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Proverbs and sayings about wives and marriage.

Three friends: father, mother, and faithful wife.

A buffoon's wife is always cheerful.

He had three wives, but suffered from them all.

Sea, fire and an unkind wife are three evils.

It is better to chisel a stone than to teach an evil wife.

The first wealth in life is health, and the second is a wife.

I would drive straight, but my wife (and the mare) is stubborn.

The husband is the outer wall of the house, the wife is the inner wall.

The husband forges, the wife blows, something will happen.

The bird's wings are strong, the wife's husband is red.

The shame of the young wife - no children to be seen.

Girls are good, red ones are good, where do thin wives come from?

A good wife and an honest husband.

The husband is in debt, and the wife is in silk.

A bad wife in the house is like an evil blizzard.

A wife is not a shoe; you can’t remove it from your foot.

Beat the wife before the children, beat the children before the people!

He fought, he pounded, but he didn’t get a good wife

Husband and wife are the bottom of Satan.

U bad wife My husband is going gray early.

Father Forerunner, I am from the Subbotniks, Pavlov’s daughter-in-law, Ivan’s wife, have mercy on me!

You can boil the iron, but you can’t persuade an evil wife.

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HUSBAND AND WIFE

1. A husband without a wife is like a goose without water.
2. A husband without a wife is like a horse without a bridle.
3. The husband does not carry the manure that his wife carries with the pot.
4. The husband fools around and half the yard burns; the wife fools around and the whole yard burns down.
5. The husband drinks and drinks half the house; the wife drinks and drinks the whole house.
6. The husband is like a crow, but the wife is all about defense.
7. Without a husband - like without a head, without a wife - like without a mind.
8. This is the power of a wife loving her husband.
9. A good head makes a wife look younger; a bad head makes the earth turn black.
10. God help the single man, but the mistress will help the married man.
11. With a good wife, grief is half grief, but joy is double.
12. Behind good husband and the wife is good.
13. Without a husband is like without a fence, without a wife is like without a roof.
14. A husband without a woman is an orphan more than small children.
15. A good wife and an honest husband.
16. Take a good wife - you won’t know either boredom or grief
17. A good wife is fun, and a bad wife is an evil potion.
18. A kind wife and fatty cabbage soup - don’t look for any other good.
19. The owner of the house is the owner.
20. The hostess is lying down - and everything is lying down, the hostess is on her feet - and everyone is on her feet.
21. The mistress of the house is like a pancake covered in honey.
22. The mother will feed you by the basket, the father will starve you by the sap.
23. Husband and wife are like flour and water; you can talk, but you can't talk.
24. The wife will not save, so the husband will never save.
25. Without a mistress there is no master.
26. Every wife is a queen in her home.
27. Without a husband is like being without hands, without a wife is like being without a mind.
28. Happiness rests on three pillars: the first is a man’s work, the second is a woman’s mind, the third is a child’s health.
29. A sensible and hard-working wife is a treasure; she brings joy and harmony to the house.

WOMAN'S INTELLIGENCE AND CLIMBING

1. The peahen is red with her feather, and the wife with her mind.
2. A woman's mind is worth many thoughts.
3. Beauty without intelligence is empty.
4. Beauty to the crown, and intelligence to the end.
5. Beauty until evening, but intelligence forever.
6. Beauty is better, but truth is more necessary.
7. Beauty will not give you reason.
8. Smart wife, like a beggar
9. To live with a smart wife is to drink honey all your life, to love a stupid wife is to ruin your head.
10. Smart conversation is more expensive than lunch. With a smart wife, an argument is good for future use.
11. The woman nursed and taught every husband.
12. An honest wife is the soul of her husband, and with a good mind she is good for everyone.
13. The girl knows nothing, but understands everything.
14. The husband is the head, and the wife is the wisdom of that head.
15. The female mind is bold, sharp, and cunning.
16. The female mind is quick-witted and prone to all sorts of tricks.
17. The female mind is multi-thinking, will take on everything, and will not stumble anywhere.
18. A woman’s thought is cherished.

1. The female mind is reasonable and calm and worthy of all praise.
2. Women's wisdom is the pinnacle of the mind.
3. A man does three things without a woman’s advice: he drinks, he fights, he carries things out of the house.
4. Women's advice - the light is clear to the husband.
5. Women's advice is the answer to everything.
6. A sweet wife is half good, a smart wife is good.
7. The female mind is clear and dangerous for falsehood.
8. Marvel at a pretty woman, marry a reasonable woman.
9. Women's tales and wise tales are the best decree.
10. No matter how great the male mind is, without the female it will remain half-hearted.
11. Beauty will attract attention, but intelligence will come in handy.
12. Beauty is good, but intelligence is better.
13. The beauty is crazy, like a house without a corner, it won’t delight you for long.
14. The male mind is iron, and the female mind is gold: rare and precious.
15. The male mind is like forged damask steel, it will cut everything, the female mind is like a treasure, it will save everything.
16. The male mind cannot reach female wisdom: it is all-encompassing.
17. Male beauty without reason is empty, female beauty without reason it is dangerous, it drives the smart man crazy, makes him a fool.
18. The wife is not smart - the house is a mess.
19. The female mind will not miss anything.
20. A smart wife is like the sun in the window, a stupid wife is like a fire in the yard.
21. Every home is strong with a woman's mind.
22. What a man does not cut, a woman will unravel.
23. Without a woman's advice, doing things is like chopping wood with an ax without a handle.
24. A man's mind without a woman's is like an ax without an axe. That is why they cannot live in unity, in isolation.
25. The male mind will divide everything, the female mind will save everything.
26. A woman's beauty seduces her husband, but a woman's intelligence saves him.
27. Women's wisdom is the support for everything.
28. There are three mothers near the Russian land: one is running – that’s the Volga, the other is standing – that’s Moscow, and the third is flying – that’s female wisdom.
29. The beautiful have a good youth, the rich have the old age, and the smart have a whole life.
30. A woman’s cunning and perseverance will move mountains by the handful, make rivers flow to your doorstep, and will always leave your husband behind.
31. The woman’s eyes are on the floor, and her mind is on the field.
32. A woman's eyes look at the ground, but her mind sees a mile ahead.
33. Male strength is in the shoulder, female strength is in the mind and soul.
34. Male strength is in the hands, and female strength is in the minds.
35. Male power would have ruined everything if the female mind had not woven a rein for it.
36. Male power destroys, female power accomplishes (builds).
37. A woman's soul is like the sun - it will warm everyone.
38. Man's glory is in battle, and woman's in peace.
39. The husband is famous for his sword, and the wife for her wisdom.
40. A woman's sword is a wise word.
41. The female mind is like the earth, and the male mind is like the wind.
42. The female mind is cramped.
43. A woman's mind and skill to my good husband to salvation.

1. Women's prudence is not proud, but quiet, but it will protect you from any evil.
2. A Russian wife is sensible and quick-witted for good deeds.
3. A woman's hand for a good deed is strong.
4. Don’t run away from a wise wife’s advice; ask her word for meaning yourself.
5. I asked for women's advice - half the worries were gone.
6. A good wife is one who understands her husband's affairs.
7. With the advice of a good wife, great men are strong.
8. The woman has seventy-two evasions a day. You can't talk to a woman. You can't talk to grandma.
9. While the woman flies from the stove, seventy-seven thoughts will change her mind.

WOMEN'S POWER AND INDEPENDENCE

1. God is willing, and so is the wife, if she has taken the will.
2. A wife is kind at leisure even without a husband.
3. The wife does not beat her husband, but leads him according to his temper.
4. You can’t catch a lively woman even in a mortar and pestle.
5. When a woman was in power, order came to that country.
6. The Tsar Father is good, but the Queen Mother is better. In Rus', kings are formidable.

And queens are wise. What can you do when in Rus' the “woman’s” age is golden.

1. For the king, the people are slaves, for the queen they are children.
2. There was a “woman’s age” in Russia, but it’s gone, and we’ve been grieving ever since.
3. Women's cities do not last long.
4. Cities don't exist without women.
5. A man will lead his people to the sound of battle, and a woman to the sound of grain.
6. Feminine strength does not hit - it protects.
7. The earth is famous for female beauty, the earth is built by female wisdom, the earth is saved by female kindness.
8. The Tsar-Maiden and Mother-Tsarina, that’s who the Russian land was forever famous (built).
9. The Tsar Maiden is better than the prison.
10. The whole world will marvel at the Russian Tsar Maiden.
11. A man lives for power, a woman rules for life.
12. The queen will whisper, the king will speak out loud, the herald will shout to the whole world: who is the head of everything?

FEMALE STRENGTH AND BRAVE

1. The Russian land is strong with women.
2. Russian women are strong, not weak.
3. Not in the mansion, but in the field, female glory.
4. I don’t want to be a prison, but I want to be a clearing.
5. And on the Kulikovo field women fought for freedom.
6. Even our women are mediocre recruits.
7. A sharp saber is not a pillow, female courage is not a toy.
8. She is brave in war, but very kind in peace, that is what she is - a Russian wife.
9. Even though the girl was young, she did not always turn her back to the enemy (from the epic).
10. Feminine beauty and courage, the whole world is turned upside down.
11. If every girl had intelligence and kindness, beauty and courage - and life would sing like a song.
12. The king himself will not subdue the spring water, the fiery fire and the woman.

FAMILY LAD

1. The gracious husband and wife have leisure time.
2. If you expect affection from your wife, be affectionate with her.
3. Husband and wife are one body, one thing, you don’t beat yourself and don’t raise your hands to her.
4. No matter how angry you are, you don’t break your head in your hearts, but a wife is her husband’s soul and mind: whoever beats his wife is leading himself to hell.
5. Don’t spit in the well, renovate the house, teach the children, and don’t abuse the woman.
6. No matter what kind of husband he is, he expects kindness and affection from his wife, and he owes her the same first.
7. Look for your wife's guilt in yourself: a mother does not destroy her nest if her heart is not dried out.
8. Teach Baba not with your fist, but with your tongue.
9. Do not admonish Baba with your fist, but with a word; if not with a word, but with silence.
10. You can hold your husband under your heel, you can lift him to the sky, but never put him on his neck.
11. He’s a good fellow, and his wife is wise, so they have a wonderful life.
12. A wife is a friend, not a servant.
13. A smart wife is a queen in the village, a stupid wife is a slave in her home.
14. A smart wife is the head of everyone, a stupid wife is the sole of the husband for everyone.
15. A dog and a man understand a stick, but a cow and a woman only understand affection.
16. A sundress does not run after a caftan.
17. Giving in to Baba is not a shame.
18. The wife will give you a task - and you will treat her with affection.
19. Leave the last word to the woman.
20. What's the point of a cow, if only my wife was healthy.
21. A smart husband's wife is well-groomed, while a stupid husband's is worn out during everyday life.

EVIL AND STUPID HUSBAND

1. A stubborn and good-natured husband is worse than a fool.
2. A reasonable husband has two heads – his own and his wife’s, but a fool does not have his own and does not honor his wife’s.
3. That's why he's a fool because he doesn't see (doesn't appreciate) his wife's intelligence.
4. A fool blasphemes the sun, but the sun warms him, a fool is insolent to his wife, and she takes pity on him.
5. To love an evil person is to destroy yourself.
6. The husband is angry in no way, the wife is angry - she is not very smart.
7. The husband is not a fool for not thinking, but the husband is a fool for not listening to his wife.
8. The female mind is in business during the day, and in children at night, and the male mind is in other people's yards during the day, and in taverns at night.
9. The guiltless wife sheds tears forever, but the guilty husband does not give her an answer.
10. Not every husband is a kalach, but some will be an executioner.
11. A menacing husband is worse than sour pears.
12. A wife without a husband cries about hard work, and with a husband she cries about broken sides.
13. A beaten wife has all weak children, and an unbeaten girl has little girls.
14. He who cannot live well with his wife destroys his own family.
15. A broken apple will cause all the whole ones to rot, and a beaten wife will cause bad children.
16. If you beat your wife, it will hurt your great-grandchildren.

1. Do not pick an apple by shaking; extend your hand to your wife only with affection.
2. If you offend your wife, you will see evil in your children.
3. The wife is beaten - the children are rotten.
4. A husbandless tear is like dew on a birch tree, a married tear is like splinters from a log.
5. A girl's fear that the groom is passing by, a woman's fear that a thunderstorm is in the house.
6. For beating, forgiveness is the same invitation.
7. He was good, he was sweet until he put his hands on it.
8. If you forgive someone for beating, that means you give permission.

CHOOSING A HUSBAND

1. It's better to have a goat in the house than a thunderstorm for a husband.
2. To a terrible husband - a stone woman,
   and for my youngster - fiery caress.
3. Choose the one who loves, this one will caress you with affection.
4. He's a characterful guy - I don't need one like that.
5. Even though his face is bright, and he is dressed smartly, but with a courageous demeanor, he will be an unimportant husband.
6. Stubborn, bully, take for a foreman,
   and if there is good in him, take him for a husband.
7. The husband is rich in kindness and goodness, not in silver.
8. A husband with a bad temper is the bane of life.
9. Don’t love someone who has a bad temper, you’ll end up under the whip, but with a kind, affectionate person, life will be a fairy tale.
10. Don't take someone like you as your husband.
11. A decent man is not suitable for a husband.
12. Those who are willing to fight are marriageable.
13. They know how to handle a restive horse,
    and a restive man will not change his habits.
14. A quarrelsome husband is like a thatched roof,
    one spark and the house is destroyed.

A FEW OTHER PROVERBS

1. A wife is for advice, a mother-in-law is for greetings, and there is nothing dearer than your own mother.
2. Male rage can be curbed, female rage can only be waited out.
3. A man’s happiness is “I want”, a woman’s happiness is “I can”.
4. Men's love is heat, women's love is spring rain.
5. Women's tears are not water, but a net.

PROVERBS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLES

1. If a woman is immersed in darkness, the house is immersed in darkness. (Japanese).
2. Women with a male destiny are rare, but men with a female destiny are common (Japanese).
3. Woman is the key to the mystery of life. (English)
4. Ninety-nine tricks were found on the woman, but not even the devil could find the hundredth. (German proverb)
5. Whatever a woman orders a man to do, that’s what he’s willing to do. (Ossetian proverb)
6. It’s good if the wife is old: she’s well-fed, and you don’t have to go far for advice. (Ossetian proverb)
7. When a woman takes on a man's business, the family prospers; when a man takes on a woman's business, the family goes bankrupt. (Chinese proverb)

1. I got married to dye my eyebrows, not to put on patches. (Persian proverb)
2. A wife is a misfortune, but, Lord, do not deprive any home of this misfortune. (Persian proverb)
3. A woman goes to the one who praises her. (Somali proverb)
4. If you leave where you are loved, you will come to where you are hated. (Somali proverb)
5. Touch your wife and apple only tenderly (Belarusian proverb)
6. Whoever does not grant the Zhontsy, destroys his own clan (Whoever does not forgive his wife destroys his own clan). (Belarusian proverb)
7. If two good people marry, there will be happiness; if a good man and a bad man marry, it will be right; if two bad people get married, it will happen every day
   war. (Kyrgyz proverb).
8. Even the most beautiful girl France can only give what it has. (French proverb).
9. If a woman is wrong, go and apologize. (French proverb)

1. When a woman gets married, she exchanges the attention of many men for the inattention of one. (Italian proverb)
2. Both love and woman love to swim against the current. (Indian).
3. Baba can handle the devil (Irish).
4. A real woman is six in one:
   servant, advisor, goddess, earth, mother and hetaera (Tamil).
5. A family where the wife grieves brings death to the entire family (Tamil).
6. If a woman puts on an apron, then she no longer has time to be bad (Bulgarian proverb).
7. When a woman is downright bad, she is at least honest (Latin proverb).

APHORISM OF AUGUSTINE THE BLESSED

If God had appointed a woman to be the mistress of a man, he would have created her from the head; if I had been a slave, I would have made it out of a leg; but since He appointed her to be a friend and equal to a man, he created her from a rib.

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A bad wife will make you old, a good wife will make you younger.

Russian proverb

With a good wife, grief is half grief, but joy is double.

Russian proverb

... everyone knows that if a husband and wife live harmoniously and happily, then their mutual affection increases every year, finally reaching such a development that they literally “cannot live without each other.”

N. Chernyshevsky

Not every wife tells her husband the truth.

Russian proverb

A widow is a woman who no longer finds a single fault in her husband.

You can explain to others why you married your husband, but you cannot convince yourself of it.

George Sand

A good wife and an honest husband.

Russian proverb

What a wife doesn’t like, her husband can’t eat.

Russian proverb

The husband is the head, the wife is the soul.

Russian proverb

Finding a husband is an art; keeping it is a profession.

S. Beauvoir

I don’t understand how a husband who gives free rein to a bad mood and bad inclinations, a husband who not only does not hide his shortcomings, but even boasts about them, who is stingy, unkempt, harsh, discourteous, cold and gloomy - how does he hope to protect this? the heart of his young wife from the onslaught of a clever admirer who is generous, well dressed, indulgent, caring, persistent and showers her with flattery and gifts.

Jean de La Bruyère

But a wife with an old husband -

Like ivy hanging on its branches:

When the spreading maple

It will envelop both the trunk and the crown,

He is young and fresh, but the maple has withered.

Lope de Vega

Women live longer than men, especially widows.

J. Clemenceau

Ideal man: husband of the first widow.

L. Levinson

A woman who is not and is not capable of being a friend to her husband cannot be a good wife.

Is it really impossible to invent a means that would make women love their husbands?

Jean de La Bruyère

A man loves to drink and fornicate,

Barely finding my way home,

About where he might be outside the house,

Only his widow can say.

A deceived husband sees deceived husbands everywhere.

Marcel Proust

She married him so that she could always be with him. He married her to forget about her.

Elias Canetti

Try praising your wife; Don’t pay attention if she gets scared out of habit.

B. Sunday

After forty years, men are married to their habits, among which a wife is only one item on a long list, and not the most important one.

George Meredith

A good husband is never the first to go to bed in the evening or the last to wake up in the morning.

Honore de Balzac

At least the husband is smart, neat,

And sex has no wear and tear on him,

He will be unpleasant to his wife

If he doesn't bring a lot of money into the house.

E. Sevrus

How smaller woman brings to her husband, the more she demands from him, so the less she costs, the more expensive she costs.

V. Klyuchevsky

I will not deny that a wife can be carried away by her husband - after all, he is also a man.

Gerard de Nerval

Wives who keep their home in exemplary order are wives who love the home more than their husband.

Friends love you for who you are; your wife loves you and wants to make you a different person.

Gilbert Chesterton

The wife is the one who repents of what she did, but will certainly do it again.

G. Mencken

A wife sees in her husband both a strength that needs to be broken and a weakness that needs to be protected.

Jean Rostand

A thin wife is an evil potion,

And a good wife is fun.

So that peace in the family is strengthened,

You must raise your wives.

May God help the one who is looking for the ideal wife;

And may He doubly help the one who found it.

Benjamin Tillett

A wife should be smart enough to appreciate her husband's intelligence and stupid enough to admire him.

I. Zangwill

Wife and children teach humanity; bachelors are gloomy and stern.

Francis Bacon

The wife of a coal miner is more respectable than the mistress of the sovereign.

Jean Jacques Rousseau

The wife consoles her husband in misfortunes that a bachelor will never have.

A wife who seeks power becomes a tyrant of her husband, and a master who becomes a slave becomes a ridiculous and pitiful creature.

Jean Jacques Rousseau

A wife who does not lead her husband forward certainly pushes him back.

A wife, excluded from all the interests that occupy her husband, alien to them, not sharing them, is a concubine, housekeeper, nanny, but not a wife...

A. Rubinstein

“I myself am good, but my wife is a snake!” - said the boa constrictor.

E. Sazonova

Licorida buried every single one of her friends, Fabian: if only she could become friends with my wife now!

Here are three things that are ruinous for everyone and the absence of which allows you to get rich: a wife, a child, and landed property.

Edmond and Jules de Goncourt

There are many women who scream at the sight of a mouse or rat, but are capable of poisoning their husband or, even worse, causing him to poison himself.

Henry Fielding

A stupid wife cannot compromise her husband - only one whom everyone considers smart can compromise.

Charles Talleyrand

If all those with obstinate wives reached despair, then a tenth of humanity would hang themselves.

William Shakespeare

If a wife finds joy in saving money, there is only one thing left to do: find joy in getting it.

If a wife scolds angrily, this scolding is not dangerous:

There is more deceit hidden in the tears when she cries.

Wives are husbands' inspectors; only some inspect their hearts, others inspect their pockets, and still others, the most intelligent ones, inspect their mouths.

B. Klyuchevsky

There are wives who become furious for no reason,

The comfort of family becomes not pleasant to them,

When strangers come to them

IN in public places don't pester.

E. Sevrus

Wives listen to us most attentively when we are talking with another woman.

Henri Thoret

Wives are usually mentally weaker and spiritually stronger than their husbands - this torture to which husbands are subjected is twice as painful.

D. Herold

Behind every successful man is a proud wife and a surprised mother-in-law.

Brooks Hayes

Wives who prefer to push around a stupid husband rather than obey a smart one are reminiscent of those who on the road prefer to lead a blind man rather than follow a man who can see and knows the way.

For an honest husband, the wife herself becomes honest.

Of all medicines, the best is a good wife.

K. Hubbard

A wife should not make her own friends. She's had enough of her husband's friends.

And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the wife, being deceived, fell into transgression.

Apostle Paul

Intuition allows a wife to object to her husband before he can open his mouth.

Some wives treat their husbands best when they are at work.

When a wife takes her husband at his word, she becomes suspicious.

Henry Mencken

As a rule, a man would rather see the table set for dinner than hear his wife speak Greek.

Samuel Johnson

When the years are like a fog

They leave us forever,

The wife turns into a nanny

Comrade, friend and brother.

E. Sevrus

A young man loves a woman, dreaming that she will be his wife.

The old man loves his wife, remembering that she was a woman.

V. Klyuchevsky

Who got involved with a stupid, vicious wife,

He did not marry a woman - with trouble.

Muslihaddin Saadi

A loving wife will do anything for her husband, with one exception: she will never stop criticizing and nurturing him.

John Priestley

It’s better for a young wife to have an arrow in her side than for an old man at her side.

Muslihaddin Saadi

My wife is called a dumb blonde, but that's not true...she's not a blonde.

Robert Orben

The husband is a well-edited man.

Konstantin Melikhan

The husband is deaf, the wife is also blind -

Then the marriage will be happy.

A husband loves his wife until he loves another woman. A wife loves her husband to the grave, and then to the grave of another husband.

Konstantin Melikhan

If we are looking for pleasure on the outside that we do not find at home, it is because our wives do not sufficiently master the art of maintaining attraction in us, of loving each time in a new way, of reviving... the charm of possessing the charm of variety.

Pierre Augustin Beaumarchais

The husband is affectionate, since the wife is tender,

And he is harsh, since his wife is angry.

A woman who talks about her husband with a stranger surrenders herself more or less to his power.

A. Knigge

A woman who laughs at her husband cannot love him anymore.

Honore de Balzac

Women usually hate those whom their husbands love, not out of malice, but by nature.

Do not bring your wife into your house just because she is rich;

And if she becomes a burden to you, do not hesitate to leave.

Never be ashamed of what you think about your wife. She still thinks about you.

Jean Rostand

But the wife is not a mitten:

You can't shake off the white pen

You can't put it under your belt.

A. Pushkin

The best evidence of a man's character is the health of his wife.

Cyril Connolly

Four wives left me because I mistook them for my mother.

Cary Grant

Very often, men owe their success to their first wife, and they owe their success to their second wife.

The French hardly talk about their wives: they are afraid to talk in front of strangers who know these wives better than the husbands themselves.

Charles Montesquieu

Everyone has the kind of wife he needs.

Happy is he who can love his wife as a mistress, and unhappy is he who allows his mistress to love him as a husband.

B. Klyuchevsky

The tactics of a prudent wife: torment, torment her husband all her life, to dirty and dirty him, and when widowed, cackle about the incomparable and unprecedented qualities of his mind and heart, count the money left after him and shed romantic tears over his grave, remember the day with tenderness and gratitude the hour of his death.

V. Klyuchevsky

My wife has a terrible memory - she never forgets anything.

Eric Morecambe and Ernie Wise

A smart wife does not ask what her husband wants. She knows.

Wilhelm Schwebel

Good wife- a crown for her husband and carelessness, and an evil wife - fierce grief... A worm wears away a tree, and an evil wife - fierce grief... A worm wears away a tree, and an evil wife... drains her husband's house... An evil wife ruins her husband's whole life.

Daniil Sharpener

A good wife listens carefully to her husband's reasoning, not because they are so smart, but because she is so smart.

A good wife works for you like a servant; gives advice as an advisor; beautiful as the goddess of beauty; calm and resilient, like the earth; feeds you like a mother and delights you like a hetaera. A good wife is six persons in one.

Ancient Indian saying

Innocence is often difficult to prove

Notoriety like the lottery:

It can finish off the most honest wives

Slander with its mockery...

George Gordon Byron

The topic of the collection is proverbs and sayings about your husband:

• Letting my wife down will do no good.
• The wife pleases - she plans evil things.
• Choose your wife not with your eyes, but with your ears.
• A wife is not a bast shoe - you can’t throw her off her feet.
• Wife don’t play the harp: after playing, you can’t hang it on the wall.
• The wife does not beat her husband, but leads him according to her own character.
• The wife loved her husband: she bought a place in prison.
• The wife got mad and didn’t ask her husband.

• Until the age of thirty, the wife warms you, after thirty, a glass of wine, and after that, the stove doesn’t even heat.
• All people are like people, but my husband is like a piston (shoes with the wool out).
• He took his wife for a day, and cried for a year.
• A sick wife is not nice to her husband.
• A kind wife and fatty cabbage soup - don’t look for any other good.
• Without a husband - like without a head; without a wife - that's crazy.
• What the godfather knows, the godfather’s wife knows, and according to her, the whole village.
• A good wife, but envious.
• Don't take a rich wife, take an empty one.
• Husband and wife quarrel, but the third one does not interfere.
• The husband is a drunkard, and the wife is beautiful - everything is fine.
• The husband drinks, and the wife breaks pots.
• The most famous proverb about husband and wife: Husband and wife are one Satan.
• A husband loves a healthy wife, and a brother loves a rich sister.
• No matter what husband is a crow, he is a defense to his wife.
• As anyone wants, he cries for his wife.
• No matter how sweet the wife is, the dream is sweeter.
• Teach a wife without children, and children without people.
• A bad husband's wife is always a fool.
• A bad wife will make you old, a good wife will make you younger.
• Don't praise your wife with your body, but praise your wife with your deeds.
• It’s not funny that the wife beats her husband, but it’s funny that the husband is crying.

Proverbs and sayings about the husband and head of the family.

You can’t live without the sun, you can’t live without your sweetheart.

If only there was a friend, he would be found in an hour.

He was nice, but he became hateful.

If he takes a look, he will scorch him with fire, but if he says his word, he will give him a ruble.

Together it’s cramped, but apart it’s boring.

Where there is harmony, there is treasure.

Where the heart lies, there it runs.

Woe is me with you - brown eyes.

For a dear friend and an earring.

Good feelings are neighbors of love.

Eat when you are hungry, but love when you are young.

A stranger dried up the young man girlish beauty.

A detour to a dear friend (seven miles) is not an outskirts.

Whom I love, I give.

Where the heart lies, there it looks.

It's easy to make friends, hard to separate.

The cat also loves the mouse.

Love and advice - but no grief.

Love is not a potato - you can’t throw it out the window.

Love is not a fire, but once it catches fire, you can’t put it out.

You won't be nice by force.

It's hard not to be nice.

Happiness does not lie in money, but in good agreement.

Don’t carry everything, caress it sometimes.

The gift is not dear to me - your love is dear.

The free world is not nice when there is no dear friend.

Not nice in a nice way, but nice in a nice way.

The beauty is not famous, but who likes what.

I can’t sleep, I can’t lie down, I’m still sad about my dear one.

From love to hate one step.

I endure from the one whom I love most.

Once you fall in love, you become sad.

Satan will fall in love more than a clear falcon.

Equal customs - strong love.

Jealousy, like rust, destroys hearts.

You see less often, you love more.

The heart is not a stone - it melts.

The heart feels the heart.

The heart gives the message to the heart.

With love there is space everywhere, with evil there is cramped space everywhere.

Love is no joke.

The sweet one will appear in an hour.

With cute ones, heaven and in a hut.

Old love is remembered for a long time (it is not forgotten, it does not rust).

If you endure it, you will fall in love.

Talking to you about drinking honey.

Let's sit side by side and talk well.

It’s sickening to live without a sweetheart, but it’s even more sickening to live with an unlovable one.

The mind is enlightened by truth, the heart is warmed by love.

At least live in a forest hut, but be with your loved one.

They got me married without me, I went to the mill.

Take it so as not to repent; live in love and don’t suffer.

He fought, he pounded, but he didn’t get a good wife

All brides are good, but where do evil wives come from?

Choose not a bride, but a matchmaker.

You have goods, and we have a merchant (groom).

Every bride is born for her groom.

A good marriage accustoms you to business, a bad marriage separates you from home.

If you take a good wife, you won't experience either boredom or grief.

Giving away my daughter means no sleep for the night.

Married a quick fix Yes, for a long time.

I got married once, but I cry forever.

To get married is to change.

Health is the first wealth, and the second is a happy marriage.

Whoever marries who will be born into him.

At the matchmaker's speeches, at least sit down and roll.

Don't take a dowry, take a sweet girl.

You don’t live with wealth, you live with a person.

One got married - he saw the light; another got married and disappeared completely.

Woo so brag.

The crafty matchmaker is a seven-headed snake.

Don't drink water off your face, you can live with pockmarks.

Our matchmaker's brides are all good.

Bad fame will come - no one will marry.

A thin groom makes a match, he shows the way to a good one.

Together it’s cramped, but apart it’s boring.

Together it's boring, but apart it's sickening.

Father will always have fun when good son will be born.

Every husband loves his own wife.

I fed the snake on my neck.

A house without children is a grave, a house with children is a market.

Punish children with shame, not with thunder and scourge.

Children do not choose their parents.

Children are joy, children are also sorrow.

The children are good - the father and mother are crowned, the children are bad - the father and mother are finished.

A good wife is fun, and a thin one is an evil potion.

A kind wife and fatty cabbage soup - don’t look for any other good.

A good wife will save the house, but a bad wife will destroy it with her sleeve.

A good wife and an honest husband.

A wife is for advice, a mother-in-law is for greetings, and nothing is dearer than your own mother.

The wife does not beat her husband, but leads him according to her own character.

A wife is not a mitten - you can’t throw it off your hand.

Parents are alive - honor them; if they are dead - remember them.

The food tastes better at a communal table.

Land without water is dead, a person without a family is empty.

And from a good father a mad sheep will be born.

As is the tree, so is the fruit.

It is better to chisel a stone than to teach an evil wife.

It is better to eat bread and water than to live with an evil wife.

He who honors his parents never perishes.

Little children don't let you sleep, and big kids don't let you breathe.

Mother's prayer takes you out from the bottom of the sea.

The wife is young in years but old in spirit.

The husband is the head, the wife is the neck: wherever I want, I will turn there.

The husband makes a fool of himself and half of the yard burns, but the wife makes a fool of himself and the whole thing burns down.

A husband and wife are like flour and water: if you talk, you won’t talk.

Punish children when they are young and they will calm you down when you are old.

You will find everything in the world except father and mother.

There is no need for a treasure if the husband and wife get along well.

Not the father-mother who gave birth, but the one who gave him water, fed him and taught him goodness.

There is no such friend as my dear mother.

One son is not a son, two sons are half a son, three sons are a son.

One is joyful with his wife, the other is sorrow.

From the same uterus, and not just children.

A bad wife will make you old, a good wife will make you younger.

The young wife does not grieve for her old husband.

The bird's wings are strong, the wife's husband is red.

Parents protect their daughter until the crown, and the husband protects his wife until the end.

The family pot is always boiling.

The family is not without its black sheep.

My son, but he has his own mind.

Three friends: father, mother, and faithful wife-friend.

A good wife and a bad husband will do well.

Teach a wife without children, and children without people.

The owner of the house is the owner.

It is bad for the husband who has a big wife in the house.

A thin child is a dishonor to the father and mother, and a disgrace to the family and tribe.

Color for the bees, and honey for the wives.

What the big one says, the little one hears.

Like a goose without water, like a man without his wife.

What the mother puts into her head, the father will not knock out.

The apple never falls far from the tree.

No one will feel good around you while you feel bad alone with yourself...

In partnerships, we often want to achieve what we failed to achieve in loving our parents.
But this will not happen if the flow of love for parents does not flow first.
Bert Hellinger

Being a woman means learning to be a “follower” and not a “steerer.”

The best thing a woman can do for a man is to accept him for who he is, regardless of his achievements. It is important for him to feel that he is still loved. The energy of unconditional love between a mother and wife provides inner support. This is how a leader grows from a boy, and a man from an insecure husband. It is a woman who gives energy to gain strength.
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A man finds the right purpose in life, and a woman finds a man with the right purpose.

A parable about an ideal woman and man.
There was a man who avoided marriage all his life, and when he was dying at the age of ninety, someone asked him:
- You never got married, but you never said why. Now, standing on the threshold of death, satisfy our curiosity. If there is any secret, at least reveal it now - after all, you are dying, leaving this world. Even if your secret is found out, it will not harm you.
The old man replied:
- Yes, I keep one secret. It's not that I was against marriage, but I was always looking for the ideal woman. I spent all my time searching, and that’s how my life flew by.
- But is it really possible that on the entire huge planet, inhabited by millions of people, half of whom are women, you couldn’t find one single ideal woman?
A tear rolled down the dying old man's cheek. He replied:
- No, I still found one.
The questioner was completely perplexed.
- Then what happened, why didn’t you get married?
And the old man answered:
- That woman was looking for the ideal man...

One day, a young woman of about 30 came to see a psychotherapist and said: “I want to marry, but only to a millionaire. He will help me put myself in order - do plastic surgery, learn to be a designer and raise my children...” This was an ambitious statement, the psychotherapist immediately clarified: “How will you attract him to at least get to know him?” She looked with surprise: “Let him get to know me... (and then added after a pause)... Well... I don’t know... I’ll cook for him, because he’s tired of restaurant food...”. “Why, because he has a cook?” The client became thoughtful. She thought about herself, about solving her problems, like the old man in the parable, but not about the interests of her other half. And, nevertheless, relationships are a whole science, they are the interests of both parties.

A video about destiny, about conflicts in the family, about the stages of love, about why a woman can’t get married, why a 38-year-old man can’t get married, about money and what kind of business is thriving, about women’s and men’s responsibility. And a lot more wisdom about life.

And again quotes:
Loyalty is the strength that keeps a relationship going. A man, if he does not see fidelity in a woman’s eyes, he cannot build a relationship with her. He cannot bring her a salary, because for him salary is life. He gives his vital energy the woman who is faithful to him. Loyalty means: this is my only person with whom I have connected my life, I don’t need others.
Oleg Torsunov.

The attraction of souls turns into friendship, the attraction of the mind turns into respect, the attraction of bodies turns into passion. And only together can everything turn into love.

A man brings prosperity, activity, protection to the family, and a woman brings mood and a warm atmosphere.

Love Men - best recipe youth and beauty of Women...
And the Love of a Woman is the best recipe for the strength and success of a Man.

Real intimacy only comes when you become completely open. We all hide a thousand and one things, not only from others, but also from ourselves.
And if you are ready for intimacy, the other person, thanks to your courage, will also decide to reciprocate intimacy. Your simplicity and trust will allow him to enjoy your simplicity, innocence, trust and love.
If you begin to realize that you are afraid of intimacy, this can be a moment of truth for you, it can become a revolution. Then you begin to throw away everything that you were previously ashamed of and accept your nature as it is.
Say only what you think. This life is so short and you shouldn't waste it thinking about all sorts of consequences.
Millions of people lived on this earth, but who remembers their names? You are only here for a few days, and they are not given to you to waste them living in hypocrisy and fear.
You can live your whole life believing only what they say about you, depending on the opinions of others. We are always afraid - what will others think of us? When they think badly of you, when they begin to judge you, you also begin to judge yourself.
Don't teach others, don't try to change them.
To be true means to be true to yourself. It is very, very dangerous, and people achieve it very rarely, but when you achieve it, you achieve everything - you achieve such beauty, such nobility, which you could not even dream of.
Osho.

Cosmetics, beautiful clothes, jewelry, dancing, compliments, massage, flowers and sweet foods improve the condition of a woman’s hormonal system. She can't be prohibited from doing this. This is her health.

A man is the one who acts, and a woman is the one who gives strength or takes away strength to act. A woman is an environment that either catalyzes activity or, on the contrary, burns it out.

Men experience elation and a surge of strength when they feel needed.
Women feel uplifted and empowered when they feel cared for.

According to Vedic knowledge, a person should reduce his expectations from loved ones and increase the fulfillment of his responsibilities.
To the extent that he is able to do this, he will be happy in family life.

Men do not dare to build relationships, do not take responsibility for a woman, because they are afraid that they do not have sufficient material level. But in reality a woman doesn't need material aid. Her negative destiny does not come through depriving her of money or social recognition, but through a deep sense of isolation. The most terrible manifestation, as the Vedas say, of a woman’s plight is her feeling: “Despite the fact that there are thousands of people around me, I feel terribly lonely, isolated.” The greatest help a man can give her is to simply be there to soften this feeling.
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A family is where the husband is revered, the wife is loved, the children are carefree and happy...

Civil marriage seems to give people the opportunity to have very great rights - the opportunity to live without having to marry, it’s very convenient, right? But who suffers from such a marriage? Nobody thinks about it. The woman suffers because a civil marriage does not oblige the man to do anything; if he leaves, the woman remains with the child. She begins to suffer because she needs to support herself and her child, and a woman’s body is not designed to work very hard and earn money. It is intended for completely different purposes. As a result, the woman experiences enormous difficulties. Thus, civil marriage is not an achievement of humanity!

Take care of each other, now is a time when it is very difficult to find something truly worthwhile, real! And because of our stupid pride, at the slightest mistake, we immediately give up our happiness...

A man's respect for a woman is taking responsibility for her and caring for her. It is necessary to recognize that the wife is the most fragile, tender and important creature in the Universe - and to communicate with her in the right mood. This is very difficult for a man, because what he wants most from a woman is from e to c a.

A woman’s fidelity is beautiful when it is directed at a person who at least somewhat values ​​it. And not the one who with all his appearance shows: “Well, if you want to be faithful, go ahead, be faithful.”
Therefore, a woman’s faith is associated with the quality of fidelity. If she trusts a man too much, she can become a naive fool. If she doesn't trust men at all, she will become smart and lonely. Here are two options: naive and heartbroken or smart and lonely.
Therefore, it is important for a woman to choose worthy man so as not to fall into these two extremes. And never be “early faithful” to a man who is still at the stage of uncertainty, while the woman has already figured out in her head that he is her husband.

Girls need to know that it is serious young men who behave more restrained who are real husbands.

A man has it written on his forehead how to treat him. And my wife writes this.
- What does a woman need to do for a man to achieve everything?
- Respect your man.

For a woman to respect a man is to acknowledge his opinion. If a woman agrees with a man’s opinion and acknowledges it, he is ready to do whatever she wants for her. And if she wants to show that she is better, more important and smarter, then there will be no peace in the family.

It is very useful for a woman to write down on a piece of paper positive traits husband - and constantly add to the list. It’s better even in a large general notebook :)

Why is a person perceived one way at the beginning of a relationship, but a few years later, completely differently? You need to perceive a person the way you treated him at the beginning of the relationship and understand that everything else is just tests that need to be overcome.

Quarrels would not last so long if only one side was to blame.

According to Vedic knowledge, the most basic problem is family relationships, this is ignorance of one's responsibilities. Oddly enough, many people believe that responsibilities in the family are created by the people who live in the family, i.e. I myself decide what a woman should do, what a man should do, and as a result of this big problems happen.

The Vedas say that the mind and intelligence flee from where there is violence. When it is said simply, a person accepts. When said with pressure, a person cannot accept.

A man is responsible for the external life of the family, for its wealth, for its attitude in society, for how the children in the family will live, how they will be raised, for how the family progresses in spiritual life - the husband is responsible for this. The wife is responsible for the internal life of the family. And if a woman doesn’t understand this, then she has no chance of having a happy life. family life No. Because in female body There is one advantage - a woman’s mind, a woman’s feelings are six times stronger than a man’s. Therefore, a woman creates an atmosphere in the family that operates in all directions.

A woman's strength is in her weakness. In a man, at the level of instinct, it is inherent to protect the weak. When a woman begins to fight with a man (for example, accusations, claims), then the man ceases to feel that she needs to be protected and cared for.

Hindus say that for every man his wife is the most beautiful. But if a man does not care, the subtle nature of a woman is not revealed. A woman lives like a closed flower.

People who do not have the knowledge of how to do the right thing most often do the exact opposite. They try to change their relatives and, according to Vedic knowledge, this idea itself and such actions further aggravate problems in family relationships, which leads to the complete degradation of these relationships.

Coquetry with someone other than your husband is a type of betrayal.

If a person really studies spiritual knowledge, he knows that there is no friendship between a man and a woman, which means that this friendship is not just friendship, and then everything will go according to a well-known pattern. Those who do not understand all this are under the influence of the first enemy of man - lust.

A woman's mind is like fluff, it often changes its mind. A man's mind is like a locomotive. It's hard to move, but once you move it, it's hard to stop. And it can only be moved by Love.

The wife is the purity of the husband, the husband is the determination of the wife.

Only outwardly a woman is weak, but all the strength in the family comes through the woman.

If a woman is too stingy, then the man does not want to work, and then she herself begins to work a lot.

When a man begins to look after a woman, take care of her, take care of her, fulfill her duties - this is also a duty - the entire hormonal system of a woman, with the power of her calm mind, begins to act in such a way that she suddenly becomes stunningly beautiful precisely for this man.

If you look at the scandal through the eyes of a Saint: Two people are arguing, calling each other names, starting to fight... He sees that one person is suffering and the other is suffering, and they are trying to explain to each other that they are hurt...

About women's asceticism.
Women's asceticism is aimed at character formation, men's is associated with deprivation. A woman should not go hungry, get up too early, or douse herself with cold water. But women mostly do it because it's easier for them. But such austerities, male ones, coarse woman's heart.
Women's austerities mean washing with love, not just washing, but with love; not just cook, but with love, selflessly, without being greedy. Learn to bless: the husband went to work - bless him: so that everything goes well with you... The child goes for a walk - the same thing. Women's austerities are associated with women's life: to love, to care, to feed the hungry... To sacrifice, to give something from home.
Women's austerities cleanse the family. Then the woman becomes happy in life.

A faithful wife becomes best friend for the husband, if this is not the case, then there is no prosperity in the house, poverty.
If you treat your loved one as the best, he will treat you well and prosperity will come to your home.

Once the Teacher asked his students:
- Why, when people quarrel, do they shout? “Because they are losing their calm,” said one.
“But why shout if another person is next to you?” asked the Teacher. - Can't you talk to him quietly? Why shout if you're angry?
The students offered their answers, but none of them satisfied the Teacher. Finally he explained:
- When people are unhappy with each other and quarrel, their hearts move away. In order to cover this distance and hear each other, they have to shout. The angrier they get, the louder they scream.
- What happens when people fall in love? They do not shout, on the contrary, they speak quietly. Because their hearts are very close, and the distance between them is very small.
And when they fall in love even more, what happens? - continued the Teacher. - They don’t speak, they just whisper and become even closer in their love. In the end, they don’t even need to whisper. They just look at each other and understand everything without words. This happens when two loving people are nearby.
So, when you argue, do not allow your hearts to move away from each other, do not utter words that further increase the distance between you. Because a day may come when the distance becomes so great that you will not find your way back.

The absolute condition of love is openness; ideally - mutual, but sometimes - openness on the part of one loving person such that it is enough for two. But openness can be scary for us. Opening up means becoming vulnerable; to open up means to depend for your joy and your pain on another person. And this can only be done if we have enough faith in another person. ...

One day, one very good man told me about love... He compared the heart to ordinary tape sticky tape...He said a very wise thing, explaining it very simply...
“Our heart is like duct tape. So they tore off a piece and glued it to the wall... Peeled it off the wall and glued it to the cabinet, but it doesn’t stick well anymore... Peeled it off from the cabinet and glued it to the window sill and that’s it... the stickiness was gone... the tape barely sticks to the window sill and its stickiness is not enough to stick it really the right thing... It’s the same with your heart... You give it to one, to another, to a third, and when you meet the one, the only and the best - there is no stickiness, no fire, no that former tenderness... and then it’s too late to think.”

Parable:

One day two sailors set off on a journey around the world to find their
fate. They sailed to an island where the leader of one of the tribes had two
daughters. The eldest is beautiful, but the youngest is not so much.

One of the sailors said to his friend:

That’s it, I found my happiness, I’m staying here and marrying the leader’s daughter.

Yes, you are right, eldest daughter The leader is beautiful and smart. You did right choice- get married.

You don't understand me, friend! I will marry the chief's youngest daughter.

Are you crazy? She's so... not really.

This is my decision and I will do it.

He drove ten cows and approached the leader.

Leader, I want to marry your daughter and I will give ten cows for her!

This a good choice. My eldest daughter is beautiful, smart, and worth ten cows. I agree.

No, leader, you don't understand. I want to marry your youngest daughter.

Are you joking? Don't you see, she's so... not very good.

I want to marry her.

Okay, but as an honest person I can’t take ten cows, she’s not worth it. I'll take three cows for her, no more.

No, I want to pay exactly ten cows.

They merried.

Several years have passed, and the wandering friend is already on his way
ship, decided to visit the remaining comrade and find out how he was doing
life. He arrived, walked along the shore, and was met by a woman of unearthly beauty.
He asked her how to find his friend. She showed. He comes and sees:
his friend is sitting, kids are running around.

How are you?

I'm happy.

Then that same beautiful woman comes in.

Here, meet me. This is my wife.

How? Did you get married again?

No, it's still the same woman.

But how did it happen that she changed so much?

And you ask her yourself.

A friend approached the woman and asked:

Sorry for my tactlessness, but I remember what you were like... not very much. What happened to make you so beautiful?

It’s just that one day I realized that I was worth ten cows.