Feminine attractiveness. The attractiveness and beauty of a woman through the eyes of a man

First of all, make it a rule: sleep should be complete. A minimum of 8 hours of sleep, and you will always look cheerful, fresh, without wrinkles and bags under the eyes.

Believe me, even the most miraculous cosmetics cannot hide your lack of sleep.

An attractive girl always follows active image life: whether it’s jogging, morning exercises, belly dancing or aerobics – it doesn’t matter. Just let your body look toned and your body feel energized and toned throughout the day. And, of course, refuse bad habits, otherwise all efforts are obviously in vain.

Don't ignore proper nutrition, even if you really like sausage or carbonated drinks. A balanced diet rich in minerals and vitamins will not only benefit your figure, but will also give shine and beauty to your hair, and your nails will stop breaking and peeling. Forget about smoked, over-salted and fatty foods and pay attention to fresh vegetables, fruits, and freshly squeezed juices.

Attractiveness from the outside

Of course, even the most beautiful girl will not be able to preserve the beauty and attractiveness given by nature if it does not support it. Therefore, use face and body skin care products, but be sure to use high-quality ones.

Besides professional means, you can adopt folk ones. After all, a long time ago people came up with wonderful recipes that sometimes even beauty salons are not able to surpass.

Guys and men always sympathize with people with a sense of humor, girls who seem to soar on wings. Optimism and a positive attitude towards life are another key to your attractiveness. Sincerely love yourself, the people around you and life in general, it’s impossible not to feel this energy! Straighten your shoulders, raise your head and laugh more often, joke and smile just like that at friends, strangers passers-by, family.

As for fashion, this lady tends to constantly change and it is not so easy to always comply with her rules. But you are an individual, and fashion should only become an assistant, an additional tool. Create your own image, clothing style, highlight your strengths and disguise your weaknesses. Don't go for cheap things - it's better to buy fewer things, but best quality. And if you know how to knit or sew, your wardrobe can easily become the envy of other girls. Don’t be afraid to experiment and use your imagination, then you won’t be repeated or eclipsed by any pretty girl!

What is it - female attractiveness? This is a woman's ability to please men. And since for men a woman is, first of all, a sexual object, it means that to be attractive is, first of all, to be desirable and sexy. Sexuality (translated from English as sex-appeal - “sexual appeal”) is everything that attracts members of the opposite sex.

Female attractiveness is a complex concept that includes many components: not only appearance, but also attractive manners, posture, gait, gestures, poses, timbre of voice, smell and sparkle in the eyes, state of mind. It is not enough just to have beautiful external data for men, as they say, to “fall in stacks.” A woman with rather inexpressive natural characteristics, but who knows how to emphasize them favorably, and most importantly, is internally attractive, charming and competently uses the language of her body and clothing, has more success with men than a sleek, well-written beauty who repels men with her arrogance and inability to communicate on a subconscious level. Beauty and attractiveness are not the same thing.

About the preferences of men in women.

The basis of a woman’s inner attractiveness is, first of all, confidence in her attractiveness and sexuality, a harmonious state of mind, as well as love for life, for people, and therefore love for men themselves. Most men like spontaneous, natural, with a twist, who know how to take care of their appearance, flirtatious, confident in their attractiveness, unconfined, sexy, emotional, friendly women.

Of course, a man really values ​​a woman’s appearance; it’s important to him. But surveys of men on the topic of an ideal life partner show that men rarely put beauty in first place, and above all they value tenderness, caring, affection and the ability to be a good mother. A man appreciates it when a woman admires him, when she knows how, with her feminine fragility, to evoke in him a feeling of his masculinity and a desire to protect and protect. Of course, there are also individual preferences, which, of course, play an extremely important role in choosing a partner. Men really like women, loving sex, who know how to be skillful lovers, liberal in bed. According to men, attractive, sexy women have sex more often, think and talk about it more. It has been observed that sexy women are more likely to read romantic literature and experience romantic fantasies. A man adores a woman who is able to take the initiative in sex and shares his love for spontaneous sex. A sexy, attractive woman knows how to enjoy sex and is not ashamed of it, is not afraid to show what she wants - both with her appearance and behavior, but subtly, unobtrusively, often on a subconscious level. When a man sees that a woman wants him, it has an exciting effect on him. Adds sex appeal to a sense of humor and the ability to have fun and enjoy the beautiful aspects of life. Strengthens a woman’s desirability and her selectivity in choosing a man. Most men like it most when a woman easily approaches him, but is inaccessible to other men. If it is difficult to access for everyone without exception, this is alarming.

Men don’t like women who don’t like sex (or pretend to), speak negatively about sex, behave rigidly when talking about it, show their reluctance to have sex, and condemn a man’s sexuality. Men do not like women who are indifferent to them (it’s better to have a negative attitude than to ignore them indifferently). Sex appeal is harmed by excessive seriousness, inability to enjoy life, discomfort, bad mood, gloominess, prevailing negative emotions, criticality, the desire to control everyone and everything, enslavement, severity, emotional deafness, and exaltation of one’s high intelligence above the intelligence of a man (men love smart women, but not those who seem smarter to them).

It is important not to be too inaccessible to all male representatives, or too accessible, very critical and picky, or just to admire and look at a man like a light in a window, anticipating all his desires. There must be a golden mean in everything. Carrot and stick tactics can be very effective. Research has shown that men named the most attractive woman who acted rather coldly at first and then softened in the video they were shown during the study.

Certain conditions can contribute to increased sexuality or attractiveness. For example, strong emotions experienced together caused by a risky situation. The effect of novelty also excites sexuality - a woman who is new to a man is very attractive.

The so-called “halo effect” in psychology may also work, say, in a situation where a woman is in the company of very attractive friends, she herself is perceived by men as more attractive (only if the difference between her appearance and the appearance of her friends is not too great, otherwise another feeling is of contrast). If a woman looks and behaves so perfectly that one gets the impression that she is just ideal, this can scare away. In one study, they showed a video of various people. There were some who were attractive in appearance and behavior, and some who were repulsive, but most of all I liked the person who was pleasant in all respects, but seemingly accidentally knocked over a glass of water. That is, an attractive woman must also have weaknesses.

To be successful with the opposite sex, it is very important to appear approachable in body language. It is believed that the active role in choosing the object of sympathy belongs to the man. But, as a rule, a man chooses a partner among those women who themselves have paid attention to him and do not hide it, demonstrating their interest with the help of subtle and delicate body language: sexual gestures, poses, glances, smiles. A man usually likes those women who positively perceive his views, postures, gestures, words and other microsignals. If a woman, even without realizing it, does not respond to microsignals with a positive reaction, then the man does not like her either.

Sexual attractiveness is greatly influenced by voice intonation. Well, the smell in this case can have a simply phenomenal effect.

Most of all, a man is influenced by visual images in a woman’s perception. Therefore, a woman’s appearance is very important among the components of sex appeal. Sex appeal is enhanced by the ability to present one’s appearance in a winning, tasteful manner: choosing clothes, makeup, hairstyle, accessories that suit this particular woman, and the ability to wear it all beautifully.

Of course, it is important to subtly feel and use the language of clothing in relationships with the opposite sex, this is especially important at the first meeting. There are certain clothes, makeup, hairstyles, etc. that are usually perceived by most men as extremely enhancing the sex appeal and attractiveness of a woman in their eyes. Oddly enough, very often men and women have different opinions on this matter. For example, many female representatives believe that the most attractive woman is a woman who is expensively and elegantly dressed, very well-groomed - with a chic, carefully styled hairstyle and bright makeup a la “just from a beauty salon.” Most women are critical of their appearance and hide their flaws under long or loose clothing, believing that this way they will look much more beautiful. But will they be perceived as sexy and attractive by men? Men like well-groomed women, but too sleek, carefully combed, etc. may seem inaccessible. Sexy, according to men, design of a woman’s appearance is close to her natural appearance. As one familiar saying goes: “No clothes make a woman better than the absence of them” :). This means that what more clothes, hairstyle and makeup emphasize the lines female body and the naturalness of the hair and face, as nature created them, the more sexy it will be perceived. For example, clothes that fit the body, revealing feminine forms, a hairstyle made of loose, slightly disheveled (natural) hair, natural makeup. Most men are not at all as critical of women's appearance as women themselves. A woman, for example, believes that she is not very Beautiful legs, and hides them under a long skirt or trousers. A man will like this woman much more if she wears a miniskirt instead of hiding her legs. Because in fact, her legs seem attractive to a man only for the reason that they are feminine. Of course, there are exceptions, but they are too rare. Usually natural data is quite proportional, you just need to keep it in shape and take care of yourself.

Now let's talk about the components feminine attractiveness in details.

APPEARANCE.

The main rule here is to emphasize as much as possible female figure. This is done using tight-fitting and body-opening styles:

1. SILHOUETTE.

• + In clothing, the tightness of the body is important. The silhouette is maximally fitted, semi-fitted is also acceptable.
• - Clothes that distract attention from the contours of the female body are categorically rejected: loose, voluminous, shapeless, too loose silhouettes, behind which the figure is not visible. I don’t like clothes that distort the lines of the female body - styles with huge false shoulders, too puffy sleeves, with a belt not at the waist, a lot of distracting details: folds, ruffles (especially on attractive parts of the body), patch pockets, frilly, complex elements clothes. Too tight clothes, which seem to be out of size (a woman may think that in this way she will hide extra pounds), squeezing and squeezing the body - a corset, a belt that is too tight, tight clothes that are not the right size - look ugly and are repulsive.

• + The length of the clothes is mini, and also just above the knees.; the length just below the knees is liked much less, the length to mid-calf is acceptable for older men (50 years or more).
• - Maxi length is rejected by almost all men.

3. STYLES.

• + All men like a dress, as well as a skirt with a blouse (top, blouse, thin tight-fitting jumper, etc.), less so - a skirt with a jacket.
• - I don’t like trousers and shorts (although some exceptions are tight styles, especially tight short shorts, some people also like tight jeans), a trouser suit is especially rejected. Youth's baggy trousers, wide, shapeless styles, and strict, fitted business suits are also unattractive. Excessively revealing clothing (too short mini, revealingly transparent blouse, very deep neckline, etc.) is shocking, so few people like it. Extravagant, too unusual, pretentious clothing models are not sexy. We see that a bodycon dress is the best option. Miniskirts complete with a tight-fitting “top” are also very impressive. You can look sexy in business suit(but not trouser) if it emphasizes the figure.

4. DEGREE OF BODY OPENNESS.

• + Clothes that reveal the body as much as possible are suitable: neckline in front, back, transparent inserts and details of clothing, mini length, long slits, open shoulders, back. I like the neckline on the chest the most; styles with bare shoulders, chest and back are also very cute, then there is a neckline only on the back. Well, the open-shoulder model closes the list. Models with transparent inserts, or with tempting small cutouts of simple shapes can be interesting. For example, I witnessed the stunning effect produced on a group of men by a girl dressed in tight jeans, on which a row of small “holes” was cut out on both sides, almost from the very waist to the bottom of the trousers:) (apparently, the men were intrigued question - are there panties under the jeans?). Although they considered this option sexy, it was also shocking - too frank and unusual, according to the men themselves.
• - Closed clothing is not attractive: closed collars, styles that cover the legs, and all attractive parts of the body (shoulders, décolleté). Closed clothing is a subconscious signal of enslavement - “Don’t come near me.”

5. INTRIGUING.

• + Which in itself follows from the previous point, clothing that intrigues the imagination and excites the imagination attracts attention. For example, a long clasp on a dress, a skirt with a clasp in the front, undone the top 1-2 buttons of a blouse. If clothes contain elements that make them easy and quick to remove, this is always attractive to men. Men are fascinated by the lack of a bra under their clothes. In general, sexy clothes are those that allow you to take them off quickly and easily. I also really like the slits on the skirt and dress. 1 incision in the back is most preferred, followed by an incision on the side.
• - Repulsive: a lot of fasteners and clothes. Complex styles that can get confusing.

• + Attractive fabrics with a soft, pleasant to the touch, feminine texture that you want to touch: silk, satin, velvet, fur. And also fabrics that intrigue the imagination: transparent, translucent. The fabric should be thin, allow body heat to pass through, and fit well female forms. Natural fabrics much more attractive than synthetic ones, apparently due to the pleasant sensations when touched. Cotton, and then wool, are also liked, although with a large gap from the previous ones (men under 40 do not often note these fabrics as attractive).
• - Rough, thick, hard tissues are rejected.

7. COLOR SAMPLE.

• + The sexiest colors: cherry, black, white, blue, followed by red (red is liked a little less, apparently due to the fact that some men find it too aggressive and bright, annoying, especially men over 50). Blue is also considered attractive, but less so, he is especially attractive to men over 50 (men of this age group usually a calm blue is preferred to red). Green and lilac do not stand out, but they are more likely to be liked than not.

That is, women look sexy in clothes that are open, noble, rich colors of red-blue and black-and-white. Among the pastels, only blue stands out. Among the dark ones are cherry and black, followed by blue.

• - I don’t like colors that are dark, muted, complex, mixed, earthy, or poorly saturated. Men are also not very fond of pastel colors (with the exception of blue and sometimes lilac). Bright colors are also rejected: yellow and orange. The most unattractive colors: mustard, protective (rejected by almost all men). Also not sexy grey colour. The same applies to warm orange-peach tones. Pink and light green colors are slightly less unattractive.

Conclusion: men are indifferent or negative towards yellow, orange, beige-brown, gray, as well as turquoise and violet.

• + The colors of clothing should not distract attention from the contours of the figure. This means that the simpler and more inexpressive the pattern, the better. All men like plain fabrics the most. Next come patterned fabrics, with rounded lines and floral motifs being perceived as more attractive than geometric patterns with straight lines or pointed shapes.
• - Patterns that distract attention from the figure reduce sex appeal: very expressive, bright, with a contrasting, catchy combination of colors, complex, too large, fabrics with inscriptions. The sharp contours of the drawings are rather repulsive; they are perceived as sharp and aggressive, and not at all feminine and sexy. The straight lines of the drawing are strict, limiting, “putting into a certain framework.”

HAIRSTYLE.

• + The greatest interest is in feminine hairstyles and long (semi-long) hair. A slight carelessness in hairstyle is always intriguing - slightly disheveled hair. For example, loose hair, slightly tangled, or carelessly pulled up with loose strands sticking out from the general mass, with curls at the temple, slightly revealing the neck. In addition, the more natural the hair styling, the younger the woman looks. Hair colors are natural. It is known that men prefer blondes, perhaps due to associations with something light, soft, tender, somewhere defenseless and fragile. Or maybe just because light color hair often advantageously emphasizes facial features, making the face visually more youthful. By the way, in a group of several women, the blonde is the first to catch your eye and attract attention for some reason. Perhaps this hair color is simply more bright accent, attracting attention to its owner. The absolute record holder in terms of eroticism is long, flowing, slightly disheveled, slightly wavy, soft, shiny (which means healthy) hair. Especially if your hair is also light. By the way, blondes with a cold, noble, ashy shade I like them more than blondes with warm, golden, yellowish hair tones.
• - I don’t like unfeminine short haircuts, extravagant unnatural hair colors, pretentiousness in styling, as well as overly neat, all too “correct” hairstyles. Carefully styled, pulled back, especially carefully “sleek” hair hints at strictness, restrictions, prohibitions, including sexual ones; in general, there is no time for erotic associations. Excessive sleekness and correctness in hairstyle can also repel men due to the seeming inaccessibility of their owners. In addition, young girls usually don’t wear well-groomed hairstyles yet, so such hairstyles can make women look older. Also, loose hair that is too smooth and neatly combed is inferior to hair with a sign of slight negligence and freedom of movement. Dull, unkempt, coarse, damaged hair, as well as sticky and hard hair from too much hairspray, are unattractive.

• + A face with makeup is much more attractive than without it. Although many men say that they like women with no makeup at all, in fact, a “no makeup” face is what they often refer to as a face with skillfully done, natural makeup, with the effect of “made up like no makeup.” There are two rules in the most sexy makeup: 1) with makeup it is better than without it, because, as you know, with its help, attractive facial features can be made even more beautiful, and, on the contrary, imperfections can be smoothed out; moreover, a woman with makeup is subconsciously perceived more well-groomed, brighter, attracts more attention; 2) makeup should be natural, and the more natural, the better. That is, facial features are emphasized and made more expressive, while cosmetics are practically invisible. Men like a slight blush on the cheeks, expressiveness, sparkle in the eyes, sexy lips that are a little redder than the natural color of the lip (because this is how a woman’s face looks in moments of excitement and sexual intimacy). Many men like wet gloss on their lips (due to very specific associations, it is clear which part of the female body is in an excited state). Some men like bright red lipstick, but most agree that the softer and more natural the shade of red, the better. Some men don't like lipstick at all. I like expressive, long and thick eyelashes, increasing and making more expressive eyes, which are emphasized with mascara.
• - Excessive, too bright makeup is unattractive, when the paint is especially visible on the face, unnatural tones of cosmetics (for example, purple lipstick), an abundance of foundation. Eyes outlined with black pencil look vulgar and tasteless (women often try to enlarge them in this way, although they achieve the opposite effect). Too bright contrasting makeup is unattractive (but it is worth noting that makeup " pale face with red lipstick, as well as with thin black arrows drawn with a pencil on the upper eyelid" makes a very beautiful faces so-called "winter" color type women ( dark hair, saturated color eyes, contrast of the iris and white of the eye), as it emphasizes their natural bright color and looks attractive on them).

• + I like well-groomed hands, natural colors of nail polish, neat manicure(at the same time, the nails may not be long).
• - Repel excessively long nails and unnatural, extravagant (black, purple, green, etc.), as well as aggressive colors of nail polish, as well as too long nails.

• +Attractive open, feminine, graceful models - shoes and sandals. Women's legs look extremely sexy in shoes with high (or medium) thin heels. A high, elegant heel emphasizes the shape and beauty of the legs, lengthens them, makes the size of the legs visually smaller, and also makes the gait sexier. Moreover, men consider stiletto heels to be the most attractive, while many fashionable heels that women like do not give men pleasure. Open shoes are preferable to closed ones. For example, shoes with an open heel, a deep neckline and decorative thin buckles at the ankle. Sandals consisting of thin parts and buckles look especially erotic. Light (white, pastel) sandals with elegant moderate decorations, perhaps with a slight shimmer, also look erotic.
• - Rejected: lack of heels, or low heels, rough massive models, massive platforms, sports shoes, unattractive boots, shoes with a high rather than deep neckline. Overly extravagant models are rejected.

DECORATIONS.

• + Jewelry emphasizes and accentuates femininity and sexuality. A thin elegant chain on the wrist, or a pendant that mysteriously sparkles and draws attention to the neckline, earrings with pendants, necklaces, and thin rings look sexy. Almost all men agree that jewelry add attractiveness to a woman. As for costume jewelry, not all men like it.
• - Large earrings and massive jewelry are annoying. Most men have a negative attitude towards piercings.

• + Very sexy, of course, are stockings, both with and without a belt, and tights, body colors, as well as black. Well, from sexy, exquisite lace transparent and translucent underwear men are known to be absolutely delighted!
• - Clothing styles with a belt look less sexy than those that emphasize the waist only by cinching it (for example, a tight-fitting dress made of thin, soft, flowing fabric, without a belt). A belt may subconsciously indicate any restrictions or boundaries, which do not contribute to eroticism. Although if the belt is feminine, thin, elegant, beautiful, then it, additionally emphasizing the area of ​​the female waist, is perceived positively by men. - A woman with glasses is perceived as businesslike, too smart and educated, which can alarm many men - “What if she’s smarter than me?” Glasses in any case reduce sex appeal. The exception is sometimes Sunglasses, making the face mysterious, but without glasses is still best.

Smell is an incredibly powerful factor in sexual preference.

• + The sexiest, of course, is natural smell a healthy body, since certain areas of the body, namely: the skin of the chest, genitals and nearby areas, the skin of the armpits, arms, feet and face, emit sexually arousing odors - pheromones (attractants). It’s so inherent in nature, it’s stupid not to use it. Representatives of the opposite sex react strongly to natural body odor, so it would be a mistake to try to completely get rid of it with the help of very thorough frequent washing, and also to overpower it with perfume smells. You can successfully attract the attention of representatives of the opposite sex with the help of your own attractants. An increase in the amount of attractants in the body is facilitated by good mood, healthy image life, physical exercise. In autumn they are produced most, in spring - least. In the female body, attractive substances are released in maximum quantity in the middle of the monthly cycle. You can also increase the amount of pheromones by using herbs and infusions. For example, bedstraw, angelica, lovage, agrimony, yarrow can be used as regular infusions or baths, or simply place a bunch of herbs somewhere in the room. Smells also have a positive effect on the production of attractants, promoting a harmonious state and relieving depression. The smell of a sick body is sexually repulsive. Careful hygiene and a light scent of perfume will help here. If a person is in a bad mood, depressed, or experiencing stress, his body produces in excess substances that are opposite to attractants - so-called repellents that repel. From all of the above it follows that the natural smell of a healthy body is perceived as the most attractive.

Perfumes can also be very attractive if they are chosen tastefully and applied in small quantities. The more natural your body odor is, the better. Men like feminine, subtle, light scents, as opposed to heavy, spicy and harsh ones. They really love nice-smelling women. The smell of perfume and eau de toilette and thorough frequent washing “drowns out” the smell of attractants. But this, of course, does not mean that you don’t need to wash at all. Everything is just good in moderation. The main rule for body aroma: the weaker and more subtle the natural body odor and the smell of perfumes, the stronger its impact on others.

Rejected: too strong smell of perfume, strong smell of sweat.

• +The voice can be very attractive. Especially if it sounds free, relaxed, calm and friendly. A sexy voice has soft intonations, warmth, lightness, and can carry a smile. Many men like their voice to be muffled, slightly breathy, or with a charming hoarseness. The voice of TV presenter Tina Kandelaki is often cited as an example of a sexy voice.
• POSTURE. Good posture is essential for attractiveness, as incorrect position the body can ruin a lot of things. In order for your posture to be beautiful, you need to keep your head straight, slightly raised, do not put your chin forward, move your shoulders back (to find the correct position for your shoulders, just raise them as high as possible, pull them back, and then lower them), tighten your stomach, raise your chest ( stand up straight, take a deep breath (pull in your stomach), exhale and relax your body), do not push your chest forward, and do not push your shoulder blades and buttocks too far back. You can check the correct posture like this: stand straight at a distance of 10 cm from the wall, lean your head, shoulders and buttocks against the wall and check whether your entire back is touching the wall. If everything is correct, if the distance from the waist to the wall exceeds 5 cm, you should work on your posture.
• GAIT. The gait can be either very attractive or repulsive. Attractive, sexy gait - smooth, easy, relaxed, confident, natural. To make the step smooth and light, the foot is placed on the ground gradually - first with the heel, then smoothly move to the middle part, and then to the forefoot. Toes point straight. If, when walking, your feet are placed at a distance of 7-14 cm from each other, this is normal. But having put them closer friend to a friend (at a distance of 5 cm), you can enhance your own sexuality. You need to walk “from the hip”: when taking a step, move your hip forward, and not just your knee. You shouldn’t specifically swing your hips, it will look vulgar. The effect of a feminine, slight sway of the hips is achieved by the fact that the step is taken from the hip and the feet are placed at a close distance from each other. While walking, your back is straight, your head is raised, your shoulders are straightened. It is important not to swing your arms to the sides; to do this, the elbow moves back a little while moving the arm. Non-sexy gait: Long or shallow strides with feet spaced far apart to make walking safer.

BODY MOVEMENTS: FAMILY, GESTURES, POSTURES.

When a woman is interested in a man, she can imagine the continuation of their relationship. At the same time, her body often reveals what is on her mind. Success in business often depends on the ability to send and recognize signals sent from others. sexual relations. After all, people trust subconscious signals more than words. Women who give off a lot of suggestive body signals are much more likely to attract men. You can also use all these gestures consciously, which will greatly enhance your sex appeal. And in any case, do not restrain such subconscious movements in the presence of a man you like. And vice versa, watch your movements so as not to inadvertently attract a man whom it is undesirable to attract to you for one reason or another.

ATTRACTING GESTURES AND POSITIONS:

• Preening: touching hair; straightening clothes; hair shaking is a movement of the head that throws hair from the face or shoulders to the back.

• Sexy sitting style: a sexy woman sits relaxed, free, relaxed, and at the same time full of feeling self-esteem. Very sexy poses:

• intertwining of the legs, in which they seem to line up on the same line, aimed at the woman’s object of interest - the most attractive female way of sitting.
• slowly crossing your legs over your legs in front of your eyes and returning them to the opposite position;
• sit casually on the ankle of one leg, pointing the knee of the other in the direction of the person you like.

• Playing with objects:

• playing with a shoe on your toes speaks of a free, relaxed pose, and the phallic diving of the foot in and out of the shoe is very sexy.
• playing with jewelry, a lock of hair.

• Stroking objects or areas of the body:

• gently stroking your thighs with your hand.
• stroking a cylindrical object - the stem of a glass (or thoughtfully run your finger along the edge of a glass), a cigarette, a pen, a finger, etc. long objects).

• Demonstration of open delicate skin: wrists - by turning them towards the man, the front area of ​​the neck - slightly tilting the head back.
• Swaying your hips.
• A slightly open mouth, wet lips - a symbolic image of the female genital organs in an excited state. Slowly move the tip of your tongue along upper lip also very erotic.
• Gesture with pawning thumbs by the belt, or its sophisticated modification.
• Turn the lower body towards the person of interest. The toe of the foot, turned towards the man, even if the woman is enthusiastically talking with someone else, clearly indicates who her interest is actually directed at.
• Entering a man's personal space (very close to him), either by coming very close, or leaning close, or every now and then invading this area with his hand or the toe of a shoe during a conversation. Well, touch is the “peak” of invasion of personal space and is a very powerful signal. For example, you can touch a man’s hand during a conversation, touch him while exchanging objects, or casually touch his body with your body. These body movements reveal the desires of its owner very clearly and strongly.
• Bold poses (for example, bending over a table, kneeling on a chair) evoke appropriate associations.
• Other body movements are also effective - shrugging your shoulders, tilting or shaking your head, flashing a ring on your finger, etc.
• -Some body signals can be alarming, create a powerful barrier to rapprochement, and therefore not only significantly reduce attractiveness, but also cause a loss of interest in a woman. These are signs of closedness and tension: arms crossed on the chest, legs crossed, clasped fingers, clasped lips, biting lips, a suspicious glance from under the brows, a restless darting gaze, fingers constantly fiddling with objects, etc.; lack of interest: turning the body (especially the lower part) away from the man, avoiding looking in his direction, or a short cold look; etc.

SIGHT.

The look can be very exciting and intriguing. This can show your interest both in response to a man’s interest and as a unobtrusive first step. Eye contact is a very powerful tool in gender interaction. Therefore, it is important to know how to use it correctly. Often a woman who is interested in a man, without meaning to, can push him away only by not responding to his gaze and by hiding her eyes. She may be doing this simply out of excessive shyness or reserve, while a man may interpret her behavior as evidence of her lack of interest in him.

A woman who can freely and openly look into a man’s eyes is much more attractive than one who stubbornly does not look at a man, which is perceived as detachment, coldness, secrecy, and lack of interest. It’s sexy when you feel an appeal in your gaze, but not too overt. The look seems to say: “I’m interested in you, I like you.” Most often this entails reciprocal sympathy. A warm, smiling look is very attractive.

• The shine of the eyes, the “fire” in the eyes, is stimulating.
• Dilated pupils indicate interest.
• It is very seductive to look “in the distance-down at the man”, then look away, and again “in the distance-down-at the man”, etc.
• No less intriguing is the sidelong glance from under half-lowered eyelids, and when a man notices this, as if embarrassed, quickly look away to the side (this creates the feeling that the man is being watched with interest), which is very enticing.
• The long gaze into the eyes is also captivating; it speaks volumes. Then the eyes move to the side. It’s also not worth looking into the eyes continuously, it already looks threatening, embarrasses, and, moreover, has an overstimulating effect.
• The gaze of a person interested in a sexual sense drops from the line of the interlocutor’s eyes down to chest level and above, which is subconsciously perceived by the other person that they are interested.
• A sidelong glance from behind a raised shoulder (the rounded raised shoulder is an imitation of one's own chest).

• + A smile is a magnet! She can attract men to her owner even more than a very beautiful, but not smiling face. A woman's smile for a man is a powerful sign that she likes him. A soft, friendly, sweet, natural, sincere smile on a relaxed face is what you need! A slightly shy, mysterious smile, as well as a slightly mischievous one, is also attractive. A smiling woman is perceived as open, relaxed, friendly, positively disposed, happy, loving life, and all this cannot help but attract. Without a smile, coquetry, which is so attractive, simply cannot exist. Facial expression is often more important than the features themselves.
• - And vice versa, an unsmiling, gloomy, with tense muscles, enslaved face is very repulsive, even if many other things in a woman look attractive. A person’s tense state makes a smile false, forced, and completely unattractive (“I don’t like you, I don’t care about you”).

Using all these recommendations in practice, you can easily see how effective they are and how they can increase a woman’s success with the opposite sex and her ability to be happy in her personal life. The image of a super sexy woman can be clearly seen on the screen, remembering, however, that one of the properties of the image of “stars” is the exaggeration of qualities, which should not be done in life, it would be too much. One of bright examples female attractiveness - a group with the eloquent name "Via Gra" :). It is obvious that good, competent professionals work with these girls. There are many erotic moments, sexual movements that have an extremely sexual effect on men, and a sexy “inviting, inviting” style of appearance. The girls are as close as possible to the look that a woman usually has during sexual intimacy with a man - they are half-naked, or in figure-flattering clothes, with expressive facial features skillfully emphasized with the help of almost natural makeup, their long hair either loose and slightly tangled, or carelessly pulled back, with curls falling out, their looks and poses are eloquent, their voices are erotic, they behave softly and femininely. Humor also plays an important role in their images.

Of course, their image is exaggerated, as befits in show business, and therefore very visual.

Finally, I will give another example of the image of an attractive woman. This time the example is not from show business, where everything is presented in a somewhat enhanced form, but from life. One photographer I know, who works in a marriage agency, before photographing girls who wanted to find a husband via the Internet, set them an indispensable condition: to be photographed in tight-fitting, open clothes, always in a miniskirt that reveals the legs (tight-fitting short shorts were also allowed), in tight-fitting tops with a neckline or blouses that emphasize the chest, in open elegant shoes or sandals with heels (barefoot was also allowed, which also looks erotic), with loose hair, or hair hastily pinned back, mandatory makeup in a natural style, done by a professional makeup artist. He advised all girls not to cut their hair - the longer, the better. During the filming, he relaxed the girls with jokes so that they acted naturally, and asked them to smile, remembering something pleasant, and also to make as soft a facial expression as possible. He said that experience shows that men react significantly less to photographs of women in long skirts, or trousers, as well as a gloomy, even without a shadow of a smile, facial expression. How did the girls react to these “mandatory conditions”? Most of them were perplexed. Some said that they didn’t want to look “like prostitutes,” while others assured the photographer that they looked much better in a different style of clothing, that it suited them better, while others refused these conditions, explaining that they had “the right thing.” the legs are ugly”, then “the back is not tanned” and “the chest is not pleasant”, etc. But the photographer was adamant. Because he knew what he was doing (after all, he was commercially interested in girls receiving as much feedback from men as possible). If only you knew how many letters these girls received from potential suitors! True, there was one more condition - the agency worked only with girls who did not have seriously pronounced imbalances.

Every time I watch a movie or TV series, I am shown the idea of ​​what an ideal woman is like. That is, they show us all, of course, only recently did I think about it. And somehow it turns out that the ideal woman is some kind of man. And it’s not even funny anymore - at least for me, because often these heroines have features that women in real life not inherent. Often it's even the exact opposite of what I'm attracted to. So here is a list of these very so-called “attractive” women - as they appear thanks to pop culture. They are supposedly attractive, but if you met one in reality - what would you say?

1. The girl who knows too much about sports

This type is often found in sitcoms. She drinks a light beer and wears a T-shirt with the logo of the team she supports. She knows everything: who won what year, what the rules are and all that stuff. The logic is clear: guys love sports. Damn it, I love sports. Very. So I must like girls who love sports.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t like girls who know absolutely everything about sports. Why? For the same reason I don't like guys who know everything about sports. They are such know-it-alls who seem unable to talk about anything other than sports and are proud of their terribly developed sports horizons. This is already some kind of monomania, dude! I like to talk about sports, just a little. I can go to a basketball game - it's a thrill. But I can’t talk about sports all the time! This is somehow strange.

2. The barmaid who loves to flirt

Such a cute flirting barmaid is also a common type in television series and movies. The following plot often occurs: a group of friends comes to a bar, and there a beautiful bartender is waiting for them, who looks at them as if she is able to jump over the bar and have a party with them all.

Why should I want to date a girl who can behave like that? Why on earth should this be attractive? How is a relationship with such a girl even possible?

3. Sassy barmaid

This is a very attractive girl behind the bar who makes fun of a dude when he orders drinks that she doesn't think are manly enough. Of course, I wouldn't want to be rude, but could you shut up and get my drink? I pay money for it. And what do you say? Yes, after a day of work I like to have a cocktail and relax. Of course, I’m sorry that my cocktail doesn’t seem manly enough to you, but that’s absolutely not my problem anymore.

4. The friend who only talks to dudes

Don't call me a conservative, I have absolutely no problem when a girl has her own friends. I absolutely don’t mind when a girl can find language with my friends, this is very important in a relationship. But the idea of ​​a girl who only hangs out with guys is kind of weird.

I also don’t like it when dudes say about their girlfriends as a compliment that they are “like a dude, only the kind you can sleep with.” Apparently, it is important for them that such a girl does only that: hang out with guys, drink beer, play video games, and you can also have sex with her! It depends on everyone, but I don’t get along with people like that. I don't want to hang out with a girl who looks like a guy.

5. “Funny” girl

Now we are not talking about girls with a sense of humor, everything is fine with them. I'm talking about the type of girls from sitcoms about whom you can't say anything serious at all. Everything she says is just jokes. She's always just joking. Such eternal jokers tire both men and women. This type is promoted by pop culture, probably because guys hate serious conversations. But, man, too good is not good either. I don’t want to date a girl from whom you won’t get anything serious.

6. Sex buddy

IN last years TV screens convince us that guys don’t want to have relationships - they just . And if anyone manages to find a girl who agrees to this, it is considered great luck.

I had this experience, and therefore I can say: it’s cool. The first week or two. Maybe a month. And then it all becomes tiresome. Both feel morning disgust for themselves and for each other, you don’t care about each other, and this turns into a problem. You do not trust me? Check it out. Call me in six weeks and tell me.

7. The girl who drinks more than you

We often see this in movies: a girl shows her toughness by drinking more drinks than a guy.

Girls who can skip whiskey are sexy. And a friend who drinks six glasses without leaving the bar is already alcoholism. No thanks.

8. The girl who constantly wants sex

This is another type of girl that the guys on the crew seem to like. Most often she appears in porn, but this type is also not uncommon in mainstream culture. These are ready to take off their clothes as soon as you want - it doesn’t matter where or when. Are you reading the morning newspaper? Bang! Did you go to the bath? Bang! In general, in any unclear situation they prefer to have sex.

I love sex. Whatever, I love sex. This is one of my favorite things to do. However, I also like to read, watch movies, listen to music. And if a woman wants sex 24/7, it gets tiring.

9. The girl who can beat me in arm wrestling

This type strong woman. Of course, basically everything is fine with her. I'll just feel insecure in her company. Who's the guy here anyway?

Every woman wants to be attractive to men. Even if she is married, she still enjoys catching admiring male glances. And if a woman is in search, then she simply needs to be attractive and alluring to men. But what is this feminine seductiveness? In impeccable appearance, in activity towards men, in the art of flirting or in the inner state?

There are several secrets of female attractiveness, which does not depend on external data or age. And this attractiveness for men is not in the external, but in the internal state of a woman. There are many ideal women who cook well, study male psychology and try to meet all the criteria, take care of themselves and try to be perfect, but at the same time they often find themselves abandoned. Sometimes for the sake of one who is far from ideal and does not know and cannot even half of what an “ideal woman” should know and be able to do.

So what's the deal? What really is the secret of female attractiveness?

Three secrets of female attractiveness

The first secret of attractiveness. Matching intentions and “signals”

This is when words coincide with deeds, and deeds with intentions. If a woman declares that she is looking for a man for Serious relationships, starting a family and having children, and comes on a date with an incredibly deep neckline, a short skirt and flashy makeup in the “lady vamp” style, then a man may simply experience cognitive dissonance. That is, the woman seems to have one intention, but she conveys something completely different.

In a word, there is a discrepancy between what is created female image and a request to the man. The woman says that she wants a serious relationship, she is worthy and wise and is looking for a worthy and noble man, but at the same time she may end up in bed with a man in the first or second meeting (probably in order to test his ability to be a father in this way). And after such testing, men disappear forever, and women remain bewildered. That is, she is only used as a mistress for quick sex. Since her behavior and appearance doesn't quite live up to her claim that she wants to become faithful wife and a caring mother.

Therefore, when choosing and searching for a man, it is important to broadcast the right signal! And words must match deeds and behavior. Yes, high heels and no one denies the neckline, it is feminine and beautiful, but one must maintain balance and a sense of proportion (which is a sign of high culture).

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The second secret of attractiveness. Broadcast of Love

Make the phrase “what I emit, I attract” your life motto. Get used to this phrase, as it is the basic law of the universe. Just don't confuse radiation with action. That is, I do something and then get something for it. The point here is a little different. What matters is what you broadcast, what you feel, what you radiate into the world. This is what you get back.

Women often say that they are disappointed in men and no longer believe in love. That they don’t need any relationship, and they only need a man to satisfy their physiological needs. They declare their manifesto, which says that “men have all died out and degraded,” “you can’t find normal men these days,” “all are males and traitors,” and everything in the same spirit. And at this time a wide variety of feelings are blazing in their souls - from resentment to contempt and hatred. And in the end, the universe returns it all back to them, exactly in the very form and image that they are talking about.

Let's be honest with ourselves and face the truth. Every woman wants love and spiritual intimacy, but if her psyche is destroyed by some kind of trauma, then she begins to deny it. Although in fact she madly wants mutual and sincere love. And men want it too! All people want because it is a natural need! But having accumulated some sad life experiences, many people give up on the search for love, on the search for a person with whom they can create a long-term union based on the closeness of not only the body, but also the soul.

As a result, everything superficial is cultivated, and everything genuine is blocked and not noticed. And women, while promoting “relationships without obligations,” subconsciously still want real true love. And they themselves deprive themselves of it, blocking their soul and not allowing it to seek love. The woman in this case radiates the state of “no love” and ultimately receives the absence of love in her life.

The third secret of attractiveness is focusing inward

Any phenomenon in our life represents the interaction of two principles - male and female (yin and yang). And also in relationships. The tandem of a woman and a man is based on the fact that a man is his external beginning, and a woman is his internal one. A man’s energy is centrifugal and centripetal. And if you compare the energies of a man and a woman with a spring, then the male tends to stretch, and the female tends to compress. Psychologists, biologists, philosophers, and many ancient knowledge say that a man personifies the external principle, and a woman represents the internal.

In a word, a woman attracts with her inner state, her special state of peace, her positively calm emotional background. With this state, a woman gives a man an impetus to activity. And a man is attractive precisely because of his external achievements, precisely because of his ability to behave in society, because of his ability to protect a woman and get everything she needs. A man is attractive by his actions, and, in particular, in relation to a woman. And only through the connection of these two multidirectional vectors does balance, harmony and, ultimately, a long-term union arise.

Nature itself decided so. Look at the animals. In their world, males have to demonstrate secondary sexual characteristics (certain external qualities that “speak” of their high reproductive ability) and be active in order to win a female. Look at the animals - males always look beautiful and magnificent, while females are plain and not particularly “attractive”. But lions have manes, deer have antlers, peacocks have tails.

And only with people today everything happens exactly the opposite. Men don’t really demonstrate anything, they “just exist,” and women compete in brightness, skills, grooming, beauty, trying to prove something to a man.

Women uncontrollably demonstrate their “secondary sexual characteristics” - gorgeous breasts, long legs in stiletto heels, plump lips. What caused this? Because men today are becoming a limited resource of the species and therefore women have to fight for them?

Maybe it's time to stop? And realize that all sorts of feminine tricks(bringing yourself to perfection, studying cooking and ingenious sexual techniques, and so on) will not help a man around you. Simply because the vector of energy in this case is directed towards external space and it turns out that it is the woman who is fighting for the man, when it should be quite the opposite. When “outer connects with outer,” no chemistry will happen, no balance will exist. Balance is the connection between the external and the internal.

Maybe it's time to learn how to first broadcast love and the female state? Maybe it's time to learn to live from the feminine?

Be happy, loved and blooming like a woman!

An attractive woman is considered to have ideal facial features and a slender figure. This misconception is refuted by many men who pay attention to completely opposite parameters. What influences the attractiveness of girls?

Regardless of the fact that all women are completely different (tall or vertically challenged, with a curvy figure or a boyish type), men may like them.

Many factors make women attractive:

• external data;
• grooming;
• properly selected clothes and shoes;
• demeanor;
• intelligence;
• self confidence.

Let us consider the influence of these parameters in more detail.

Attractive appearance

The first impression is made by a person's appearance. There are ideal external data that attract attention. For example, flawless Oval face, large almond-shaped eyes, plump lips and a long neck are considered the most attractive. If a woman’s appearance does not correspond to the recognized canons of beauty, we must remember that all flaws are subject to correction. The shape of the face can be changed by choosing the right hairstyle; eyes and lips are quite easy to shape the required form and visually enhance with makeup. Facial features can be easily corrected with foundation, and your neck can be lengthened by choosing the right neckline on your clothes.

The figure and its parameters that attract

At the first meeting, the figure is also assessed. It is believed that men are attracted to women with ample breasts, a thin waist and wide hips.

Considering the various parameters of figures, it is important to emphasize the advantages by choosing the right clothes:

1. Lush breasts can be achieved using special underwear.
2. A narrow waist will be highlighted by fitted skirts and dresses.
3. Clothes that are wider at the bottom or a pencil skirt will help make your hips wider.
4. For slimness and long legs, you should use heels.

Grooming and neatness of an attractive woman

Even a girl who is far from the canons of beauty can look attractive. There is a belief that there are no ugly women. Taking good care of yourself, highlighting positive sides With the help of cosmetics and emphasizing the advantageous features of your figure (by performing sports exercises), you will become interesting to men.

They do not like unkempt women, and they are frightened by too flashy women. Therefore, when dyeing your hair, pay attention to natural shades, it is better to do makeup in pastel colors, and the manicure should be neat, middle length and without acid colors. When you decide to attract the attention of the opposite sex with bright makeup or clothing, try not to cross the fine line of vulgarity.

Men prefer naturalness in a woman. An important parameter of grooming is a healthy smile and a pleasant smell. Therefore, to maintain the beauty and health of your teeth, visit your dentist regularly. It is advisable to use perfumes with a light and unobtrusive aroma, avoiding strong odors.

Fashionable shoes and clothes attract attention

A woman dressed beautifully and fashionably will be noticed by men. You don't have to chase every trend. Do not forget that what is beautiful is not what is fashionable, but what is fashionable is what is beautiful. If the chosen clothes do not suit you, then their price and mention in glamor magazines will not be important. Therefore, when choosing fashionable things, make sure that they emphasize the advantages of your figure and match the color.

Choose not rough shoes, because elegance female legs valued at all times. If boots are in fashion male type, you should not put them on thin girlish legs. The choice of accessories and jewelry is very important; they can decorate a simple dress or highlight the advantages of appearance.

Behavior: facial expressions, voice, gestures...

Behaviors often serve as an attractive factor for men. If you want to attract a guy, use special gestures, looks, poses and facial expressions (each girl has her own arsenal). Men respond to a deep chest voice or laughter because it seems sexy and calm. A high and loud voice evokes associations with a hysterical person. In this case, try to speak and laugh more quietly.

Intelligence can attract and interest

There is a misconception that men love stupid girls. This is not true, they choose women with whom there are topics for conversation. Any man wants to have individuality nearby and be proud of his chosen one, so smart women always popular. By trying to listen to his words and chat less about your own affairs, you will become an indispensable interlocutor for him.

Why does a woman need to attract attention to herself?

Attention is an important component detail modern society. Thanks to increased interest, a person feels important, becomes more self-confident and more successful in life. Women are no exception either. Each of them tries to look better and earn the approval of others.

Attention from men

It is natural for female representatives to attract the attention of men. This is required to create a family and increase your own self-esteem. Usually, some of them are surrounded by many fans, while others remain unnoticed. It seems to such girls that there is no chance of a man liking him, but this is not so. There are many ways to be the center of male attention. To attract the interest of others, highlight positive aspects, hide shortcomings, be friendly, calm and smiling. Men don't let such women pass.

Own ego and love of beauty

Women need the interest of others for greater self-confidence. In such cases, you should show your intelligence and individuality. Do not try to underestimate for the sake of your own ambition mental capacity surrounding you, you will achieve the completely opposite effect.

It is believed that beautiful people are more susceptible to outside interest than those who are invisible. Therefore, ladies with rich natural qualities or who have achieved attractiveness through careful care can easily win attention from the opposite sex.

Parameters of female attractiveness through the eyes of a man

Attractiveness in the eyes of men has almost the same indicators as in women.

The following parameters are important for them:

1. Youth (18 – 25 years old). When communicating with a woman younger than himself, he feels younger.
2. Beautiful face. Ideal facial features have always been the canon of beauty and remain today.
3. Ideal figure. Ideal parameters are not the main thing. A fit and well-groomed girl is of interest.
4. Height. According to standards, it is believed that a girl should be shorter than a man. There are exceptions when the guy is shorter than the chosen one.
5. Gait. A light gait, accompanied by a slight sway of the hips, looks sexy and attracts the interest of men.

These external data make only the first impression. And in the future, when communicating with a woman, other factors, such as intelligence and personality, influence.

An attractive woman through the eyes of some presidents

To become interesting to men, you should adhere to the above-mentioned tips, work on yourself, and then confidence will appear, the most basic indicator of attractiveness. If a person likes himself, he will inspire sympathy among others.