restore the relationship and the likelihood of success in this matter largely depends on the reason why the spouse left. In each family they are individual, but there are typical for representatives of all age groups and social strata:
- 1. Family violence. This is not necessarily assault. There may be psychological, economic or sexual violence. Women can endure this for a long time before leaving, hoping for changes for the better.
- 2. Addictions - alcohol, drugs, gaming. There are two options for developing relationships in such a family: the wife leaving, if she is lucky, and a joint road to nowhere, if she is not very lucky.
- 3. Cheating.
- 4. Everyday life and lack of money - a woman does not feel loved, desired and needed, she is tired of making ends meet.
- 5. Her feelings cooled down and she left for someone else. Most of the fairer sex continue to live, without love, with a partner until someone appears to whom they can leave.
- 6. A violent scandal, during which a man offended a woman without controlling his emotions.
- 7. Mutual decision of the spouses to separate or divorce.
How to get your wife's love back
Before you return
Advice from psychologists for men who want to return their ex-wife to the family:
- 1. Take a piece of paper and paper and answer, slowly, the following questions:
- Why do I need it? (I miss the mistress of the house/I miss you like crazy/I’m ashamed in front of people/It’s a shame that she left and not me).
- What did I understand from this situation? (that she is much more significant than she seemed before / that she is much better than mistresses / how much she did for the family / that he really was wrong).
- What will I change? (a list of real things, actions that a man is ready for in order for his wife not only to return home, but also to stay there for a long time).
- Does the relationship have a future? To answer this question, you need to draw the paper into 2 columns, write down the pros of your former life together in the first, and the cons in the second. Based on this experience and the man’s readiness for change, one can roughly imagine the further development of the joint relationship.
2. Consider a plan of action. No friend, sister, godfather or mother-in-law knows a woman like her husband. Therefore, it is unreasonable to shift responsibility for your behavior onto other people. Instead, it is better to delve into memory, remember what connected the couple, what she loves most, and plan her return.
3. When decisions have been made, you can involve people who care about this family. But not as initiators and generators of ideas, but only as assistants fulfilling her husband’s requests.
4. If the spouse already loves another and has firmly decided to leave, all attempts will be in vain, and failures will only provoke mental disorders. But this is already a question of how to survive a breakup.
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Effective ways to get your wife back
If the reason for the woman’s departure is determined, the man has thought about everything and is ready to act, he needs to remember an important thing: the success of his plan depends on another person who is very important to him. Which has the right to be not ready for reconciliation now, to be very angry and offended. Which cannot be transported from place to place like a thing. Which makes important decisions independently.
All psychologists are unanimous in the opinion that The best way to force a person to do something - to make him want to do something. Therefore, the goal of all events that will be held for family reunification is for the woman herself to want to return, and not to show her super-advantages and prove her innocence.
The husband longs for reunification, but this should not be the main stated reason for reconciliation. It is necessary to create conditions under which a woman understands that a person deserves another chance.
- 1. Fall in love with yourself. Girls fall in love with their attitude. Therefore, if you envelop them with care, attention, desired gifts and romantic surprises, then the chances of reconciliation increase. If your wife left for her mother, then you need to make her fall in love with you as a son-in-law. T still - very important person in the life of the spouses, if she is loyal to the man, then making peace with her daughter will be much easier. The method of courtship is especially effective if the reason for the separation was everyday life and lack of money.
- 2. Have a heart-to-heart talk, sincerely repenting and admitting that you love deeply and don’t want to let go. Forms of communication:
- One-on-one - it is important to look into the eyes and talk about its importance and positive qualities, under no circumstances should you sort things out or prove that she is also wrong in many ways; if possible, use tactile contact- take a hand, hug, stroke.
- By phone or video call - no attack in tone, even if the spouse provokes, only repentance and a firm desire to return everything.
- If he doesn’t get in touch or the man himself doesn’t dare to communicate live, write a letter containing explanations, confessions, and an offer to make peace. Women love this very much.
It is very important not only to talk about yourself, your experiences and suffering, but also to be interested in her emotional state and thoughts on various occasions.
3. Small but eloquent actions. A man knows best the characteristics and secrets of his woman. If she categorically does not want a relationship and communication, nothing prevents her from acting beautifully, using the information that her husband has:
- Order her lunch delivered to work.
- Top up your account on your mobile phone.
- If she left with the child, be sure to take care of his material well-being. Even if the wife didn’t say a word after leaving, her bank card number probably remains or can be found out. It is very important not to leave a woman without a livelihood, even if this does not bring the expected effect. Forced, in addition to raising a child and everyday issues, to also earn money, a woman is guaranteed to be very tired and, against the backdrop of this, will be angry with her ex.
- Help with the child as before, and if the reason for the separation was everyday life, then even more.
- If the couple does communicate and the woman says that something is broken in the house, the man is obliged to take care of fixing it. With your own hands or with the help of a competent person is an unprincipled question.
4. Make her dream come true. To do this, you need to try to remember what she really wanted - to master some profession, visit a foreign country, spend a day at a spa, become the owner of an expensive item. Next, you need to do everything to give this to the woman.
5. Work to eliminate the cause of the separation, not just promise to improve. Because if she believes the words and returns home, but no real changes have occurred, then soon there will be another departure.
6. It happens that the desire to return a wife arises after a divorce, the decision about which was made mutually. Often the spouse fails to build a new relationship, and he:
- realizes that he still loves his ex;
- compares everyone she meets to her, and she wins in every way;
- realizes that he made a mistake by breaking up.
If this is what happens after divorce or talaq, then you need to check how things are going on the personal front with your wife. It is likely that she has already met worthy man and builds new relationships. In this case, you need to find out the necessary information from the woman herself and reliable people close to her, and only then act. If another person has appeared in your wife’s life and she is happy with him, you should abandon the idea of returning her.
It is important that in trying to get his woman back, a man does not look pathetic. When a man evokes pity, it is difficult to respect him. And without this, relationships cannot be happy.
Do husbands return after divorce?
When is a specialist needed?
A married couple is not always able to cope with problems on their own. Cases when you need to attract competent people:
- 1. For all types of addictions to treat the husband. If a wife decides to return to her husband, who agreed to therapy, she should support him. This is an important step and the stress of new quarrels, reproaches and insults can lead to its breakdown. Therefore, they need to be left in the past and concentrate on getting rid of the more serious problem. If this succeeds, the couple will unite and reach a new level of relationship.
- 2. If it was practiced in the family domestic violence. A man needs a psychologist or psychotherapist to help cope with complexes and aggression, and a woman needs to overcome fear.
- 3. Sometimes after betrayal it is very difficult to survive and forget it due to the subjective perception of the situation. A psychologist will help you look at the problem from different angles, and the event will seem not so scary.
- 4. When there is a mutual desire to be together, but quarrels, complexes, people from the environment prevent you from living happily.
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Matveeva: How to get your wife back?
Good day. I want my wife back. Tell me - should I try? return your spouse, if we separated for the second time. If yes, then how to return your beloved wife to the family?
My wife and I are 35 years old, we have two children. The eldest is from my wife’s first marriage, I raised her from the age of 2, and the youngest is mine. Before we separated for the first time, we lived together for 13 years. Everything happened: we quarreled, swore, made up, and my wife often kicked me out, but I apologized and we made up.
We lived with her and her mother was with us. For most of her life, the wife lived without a father, her parents divorced, and what’s most interesting is that in her family, on the female side, all her sisters and aunts live without men and her social circle is also either divorced or single.
When we broke up for the first time, the reason was: the love was gone, there was nothing in the soul, and the main fact: “it’s hard for me with you.” We separated, but did not divorce, it was my request, it was necessary for work. The eldest daughter did not accept our breakup at all, and the youngest cried.
At first, I, probably like many men, tried to get my wife back, which only led to our relationship becoming even worse. Then I retreated, but kept thinking about her. In the 13 years I lived with my wife, I never cheated, although sometimes there was no sex for months, for various reasons, but they are not related to venous disease.
After the separation, and when I moved away a couple of months later, I began to meet girls, but everything would have been fine, but in each one I saw my wife, and at the moment when we had sex, I did not receive the pleasure that I received with my wife, although, all those girls were more beautiful and better at sex, but in my head I have my wife.
I began to notice in them such shortcomings that I had not paid attention to before and constantly looked for these shortcomings in all the girls and constantly compared them with my wife. And so a year and a half passed, I invited her to dinner, she agreed, we had dinner, talked about getting together and after dinner we had great sex.
A couple of days later I partially moved things to her. We began to live together, told the children and they were happy, and my wife and I were happy too. My wife and I went on vacation in July with our children to Greece; they arrived on vacation in seventh heaven.
And this happiness continued until about October, and then everything began the same as it had the first time. Nitpicking, lack of sex, and so on. But somehow he put up with it and tried to do everything in order to save the family and turned a blind eye to many things. My wife and I talked about things that we didn’t like, this was during the period when we separated, but after such conversations I received everything as a boomerang and in double, and after that I stopped telling my wife about it.
And even if she was wrong, I myself most often took the first step towards reconciliation, I thought that it was easier this way. And knowing this, I didn’t say anything and always kept everything to myself. Well, no matter how it was, we lived together for half a year and then broke up a month ago, but the reason is still the same: “it’s hard for me to be with you,” and I still couldn’t put up with your cockroaches.
In a word, the reason is the same. The children's reaction is the same. And the funny thing is, I had to say that we were disagreeing again, just like the first time.
And again I had to calm the youngest down. I love my daughter madly and she loves me very much too, and constantly says that she will go to live with me. Although I am not well-mannered and arrogant, my wife thinks so, but I cannot afford to take my child away.
A month passed, I managed to meet several girls, we had sex with them, and besides physiology, I had no more sensations; just like last time, I drew parallels with my wife.
And my question is the following, I still love my wife and really want to get my wife back again, but I don’t know if it’s worth it, and if so, how to do it and when, and is it worth taking the first step towards rapprochement?
Your family relationship problems are based on a psychological, unconscious game, and not on real intimacy, which is why disagreements, quarrels and misunderstandings arise.You correctly noted that your wife may have a life scenario of loneliness, the so-called family scenario. But many people find each other based on similarities or complements to life scenarios laid down in childhood.
Many also confuse true love with anxious attachment...
It follows from this that if you leave everything as it is within yourself, then even if you get together and return your wife - after some time - the outcome will be the same. And if you don’t return your beloved wife and save your family, you will suffer emotionally.
There is only one way out: to understand yourself and change your life scenario, then you can decide for yourself: get your wife back or build a new life, without leaving children and without suffering from memories of it.
If you don’t yet know how to get your wife back if she doesn’t want a relationship, the psychologist’s advice on this page will help you figure out this issue. We will figure out how to get your ex back if her feelings have cooled down after a divorce; Let's think together about how to restore the relationship and trust of your loved one.
Don't chop too hot
Your first instinctive desire after breaking up is to get her back by any means necessary. This is the main mistake that all lovers make when trying to get back. previous relationship. The fear of losing everything forever requires immediate action from us, but, unfortunately, the other side, in in this case- your ex-wife - will perceive this as an attempt to violate her personal space. She will actually be suffocated by your all-encompassing attention.
No matter how much you want to get your ex back, that's not the right thing to do right now. First, you need to cool down and give the woman time to rest from the problematic relationship. This may all drag on, but nothing can be done, otherwise you will only make the situation worse.
Figure it out for yourself for now. The tips in the article will help you cool down, organize your thoughts and try to look at life from a different angle. It's painful but good time to heal emotional wounds. If you rush to the front line now, you will only make things worse. Ex-lover she will only be frightened by such pressure, but she has not yet moved away from those negative manifestations of your character, because of which she decided to break up with you. The expression “you can’t be nice by force” fits perfectly here.
Your ex needs personal space to evaluate the situation and live without you. This will help her understand her feelings. You won’t believe it, but it is a change in everyday circumstances, when a partner leaves, and with him a good part of everyday responsibilities, that makes a woman miss her husband again. That is, even without your active participation, a woman may have a desire to return you. But only if you do not put pressure on her at this moment.
Pressure in itself never brings any benefit, and in the circumstances of separation it even more closely resembles trying to run on a broken leg. Now the relationship needs peace, give yourself and ex-wife time to come to your senses. When the time comes for the next stage, you will understand it.
Straight Talk
Let's say you have a chance to get your ex-wife back. Maybe she won’t openly admit it, or maybe she doesn’t know what she wants yet, but you can take advantage of it. But remember that this will only work if something else can be returned. If the ex-wife does not make contact, does not change her attitude towards you and her decisions regarding you, then it is useless to try.
When a woman agrees to an open conversation, that's something. Let her know that when she is ready and wants to talk, you will come and talk to her. This should not be a conciliatory dialogue, she should feel that her choice is still safe and she is free to do what she wants, and this communication between you and her does not have to lead to anything. This is important because when we deprive another person of choice, do not give him the right to vote and try to manipulate, he acts contrary, and this greatly distorts our desires, which ultimately seriously diverge from reality. She may want to return to you, but she must make that choice herself.
Why then have this conversation if you have no right to influence her? So that both sides can speak out and talk about painful issues. You may have hopes for the return of your loved one, but now your main task is to listen to your ex-wife, talk about your thoughts and try to understand what exactly you should do next.
This is a great chance for you. She, having cooled down a little, can speak out. And note, not to your mother, not to your friends, but to you - her ex-partner, which has the most direct relation to her feelings. You will find out what didn’t suit her, you will understand for yourself whether you are ready to change and what you can do to restore the marriage.
If the basis of your conflict was not fundamental reasons, for example, if it is only about paying her more attention, helping around the house and with the child, being more active, perhaps you are able to change a little. For the sake of our loved ones, we are not capable of this, but here we need to feel the fine line between the needs of another person and our own. Are you willing to change your personality for someone else? If not, that's not necessarily a bad thing, but then it's not about love.
Changing for your partner and changing yourself are difficult to distinguish concepts. If you can avoid leaving socks around the house and it costs you nothing to become more mindful, then what's the big deal? But if you think that your wife’s attempts to force you to fold your socks like some kind of housewife is a tool of pressure and even turning you into a henpecked woman, then you need another woman.
In general, a frank conversation will make you understand what you are willing to do to restore the relationship. If the price of the issue is low and you don’t see any problems, then go ahead. But if they ask you to change yourself and turn you into someone else, then it’s time for you to put an end to it and admit to yourself that these were just pangs of withdrawal.
If there was something serious
Marriages break up for various reasons and some of them are too serious to resolve the issue in one fell swoop. For example, betrayal. In essence, this is a betrayal of trust that is earned through time and actions.
After the passions have subsided and you were able to talk frankly, this does not mean that you can return your beloved. Don't ask her to come back. Show that you can change outside of the relationship. If it was about cheating, find a way to prove that all this time you have been alone and this kind of vow of loneliness is your attempts to apologize to her. If the problem was alcohol addiction, show that you can lead healthy image life.
But again, be careful. Don't try to do something just for the sake of the fact that your wife will return. Even if this works, it will be for a short period of time. You too need similar changes. If you agree to them, then first of all do it for yourself. It is very important. If you don't want to change your behavioral habits, then you are only prolonging the overall agony and risk going through a breakup again.
When your ex sees changes, this will mean that your intentions are serious. By that time, she may already feel nostalgic for the relationship, and against the backdrop of your positive changes, her feelings may reappear or intensify.
What's in practice
Everything we suggest below will only work after your frank conversation and positive changes. Until this moment, your actions can only aggravate the situation.
Start with big gestures. The most banal and yet reliable example is flowers. Order a bouquet by courier and send a note saying “I’m so sorry I hurt you so much.” If possible, send flowers to work. Even if you play a little to the public, if your ex-beloved works among female colleagues, they will appreciate your gesture, and this will please the woman’s pride and she will be doubly pleased.
Write a letter about your feelings. Send her letters once a week, telling her what you think and how you would like to change things. Perhaps she will want to answer you and you will start a correspondence, and this is very romantic and will melt her heart.
Ask her out on a date. This will generally be good for your marriage - refresh your feelings, start with a clean slate. Maybe you can have a few sleepovers together as if you're rebuilding your relationship.
In any of your actions you need to be firm and persistent, but not intrusive. Women love strength, but all your efforts should under no circumstances turn into violence.
And one more thing - don’t cheat on yourself. There is no need to reincarnate, adapting to another. If you are not a romantic and have never been able to arrange romantic evenings accompanied by music with candles, don’t force it out of yourself. Do what you are good at. For example, you do a great job with plumbing, but the faucet is leaking in her apartment. Offer your help, fix it. This alone will make you super macho for her.
So let's recap. How to get your wife back if she doesn't want a relationship? Psychologist's advice:
- if her feelings have cooled down, do not rush or put pressure, give her time and space for personal space;
- before getting your ex back after a divorce, call her for a frank conversation and find out about her claims, this will also be useful for you - you will find out what lengths you are willing to go to in order to restore your relationship with your wife;
- change, but only if you want it and if the price is not too high, but do not demand immediate action from her, you can return your beloved by the very fact of your changes, if she is convinced of them;
- You will regain her trust if you begin to make large gestures, but sincerely and from the heart.
We wish you to sort out your relationship as soon as possible. And if you still have questions, you can ask them in the comments.
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There were no signs of trouble
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Only for real men
Getting your wife back is not a task for the weak. You have to admit that all this time you did not do what she wanted. You did what you wanted. Are you ready to do something new and unconventional to get your loved one back? Then read on. If not, then merge right now before anyone notices. And we continue.
So, how to get your wife back after divorce?
According to system-vector psychology Yuri Burlana, only a real family man, the owner, wants his wife back after a divorce. For him, marriage is for life. He becomes forever attached to the one and only one. A future without her, without familiar, established relationships is stressful for him. Therefore, he seeks to get his wife back.
His wife most often becomes someone who is easy-going, fast, flexible, and graceful. She loves a change of scenery and hates sitting at home in one place. Order in the house is not important for her, but signs of attention are necessary. Not receiving them, sooner or later she files for divorce.
Understanding your wife means getting your relationship back
Without understanding his wife, a man will never be able to win her back and keep her. Even if she does her best to “not notice” the peculiarities of her behavior and “forgive” women’s weaknesses. He will give you flowers and let you go to the movies with your girlfriends, understanding that “that’s the way it should be.” The wife will not be pleased with signs of attention made through force. She will feel that this is an obligation for her husband. What is done on schedule and with a sour face. There is only one way to prevent a divorce or to get your wife back after a divorce - to see that your spouse is strikingly different from you. And from birth. She has different desires, values and views.
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How to get your wife back after divorce?
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