Loves, doesn't love, spits, kisses... Our distant ancestors used daisies to tell fortunes, and this simple way they were quite happy with it. We, modern people, understand that it is more logical to resort to the help of psychology and get an answer to the burning question “does he love me?”, using experience and observations. Today we will talk about what signs and actions can be used to determine what a man really loves.
Sincere concern
In the old days they said not “loves”, but “sorries”. And, paradoxical as it may sound, this is actually the most striking sign that a man truly loves you. Beautiful words, these are, whatever one may say, just words. And if there is nothing behind the words, if a person does not seek to confirm his statements with deeds, then we are not talking about any love. Sympathy, sexual interest, but nothing more.
Loving man very sensitive to the needs and desires of his beloved. He tries to protect her from everyday problems and troubles, takes care of her, takes care of her and protects her.
For example, he can gather his beloved’s friends at his place, because she has little space in her apartment, and a lot of guests are expected. However, he does not get rid of preparations for the holiday, buys groceries, helps cook and set the table, meets and sees off guests, even washes the dishes. It would seem like a trifle, but in fact this is an excellent indicator of a true attitude towards a woman. The man not only provides her with space, he does everything to make this meeting a holiday for her, and not a tedious chore, after which you are so tired that you no longer have the strength to communicate.
A loving man is always ready to solve (and does!) the everyday problems of his beloved. And he does it without reminders. He courageously repairs taps, lays television cables, and “fixes” his computer. And even if he himself does not understand anything about this, he finds the necessary specialists or involves his friends in this.
It is important for a loving man that his woman feels warm and comfortable. He cares about her health and her mood. He often even makes gifts in such a way that he doesn’t just show his material well-being, but to prove your concern. And this, by the way, one must be able to appreciate. For example, you once complained that it was very cold at your work, and a man gave you a gift New Year warm shawl. You are unhappy - after all, you dreamed of some jewelry or about a new mobile phone. And he only thought about keeping you warm, so that you wouldn’t catch a cold or get sick.
A loving man is ready to change for the sake of his beloved, he is ready to change his habits. If he sees that you don't like him appearance or some actions, he tries to fix it. For example, a man can wear a mustache and value it very much, but if a woman says that she doesn’t like his hair under his nose, he can simply go and shave off what he previously groomed and cherished. To please his beloved, he changes his clothing style, perfume, hairstyle, just not to upset your woman, just to please her.
Gifts from a loving man
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A loving man remembers the preferences and habits of his beloved. He is able to travel around the entire city to buy exactly those roses that cause his woman the greatest delight. He will hurt himself, but he will get tickets for exactly the performance that his beloved dreams of going to. And he will never bring her something she is allergic to. Be it food, perfume or animal.
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And such a man also tries to choose present, which he associates specifically with his beloved - soft toy, similar to his woman, a stone that reflects her essence or resembles the color of her eyes, a vase that will look great on her bedside table.
A loving man will never reproach you with gifts or even remind you of them; he will not expect gratitude (although it is necessary to thank him, otherwise he may stop giving gifts, thinking that it is unpleasant for you). It is important for him to please his beloved. He likes to surprise her. For example, he can discreetly put a box of her favorite candies or delicious fruit in her bag, so that the woman discovers it only at home and is delighted with the affectionate greeting.
Many women believe that the more expensive the gift, the more more man loves her. But this is a misconception. Willingness to spend on a woman large sums may be determined by a huge number of factors, so this is not always an indicator true love. Often it is simply a desire to show off, to “buy” a woman, to oblige or tie her down. True, there are happy exceptions.
Respect, patience and sacrifices
Respect, patience and sacrifices
A loving man never forces his beloved to do anything; he will wait patiently until she is ready - for intimacy, to joint rest, even just for a meeting. He does not dictate conditions, since it is important for him that the woman be with him and love him without prodding and coercion.
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A loving man respects a woman as a person. He does not shy away from conversations on any topic, and does not prefer to spend time having sex at the expense of communication. He is interested in everything about his beloved woman - both as a professional in the business she is engaged in, and as a housewife, and as the mother of his future children, and as a lover. A man perceives his beloved as a whole, and not in some individual parts or qualities.
A loving man does not seek to subjugate a woman; he is tolerant of her habits and actions, even if they go against his life principles. This, of course, does not mean that this will continue throughout his life - as soon as he is convinced that his love is mutual, that the woman will not escape from him, he will immediately begin to establish his own rules. But at first, a woman receives complete freedom from a loving man. She is adored with all her quirks and shortcomings.
A loving man is ready to sacrifice his free time, sleep, and rest for the sake of his beloved. He goes on conflict with friends and relatives, since for him there is only one “light in the window” - his beloved.
He yields to her in everything, cancels all his affairs if she needs his help.
A few signs of a man in love
7 more symptoms of love
1. He will always find a reason to be close to his beloved, he will call himself, sometimes finding the most ridiculous excuses.
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2. He tries to introduce his beloved to friends and relatives, to introduce her into his social circle. He does not hide from her the life he lives when the woman is not around. At the same time, he does everything in his power to make the woman feel comfortable in the company of his friends and relatives.
3. He is proud of all the achievements and virtues of his woman. He likes to talk about them in the company of his friends, he brags about this woman and her successes to his family. It is important for him that everyone around him understands what a treasure she is.
4. He tries to please the woman's friends and relatives. When he comes to her house, he brings flowers to her mother and talks about football (cars, economics, politics - underline as appropriate) with her dad or brother.
5. He is sincerely interested in a woman’s affairs, sympathizes with her, listens to her stories about what happened during her day, and does not interrupt her with the words: but with me... Moreover, he actually listens to what they tell him, and does not pretend what he listens to while glancing at the TV or rummaging through his cell phone. He subconsciously looks for a way out difficult situations, in order to somehow help my beloved, to support her.
6. He looks for an excuse for a woman in everything, and even if he understands that she acted unreasonably, he will take her side in order to protect or at least console her. A loving man is an eternal advocate; even in a woman’s weakness, in her mistakes, he sees her charm, and not her shortcoming.
7. He experiences the woman’s pain as his own. He is even ready to cry if he sees that his beloved is feeling bad and he can’t help her. This is one of the most striking emotional indicators that a man loves.
When a woman’s pain is reflected in his eyes, when she literally splashes there, there is practically no doubt about his feelings. Unless, of course, he reacts in the same way to a cat with a broken leg or to a tearful melodrama on TV.
And further. You should not be offended if the man who you think loves you takes his colleague to a restaurant, but prefers to spend time with you at home. This may in fact be just a business meeting in an informal setting. And when communicating with you, he doesn’t want anything to distract him from you and you from him. Moreover, then, after a business dinner, he comes to you and takes care of your affairs and problems. And this is worth a lot.
In general, of course, everyone loves in their own way. It also depends on character of a man. Therefore, if a poet and romantic suddenly fell in love with you (even in our time there are such people), then you may not expect anything from him that was described above.
But such a man will write poetry to you, wasting kilometers of paper, will stand under your windows, singing serenades, will sigh heavily and leave flowers in the mailbox. And this too Love. It's up to you to decide whether to accept it or not. Maybe that's enough for you. And the kitchen faucet will be repaired by a plumber from the housing office.
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Each of us wants to be absolutely sure that the guy who is nearby loves her very much. But where does this confidence come from if asking about it directly is somehow tactless and, perhaps, even intrusive? And the young man himself is silent, probably also embarrassed to admit his emotional experiences.
This happens to everyone. And with your boyfriend too. Therefore, if he was not trained as a child to work in intelligence, he will definitely reveal his feelings. The main thing is to look more closely at his behavior and you will find out everything.
How do you know that a guy loves you?
One saying goes right: "My tongue is my enemy". IN in this case, we're talking about your boyfriend. What is his enemy is your very first friend. Listen carefully to him and remember what he says about his love:
- There is so much warmth and tenderness in his words that sometimes your heart shrinks. Often you think that no one has ever spoken to you with such love before.
- Naturally, in his conversation with you there is not even a hint of swear words. By the way, the vast majority of guys are guilty of this. It’s not clear why, but as soon as the very first word comes out of their mouth in your presence, it’s as if they are carried along by a stormy stream of obscenities, you can’t stop them.
- Next to you he makes plans for the future, where you have the main role. The role of a beloved wife and mother of rosy-cheeked children. His kids. He dreams and does not want to imagine another life if you are not in it.
- Of course, at his age he had already traveled outside his hometown. To those places that he especially remembered, he wants to take you too. He plans a trip and excitedly convinces you that you will never see a better place.
- He is more interested in your life than your beloved mother. If she is often limited to asking whether you ate well at lunch and whether everything was okay at work, then the guy is not satisfied with such meager data. He asks about everything: what was your childhood like, how do you see your old age, what do you want to do on the weekend, why don’t you like asparagus - it’s so healthy! He’s like a child from the program “I Want to Know Everything!” And you see that he is not false. He is actually interested in everything related to you.
- And he remembers what he asks perfectly and accurately. It happens that you yourself already forget that you once mentioned a red scarf, but he remembers and gives it as a nice gift. Besides, he remembers not only your birthday, but also other significant dates that are important to you. You don’t have to remind him that tomorrow you need to leave early for your grandmother’s anniversary - he remembers this himself and warned his boss a week in advance.
This is how he asks and remembers everything, like an undercover agent, but in reality, he just loves you so much that he does everything to make your life’s affairs and plans merge together. Take a closer look, or rather listen to his intonation, questions and words and you will understand how he treats you. By the way, I almost forgot!
Of course, he showers you with compliments. He likes everything about you: your smile, your clothes, behavior and way of thinking. It’s not that he catches every word, but he listens to you very carefully and looks with interest.
This is how we smoothly approached the moment that will help us figure out what his glances in your direction mean, and how a young man in love can look in general.
Sometimes, unexpectedly turning in his direction, you suddenly discover that he has been furtively looking at you all this time. Embarrassed, your boyfriend turns away and starts saying something out of place. He wanted to remain unnoticed in his admiration for you.
- Tenderness shines in his eyes, and he himself admits with a laugh that he can’t get enough of you.
- There is no irritation in his gaze when you once again make mistakes that are typical for us girls. After all, all sorts of incidents are our second nature. I will forever remember one expression that I read in some book a long time ago. There, a young man called his girlfriend “cactus” because of her ability to get into all sorts of ridiculous situations.
- The guy I was dating at the time confirmed that “cactus” exactly this best word , which can describe all of us, awkward ones. Your boyfriend’s eyebrows will not frown severely even when you blurt out something wrong in the circle of his friends.
- He loves you, if he looks at your cat without hatred. He accepts everything that is dear to you, even if he is allergic to wool.
This is how, by words and looks, you can find out whether your boyfriend loves you or is just spending time. But there is one more powerful thing to pay attention to. Words are words, but actions also play a huge role.
You can tell a lot about a person by his deeds. Because you can talk non-stop without doing anything. But if your boyfriend loves you, then he will show his feelings through actions. Let's see what they do when their love for us goes wild:
- May the guys forgive me now, but how annoying they are with their excessive attention when they love us - beautiful and gentle! I think that your phone doesn’t have time to rest from his SMS. He sends them because they call during business hours you strictly forbade it. Enough of the dissatisfied looks from your colleagues every time you call!
- He comes to your aid in any situation and at any time of the day. It doesn’t matter if you call him at night just to chat or ask him to come out of town because your car has stopped working. You dial his number because you know that’s enough, you don’t have to call anyone else.
- If you get sick or, God forbid, end up in the hospital, you can be sure that you will not be lost. He will bring medicine, oranges and a gift for the doctor.
- He buys and gives you various nice little things. And the fact that they are so small makes you want to keep them even more, because you feel his love in them.
- He organizes at least trying to help you organize various events - from weekly trips to the supermarket to planning a vacation.
- Jealousy covers him when he sees you saying hello to your ex. If it were up to him, he would send his ex out of town.
- Of course, the guy who loves you doesn't hang out with other girls. Neither literally nor figuratively. He values your relationship too much to exchange one of you for several others. And he’s not interested in being with them.
How to tell by gestures that a guy loves you
Gestures are the most powerful weapon of psychology. You can also guess from them that he loves you or touches you because decency requires it:
- He doesn't tap you on the shoulder, like his friend the big guy. On the contrary, even in playful fights, the guy always remembers the inequality of power. And even though, lying under him, you squeal that you are not giving up, he does not need such sacrifices.
- Your boyfriend is perfect doesn't hesitate to take your hand or constant hugging among mutual friends. He gets pleasure, you also get high, your girlfriends are jealous, in general - everything is in business.
- A special gesture, the most noticeable in a relationship, is when after sex your loved one does not roll out of bed towards the shower, but, on the contrary, you've been lying there for a long time, hugging tightly.
How to know that a guy loves you. Divination
We all remember from childhood why we fell in love with daisies. It was “loves or dislikes” that was the first fortune-telling for every little girl. Laughter is laughter, but even now, if you take a chamomile and “bloom” it to answer some question, the result of fortune telling will give us strength or, conversely, plunge us into despondency. So, we quietly reached the magic. Well, there are several ways to find out whether he loves you or not:
- You will need a thread and a ring. Thread the thread through the ring and ask your question. There should be only you in the room. If the ring starts to rotate clockwise, then the answer to your question is “yes”. If it's counterclockwise, then this guy doesn't love you.
- Another interesting and symbolic fortune telling - with matches. I specifically looked on the Internet, everyone advises putting two matches in a box, that is, securing them and setting them on fire. If the burnt matches lean towards each other, you can choose a white dress. But we did things differently when we were kids. They took one match, lit it and sharply pressed it into the wooden surface. The match stood rooted to the spot, and they did the same with the second match. Then they set them on fire and watched whether they bowed or diverged. Sometimes a match didn’t want to stand and kept falling. For us, this was a sign that today it is better not to guess.
- Fortune telling on coffee grounds- the talk of the town. The best medicine is to go to a fortune teller, she’s smart - let her come up with it herself and tell you how wonderful everything is with you.
- Card reading sometimes reveals amazing options. Especially if you come across a good fortune teller.
- Another fortune telling “Mirror corridor”. A terribly scary thing, with which many fantastic, and maybe real, stories are associated. Usually they do fortune telling on Christmas, but it can be done on any other night. I would like to warn you, if you have weak nerves, then my friendly advice to you is to tell your fortune with a daisy. The meaning of the “Mirror Corridor” is as follows.
You should be alone in the room, the lights are off, light candles on either side of the mirror. It must be big. Stand in front of him and point the second mirror at him to create a corridor. Ask your question to the mirrors and wait. After a while you will see a figure at the end of the corridor, it will be your boyfriend. He will approach you through a mirror tunnel. As soon as you see his face, turn away sharply and turn on the light. Horror stories they say that a hand from the mirror could hit you or, even worse, drag you into the corridor.
Usually, young people who have just left school do not particularly hide their feelings. This is due to the fact that they have not yet experienced failure in life. Therefore, there is no need to torture them; they themselves confess their love.
- But if the guy is secretive by nature, then he will remain silent. Be jealous, angry that you have no idea about anything, but remain silent. However, even in this case you can find out everything by simply after watching him.
- Hasty confessions guys are also connected with the fact that the time of service is approaching. But every boy wants his beloved girl to wait for him, write long letters and cry into her pillow, counting the days.
- He will write poems to you and be offended for no reason.
- He will become jealous to everyone you meet and make a row about it.
Every man has the ability to delight the woman he loves. Our task– admire their words and actions.
When a man feels that he is loved and understood, that they are proud of him, he is ready to move mountains and achieve whatever he wants. He will give you even more warmth and love, and you will feel needed and the only woman. This required condition For happy couple. If this is not the case, the relationship falls apart.
The more attention a guy shows you, the more he puts his soul into you. The main thing is to learn to gratefully accept all this from your man. To become the one for whom he wants to perform feats.
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It's time to learn to feel the love of another person and accept it. And if you think that your boyfriend pays little attention to you, is not gentle enough with you and spends most of his time communicating with his friends, this means only one thing - you made a mistake somewhere. Somehow I have discouraged the desire to do nice things for you. But everything is in your hands. Pay him more attention and envelop him with affection and care - and he will be drawn to you again. I hope that all these tips will help and you will no longer look for the answer to the question: “How do I know that a guy loves me?”
Love is a very complicated thing. Sometimes we ourselves ask ourselves the question: “Do I love this person?”, “Am I ready to live my whole life next to him?”, “Will I be able to marry him?” It's so hard for us to figure it out own feelings, what can we say about the inner world of another person. Women are characterized by torment over the attitude of the stronger half of humanity towards them. “Does this man love me?” - such thoughts visit both married and unmarried girls. How to try to solve this riddle? Let's find out!
Such different men...Men are different: tall and short, bald and with gorgeous hair, fat and thin, with a mustache and without a mustache. But all representatives of the strong half of humanity have one thing in common: they do not like to talk about their experiences and feelings. In most cases, men are not too generous with tender words, because they consider it a sign of weakness. Over the years, the word “love” practically disappears from the everyday life of men. But women do not despair! Day after day they look for signs of that very real feeling in their beloved and... they find it!
15 signs that a man really loves!
- A loving man will never allow you to go outside in thin demi-season boots and a light coat in twenty-degree frost. It will always be important to him that you don't catch a cold, and not how you look. A man in love with you will not allow you to freeze in a thin jacket autumn evening, and will throw his cloak on top of you or invite you to warm up in a cozy cafe.
- A man in love will always find a way to please his chosen one. He will never forget when his beloved’s birthday is, and in case of financial difficulties, he will never say: “I don’t have money, so I won’t give you anything!” A loving man will always find the means to do a pleasant surprise to his lady of the heart, and in the most crisis situation, he will prepare her a gift with his own hands or organize a breathtaking walk around the city.
- If you have problems, your man will always try to help you solve them. The phone broke, the faucet leaked, your beloved cat ran away - a loving partner will always be by your side to help you cope with all life's difficulties.
- A man in love will never reschedule your meeting or would prefer an evening with you at a bar with friends. At the same time, ladies should not overburden their man with their own company. Let your chosen one sometimes go out to friendly gatherings with friends.
- A loving man doesn't care what you wear. Of course, he can express a preference, for example: “Darling, I want you to wear dresses more often, they suit you so well!” But he will never say: “What a terrible style your trousers are. With your far from ideal hips, wearing something like this is simply a crime!”
- A loving man will never allow himself to turn off mobile phone and disappear from your sight for a couple of days or a week. If something suddenly forces him to leave (work, family circumstances, etc.), he will definitely find a way to warn you about it. After all, for a loving man there is nothing more important than the peace of his beloved.
- A man in love will always be happy to introduce a woman to his friends or relatives. You shouldn’t expect a public display of feelings from him, because a real man will leave all tenderness until the moment you are alone.
- A partner who values and respects you will never bring matters to a quarrel. He will avoid unpleasant situations by any means, because harmony and mutual understanding in the house are important to him. If a quarrel does happen, then a loving man will not allow himself to be offended by you for weeks or months. After all, this will hurt not only him, but also you. Therefore, do not be surprised if your loved one comes to you in a couple of hours with the desire to make peace.
- A loving man will never seek intimacy on the first evening. He will wait patiently until his woman is ready to spend the night with him. During lovemaking, the partner will care about pleasing his partner.
- If a woman has children from a previous marriage, then a real man will treat them the way he treats his beloved. In no case will he put a condition on her, to choose between him and the children. A loving man will certainly agree to meet his woman’s children. He will sincerely try to establish contact with them, because it is important for him that his beloved’s children treat him well. Subsequently, the man will try to become good father for the children of his beloved woman. He will never make distinctions, dividing children into “his” and “strangers,” but will love everyone equally strongly.
- A loving man will always take into account the opinion of his beloved. In this case, it will not matter whether this is related to the purchase of a new car or the choice of a faucet for the bathroom. If a man really loves you, your opinion will be important to him. He will never dismiss his other half with the words: “I decided everything, you still don’t understand it.”
- A loving partner will always protect his other half, be it an unpleasant situation in public transport, on the street or in a store. A loving man will always take the blow and will not allow a woman to deal with a drunk passenger who decided to insult her, a juvenile hooligan and other “pleasant” moments of life. In addition, a man will always take the side of his beloved, even if she is wrong. For example, if his woman has a conflict situation at work, in which it will be her fault, a real man will never tell his lady of his heart: “It’s all your fault!” he will definitely console her, encourage her, and then carefully try to explain at what points the woman did wrong.
- A man who truly values his soulmate will always share his thoughts and experiences with her. Naturally, upon arriving home, the partner will tell his beloved how his day went, what happened at work, what conflict situations happened that worries or pleases him. If a man is silent, perhaps he is just tired. However, if a man systematically brushes aside his soulmate, not wanting to discuss any matters with her, and hides what is happening in his life without her, this is a reason to think very hard!
- If your man really loves you, he will definitely make common plans with you. Take out a mortgage and buy a spacious apartment, go on vacation to the sea next summer, buy you mink coat, and for him a sheepskin coat - all this will and should be discussed over evening tea in normal families. If your man doesn’t make any plans, or you figure very vaguely in these plans, know that this man does not want to stay in your life for a long time.
- If you doubt whether a man loves you, trust your intuition. Surely, she has never let you down yet!
In conclusion, I would like to say a few words about fading feelings. Perhaps your man really sincerely, devotedly and reverently loved you... But everyday problems, financial difficulties, the birth of children, etc. cooled your feelings. If you are really sure that next to you is exactly the one you need, take action! Organize romantic dinner just for the two of you. Prepare the dish that your man loves. Spend at least one evening together and discuss your accumulated problems. Try to be alone more often, without children and other relatives. This will help your relationship become even more harmonious.
If you're not sure what's next to you ideal man, let him go. Perhaps somewhere the ideal woman is waiting for him...
Very often you can find articles that list signs that a guy is showing sympathy for you. However, in this article I would like to touch on the opposite: signs that indicate that a guy does not love you and perhaps you should break up. If you encounter any of the following signs in your relationship, you may need to think about ending the relationship. After all, if there is no sympathy and people are indifferent to each other, then there is no point in continuing a relationship that has no future.
If you increasingly find yourself thinking, “My boyfriend doesn't love me...”, take a look at these signs. They will help you figure out whether he really likes you.
Signs that a guy doesn't like you
1. He is not “attracted” to you.. Perhaps one of important signs. It is he who determines whether this is your young man. If you haven’t kindled the fire of love in his heart and the guy is indifferent, if he doesn’t feel attraction, then happy relationship you won't build it. You can make as much effort as you like to please him, you can do the most incredible things, but if you are not in his heart, then you shouldn’t torture yourself. As you know, you can’t be nice by force. And here feelings play the main role. Listen to your heart, it will never deceive. Just thinking about him should make your heart respond with a storm of positive emotions. You must literally become one with him.
2. He is “dry” when communicating with you.. If he has no interest in you, then you are unlikely to have any interest in communicating with you. However, do not confuse lack of interest with temporary difficulties: perhaps your boyfriend is simply afraid to take the first step or thinks for a long time before answering you. Let's say after a quarrel there is no call or message from him. So, did he stop liking you? Or maybe he's just afraid? Lack of interest manifests itself over a long period of time. You need to see in general whether he has the time and opportunity to write, call, and how exactly he manages this opportunity or simply ignores it. Another indicator here is the fact that he is constantly trying to end your conversation, finds permanent reasons finish it. And no matter how much you strive to maintain communication, you do not see his own initiative.
3. He talks to you the same way he talks to his friends.. It's actually quite easy to determine. If he always speaks to you in a casual tone, similar to how he interacts with his friends, then he is probably not your match. When a guy is interested, there is always at least a slight change in the way he conducts the conversation with you; a change that proves that communicating with you is pleasant for him. This could be a special voice, the use of words with diminutive suffixes, a special intonation - or anything, except monotony and indifference. The best thing you can do in this situation is to observe his behavior and his speech with other people. This will allow you to judge whether the way he acts with you is different from what you saw, and if so, how different.
4. He freely tells you about the girls he likes.. Another alarm bell may be the fact that a guy without hesitation tells you about past relationships, about girls whom he considers ideal, and so on. However, this should not be confused with when it was just slipped in to keep the conversation going (all guys do this from time to time, and it's really not a big deal) or you asked him to talk about the ending relationship. However, if you are talking to a guy and he has no problem talking about all the girls he loves or has loved, and all this happens with enviable regularity, then you can take this as a clear sign that your chosen one is not the one. who do you need.
5. Body language never lies.. If a guy avoids eye contact, sits far away from you, does not try to establish physical contact (hold your hand, support you on the steps), his conversation occurs without any gestures, or he keeps his distance from you, then you can regard all these as signs that he is not interested and does not want to have any relationship with you.
6. He doesn't want to look free time for meetings. You rarely meet, he constantly has excuses to reschedule the meeting. And this happens more than once or twice. This began to happen systematically. You need to remember that someone who really wants to meet with you will do everything possible and impossible to make this meeting happen. And neither the time of day, nor distances, nor employment will matter to him. As you know, those who want are looking for an opportunity, those who don’t want are looking for a reason...
7. He doesn't just flirt with you.. As noted above, by a guy’s behavior with other people you can judge the importance of you in his life. Take a closer look at how he behaves in female society: whether he goes beyond what is permitted, what his speech and gestures are, whether he flirts, or tries to show himself in a more favorable light. Having discovered this, it’s worth thinking about. Of course, we can assume that he is just a friendly, social, outgoing guy. However, if he behaves the same way with other girls as he does with you, then he is not particularly interested in your company.
8. He hides his emotions and feelings.. If a guy feels something for you, he will certainly communicate his feelings sooner or later. And it's not even a matter of words. This will be visible from himself (actions, look, speech). If the guy doesn't show any emotion, best thing What you can do is to give him some space and freedom. Just to make sure you don't waste your time on it. Let the initiative in the relationship pass completely into his hands. If you don’t see any significant changes, then you’re unlikely to see a continuation of this same relationship...
Do you know what the most desirable and mysterious feeling in the world is? That's right, this is Love. The main thing is how to understand that you are loved sincerely? First of all, you should pay attention to your partner’s breathing, looks and gestures. All this is the key to the great fateful solution.
The situation is much more complicated if we take into account the signs of love themselves. Each city has its own customs to express and acknowledge love. For some, love is pregnancy, and for others, it is the spiritual harmony of two hearts.
So, let’s try to answer the question: how do you understand that you are loved?
The signs of such love should be divided into 2 categories: primary signs and secondary. A girl’s primary love can be determined very well; it is practically written on her face. You ask, how do you understand whether a girl loves you? Easily. A girl in the first stage of falling in love does not miss the opportunity to decorate herself with chic outfits and makeup. On a note, dear guys: if a girl came to you on a second date without makeup and with a complete feeling of some kind of alienation, it means that she does not feel any interest in you; but if your betrothed comes in “war color” with pronounced lips, it means she is ready to do anything for you. Dear girls, now some advice for you: if you are walking down the street and guys turn around but don’t come up to you, it means they are not yet ripe for Serious relationships. It's better not to look at them; and if one of them deigns to come up to you and give you a compliment, this is a potential groom, ready for many feats for the sake of the lady of his heart.
Now let's look at secondary signs that will tell you how to understand that you are loved. Advice for lovely ladies: how can you tell if a man loves you? You met a guy and have been dating him for a month. But you still can’t figure out whether he loves you and how much. If at every meeting a guy does not take his eyes off you, does not pay attention to the lovely ladies around him, smiles and even sometimes behaves stupidly, congratulations, he is head over heels in love with you. But, if you notice that his eyes are wandering somewhere far from your gaze, run away from such a suitor. He's clearly found an asset in you and doesn't want to let it go, but over time he won't miss a single skirt. Do you need such a macho man? Now some advice for men. So, your beloved is trying her best to please you: she dresses beautifully, her eyes sparkle when you are near, she looks only at you. This is a clear factor that she cares about you. If a girl falls in love, she will let all her friends and family know about it. Her parents will be the first to know.
There is very interesting fact. Many people probably noticed it, and more than once. For example, your boyfriend came to your house. If he didn't bring flowers, that doesn't mean anything. The main thing is that you should notice his love in action. For example, he should help you wash the dishes or clear the table. This is much nicer than putting flowers in a vase. Thus, he tries to protect you from unnecessary work. After he has helped you with the housework, he can calmly relax in your chair or lie down on the sofa. In this way, he sets up his “rookery” in your house, which means he likes to be near you here. And don't scold him for it.
Now, let's look at the situation from the other side. You are a guy and your girlfriend came to visit you. Ask her to help you, for example, set the table. If she starts coming up with a bunch of excuses, it means she doesn't really love you. The beloved should be both in sorrow and in joy, and not only in joy. Also, you can check her and tell her that you urgently need money, and you will give it to her in 2 days. If she doesn’t borrow money for you, citing unknown reasons, then this is not your destiny.
How to understand that you are loved? Of course, this is, first of all, frank conversations and a blissful feeling in the soul. Your partner cannot spend even an hour without you, when he immediately makes himself known. This is true love.
