Damn, guys, what did you miss in your childhood that you dressed in lingerie indiscriminately, shaved your legs, chest and arms, although in ordinary life- exemplary fathers of families and brutal naturals, nowhere else?! 
A few years ago there was no such thing ... although, I’m lying, it was 20 years ago, and 100, and 200, but if earlier they were feminine and mannered young men, now ...
Crossdrossers. No, no, not travesty and not transsexuals, beautiful, courageous, pumped-up guys change into women's clothes and they stand - stand on themselves, and even so that they are ready to fuck themselves with their own dick. By the way, some people do it well, and even a blowjob to oneself - just with a bang!
You won’t believe it, but I searched the net and found this ... Yes, these guys have a rather complicated gradation:
- shemale transvestites(or transvestites of a dual role) - men who occasionally dress women's clothing, but it does not excite them sexually (?) and they do not want to do operations and will not.
- fetish transvestites- guys dressing women's clothes, it excites them, they have sex with both of them. Fetishistic transvestism is accompanied by autogynephilia. An autogynephile is a person who is sexually aroused by fantasies about himself as a woman and about his feminine body (the female version of narcissism).
Brothers (or their "sisters") "crossdressers" (CD, CD) - these simply change into women's clothes, love wigs, but in sex they still prefer to sleep more with women than with guys. In ordinary life - brutal naturals with a slight hint of unisex.
There are also "traps" - more often heterosexuals (well, relatively), unisex in appearance, that is, feminine boys and boyish girls, do not often suffer from clothing perversions.
And the last category is "Sissy" (Sissy Boy, Sissy Maid, Sissy Slut, Sissy Slave, Sissy Doll) - guys or men who love to dress in women's clothing with an absolute desire to obey or be humiliated by a woman. And what the Lady will force them to do there - here they are happy to try, they don’t particularly practice same-sex sex.
Tired? Confused? Me too...
We are not talking about travesty artists - this is pure business ... Although, who knows.
By the way, "transsexuality" is included in the International Classification of Diseases, in theory - such a "girl" is supposed to take time off on "critical" days.
Literally yesterday ... I'm sitting on the site, I'm not touching anyone, the straight man writes (I'm looking for a modest girl to start a family), they say, I want to try with a guy. I didn’t break down for a long time, especially - in the photo there is a handsome athlete, eight pack abs and everything, tall, athletic ... I won’t hide, drooling flowed right across the screen, for clarification I tell him that I’m not athletic, ordinary. He told me: "Excellent! Tell me the address and I'll come."
He arrives, everything is as in the photo - sweetie ... he asked to take a shower, this is only welcome, he left. It takes about 15 minutes, appears ... Damn, in black fishnet stockings, red panties, black silk bra. I remember exactly - we did not discuss this, he apparently read the whole storm of emotions on my face, explains that he cannot and will not do it differently. And, indeed, he has a crazy erection, which can only be envied. I will not hide, as they say, I am quite cynical and reasonable to pay attention to such trifles. The sex was fantastic, it was everything and even more, he moaned and wriggled, in the process I managed to take off some of his clothes, but he did not allow the stockings to be touched ... Maybe there is some kind of exotic in this. But it's not mine, it's not mine, I don't mind, let the guys do what they want. But not in my bed...
We talked after sex. Ilya was married twice (there is something to marry, believe me), two daughters from both wives. But occasionally he definitely needs to be under a man, preferably with bristles and harder, in order to be flogged. After he finishes, the male partner is disgusting and uninteresting to him (he just didn’t finish with me), lingerie excites, but it’s not like a fetish. Everywhere neat and beautifully shaved, no, the wives were not aware of his preferences ... We repeated our games and he disappeared from my life forever - in the morning his page was deleted. Good luck, my dear... or dear!
I have no prejudices... so claims of ridicule and insults from transgender people will not be accepted.
What do men hate about women's clothing?
When buying clothes, how often do you consult with men? Do you know what clothes men find seductive and what, on the contrary, they hate? Today we find out what men think about women's fashion and how they want to see us in reality...
The British, as the main lovers of ratings and sociological research, conducted their own survey of the stronger sex and found out which women's clothing especially annoys men. As it turned out, there are indeed a lot of things on the list that should be avoided.
Men don't like shapeless wide leg pants, because, in their opinion, they disfigure the proportions. female body, but at the same time they don't like leggings because they are too tight and show more than they need.
Also stronger sex don't like overalls, because the girls in them look like workers, fringe on clothes and men's suits on girls.
The most disgusting shoes, according to men, are ugg boots because of their shapelessness and gladiator sandals with many straps, because after wearing the straps leave marks on the skin. The list of unwanted accessories includes headbands, headbands and massive butterfly sunglasses, without which we cannot live any summer.
Do you think this list is fair, or are British men just picking on women's clothing? What items in your wardrobe are you willing to give up to please a man? Leave your opinion in the comments and read on what our men think.
Men about women's clothing: anti-trends
And now let's give the floor to our men: what kind of women's clothing irritates them? We read carefully and make a list of male anti-trends.
Sergey, 31 years old:“I don’t like it when girls with a good figure wear loose-fitting clothes that hide everything behind incomprehensible pieces of fabric. Number one on my list is probably horrible dresses that make girls look like they're pregnant. Why they wear such dresses on dates, I don’t understand, to be honest.”
Grigory, 24 years old:“I don’t like it when girls wear rubber shoes. I think that shoes should always be of high quality and stylish, while they can be expensive and not very expensive, but rubber shoes always look strange, whether it be boots, ballet flats or some kind of sandals.
Dmitry, 25 years old:“It seems to me that not all girls are military style. I remember how my friend once put on a military cap with a white T-shirt and became very similar to Fidel Castro. It made me laugh a lot, and she even got offended a little.
Alexey, 29 years old:“It annoys me when girls wear t-shirts with idiotic slogans. It seems to me that these t-shirts should be worn by younger schoolgirls, not adult girls. And these provocative inscriptions like “I am sexy”, “Look here” or “I am a princess” irritate me terribly. It’s better to leave them for statuses on social networks. I don't think there's anything better than a plain white T-shirt."
Sergey, 22 years old:“I don’t like it when my girlfriend wears these stupid little handbags without handles and straps (clutches - Approx. ed.), Because she constantly strives to leave them somewhere - on a table in a cafe, in a club, on an armchair. And this bag looks, to be honest, like a folded leather bag in your hands.
Andrey, 34 years old:“I don't like it when girls wear over-the-knee boots with a short skirt. It seems to me that this style looks vulgar, I associate it with the Combination group and cherry nines from the 90s.
Igor, 26 years old:“I don’t understand why girls like oxfords so much. I don't think these boots fit either men or women. I still don’t like it when girls wear transparent clothes and platform shoes and stilettos, like strippers.”
Pavel, 28 years old:“I don’t like girls who dress in office style. I also don't like it when girls wear chunky knit sweaters, baggy jeans, and stupid patterned tights."
What do British men like about women's clothing?
From criticism, let's move on to pleasant moments and find out what women's clothing men find sexy and how to dress to please them.
Of course, all men are different, and their tastes are also different, but still common features can be found. Let's return to the same British studies. They showed that men's opinions about women's clothing can sometimes diverge diametrically opposite: some consider short skirts beautiful and high heels, while others, on the contrary, call them defiant and vote for dresses middle length and a low heel.
One thing is true: men like clothes that emphasize the beauty of the female body. The strong half of humanity cannot resist tight-fitting sheath dresses and tight jeans. Men consider it sexy when a girl exposes only a small part of the body - for example, shoulders, shoulder blades or décolleté. British men like backless dresses, V-neck jumpers and blouses with a few top buttons open. By the way, many men focus on the waist - they like it when clothes emphasize the waist. Surprisingly, few of the men surveyed listed a miniskirt as one of their preferences.
What Russian men do you like women's clothing?
And here is what our men like in women's clothing:
Andrey, 34 years old:“I like it when clothes are designed in the same color scheme and in the same style. It is better if at the same time the clothes are not bright, but noble muted shades - gray, beige, emerald. At the same time, I love girls in alcoholic T-shirts and girls in coats with French-style hats.”
Kirill, 37 years old:“I like girls dressed, first of all, with fantasy. It scares me a little when a girl wears only things from the latest collections or from expensive stores, this instills uncertainty, but the combination of expensive things and the mass market really always looks interesting and makes you want to get to know each other. Still, of course, shoes are very important, I pay attention to them first of all.
Anton, 27 years old:“I like the same thing that all men like: evening dresses, high heel shoes and a minimum of cosmetics. In sneakers and jeans, girls can always go to the grocery store, but still dresses suit them the most.”
Artem, 34 years old:"I like it when a girl is dressed like she has paid the least amount of attention to her appearance."
What kind helpful tips did you get from men? Is it worth changing your style and wardrobe at all to please the stronger sex? We are very interested in your opinion! Have your say in the comments!
Despite the dominance of Orthodox conservatism in Russia, the unisex trend announced by global brands is permeating everywhere. Progressive publications talk about him, and gloss demonstrates beautiful make-up and women's wardrobe on male models. But are Muscovites ready to see men in dresses? The Village decided to check it out and gave the task to their producer social networks Anton Pavlovsky wears only dresses for a week.
My new dress is your new god
A century ago, it was hard to imagine that a girl in trousers would become commonplace. Perhaps now history will repeat itself - only about men and dresses. By agreeing to the experiment, I imagined myself as Gabrielle Chanel, who has the mission to change the mass taste. I had a week during which I promised to wear dresses everywhere: to work, yoga, parties, in general, where I usually spend my clear days.
put on women's thing was not a big challenge for me - I do it periodically at parties. But, of course, context is important. If at the “Russian attraction” with my dress and loose dances I cause only approval or indifference, then in everyday life I am not ready for excessive public attention and usually protect myself from it with baggy pants and a hoodie. By the way, one gender-marked element of the wardrobe I already regularly wear is tights. But only because I'm Russian, and in Russia it's cold in winter. I don’t like to freeze, and I don’t like thermal underwear, because it gathers in folds under clothes.
Putting together the rest of the wardrobe was not difficult. A couple of women's things I left from a friend, a few more were thrown to me by colleagues: to their surprise, their XS sat perfectly on me. Therefore, every day I changed my wardrobe, walking either in a formal green dress, or in a daring mini, or in an almost childish denim sundress.
In tight dresses, I clearly felt the lack of boobs and the surplus of pussy.
The trunk was sometimes viciously drawn
Self-irony and a shortage of boobs
On the way to work, I mentally simulated a situation in which, for example, I slip and fall, after which I get to the doctors. What will they say when they see my velvet bolero? I was thinking of the scene in Breakfast on Pluto where the transvestite found his photo in the newspaper as the victim of the club bombing. And even here, his penis, sticking out from under torn women's clothes, was blurred by journalists so as not to embarrass readers.
In short, it is better not to wear a dress without self-irony. However, dresses require not only remarkable spiritual stamina, but also physical: how to walk in tight clothes on Moscow ice is generally incomprehensible. Yes, and walking in them, in principle, is uncomfortable, I don’t know how girls cope with this. You can only move in small steps, you need to constantly draw in your stomach, which after thirty is taken from nowhere (I don’t drink beer). In tight dresses, I clearly felt the lack of boobs and the surplus of pussy. The trunk was sometimes viciously drawn. I was very afraid that an erection might happen, and it would be completely uncomfortable.
Admittedly, in my office appearance more entertaining than annoying. Some whispered compliments in my ear, others chuckled, but kindly. Opening Instagram these days, I regularly saw my photos in the posts of colleagues and friends.
In the kitchen in the office, I was hinted at the revealed flaws in the figure and recommended not to lean on cookies. The cook Svetlana, when she saw me, exclaimed in a simple way: “What about someone else?” Someone wondered why I didn't wear this before. Indeed, with the same success, I can cover myself with latex or food wrap. It's so elegant and comfortable!
On the last day working week I came in a gray mini dress, the indecent length of which made me mentally slutshamil myself. But the girls-colleagues comforted me, not hiding envy, that it sat on me even better than on them.
Urinals, old women and cheburechnaya
My finest hour came at the Historical Museum, where I went on a day off. The pensioners sitting at the entrance to one of the halls did not burn with the desire to take a picture with me. When I sat down next to them, they turned away and began to intensively make small talk, as if I were an obsession and a bug in the code of the universe, and not a random guy in a dress.
But for a group of schoolgirls, I seemed like an interesting exhibit, albeit without Louboutins. They began to pretend to be with me on dozens of cameras of their mobile phones, showing the same gestures as me. Two foreign women also wanted a selfie with me. With my appearance, no one seemed to be able to focus on the exposure.
Grandmothers turned away and began to strenuously make small talk, as if I were an obsession and a bug in the code of the Universe, and not a random guy in a dress
I was still wary of harsh criticism, so I didn’t go to church and the clinic in a dress. But he went to his beloved Cheburechnaya No. 1 on Pokrovka. Usually adult sub-units of the working class sit there. Somehow, almost to the point of a fight, they got into a fight with my colleague Dasha, who had the courage to start a conversation about gay rights in front of them. And I was lucky - they threw their tired glances at me and continued silently stuffing their cheeks with fat pasties, as if they had banner blindness, and I was a banner. I answered them symmetrically.
I expected more attention from the men's restroom visitors at McDonald's, but they disappointed me: there were no sidelong glances at the guy in the dress at the urinal, no attempts at light harassment or manifestations of homophobia. Nobody cared - the men calmly washed their hands even at the moment when I undressed to change my dress.
Question to the psychologist:
Good afternoon! I would like to talk about my relationship with my husband.
About a year ago, I found out that my husband was meeting guys at the apartment when I was on vacation and there they were drinking, dressing like women and just talking. When I found out there was a very strong scandal, they wanted to get a divorce, I can’t perceive how normal it is for a man to dress like that.
After that, we even went to a sexologist, he told us that if it does not go beyond the boundaries of the house, then there is nothing wrong with that, each family has the right to choose how to dress in sex and what to do, but at that time he dressed in bed and nothing more, although I did not like it, but I took it for granted.
But then they changed him and He offered to go with him to a themed club, where everyone dresses like that and just see what and how, and after that draw some conclusions. I could not agree for a long time, but then I thought that suddenly he would go there and realize that he was different. But alas, after that it seemed to have been replaced. On his weekends at home, he began to paint, dress, take pictures and post it on the VK page.
I bought myself quite often, whether I have money or not, skirts, shorts, dresses, stockings, shoes and much more. When I had a day off, I asked me to help pick up something, to photograph it, I gritted my teeth and agreed. Then he began to constantly sit on VK and communicate with people like him until late at night, he began to go to clubs in this form - alone, even when I was against it and the child and I were at home. For him, it was not a hindrance.
As we lived this year, there were a lot of quarrels. But 1.5 months ago I went on vacation, he was on study leave, called me or wrote a message, I don’t remember anymore, they said they invited me to the club, do you mind if I go, I said that I was against it and that we have in general It was an agreement - not to go separately. He said ok, I understand. As a result, I called him in the evening, he did not pick up the phone, called in the morning - he did not pick up the phone again, then - the subscriber.
Then, closer to dinner, he called me and said that I was at the institute and the phone was dead, but I realized from my voice that something was wrong. Then they told me that he was in the club, I told him, he confessed.
In the end, it turned out that 2 of these friends came to our apartment and then they went to the club. They were there until morning.
I just told him that I don’t like all this and that a normal man doesn’t walk around Moscow in this form, but he just likes that his photo is liked, that they look at him in the club, they can even touch him a little and he’s pleased he himself said. He said that this relieves stress, it is easier for him and so on. He cannot remove it, because It will suffer without it, but I can't watch it all.
Instead of going somewhere with me, he sits on VK and hangs around no where. He got angry and began to collect documents for divorce, we have been together for 15 years, 7 of them have been married, our son is 4 years old.
I don’t know what to do, we argue all day long, tears flow constantly.
Then he came home from work, we had to take place serious conversation about this whole topic. So he went to the shower and changed into a girl and lies with me, but I don’t like it and it’s disgusting.
Why this happens, before he did not do this, not only I know this, but he also said. Although, when we swear, he begins to say that I am to blame for this, that I devoted little time to him and so on.
I wanted a divorce, but at the same time I love him very much.
Help, tell me why this is happening and what should I do?????
The psychologist Tetenova Yulia Gennadievna answers the question.
Hello Evgeniya!
You ask "why is this happening?" (I take it this “why” refers to your husband “dressing up as a girl”) and how do you deal with that? There is no clear answer to the first question. Yes, and there is no need to understand this. If this is important for your husband, then he himself will turn to a specialist with a question and will look for answers.
But, it is obvious that he is completely in vain in a fit of anger accusing you of what is happening, blaming you for the fact that you spent little time on him, etc. Many couples do not have harmony in relationships, but this does not make men need to dress up. You must understand this and not blame yourself for what is happening.
Now let's try to deal with your second question: "how should you be?".
In your letter, you repeated more than once that you cannot accept what is happening, that you don’t like it all, it’s unpleasant and even disgusting, but at the same time you write that you love your husband.
You need to deal with your feelings. If you love your husband, are you ready to accept him for who he is? Are you ready to come to terms with his "second" life, frequent absence, the presence of his friends from "that" life? Or does it all go against your idea of men, of what should be family life? Answer these questions honestly for yourself. Be mindful of your feelings when making a decision.
Also, Evgenia, you write that recently there have been scandals in your family due to the fact that your husband dresses in women's clothes, but you did not write anything about what your relationship was like before this situation arose. The husband reproaches you for not paying enough attention to him, if this really happened, did you talk with your husband on the topic, is it possible to change his behavior if your relationship improves if you devote more time to him? What does he himself think about his need to change clothes? What does he want in family life in general? How does he see your future relationship? What is your role?
Talk to your husband, ask him all these questions. And, based on his answers, draw conclusions. Can you live the way he offers you? Will you feel satisfied?
But, Evgenia, you must understand that your family life depends not only on you. Your husband is now also reevaluating his life, drawing conclusions and making decisions for himself. In any case, you need to be prepared for the fact that the desire to live new life will outweigh, and he himself will decide on a divorce.
If you, together, decide to continue to live together further (or at least live like this for now), you should not aggravate the situation with quarrels and scandals. Try to have a constructive conversation, during which both of you could calmly and honestly talk about your feelings, grievances, needs, desires. And life will put everything in its place!
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Hello again. As I promised, in this article I will consider the choice of men in favor of women's clothing or creating their own style with elements of femininity.
Here it would seem strange. It is excusable for a woman to experiment with men's clothing, it is excusable to wear it, in society they somehow calmly look at it. But when a guy or a man does exactly the same in relation to women's wardrobe, then many have questions, bewilderment and much more. That they are homosexuals, people with disabilities, transvestites, etc. In fact, people are just trying new things. They try to express and find themselves, even if their image looks feminine.
Let me give an example of the famous representative of the group Tokio Hotel Bill Kaulitz, who buys women's clothing for himself. At the same time, I would not say that it looks somehow vulgar, strange, femininity is present, but still the guy looks peculiar ... You can say that he is a star, this is part of the stage image. But to put on women's clothes or not is up to the guys. What we see in the first photo can be worn by guys every day. Although many or even most will react with incomprehension. Although ... as I said, a person expresses himself in this way, and maybe this is where his inspiration and individuality are manifested.
But let's move on to the catwalk images. On the net I found some very interesting photos of Paris Fashion Week 2011. Where can we see women's items of clothing on men. And it looks in my opinion elegant, stylish and interesting. And even masculine. The author of this collection is Japanese designer Mihara Yasuhiro. An interesting approach. 
In general, if you look through history, read about what men and women wore at different times, then no one will be surprised by the fact that men wore shoes with heels. But...times change and so does perception, so now it looks unusual for society.
In 2006, designer Ruy Leonardes created a collection dedicated to high heels for men. "Men have the right to be feminine, just as women have the right to be masculine," said the innovators .
Of course, these are very bold images and men still will not put on shoes or high heel shoes, put on a skirt, although there are some that they wear with pleasure. Maybe in time, when society will be ready to accept it without any thought that something is wrong with a person.
But what men can now borrow from women for their image is accessories, jewelry. Sometimes I see stylish guys wearing it women's scarves on the neck, which are in harmony with their image. Someone more outrageous and bold will go further in this direction.
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But Scottish skirts look much better. In my opinion, it is very beautiful. The idea is taken from such an element menswear like a kilt. It differs from the skirt by the method of tailoring and fastening. If the skirt itself is perceived as an element of women's wardrobe, then the kilt is a primordially masculine element of the wardrobe.
P.S. And finally, I want to warn you, dear readers. I am not a journalist or a stylist. I only write about what interests me, my views and opinions about style and fashion. For discussion and exchange of opinion. Therefore, in some matters, I may not be entirely competent and I will not teach something here and someone. The purpose of some authors is to give advice, to help in the choice. My goal is to share ideas and discuss them.
