A lot of different romantic, dirty, encouraging things have been written about the relationship between our compatriots and Middle Eastern “macho men”. But where is the truth? I hope my experience will help you avoid the “bumps” and even find a husband.
It all started with the fact that having settled in new job, I was forced to communicate with foreign students every day. It turned out that it is quite possible to meet the “son of the desert” in your own city; hundreds of them come to study with us, and many even plan to stay here forever.
From the very beginning, relations with the Arabs “didn’t work out” and soon developed into confrontation (I “insisted on the rules”, I was rude or ignored). At some point I simply couldn’t stand it and, having snapped at another “Arab”, I decided to change something.
First of all, I asked “eyewitnesses” - several acquaintances and a relative (who has lived in Jordan for 12 years), re-read a lot of articles (reviews of women and articles “ordered by marriage agencies”), chapters from the Koran regarding women (in Russian - translation by Porokhovshchikov).
Here's what I dug up. Actually, let's start with the Koran and “close” literature.
- a man is strictly forbidden to raise his voice (especially to a woman), conflicts and scandals should be avoided;
- he monitors order in the family and the morality of his wife and daughters;
- he is allowed to beat his wife, but as soon as she repents, assault is prohibited;
- it is allowed to lie to your wife in order to calm her down, etc.
As for reality, we get the following:
1) Arabs are really unobligatory and not punctual.
And this applies even to the Slavs, long time living in the Middle East - the influence of the environment is undeniable. Exceptions are: danger of losing money or the right person(true in business, but rarely with women), as well as an innate sense of responsibility, which is very rare.
Thus, if you are punctual, look for a German or British. If you are tolerant of being late or like to adhere to the principle that “the girl should not come first,” make dates in a cafe (you won’t have to stand in the cold). If an Arab man is late, don’t make a “scene” - it won’t help.
2) Arab men, like men in general, are neither puritans nor monogamous. The exceptions are sincere believers (who dream of heaven with virgins) and innately faithful people, and there are only a few of them. about polygamy in Muslim marriage.
Getting into our society " naked bodies“, the average Arab at first is in a state of “constant erection” - in the literal and figurative sense of the word.
When the first euphoria wears off, 3 main groups form:
1st - 25% - lead a wild life (alcoholism and venous diseases are not uncommon);
2nd - 60% - find one girl or immerse themselves in their studies “headlong” (no time);
3rd – 15% – wear a beard, perform namaz 5 times a day and sincerely want to meet an innocent Muslim woman.
Moreover, about half of the guys have brides at home. If you need one, look for guys from group 2, stay away from group 1, and group 3 is only for those who are ready to sincerely accept Islam.
3) Arab men really value innocence. It is inherent in nature that every man dreams of being your first, be he an Arab, an American or a Russian... But the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ONLY A VIRGIN HAS THE RIGHT TO ASK A VIRGIN TO BE A WIFE. Therefore, an Arab man will look at your behavior, knowing full well that you are not “innocent”.
Which means:
- the longer you “don’t give”, the more “valuable” you will be;
- choose your clothes more carefully when you go for a walk together, and even more so when you go without him. I'm not talking about the burqa, but the belted skirt will have to be abandoned;
— try to unobtrusively find out whether there are divorced (remarried) relatives and polygamists in the family, whether women wear headscarves (or floor-length black robes);
- Monitor his behavior carefully. Both jealousy and open demonstration of you to your friends should alert you. If he is aggressive, trying to “lace up” you from head to toe, run away as quickly as possible;
- regarding hymenoplasty - restoration of virginity. If your reputation is perfect, you can go for the “big deception.” But then “sex only after the wedding” - once you play, then to the end. Do you really need a “pig in a poke”? Remember: Your innocence DOES NOT guarantee his love's respect. If you are sure – 200 bucks and go ahead. Just remember to check for all possible infections and pregnancy before surgery (!).
4) Being a girlfriend and being a wife are two different things. In this sense, I observed real examples three times. They go to cafes and cinemas with the girl, go out of town for barbecues, and the wife sits at home, takes care of her husband and children, she is provided financially, and is given completely different gifts than the girl.
As for gifts, some of our men also have this approach, who believe that a new wardrobe or kitchen furniture is a suitable gift for a wife, and diamond earrings for a mistress.
The wife is controlled (to a greater or lesser extent) in matters of clothing, activities, choice of work and girlfriends. Often our girls prefer to be “girls” rather than wives. Everyone chooses for themselves.
5) Best wife for an eastern man - .. Calm, docile, family-oriented women become good wives for Muslims. The Middle Eastern man is used to such women, his mother was like that. They, of course, appreciate our beauty, education, and sincerity, but they still remain “children of their parents.”
6) Not all residents of eastern countries, for example, the United Arab Emirates, are princes and oil tycoons. Just like in our country, there are families who live in beautiful modern houses with expensive furniture and appliances, while at the same time there are enough men who do not have a penny to their name.
Having spent quite a lot of time on this “research”, I became convinced that Comrade Sukhov was right: “The East is a delicate matter.” Therefore, I had to reconsider my style of clothing and behavior, become softer and more tolerant, and - lo and behold: they began to invite me to the movies and cafes (I couldn’t refuse all the invitations - I’m a sinner), and “Middle Eastern peace” reigned at work.
Evgeniya specifically for the site site.
January 26, 2011Madonna once said a phrase that you should not forget, dream about something, and as soon as you stop dreaming about it, it will certainly come true. All girls have their own desires, for the sake of which they are ready to do anything to fulfill. Some want to visit the island and spend a long time there, others just want to be close to their loved ones, and some girls have a dream of becoming the wife of a sheikh. Is it a reality to become a sheikh’s wife, or is it still just a dream, you can find out by reading this article.
Groom from the Middle East
There is an opinion that sheikhs are some kind of fairy-tale creatures, and their wives are princesses from fairy tales. In fact, everything is not like that. History shows us that quite often, sheikhs take as wives girls with Slavic appearance, who seem the most ordinary at first glance. Just a few years have passed since the day when in Dubai a sheikh named Said bin Maktoum married a Belarusian girl who had previously worked as a waitress in an ordinary cafe. There are a lot of such stories in life, and no one knows how your life will turn out tomorrow.
What must be done to become the only wife of a sheikh?
An amazing story happened to the sheikh and beautiful girl Natalie from Belarus. The sheikh came to the beautiful country of Belarus to take part in local shooting competitions. He stayed at a wonderful hotel, where he met a beautiful girl who would become his soul mate and wife in the future. The sheikh fell in love at first sight with the waitress, whose name was Natalie. In order to spend as much time as possible with the girl, he even refused to take part in competitions, despite the fact that he actually came to this country for them. The sheikh stayed in Belarus to get to know the girl better, because she won his heart. Only one week passed since they knew each other, and the sheikh invited Natalie to marry, the girl, of course, agreed. It is worth noting that, after all, Sheikh fulfilled his dream and took part in the shooting, taking third place.
The story from the life of Sheikh Said should in no way encourage you to give up everything and get a job in a hotel to wait for your betrothed to appear on the horizon, but nevertheless this story allows you and me to believe that miracles do happen , the main thing is to believe and wait. But sitting and waiting for a miracle is not effective method, this way you can lose a lot of precious time, sometimes you need to take action, and then perhaps you will become the sheikh’s beloved woman.
To begin with, you need to make a list of who could be a contender to become your spouse. This must be a wealthy person, a representative of the elite from Arab Emirates. An important fact is that the sheikh must be beautiful appearance, be in the prime of your strength and have a sound mind.
Secrets on how to become a sheikh's wife.
Today, a list has even been compiled of the most eligible bachelors who are not only very rich, but also beautiful. This list includes: Al-Waleed, who is a Saudi prince; Ibn Talan, as well as Ibn Abdel, who are representatives of the royal families. As for the fortune of the Saudi prince, in 2012, according to experts, the capital amounted to more than 22 billion dollars. If you want to become his chosen one, you will have to come to terms with the fact that he spends most of his time at work, and returns home to sleep, and then not for long, only for five hours. But, unfortunately, no matter how sad it may sound, the prince is already 58 years old, there is no need to be upset about this, as our ancestors said, love knows no age. It is worth noting that Eastern men have good health and they know, according to them, the secrets of longevity.
Very eligible bachelor, is Hamad bin, his fortune can only be inferior to the capital of Prince Al-Walid. More recently, in 2012, Hamad wanted to have his name inscribed on the sand dunes. The best masters started developing of this project, and within a week, Hamad could admire the order completed on his behalf. Hamad's main characteristic is that he has out-of-the-box thinking, as well as not always appropriate wild imagination. One of his passions is collecting cars of all colors of the rainbow. If you are a creative person and have unconventional thinking, then you will be able to win the heart of Hamadan, and you will never be bored together. The only thing left to do is to meet the sheikh and get to know him better.
The richest sheikhs include two brothers named Mazhet and Abdullah Futtaim. The brothers together have a capital of about 7 billion dollars. The main business of the two brothers is the production of cars, the most expensive and popular brands in the world, such as Jaguar, as well as many others. If you suddenly find out that the sheikh already has a wife, you should not despair or worry about this, since in the UAE countries it is legally allowed to have four wives. But the question is not even this, are you ready to be not the only one, but one of. But, despite the fact that many eligible bachelors have already been listed, there is still a 31-year-old famous prince who lives in Dubai and whose name is Hamdan bin.
Today, the Sheikh is involved in matters related to the city's executive council. When the Sheikh has free time, he devotes it to creativity, writes poetry, stories, and also breeds camels. Hamadan is not only young, but also very handsome, although, according to people who are personally acquainted with him, his appearance is deceptive, and behind a nice person, there is a despotic person hiding. The Sheikh has many demands on his future wife, which is probably why his heart is not occupied and he is not married. Nobody knows why this happened, perhaps he is waiting for you and you will punish his heart and become the wife of a rich prince?
I would also like to note the fact that not all rich people want their names to be known and therefore hide them. That is why you should always be careful when meeting men from the East, who knows, maybe you will be lucky and meet the prince of your dreams, who will be rich and also handsome.
Where can you meet a sheikh?
If you have set yourself the main goal of your whole life, and also to achieve it and become the wife of the best sheikh, then you need to think through everything down to the smallest details. First, you need to find out where you can meet a sheikh and how to make a stunning first impression.
The easiest way to find a sheikh is in the East, in their homeland. They say that most of the sheikhs are in Abu Dhabi. The sheikh can be found in a chic restaurant, on the beach, and in many other places. luxurious places. Every year an exhibition is held in this city, which is attended by many sheikhs. You should not miss the chance, you should try to visit there, because out of hundreds of sheikhs, you will definitely be able to meet the same one.
Finding a sheikh in the Emirates is not difficult, since large-scale events are held very often. But the most important question remains, how to get to these festivals and exhibitions, where there are so many sheikhs? Perhaps, initially it is necessary to get a job as a service staff, and return from there as the rich wife of some sheikh.
The first impression must be excellent!
If you have already found your chosen one, now your main task is to win his heart. It is necessary to follow some rules so that the sheikh not only pays attention to you, but also becomes interested in you. Remember that Eastern men do not take women seriously if a woman behaves vulgarly or vulgarly. Clothes that are too revealing and provocative will not attract the sheikh, but on the contrary, may create a negative attitude towards you. What we dress and wear in our homeland is not at all attractive eastern men, they have different customs and laws. You can demonstrate all your charms and virtues to the sheikh after you marry him.
If you like the sheikh, then under no circumstances drink alcoholic beverages in his presence. If you really want to become the wife of a sheikh in the future, then about everyone bad habits should be forgotten once and for all.
You must behave with restraint and also calmly with the sheikh. In eastern countries, women do not show their emotions, so you should keep them to yourself, and be a woman of mystery, so that the sheikh will want to solve you. But, with all this, you should not impersonate another person, behave at ease, and the sheikh will definitely turn his attention to you. If the sheikh is interested in you, then do not allow him too much, this will further strengthen your relationship, since the sheikh will perceive you as a serious woman.
What does an Arab woman do every day?
If you follow simple rules, then perhaps all your dreams will come true. If you manage to win the heart of the sheikh, then you can become a reliable companion and true friend throughout his life. All weddings that take place in the east are distinguished by their luxury and splendor. Therefore, if you manage to win the heart of the sheikh, then a luxurious wedding is guaranteed to you. As a rule, a lot of rich and influential people are invited to a wedding; the number of guests is usually more than a thousand. Let's take an example: more than twenty thousand people were invited to the Prime Minister's wedding, and this entire luxurious celebration cost a modest sixty million dollars. This wedding, to this day, remains the richest and most luxurious. Fortunately for us, all expenses for the wedding are covered by the sheikh, and not much is required from the woman, just to make a carpet, which the girl needs as a dowry.
After the wedding, awaits you family life, and the most ordinary everyday life, only in a new status. What lies behind the powerful walls of the harem, what is the life of the wife with the sheikh after the wedding? How you live with your husband largely depends on both you and your spouse’s character. The sheikh can provide you with a life in compliance with all the strictness of the eastern canon, or, on the contrary, he can turn your life into a fairy tale. You shouldn’t be afraid that a woman in a burqa is completely powerless, time passes and laws change. Now sheikhs give their wives freedom of choice, they lead active life along with their husbands. Now Eastern woman She is a completely self-confident woman, and when necessary she can stand up for herself.
Before you marry a sheikh, carefully read the marriage contract so that if something happens, you are not left with nothing. You should also pay attention to whether the sheikh can give you a divorce if such a clause is in marriage contract is missing, then by signing it you become the property of the sheikh for life, without the right to leave him for any reason. Despite the fact that a sheikh is allowed to have four wives, women do not agree with these and want to be the only one. The marriage contract may also stipulate how many wives a sheikh can afford to have. You can stipulate in the marriage contract that if the sheikh wants to marry again, he will have to pay you, as his previous wife, 70% of his total capital. Even in the marriage contract, you can indicate the nuances regarding the division of property in the event of divorce. You should not discount this issue, because not everything can always work out well, and you must protect yourself. But, as practice shows, Arabs, in principle, do not divorce their wives; this is not customary among them.
After the wedding, the question will arise that you will want to have a child together. The fact that the sheikh’s wife will not need anything cannot be argued with, but remember that a child who was born on the territory of a given state automatically, without the mother’s consent, becomes a citizen of this country, and it will be practically impossible to take the child away possible if necessary.
Follow simple rules and your desire to marry an Arab will never disappear. Let's look at them:
Sheikhs are people just like you and me, they love beautiful people and at the same time well-groomed women;
in order to find a sheikh, you need to know the places where they most often visit, and where you will be able to meet them;
when meeting, show yourself to yourself better side, show how educated, smart, intelligent you are, and so on. Leave all your shortcomings for other times, since the sheikh must see you as one who has no shortcomings;
Before you get married, you will need to learn how to weave carpets, otherwise you will not be the wife of a rich and promising sheikh.
Set a goal and go towards it, and then you will definitely succeed, and we wish you good luck!
Every year Iraq improves its attractions, but they are still not ideal. Although few people visit this country due to the not particularly calm situation. Most of the attractions are located in Baghdad. There is also the “Golden Mosque” in which Musa al-Kadim is buried.
Every tourist will feel good in this country, as Iraqi citizens are very hospitable and attentive. This behavior may even be a little shocking. foreign citizen. The men of this country adore Russian women and strive to create families with them. As a rule, a girl wants to be taken care of. Such men are hard to find, but Iraqi guys are these desirable partners for starting a family. They will be able to support you in any situation and prove the sincerity of your feelings.
Another positive quality an Iraqi is literate speech. For the sake of the woman he loves, a man from Iraq is capable of doing a lot to make her happy. There is no need to talk about the care of local citizens, because in the very first days the woman herself will feel it.
A few more qualities that local young people possess are good manners, honesty, reliability, accuracy, generosity and prudence. Not all men, as you know, have such traits, so the girl who marries a local citizen will most likely be in seventh heaven.
Features of Iraqi families
In Iraq, as in many Arab states, there are strong family customs And
and life values, in which purity of soul, nobility and honesty come first.
According to the rules of the Muslim world, everyone must remain honest with others and with themselves. Cheating in this country is the worst sin. In Iraq, it is customary to honor elders and take care of children.
Due to the strict rules in relation to representatives of both sexes in this country, many people here perceive everything differently than citizens of other countries, which also have Islam as their main religion.
In this country, a girl must honor her husband, listen and obey him. In this sense, all girls receive the same upbringing; from early childhood, they are given the concept of a man as a ruler who must be respected, loved and, of course, pleased. Although in reality the relationship between husband and wife is completely different.
This does not mean that women do not respect their husbands. Everything is different here, girls give all the love and affection they are capable of, but also show the greatest respect for their spouse. Let us note that men respond in kind, without treating women disdainfully, as is the case in other similar states. We can say that peace and understanding reign in the families here. All these rules are the same for all people, they are clearly visible in personal and public life
In the country, there are separate norms of behavior and rules for women and men. At first glance it may seem that there are too many restrictions and prohibitions for girls, but this is not so; men have a much longer list mandatory rules which are of great importance in their lives.
Local citizens do not like crowds, noise and crowds of people, as well as when they talk loudly. A quiet lifestyle is acceptable for them. It is not customary in the country to show feelings of anger and irritation. Even in a family, such norms of behavior are unacceptable,
therefore, conflicts never occur in the house.
Iraqis are reserved; they believe that it is better to refrain from quarrels and shouting, so as not to waste their nerves on unnecessary conflicts. All family members should know when to end an argument so as not to cross the line.
If we talk about women, then they have their own standards of morality and behavior. The main thing is that a girl should always remain pure and beneficent. IN in public places she has no right to wear clothes that are too loose or have her hair open. Here the girls wear veils that cover everything except a small part of the face and hands.
Communication with representatives of the stronger sex is prohibited. The exception is conversations with young people from your family on serious topics. It is allowed to communicate with your spouse as equals, but only when the husband and wife are alone. In society, you must follow all the rules of behavior.
Women in this country rarely communicate with their father and mother. Girls are not allowed to leave the house alone; parents do not have the habit of coming to their daughter’s husband’s house. In this country they don’t come without an invitation. If the husband himself called the parents, then they go, but this happens very rarely. The locals certainly respect family relationships, but the newlyweds want to live separately from their relatives in order to be able to spend more time alone.
After the baby arrives, of course, there will be a lot of people in the house, so the newlyweds want to live in a separate apartment or house at least for the first time. Parents are not against such a solution to the issue, so they help the young as much as they can. Some people buy housing as a gift to their newly formed family.
Even before marriage, young people can purchase housing. It is very important that the newlyweds begin their independent lives, without the advice and tips of close relatives.
In my opinion, only the lazy have not heard about this.
"The Arabs beat their wives and do not allow them to leave the house"; “Arabs do not allow their wives to receive an education”; “Arabs take several wives”; "Arabs are dirty and smelly"; "all Arabs are terrorists"; "Arabs don't like their children"; "Arabs are crazy Islamic fanatics"; “all women in Arab countries are powerless, unfortunate creatures,” etc. and so on.
The list goes on and on.
Supporters of “protection of women's rights” are especially vehement in attacking the Gulf countries. In fact, in my opinion, the reason for such baseless arguments was largely due to the fact that women wear abaya and niqab (face covering). And no one can even imagine that a woman can wear this herself, at her own request, and even with great pleasure - what are you talking about! How is this possible? Give miniskirts and tops to oppressed Arab women!
Meanwhile, ask any resident of the Persian Gulf: if she were given a choice - to wear ordinary European clothes or an abaya? 99% will answer in favor of the second. At the same time, there will be no angry father/brother/husband nearby monitoring her answer.
I'll try to sort everything out. Debunk the myths, so to speak (PS. Saudi Arabia- an isolated case and does not characterize ALL Arabs and ALL Gulf countries. Besides, I'm talking about men, and not about all sorts of hybrids a la Bedouin to the core with some distorted admixture of Islamic moral teachings - mutawwa that is).
1. "Arabs beat their wives and do not allow them to leave the house"- oh yes, they’re just killing it. With sticks and to death. Well, okay, with fists, whatever! And to leave the house, you need a special permit certified by the Ministry of Internal Affairs. Yes. And everyone believed it. Then they took out handkerchiefs, shed tears, felt sorry for the humiliated Arab women and went to argue and prove, foaming at the mouth, how cruel Islam is and how wild these Arab animals are!
But they will believe it! They will believe this much more readily than what actually exists. But the reality is this (I will give all the examples against the backdrop of the average Emirati family): if a husband tries to even once raise his hand against his wife, giving her a light slap in the face or, worse, beating her, then the outcome of such a willful act will be fraught with consequences for him. Firstly, the wife the very next day (if not the same!) will run to all her numerous male relatives screaming: “He beat me!!!” (even if it is - I repeat - a slight slap in the face). Secondly, his relatives will come back and openly insult him with the whole friendly crowd. And then, if the careless hubby does not correct himself - divorce and maiden name.
Another option is also possible. Instead of running around visiting relatives, the wife will show up at the nearest courthouse and stupidly ask for a divorce. And if there are bruises and abrasions on the body as evidence that he really beat her, then the divorce will be granted almost immediately and immediately.
Now answer me: how many times in Russia do husbands beat their wives, while their wives endure it, forgive everything and are afraid to go and complain to the court?
Oh yes. I almost forgot. The wife can leave the house whenever she wants, just like in the rest of the world (let’s not take backward, remote villages - in all countries there is a lot of such goods). Around 6-7 pm in Dubai you can see the following picture: a huge Infiniti (Range Rover, BMW X6 - as you like) drives up to the shopping mall, from there with feeling self-esteem and local ladies come out with a proud posture, sparkling with all kinds of diamond colors and adjusting their satin abayas as they go. Please note, only ladies, often unaccompanied by men.
2. "Arabs do not allow their wives to get an education"- complete nonsense. In Saudi Arabia, the percentage of uneducated (without higher education) women is now about 10% of the total young population. I’m generally silent about the Emirates - Emirati women study in both the USA and England - in general, in the best universities in the world, or in the UAE itself - fortunately, there are more than enough universities here, and they provide a decent education. By the way, no matter how much I talked to Arabs, no one wants to marry a girl without a military license. Among my Emirati friends aged 18-20, there is not a single one who did not study at the university.
3. "Arabs take several wives"- let there be truth and let lies perish! :) so, let's take some dry statistics: in the Persian Gulf only 5% of men are married to two or more women. And about 30 million Arabs live in the Gulf, of which 15 million are men. In general, the percentage is negligible; even among sheikhs, few are married to two or more. And the current young generation, in general, has been saying since their youth that they want to marry only one. And preferably, out of love.
I remembered an incident that happened a couple of years ago in Abu Dhabi. One man married a second - well, everything was as it should be: he settled his wives at different ends of the city, each in a separate villa, each with a luxury car, and so on and so forth. But no! Everything is wrong for these Emirati women. One day, the first wife, crossing the road, saw her husband and his second passion. In a fit of rage, she attacked both of them right in the middle of the road, screaming, scratching and behaving extremely indecently :) naturally, the police didn’t let it go so easily - they took everyone to the police station. During the interrogation, the first wife was asked about the motives for her strange behavior, to which she replied: “He is unfair to me, he spends 4 days a week with her, and 3 with me.” The husband was dumbfounded and mumbled: “But there are 7 days in a week...” However, this did not pity the judge. The woman after legal proceedings They recognized her as right, gave her a divorce + a villa + a car and something from her ex-husband’s fortune.
Now tell me again: what percentage of men in Russia have mistresses? It happens, and more than one... In any case, more than the notorious 5%. Would a Russian judge really begin to give his wife half of his husband’s property just because he spends more time, effort and money on his mistress than on his wife (and this happens all the time)?
4. "Arabs are dirty and smelly". No comments. I have never seen such cleanliness as in the UAE. As I wrote in a previous post, even the smallest stain is a reason to change clothes. In addition, the same gandura is not worn for two days in a row (the husband puts on a new one every day - freshly washed and ironed, and throws all the “old” ones in the laundry - “old” means “worn once”). Add also the fact that Muslims wash 5 times a day, and take a shower after each sexual contact with their wife - that is, every day. I'm not talking about their perfume... :)
5. "All Arabs are terrorists". And again, no comments. In my entire life in the UAE, I have never met a single Arab who supports terror. In general, they somehow don’t give a damn about all this, they sit lazily sipping coffee at Starbucks...:)
I only know that in Saudi Arabia there are such organizations at some universities, but again, this is such a minority and such a shame that it is not even customary to talk about these people.
The statement “all Arabs are terrorists” is at least an indicator of the speaker’s ignorance and lack of education.
6. "All women in Arab countries are powerless, unfortunate creatures"- yeah, and also "Arabs only rejoice at the birth of boys".
Oh, you should have seen how Arabs walk with their children in parks and shopping centers! How they cuddle and kiss their daughters, carry them in their arms and ride with them on children's rides!
I constantly observe the following picture: at the entrance to a store in a shopping center there is a man in a gandura, a child on his neck, a child in a stroller, a child on his side... While his wife, at the speed of light, sweeps away all possible and impossible clothes, bags, shoes, accessories, jewelry. It was here that I saw clear example genuine nepotism. For them, family is everything. They are not ashamed to go shopping or to a restaurant with their wife and children, they will not whine that “shopping is purely a woman’s business, why did I give in to you there?!” Families, couples, with and without children walk everywhere, holding hands, arm in arm - in general, they express their pleasure in every possible way that the whole family is together.
Wives are not oppressed by absolutely anything! On the contrary, during our traditional Friday women’s gatherings, my Emirati friends never cease to be amazed by our Russian women - both at home cooking, washing and cleaning (while all Emirati women have housekeepers, but more than one), and taking care of the children constantly monitor (and Emirati women don’t even have problems with children - they have nannies), and the husband will come home dissatisfied, tired, and still forces you to work (not a single Arab would think of telling his wife: “Eh, what do you mean to me?” sat on your neck? So go and earn money yourself!"). I’m not at all encouraging everyone to have housekeepers and nannies - rather, this only serves as a response to the hackneyed stereotype about the Muslim wife;)
In general, they feel sorry for advanced and free European women.
Here, by the way, small selection pictures on the topic "Cruelty and heartlessness of Arab men"(hehe):
And "The lack of rights and oppression of Arab women".
1. Oppressed Arab woman driving a Mercedes:
2. ...and also Porsche...
3. ...and Range Rover...
4. ...and Porsche again...
5. ...and Audi...
6....and again Mercedes (well, what can you do, Mercedes is the favorite brand of cars of unfortunate downtrodden Arab women)...
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