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What a fun way to write hello to a girl. What will make a girl happy? Correctly filling out a profile on a social network

What a fun way to write hello to a girl. What will make a girl happy? Correctly filling out a profile on a social network

23.07.2019

Despite the fact that the simplest and most common way of dating is in real life, we will tell you about how to meet a girl on VK, since this is one of the most popular social networks in which you can meet not just one sultry beauty, but several at once, so as not to waste time and money on just one, with which may not work out.

Moreover, if the weather is bad outside, it is much better to sit at home with a cup of tea or coffee and just chat, and maybe make interesting new acquaintances.

How to meet a girl on VK - preparation

Before you start writing to a girl, you need to understand how to properly meet a girl in contact, just write “Hello, how are you?” not worth it, first you need:

Design your page correctly;
Figure out what to write when meeting a girl on VK;
Understand what is worth talking about and what is worth asking.

We design the wanderer correctly

Before you start communicating, you need to make sure that your page stands out, without this, your question “How to meet a girl on VK?” You won’t be able to find an answer, because girls love with their eyes first.

Bad photos on the page - your chances are close to zero. If you want to attract, look for a photographer, your high quality photos will serve you fully. However, don't limit yourself to a photo portrait, as it won't tell you anything about you. Try to attract the girl's attention with your energy, activity, show that you do not sit at home and your life is full of excitement, adventure, drive, and adrenaline. Also use a little trick in the photo - these are GIRLS. Let it be your girlfriends, or your friends, or just a stranger with whom you have a photo as a keepsake. This will give an advantage, since on the other side of the screen the girl will realize that you are not a complex guy, intrigue and dominate.

After the photos are ready, you can begin further processing of information about yourself. Write about where you studied, about your hobbies, about what kind of music you prefer. You shouldn’t overdo it and tell everything you have to a minimum, because if a girl finds out everything, she won’t be interested.

What to write to meet a girl on VK?

If preparatory stage passed, time to think about how to meet a girl on VKontakte, beautiful template your page is not enough. You need to prove in practice that you are a successful and confident guy.

VKontakte is one of the best people search engines. Finding that same girl will not be difficult, since you can indicate both age and place of study, the most important thing is to find out whether the girl is currently available. You need to set two parameters: “Single”, “Actively searching”, if you don’t set any parameters, you may make a mistake with your choice.

And now to the main thing, how to meet a girl on VK by correspondence? To do this, you need to understand where to start the conversation.

Every person, not just a girl, asks himself the following series of questions:

Who are you anyway?
Why are you writing to her?
And why did you choose her?

Therefore after greetings tell her:

“Who are you anyway?”

So that the girl has no doubts that you are not another acquaintance of her friend who wants to make fun of her, you are not trying to sell her anything, tell her that you are just a cheerful guy who wants to meet such a charming girl.

“Why are you writing to her?”

We answered this question in the first sentence. No need to make a girl wait. State your goal right away.

“Why did you choose her?”

At this point, you should write what really attracted you to her, what hooked you on her, maybe her appearance, or maybe in the description of her hobbies, you have something in common. Don’t forget that you don’t need to lie to her, because sooner or later it will be revealed.

What can you talk about and what questions can you ask?

To understand how to meet a VK girl, you also need to learn about what to say, what questions you can ask and what not.

The first communication should be relaxed, easy, pleasant. To achieve this result you need:

Don't constantly tell a girl how beautiful she is, how much you really want to meet her. This may alert her, scare her away, and she may also decide that you are flattering her;
You shouldn’t ask her something negative or uninteresting, as this will become a huge disadvantage when you start dating;
Just forget about frankness. There is no need to rush things, especially when you have just started communicating;
Conversations on the topics of fishermen, hunting, cars will lead nowhere, unless of course the girl starts them herself.

The most suitable topics for first communication are:

Hobby;
Movies, music, paintings;
Trips;
Pets;
What do you dream about and what do you want from life?

In this article you learned how to meet people on VK, but for more clear example We have prepared correspondence for you:

An example of simple dating;
An example of dating with intrigue;
Example of a quick meeting.

Example of simple dating

After you have chosen a potential girl, write to her after a short period of time:

You: “Hello! You know, it seems like we don’t know each other =)”

She: “Hello! Oh really? But it seems to me that you are right)"

You: “It’s time to correct such an oversight”

She: “Ok. I'm Karina, 4th year economist, I want to get a kitten =)"

You: “Eugene. Tall, handsome and sexy. Doctor of Science... Nice to meet you)"

You: “What breed of kitten do you want?”

She: “Seriously, doctor? =)”

She: “I want a cute little white fluffy, I’ve always dreamed about it. But my parents were against it, and since I now live alone, I can buy a kitten.

You: “And I have a Bombay cat named Ugolek. Doctor of Philology =)"

She: “mmm, blackie, you and I are just like yin and yang =)”

You: “Opposites are drawing closer together)”

The next day:

You: “Hello, pussy)”

She: “Hello”

You: “It’s late, what’s not in pastels?”

She: “I’m working, how did you spend your day?”

You: “Remembered the old days, met with classmates =)”

She: “Yes, you can have fun on Instagram”

You: “What were you doing?”

She: “I was in class, then I visited the rocking chair, and now I’m writing an article to order.”

You: “Journalist?”

She: “I hope, a future journalist”

You: “You’re studying economics, right?)”

She: “I like journalism better, but my parents persuaded me to go into economics.”

You: “I think everything will work out for you. How about calling me tomorrow, text me your phone number)”

She: “*********** call no earlier than 6)”

An example of dating with intrigue

You: “I know your deepest secret!”

She: “Really? And where?"

You: “To be honest, I didn’t believe it until the very end.”

She: “Actually, we don’t know each other!!!”

She: “And what is this?”

You: “Write your phone number and I’ll share your secret with you)”

She: “*********** Just out of curiosity, I will meet you”

You: “Ok, see you tomorrow”

Example of a quick meeting

You: “It’s too cold outside. Let's hang out in a warmer place and eat. I'll pick you up."

She: "Graevka"

You: “What’s your number, I’ll call you when I get there”

She: "***********"

Which communication you choose is definitely up to you. But we suggest trying all communication options, since in practice it will be clear how to meet a girl online is preferable and more effective for you.

Discussion: 12 comments

I once also asked many people how to meet a girl on VK, like unobtrusively, but also to show that you liked her. Many people told me to write to her and confess, then call her for a walk. I didn't do it. Then I came across this article, sat and read, and realized that I had made some mistakes. Now I’m sitting and thinking about what to do next))

I always thought that meeting people on VK was very easy. I found a girl, wrote and that’s it. I've never been so wrong before. How much I had to do to get her attention. Back then I didn’t think that there was no need to talk about everything you thought))) I read some phrases from the article, apparently I was wrong. You need to plan your VK conversation very well, it just turns out to be some kind of game.

I talked to a girl on VKontakte. I really liked her. It was so easy to talk to her there that I didn’t even think much about what, how and when to write to her. We sat for half the night and talked. Then we agreed to meet. In general, we did not find mutual language in real life. We don't communicate anymore. But the advice might come in handy for guys, well written.

One friend advised me how to meet a girl on VKontakte. He said that you shouldn’t rush her and ask her some very personal questions that could confuse her. And now, out of curiosity, I read the article and realized that my friend’s advice was very helpful!)

The author advises talking to the girl from the very beginning about movies, wine and dominoes, such as hobbies, music, and discussing animals. When people ask me something like this, for example, it’s very annoying) I don’t know what they should ask me about during the first conversations, but I would never continue the conversation if they came to talk about nothing like that, and then bam - I like you .

Oh, and my interlocutor really liked boyish topics for conversation. She is so knowledgeable about technology that it is something!!! We even managed to argue with her. After communicating, we met several times, it seemed like something was planned. Now I looked at the article, I myself adhered to many of the points))

And I would also add that you shouldn’t immediately write to a girl and try to get her to talk. Many people really don't like this. For example, I liked her photos, she traveled a lot. I liked them, then asked where she was in these photos, how she was in that country, what was interesting. She answered willingly herself. That's how we met)

The girl I tried to talk to asked in the first message who I was and what I wanted. I was a little confused, but then pulled myself together. Well, I posted my goal, as the author indicated here... He said that I like her, I want to communicate. Well, he flew safely into her emergency!

I liked her so much that at first I lied a little about myself. Then we agreed to call her on Skype, everything was ok. Then we met. And then she found out what I had hidden from her. I was terribly embarrassed that I lied to her, she was very upset, but somehow everything worked out. You shouldn’t lie to a girl from the very first minutes!(

Hah. We actually met her on the forum. Well, how we met, she didn’t know who I was, I just liked communicating with her. I wrote on VK, but first came to this page and read the author’s recommendations)) Some tips helped a lot, now we communicate like kindred spirits)))

Most easy option in my opinion - on dating sites. I do this: I select profiles and send a paid gesture of attention, in it I add a phone number and the message “If you’re sad, call me,” don’t forget about compliments, something like “So sweet, I didn’t like you.” The girl will call back in any case, they understand that he is not stingy, howling effective way, if a girl has already called, in any case we ask for a date, but there’s more humor there, the main thing is not to be boring. I look for girls on the dating portal Relationships, I communicate there because there are many other options for dating: games, tests, flirting, etc.

In a relationship, I communicate there because there are many other options for meeting people: games, tests, flirting, etc...

Gone are the days when letters were sent in envelopes, and the object of passion sometimes remained unattainable. Finding a girl you like nowadays is as easy as shelling pears on social networks. However, another problem arises: what to write to your sweetheart in the first message in order to interest him and continue communication in real life?

The main rule of a beginning pick-up artist is no platitudes! Forget the phrases “Hi, how are you?”, “Let’s get acquainted, beauty” and “Does your mother need a son-in-law?” Every second person begins online dating with a girl with these boring introductions. And if a representative of the fair sex is not deprived of external data, then she receives a lot of such messages from strangers, therefore, you are not original. Remember that girls rarely take the initiative in communication themselves. Therefore, you should take it into your own hands - choose for a conversation, start with an interesting or unexpected question. And a sense of humor is an excellent assistant in winning hearts, especially on the Internet. However, you should not emphasize jokes with an excessive number of emoticons or parentheses. In general, at first you need to be careful with emoticons so as not to seem too frivolous. In addition, an abundance of nonverbal “garbage” may seem like evidence of the paucity of your speech. If you don’t know what to write to a girl in the first message, start by studying her contact page. Look through the wall, interests, photos. Find a topic that you can “catch on to.” For example, a great way is to comment on her ava, especially if the girl is captured in some unusual place or unusual form. True, you shouldn’t ask “Where are you?” if a girl is posing in front of the Eiffel Tower. Experienced Internet seducers do not recommend writing messages longer than 100 characters. An excessively long message is a sign that you tried and strained too hard to compose something like that. There is a good old rule: than smaller manпознакомиться. It is enough to say a compliment once per correspondence.

Don't rush into the quarry. There is no need to force things and after the first introductory phrases ask the girl for her phone number or insist on a meeting. Most likely, your “lady of the heart” will refuse, because she doesn’t know you well, and what have you done to date you? Get her interested before asking her to continue dating in real life. Remember, your VK page is the first thing a girl will pay attention to when meeting her, so before you start communicating, take care of your “ appearance

" Fill out your profile as interestingly as possible, upload high-quality photos so that they would like to get to know you better.

What to write to a girl in contact in the first message? The temptation of easy acquaintance without the need to go out makes many young guys purposefully seek the answer to this question.

However, honey is not as sweet as it seems at first glance. Correspondence with a girl and dating via VKontakte reminiscent of playing table tennis

. Every message from you and hers is like hitting a ball with a racket. Whose strike will be faster, more technical and “cutting” will win.

If you fail, you will be kicked out. If you win, she will single you out from the crowd of her fans, become interested in your personality and agree to a meeting. Therefore, the question arises, what is the first message to write to a girl.

To make the process of meeting and corresponding with a beautiful stranger easier for you, I decided to write this post. There are 6 important rules

conducting correspondence. I wrote about them in the article ““. And in this one I’ll tell you exactly about first

phrases.

So, what will you learn from this article:
What mistakes do guys make when writing their first sentence?
What scheme should you use to select the first phrases?
Examples of first phrases and general schemes by which you can come up with phrases. One additional feature
on what to write to a girl to get to know her. At the end of the video about how you can evaluate girls’ profiles and come up with ideas based on this the right words .

for acquaintance

Many people argue about whether it’s worth meeting people on the Internet at all. I want to find out about this from you personally.

Is it worth meeting girls on VKontakte now? 350
Yes! Just teach! 25
Dating sites are better. 36
No, there is nothing to catch on the Internet. 51

Why not?

What to write to a girl in the first message in contact

What not to write when meeting someone At one time I created a fake account on behalf of beautiful girl

in order to find out what exactly guys write when they meet.

"Hello"
"Hi, how are you"
"Let's get acquainted"
"You're an angel!"
"You are beautiful!"
“Where are you?” (when a guy tries to leave a comment on a photo, this can also be considered an example of a boring template).
Etc.

These guys don’t know what to write to a girl when they meet on VKontakte! And even more so, they don’t suspect.

Remember these “brilliant” examples of what you should not write when meeting someone. These phrases automatically call vomiting reflex the fair half of humanity. It must be said that at such moments the beautiful half of humanity does not look beautiful at all. So, maybe then you shouldn’t write such words to them?

Well, they don’t like it when a bunch of guys write the same thing to them! Moreover, according to my observations, every guy believes that he has an original approach to getting to know this particular person.

What is the first message to write to a girl?

You can choose the first phrases for getting to know each other:

looking at the stranger's photos and her profile
or use contextual opener

Let's start with the first one.

It wouldn’t be very good if girls always posted perfect photos that you can’t catch on to. Fortunately, there is always a photograph in which you can find something like that.

For example, like this:

What to write to a girl in the first message to get to know her by looking at this photo?

Seeing the fingers folded in the shape of a pistol, you can immediately come up with the following phrase:

“So this is who takes money from passers-by! and we are all about politics and the end of the world.”

Or “Let's organize a business! I will lure passers-by into a dark alley, and you, with your charm and pistol, will rob them of their money.”

By developing your sense of humor and imagination, you can come up with simply amazing phrases that will hit the target.

In composing the first phrases, it is not so much the phrases themselves that are important, but the ability to leave a non-standard opinion and ask questions.

After analyzing hundreds of profiles of beauties, I realized that only a small part can write truthful information about themselves. The rest usually write something general (I like to go out with my friends).

But still, sometimes you can find something that catches your eye. For example, in the “favorite music” item you can find your favorite artist (or group). And in your interests - the sport that you really like.

Of course, you won't always be able to carry on a conversation. Sometimes a girl may be reluctant to maintain communication. Or there may be “awkward pauses” between separate rounds of correspondence. Therefore, I advise you to read, in which I analyzed almost all moments of communication with girls.

In addition, when correct use, this is a good tool to increase your attractiveness.

There is nothing better to write to a girl when meeting her than the things that unite you. They instantly create trust and, accordingly, acquaintance is much easier.

If it’s quite difficult to find something in common, then you can carefully look through the profile and come up with a phrase that contains humor and flirtation. Example:

“I’ve heard that a lot of girls who play sports think they have the best control over their bodies. This is true? ;)"– in this phrase there is a hidden subtext about ownership of the body. Pictures of rough sex will involuntarily appear in her head.

Those. This is such a peculiar mix of a contextual phrase and flirting.

I brought you general scheme composing phrases. And you can generate such phrases for each specific profile yourself.

What to write to a girl to get to know her: an additional trick

You can achieve great results in VKontakte dating if you use the search capabilities wisely.

I suggest you try pretty effective method how you can start dating in VKontakte. This is to use a search by school or university. Better first: The second one is better to use when you have already completed your studies at the university. You do everything step by step:

You follow the same procedure if you use the university search. But remember: you can only search by university when you have already finished studying there. After all, we try to portray nostalgia for the places where you have been earlier.

That's all! Now you know what to write to a girl in VK to get to know her. Thanks to these tips, you can quickly make her like you and invite her to a meeting. What I would like to tell you finally: remember that your acquaintance should be characterized by four things: a correctly filled out profile, originality, humor and flirting.

And here is the video I promised:

But don't get carried away with such things! In order to increase a stranger’s interest in her person, a few dozen likes are enough.

In the meantime, here's a photo for you.

What do you think is the best way to write the first message to a girl in this case? Write your options in the comments.

I know that you came to this blog for knowledge and experience. The fact that you are developing is worthy of respect. But information from one article is often not enough, don’t you agree?

Need to know about 3 degrees of a girl’s interest in online correspondence, and about how to jump into the “big league” of those she wants to meet. And know how to make her come to the date already “ready”, i.e. in a state of interest in you. I'm ready to reveal all these secrets to you. To do this, enter your e-mail in the form below and receive my personal achievements directly to your inbox!

Some more information on the topic:

Do you also not know what to write to a girl on her contact wall? How to meet a girl online: 2 components and 2 rules
How to communicate with a girl online: unwritten rules What to write to a girl after a date: increasing attractiveness

SMS message

This type of message should be short and concise, so you need to contain all your feelings in a few lines. Examples of messages that will surely be pleasant:

If you want to wish good morning, you can write the following words: “My beauty, have a sunny morning and have a nice day”
When planning your next weekend together, you can “prepare” the girl by sending her a message: “I want to be with you this weekend. I ordered a hang gliding flight.”
If you want to give a compliment, you can write the following words: “Darling, you are my most beautiful, yesterday you looked simply luxurious.”

Girls love it when guys spend money on them, even small amounts. Therefore, such an SMS will come in handy if you want to cheer up your loved one: “My card is on the refrigerator, the PIN code is nearby. Buy whatever you want, you can show it off in the evening.”
After stormy night The following words would not be out of place: “The night was unforgettable. You are the best.” This nice message - a win-win, each of them will cause a sea of pleasant emotions

A little bit of creativity

If your girlfriend is not devoid of a sense of humor, and she, of course, is not, then you can write her humorous and funny messages. Examples of similar SMS for your beloved:

"You're like a lollipop to me - I want to eat you"
"Bunny, you are a fairy - you cured me of color blindness, I now see the world in bright colors"
“A surprise awaits you - cool, funny and bright. I won’t tell you what it is. You’ll find out when night falls.”
“My glutton, a messenger is coming to you with a basket of sweets for your beloved. Meet him, he’s already on his way.”

Apology messages

There are times when you need to write something to her in order to make amends. If the guilt is really real, and not invented by the girl’s imagination, then you will have to try to make peace. Various emoticons will help you a lot - they will be able to express the full depth of your experiences, and will also complement the necessary words. Examples of apology messages:

“My baby, have you noticed that the weather has turned bad? It’s not because it’s night, it’s because you’re sulking. Let’s turn on the sun and start smiling.”
“Darling, I’m far from you, forgive me, forgive me, but will you teach me to be persistent and unshakable?”
"The very best best girl on earth I invite you to dinner with candles. I'm sorry for what happened, I was wrong, but I will definitely make amends - you'll see"

Mail

It will be interesting, unusual, very pleasant if you write a letter and send it by mail. Now such letters come only from the tax office and the Pension Fund of the Russian Federation, which is a pity - it’s so romantic and incredibly pleasant. In addition, paper allows you to fully express your feelings, unlike SMS.

In the letter, even write how you imagine your life together, make promises. You can describe the future romantic night, just without fanaticism. Such a letter can become a real ticket into a girl’s heart.

Lettering on the asphalt

Girls are very romantic creatures, so your beloved will definitely appreciate the eloquent inscription on the asphalt under her windows. In addition, you can brag about such an inscription to your girlfriends, and this is almost more pleasant than the inscription itself. It is advisable to decorate the words with heart flowers; you can do a little graffiti if you have artistic abilities.

You can draw with chalk - but the effect will not last long; the most durable drawings on asphalt are made using a can of paint or using a regular brush and white enamel from a hardware store. The only thing is that there is no need to express gratitude to her for the night spent in a message on the asphalt, in case her dad reads it.

Banner

There really is a worthwhile reason, order poetry or congratulations in prose from a professional poet and a banner with a photo of your beloved girl with this congratulation. The banner should be positioned so that it catches the girl’s eye every day - preferably several times. Such pleasant congratulations are unforgettable.

Of course, no one cancels words of love. These are the most beautiful, wonderful words that can ever be written. Even without any creativity and creative ideas, a simple word “I love” can sometimes lift her spirits much more than 10 invitations to ride horses or jump with a parachute.

Therefore, if you love, write about love, you can’t go wrong. And more compliments - there are never enough of them either. Anyone likes to know that she looks great, beautiful. And for a delightful night together, words of love and gratitude are simply required.

What to write on social networks

If on social networks you were attracted by a photo of a beautiful girl and she also happens to be from your city, and her status does not include a karateka husband and three children, then there is every chance of starting to date this girl. But for this you need to at least see her and get to know her. What to write in the first message? “Hi, how are you?” won’t work. This makes me terribly bored. Most likely, the answer will be no less original: “Thank you, everything is fine” - and this is in the best case.

When meeting on VKontakte and other social networks, you need to immediately impress with your originality so that the girl pays attention and is interested in communicating with you. Because if a girl is beautiful, imagine how many people like you will write to her in a day. Therefore, it is necessary to become the best among the rest, to somehow stand out.

But still - what to write in the first message? To begin, carefully read the girl’s profile: what school did she attend, her hobbies, interests, friends, look - maybe you’ll find mutual acquaintances, there will be something to start a conversation about. In any case, when starting communication, it is necessary to develop a positive attitude towards you. Therefore, it cannot be loaded, you need to communicate cheerfully, casually and funny, talk only pleasant words- this manner of communication is most captivating.

Write about yourself, but not all the details, ask what was interesting in her life. Tell funny and amusing stories from your life, you can lie a little, it’s okay, you’ll figure it out later. The main thing now is to hook her.

Topics for discussion:

Musical

Check out the playlist. Which performer she prefers - maybe on this basis you will have something to talk about. What are her favorite bands? What if your favorite performer is expected in your city soon, and you can go to the concert together.

You can offer to buy tickets - she is unlikely to refuse. And the night after the concert is a great opportunity to go for a walk and get to know each other better.

Discuss your favorite films. Buy tickets to an interesting new movie, invite a girl. If the film is in her style and taste, she will definitely go with you. And after the movie, there is also a whole night for a walk together.

Books and authors

If the girl is a student and is receiving an education in a specialty familiar to you, you can give her valuable advice, which may be useful. Both pleasant and useful. The main thing when giving advice is not to be boring.

Pets

If you have pets and the girl too, then the question of what to write to a girl in the first message obviously does not bother you. A win-win topic for conversation is pets. If you both have dogs or cats, write about this topic.

Share secrets, addresses of veterinary clinics, medications, remember the funniest episodes associated with pets. And then we can all go for a walk together. It’s simply impossible not to become here good friends- a message with the question: “How is your dog or cat doing?” - always especially pleasant for any girl.

Sports, city life, upcoming cultural events, exhibitions - there are many topics to start a conversation, make friends. Find one or more of yours and write on these topics. The main thing is that in the beginning there is something to talk about.

Often young people do not want and do not know how to meet people on the street (due to innate modesty) or do not have the time and opportunity for this (due to busy schedules and high employment), but everyone wants to build new relationships, which is why men turn to social networks and dating sites in search of the ideal girl.

Interesting phrases for guys: use when meeting

Despite the fact that the world is now promoting the idea of a “magic pill” (pump up your abs in a week, lose 17 kg in a month, get a girl in 1 day, buy yourself cool clothes and you yourself will become cool), there are things that really work.

For example, when meeting for the first time, you can use these options:

You know, the Constitution says that you cannot deprive a person of the right to happiness.
Today I finally understood why I registered on a dating site...
Hello Anya! My name is Max. I accidentally came across your page and wanted to get to know you. The smile on the avatar is so charming :)
Hello, Sveta! I was looking for news posts using the hashtag #anapa, and accidentally came across your page. I saw that we are both from the same city, and that you went there this summer. Would it take me a lot of time to ask a few questions about the trip? By the way, I forgot to introduce myself - my name is Arkady.
I lost the bet, and for this I have to ask the most beautiful girl in the world on a date!
Hello, Tanya! My name is Oleg. I saw the photos and videos you recently posted with Bon Jovi and wanted to ask how it went? We didn’t manage to go to Moscow, but the day after tomorrow they will be in St. Petersburg. So I’m thinking – should I go or not?
Hello. I know something about you that others don't know...
Hello! I'm one of those annoying guys who thinks you're stunningly beautiful.
Your parents deserve a Nobel Prize. Or what do they give out to the creators of world masterpieces?
I think I'm not the first one who wants to meet you. But I am the best. Do you want to check?

Or simpler, straightforward phrases like:

Hello! I've been looking for you for a long time, and here you are!
I have long wanted to meet such a girl.
Your beauty cannot be compared with anything. You are unique!
Do I have a chance to meet such a beautiful girl? If so, let me know.
Are you by any chance from the royal family? Look like a princess!
I got a desire to find happiness after seeing your profile.
Girl, do you have a dream? And I dream of meeting you.
Hello. And I saw you today in a dream. Help me make it a reality.
I read in your profile that you don't smoke. I've always dreamed of meeting a girl who leads healthy image life.
Do you remember me? We met in a dream. But I was sitting on a white horse.
Are you by any chance looking for the perfect man?
Let me make you happy.
Today is such a wonderful day. How not to write to such a beautiful girl?
I was very lucky today. I found the most charming and sweet girl. Can I meet you?
Girl, what do you plan to do for the rest of your life? Is it possible to include me in the list of your life plans?
Do you know that you struck me with your look? You are incredibly beautiful!
You must have put a lot of effort and energy into looking this good. I fell for your bait.

In this video, psychologists Anton and Ekaterina will tell you how you can use tests to determine how interested a girl is in you:

With these options you can surely win her attention:

You couldn't smile, it's dark outside.
How do you manage to do this?.. Look so good.
Why did you stop smiling, I just started falling in love?!
Have you ever had young people crawl at your feet before?
You are so beautiful that I forgot the phrase I wanted to address you with!
Have you already turned off many people today? I've only got three so far. Well, the arrogant girls are gone now.
You must have been the ringleader. At least you really turn me on.
You're so cool that I'm ready to drink bath water after you!
Girl, are you interested in cute unmarried guys? No, I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about a friend. His girlfriend is a bitch and left him. Aren't you a bitch?
On the street: Walk past her, then turn around sharply and ask: “Didn’t you just pinch my butt?.. No?.. What a pity...”
Is it okay that I come to you with such a smart look?
Could you please wake me up tomorrow morning by calling cellular telephone, otherwise I'm afraid to oversleep.
Girl, can you tell me how to get to your heart?
I looked up a synonym for the word “beautiful” in the dictionary - your name there was also...
Girl, I'm looking for a partner... for dancing. Allow me to study you more carefully.
By any chance, do you have my book?.. No? Yes, I gave it to someone to read, and to whom... I only remember that someone was very nice!
What will you do this evening after we meet you?
Shall we talk, or will we continue to wink at each other?
Did you happen to see that my white horse wasn’t running through here five minutes ago?
You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going.
Unfortunately, now I don’t have time to melt your cold gaze, but I can call you in the evening.
What is your shoe size?.. I have 45. Well, we met!
Girl, what time do you think is appropriate to be late?
Hello! Today we are lucky... We met.
Girl, please call an ambulance! Cupid just shot me!
Hello! Did you recognize?... So I didn’t recognize you right away either.
Let me walk you home. At least with a glance.
I have an unusual question for you - what should you say to a girl in order to get a slap in the face?..
Girl, excuse me, but aren’t your legs tired?.. You can’t get out of my head all the time.
Girl, do you know what is good about Tefal cookware? Because it can hit someone on the head who is very tired, and since you don’t have this valuable utensils now, I decided to get to know you better and ask for your phone number.
Do you play the trombone? No... Me too! Look how much we have in common. Let's take a closer look?
Sorry, I forgot my phone number. Can you lend me yours?
You know, after a long search, I finally found a cafe where you and I can have a wonderful time.
Do you have a thread to start our relationship right here?
Girl, do you have a compass? What about the hourglass? I don't think it's worth asking about the barometer.
Girl, your help is urgently needed!.. The fact is that I am going to drown. And your eyes are perfect for this.
The only thing your eyes didn't tell me was your name.
I'm a newcomer. Can you tell me how to get to your house?
I noticed that you noticed me, and I would like to notice that I noticed you too.
Girl, do you know why the lens is round, but the photos come out square?
Giving flowers to a girl: “I really wanted to show this rose (tulip, mimosa, etc.) how beautiful you are...”
If you think that I am going to get to know you, then you are mistaken - I also want to invite you on a date!
Girl, you don't know New Year will it be this year or next?
Girl, over there, do you see that young man? So he doesn’t know yet, doesn’t know yet... What’s your name?.. And mine is Sasha. So, that young man still doesn’t know that we just met.
You know, I have absolutely no idea what I should say to get to know you, but let’s better imagine that I have already said all this.
Girl, did you sleep well last night? And didn’t even toss and turn? But I couldn’t sleep all night waiting for our meeting.
Girl, do you have plush toys at home? Me too! Let's introduce them.
I bet you are a stubborn person... I read in a magazine that girls who wear round earrings/red pants/green bags/whatever are very stubborn people. (Most people consider themselves stubborn, so it's very easy to start a conversation.)
Can you tell me which direction I need to go to meet a girl who is ATTRACTIVE AND SMART at the same time?
Don't you remember me, I lived next door? No? And it’s not surprising - after all, I never lived next to you. Maybe we have everything ahead?
When I get old, I will remember the most bright moments of my life: about the day my children were born, about my wedding day, and about the day I met you.
Please remind me what I was wearing the last time I saw you?
Girl, do you meet young and attractive people?
Girl, wait! You seem to have lost something!.. I don’t see your smile anywhere!! Oh no! Here I have found it!!
Girl, kiss me if I'm wrong, but it seems your name is Antonina?
Girl, do you know what I just saw? I saw one young man who had just met a girl. And literally after five minutes of conversation they communicated as if they had known each other for 100 years. By the way, you know how the young man started the conversation. He said: “Do you know what I just saw?..”

Girl, forgive me, weren’t you hit by a shrapnel?.. It’s just that you broke my heart as you passed by. I thought, what if I caught your attention?
Such a beautiful girl should have a beautiful phone number!
How did you know I was here?
Can you forgive yourself... if I don't get to know you?
My friend said that being sent by a girl is very difficult. I bet with him for 20 rubles, so you can help me earn money for beer. But I ask you - the message must be of high quality and original!)
You appear in front of a sitting girl and say: “I’ll be right there.” And you disappear, after which you appear again, but as an old acquaintance of hers.
I knew that the most beautiful girls were here!
I’m ready to erect a monument to the inventor of the Internet - after all, without him I would never have seen a photo like this charming girl, how are you!
Girl, I can’t help it: the charm emanating from you works even through the Internet.
My dream is to be one of the lucky 30% who found their soulmate on the Internet. Can you help me with this?
From your page on the social network I learned that you are a big fan of vanilla coffee. But, unfortunately, the Internet is not yet able to convey the taste and aroma of this drink of the gods. Can I still treat you in real life?
I don’t know which Internet gods to thank for seeing your photo on social networks. And it's a spark, it's crazy!
Girl, can you help me find my pulse?
I don't usually meet girls this way...
I'm sorry to interrupt, but I urgently need to tell you that you are terribly sweet.
I’ve been thinking of a reason to meet you for an hour now, but so far nothing has come to mind.
You know, I just realized one thing. I could have stayed at home today and never found out about your existence. It's a scary prospect, isn't it?
Hello! I have a completely unconventional question for you. I'm interested in what you would say young man, who turned to you with the phrase: “Let's get acquainted?”
And what does it feel like to be on your own? beautiful girl in this city?
The gypsy told me that today I will meet a beauty in (say the color of the girl’s clothes). Does this description remind you of anyone?
Let me offer you my hand and my heart. I am a surgeon, I have a lot of this stuff.
Your right eye is lighter than your left - I’ve never seen anything like this in my life! Or is it just me? We need to figure it out and get to know each other better.
There's something wrong with my eyes - I can't tear them away from you.
Oh my God! Can you imagine, I thought I was gay until I met you!
Excuse me, what do you do for the rest of your life?
Are you Katrin, my contact? No? It’s a pity... Maybe then I’ll buy you coffee as an apology for making a mistake?
You are as beautiful as a star! Only the stars are beautiful at night, and you are beautiful during the day.
Didn’t you meet me in Anapa in 2008? No? And no wonder, because I wasn’t there. Can you tell me where you met me?
Can you tell me what the current exchange rate for the Spanish peseta is? What about the Portuguese escudo?
You arrested me with your beauty, and I would be happy to serve my life sentence in the captivity of your heart.
You know, it's terribly nice to see at least one girl who walks slowly. Nowadays, everyone runs like that... In our city it will soon be like in the ancient tribes: if you catch up, that means you got married, if you don’t catch up, it’s your own fault. Do you know this custom?
My request may seem crazy to you, but I just bought lottery ticket and I want you to kiss him and bring me good luck.
Sorry... I just want to say thank you!.. Have you ever had a day when you felt alienated, indifferent? When you are not completely happy, and not... when you feel like you are going with the flow. And suddenly you come across someone and see an amazingly warm and beautiful smile that instills in you a feeling of happiness, fairy tales, a feeling of beauty for the whole day?.. You see, I didn’t want to distract you at all, but you look like you’ve decorated your appearance my life...
Your parents are thieves! Two stars have disappeared from the sky, they are now burning in your eyes.
I wanted to compare you to a star, but that would be unfair to you. After all, the stars are beautiful only at night, but you are always beautiful.
Excuse me, can you help me? I'm a journalist and I'm tasked with interviewing the most beautiful girl in the city.
Hello! The ruble is falling, but my interest in you is growing...
Girl, you look so much like my first wife! And I haven’t met her yet...
Hello. I decided to open a help center for homeless cockroaches. Can you help me with the nursery?
You are so sad... Can I take away your sadness? I need it for experiments.
Hello! Listen, my friends and I are conducting a study on the topic “Which phrase is most suitable for meeting such a spectacular girl like you...”
You are so sad. Can I take away your sadness? I need it for experiments.

These words should not be written under any circumstances.

This will only alienate your interlocutor, never write to her:

I'd like to take a closer look at you!
Hello! How are you?
Do you want to ride in my Hummer?
I really like you, and I don’t know why.
You look like my ex, only much better!
I oh...ate when I saw you.
It seems to me that I don’t suit your status, but I’ll try anyway...
I like pose number 69 from the Kama Sutra, what about you?
Girl, don't you know how best to spend my ten thousand?
Girl, I'm on an ad. Are you giving out your phone number for free?
Girl, doesn’t your mother need a son-in-law?
And you are terribly beautiful. It’s even scary to approach you!

Typical mistakes guys make when texting girls

Below we will describe the most common mistakes all the guys who just push girls away:

Do not correspond only for the sake of receiving positive emoticons and good reactions from her. It will only ruin everything between you.
Don't pretend to be someone you are not.
Don't pretend to be too smart in your personal messages with her. Don't quote Shakespeare or facts from evolutionary biology.
Don't write overly huge, cumbersome texts. Long texts take a very long time to write. Because of this, the thread of the conversation between you is lost. Brevity is the soul of wit.
Don't overdo it with compliments. There is no need to remind her every word that she is beautiful, and this is your first experience of corresponding with such a beautiful girl.
Chat with her in private messages, and not somewhere in the comments under the photo. A girl will behave completely differently and write completely different things if your correspondence takes place in front of everyone.
Write correctly and without errors, without swearing. This will only be a plus in your piggy bank. The girl is not for you bro. There is no need for her to write all sorts of curse words that you use in correspondence with friends.

Know that you want to see her in person first of all, and not correspond on the Internet forever. Don't spend hours on the Internet with her. Call for a meeting as soon as you feel that this moment has already arrived.

Video: how to correspond with a girl correctly?

In this video, Alexey Samsonov will tell you what to write to that same unapproachable beauty from the social network:

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