First, you should understand that the criterion for a normal girl cannot be unambiguous. Each person has their own ideas about normality and how to follow them. Someone wants to see their beloved in a dressing gown and at the stove in the kitchen, but for others, the ideal option would be someone who can suddenly rush to a foreign city or enroll in French language courses.

But still, there are several features that most often fall under this definition.

Virtues of a girl

It doesn’t matter what a girl’s character, hobbies or hobbies are. There are those things that can be called virtues and should be observed by everyone. It is quite logical that this is what guys will pay attention to when choosing or first meeting. Here are a few of them:

1) Decency- this is how a girl behaves in society. Here stereotypes about modesty, manner of speech and behavior with strangers. And yes, these stereotypes are worth listening to.

2) Respect– a girl must respect herself and those around her. Although, this is also part of behavior, and it is in this that it is expressed.

3) Speech culture– many people like to listen to the voice of girls. It’s beautiful, melodic, and you shouldn’t pollute it with obscenities, insults, or completely crazy phrases like “theirs.”

4) Housekeeping– any relationship begins in order (most often) to later become a family with this person. This means sharing some responsibilities around the house. And if a girl lives on a bag of dust and eats only fast food, then they are unlikely to want to make her the keeper of their hearth.

5) Well-read– Many girls want guys to spend time alone with them. But such moments should be interesting, because the same topics for conversation quickly exhaust themselves, and The best way finding new ones is .

6) Grooming– not all girls have excellent appearance, but it is not as important as they themselves think about it. But ironed, well-groomed clothes and clean hair are much more important.

7) Liberation– it’s great if a girl behaves modestly in company and doesn’t allow herself too much. But it’s not very good if she continues to behave this way in bed. Don't ignore the importance of sex in a relationship. If a girl is shy about her partner or herself, this cannot be called a virtue.

Don’t forget about behavior with men - there’s nothing wrong with light flirting no, but the main thing is that you cannot take advantage of the fact that a man behaves accordingly. She should not humiliate him, trying to insult, ridicule, or, especially, hit him, counting only on the fact that he will not be able to respond in kind, just because she is a girl.

Criterias of choice

Ideal people do not exist, and you should not try to become such a person. But you can become ideal for one person. Each guy has his own criteria for an ideal girl, but all of them can be attributed to one group:

• beauty. Yes, yes, a girl should still be beautiful. Although everyone has their own ideals of beauty: some like tall blondes with bright makeup, while others will pay attention to the sultry red-haired girl with waist-length hair.

You don’t need to chase everything at once, just stick to one image.

• The character of the girl. The way she behaves with specific guy, with your friends and strangers. Although self-esteem can and should be included in all types, it should always be present.
• Femininity. It is quite logical that a guy wants to see a girl in a girl, and not a guy in a skirt. He has a desire to feel more courageous against her background.
• U ideal girl there must be an ideal profession. Something like a childhood dream or a hobby, or something that is really interesting to talk about.

But there is one caveat - the girl should earn much less than the man.

• The ideal girl should get along well with the company of her boyfriend, boyfriend or husband. Although, this concept is quite flexible. Some people want to see her always nearby, but for others, on the contrary, ideal relationship between his girlfriend and friends - when they have never seen each other.

Unfortunately, some of these criteria can reach the point of absurdity. On the other hand, those with just such “absurd” parameters will certainly be able to find someone with whom they will be interested.

Those you definitely shouldn't get to know

Since there are criteria for what kind of girls guys like, then it is quite logical that there are also things they don’t like.

It is better for guys to avoid such girls, and for the girls themselves to try not to fall under any item from this list:

• Excessive legibility and meticulousness. No, of course it’s great when a girl is very careful in choosing her possible partner, but if she doesn’t want to communicate with you because you are a Pisces according to your horoscope or wear size 43 shoes, that’s too much.
• Those who try to blackmail a man somehow. There can be many ways - personal information, dating, sex, guilt or services - these are all attempts to keep a man close by force. This should not be allowed.
• Very concerned ladies. Financially. When a girl’s first question is: “What kind of car do you have?”, this is not very good. In this case, the guy is treated as a wallet, which is not very pleasant, and also very expensive.
• Fanatics from the institution of marriage. These are those for whom wedding is the goal as such. And not even family, children and a future together, but how many guests will come and where they will go on their honeymoon. Marriages with such girls rarely last long and do not end successfully.

• Married girls. It is quite possible that someone wants to sleep with married girl, but you definitely shouldn’t start a relationship with her. If only because if she is not faithful to her husband, then she will not be faithful to you either.
• Mothers of sudden children. Of course, children are the flowers of life, and it’s bad when a child grows up without a father. But not every man is ready to start raising someone else’s child. It’s especially bad when this child “suddenly” appears after 2 weeks of the relationship.
• Ardent feminists. There are those who defend women's rights and want equality. And there are those who try to humiliate men with everything accessible ways. It’s not worth communicating with such people, if only because after an hour of communication it will end with insults directed at you.
• Lover of reading magazines and living life point by point. It's easy to find them. Usually, after the next question, they take out a notepad and make a mark in it. And here everything is simple - if she checks whether you are suitable for certain points, it means that she chooses a man not for herself, but for her magazine. You definitely don't need this.

Any man will add something of his own to this list. But this is everyone’s business, but you should communicate with the listed types of women as carefully as possible, and even more carefully when starting relationships with them.

Habitats

But with this, everything is simple.

There is a lot of advice in the spirit of “ good girl you need to look in the library." Let's be honest - libraries have long since outlived their usefulness, and only a very old-fashioned girl who is not familiar with the Internet will be there.

Again, popular the phrase that “a good girl won’t go to a club” is also meaningless. After all, in clubs you don’t have to do something inappropriate, get drunk into unconsciousness and pester strangers. You can spend your time having fun in other ways.

Therefore, if you see a girl you like, then you should just approach her. It doesn’t matter where - at school, on the street or at a rock concert. You still won’t know her character until you talk, but only beautiful appearance relationships can't last too long. Although, for some this is enough.

Own behavior

Describing a whole range of requirements for girls, do not forget about yourself. There are situations when guys find their ideal soul mate, and she suddenly refuses to communicate, wrinkling her nose in disgust. It's a shame, yes, but if the girl is adequate, then there is a logical reason for this that needs to be found and eliminated.

Therefore, if a guy has high demands on girls, then he must meet the bar they set:

• Grooming– just like a girl, any guy should take care of himself. Yes, it's insanely difficult, but it's one of the many things that immediately catches your eye. Nobody's going to hang out with a guy who hasn't showered in weeks and has a piece of lettuce sticking out of his beard.
• Prosperity– and here stereotypes come into force again. A man’s ability to earn money characterizes him well, especially if he achieved it himself. You don't need luxury cars and dinners in expensive restaurants, but at least treat a girl to coffee and, if necessary, pay for a taxi - there should be money for that.
• Ability to speak- there has always been communication important part relationships. And it is very difficult to communicate with someone who hides his eyes or cannot string together an understandable sentence. Yes, and swearing does not color the speech, even of the “stern brutal man”, whose image some take upon themselves. It's a stupid image, to be honest. You can’t talk about and, whom you recently met. You will automatically classify yourself as one of the guys you shouldn't date, who only has dirty fantasies on their mind.
• Sense of humor– don’t forget that many girls simply have crazy mood swings that even they themselves cannot control. Therefore, this role is assigned to her interlocutor, and the best way is humor. Although, there is no need to tell bearded jokes from Uncle Petrosyan or stupidly send in the spirit of Pavel Volya.
• Prospects- although they do not admit it, everyone views almost every interlocutor as a potential partner for life, and even a little more. They are very interested in what the guy wants from life in the future. Wanting to be an ice cream bus driver is very cool, but only until you're 12 years old. For older people, it is no longer coded.
• Behavior– just like a girl, a guy is expected to behave decently. This could be knowledge of table manners and the ability to wear a suit, or the ability to spit sunflower seeds further than everyone else. This is where everyone has their own personal criteria, so it’s better to behave the way you’re used to. Or at least, meet what is expected of you.

Conclusion

Conclusion

The main thing for any guy to remember is that the more demands from you, the more demands placed on you. If you want to see next to you gorgeous girl, excellent in everything - you will have to live up to it. If you are not able to take care of your body or speech, then your chosen one can quite rightly afford the same.

When you are young, you don’t really think about who to go out with and who to fall in love with, but time puts everything in its place. Over the years, you realize that you are not ready to exchange for one-time sex, easy affairs, and the requirements for girls become much higher.

Where to find a normal girl, not just another one headache? A girl who cares about you, and not about your apartment, money and car? Which doesn’t have the purpose of blowing your mind every day? One that doesn't try to manipulate and take advantage of you?

1. Date more

The magic of big numbers works in relationships. The more girls you meet, the more choices you have. There are thousands of girls around, and you limit your horizons to your class, yard, group, work or sphere of communication. Go out to places you rarely go. The more active you are in life, the more beautiful girls you will meet on your way.

2. What kind of girl do you want?

Decide for yourself what kind of girl you want. What appearance and qualities should she have? Determine the basic parameters, but do not force yourself into narrow limits. Make a rough portrait of the girl. Then it will be much easier for you to go through girls if you know who you want.

3. Where girls live

Meet a girl in a bar, club or Tinder and then rely on her high moral standards? There are no diamonds in dirt. Look for a girl in ordinary dreams, where there are good girls. In the subway you will meet 100 more good and beautiful girls than in a drunken club.

4. Wrong girls

Mercantile, angry, always dissatisfied, pessimistic and capricious ladies are not worthy of your attention. Do you want to be constantly guilty? Immediately send girls into the forest who blow your mind, demand gifts, give orders and do not make you happy.

5. Weed out the girls

You take the girl who reciprocates your feelings and then try to date her. She may have many qualities that you don't really like. Instead of breaking up, you try to fix her or be patient. But it won't be better. It is impossible to change an adult. Change the girl. If you are not satisfied with something about a girl, then move on. Why suffer all your life if you can find the one you like in your soul and body already at the next stage of life?

6. Be alone than with anyone

It's better to be alone than with just anyone. If you settle for little, you will never find the girl of your dreams. It’s better to be alone than it turns out that you can’t meet a lovely girl because you have a “temporary” woman nearby. Be free and there will be plenty of opportunities to meet new chicks.

7. Don't rush into a final decision

Don't rush into weddings and promises eternal love. Give you time. It will reveal all the ins and outs of the girl and how suitable you are for each other. Don't rush into a final decision. Enjoy relationships, love and sex.

Where are the normal, adequate and good girls? They exist, you just need to find the one that deserves you. Stop sleeping and meeting just anyone...

And all the guys want a smart, cheerful, simple and at the same time beautiful girl next to them. This is the area in which we most often fail, and that is in the area of ​​relationships. But it’s even worse when a person is in an eternal search, when he cannot meet the girl who would suit his character. Oh yeah! I see hundreds of people who fail after failure without understanding what they are doing wrong. Let's try to figure it out:

“Fish look where it is deeper, and man where it is better” is a partly stupid proverb, but there is a little common sense in it. Every person seeks for himself as much as possible better conditions life, friends, love. This is fine. And all the guys want a smart, cheerful, simple and at the same time beautiful girl next to them. And that's okay too.

But how often do we think about whether we ourselves are what we demand from a potential life partner? For some reason, guys think that a smart, educated and beautiful girl is not looking for the same fun and handsome guy. But these are all words. What happens in practice?

You can spend a lot of money on conquest courses women's hearts, you can learn 1000 pickup techniques. But this will not lead to anything other than the ability to “pick up” not the smartest girls in the bar. Believe me, this is where it all ends. And no relationship, no life together. But there are only problems, because living with a person and keeping all 1000 pickup techniques in your mind is unrealistic.

There is only one way out. And this solution is the surest. Become someone. Becoming someone does not mean becoming “at least someone.” This means forgetting about searching and plunging into your life, your work, self-education, and self-improvement. The Universe gives you exactly what you deserve. No more and no less. Always remember this, it may seem cruel to you. You may say: “But I’m a smart, sensual, romantic, funny guy, I deserve a good girl.” But do not forget that there are hundreds of exactly the same people nearby, and they are successful in work, in communication, they have found their calling in life.

Therefore, as soon as you feel that you have started some kind of unsuccessful streak in finding a girl. Or you can't find anyone for a long time. We give up all attempts and start going about our lives, reading, playing sports and starting to look for ourselves. And only when you find yourself will you find your soulmate. We will definitely figure out how to look for yourself together with you, for now just stop wasting your time, your life on these useless searches, and just think about it, this will be the first and most main step, on the way to your happiness.

Praise the Universe, friends!

Many young guys are lonely. And it’s not surprising, because they don’t know how to find the girl of their dreams for a relationship. Choosing a companion who will make life fun and comfortable is not an easy task. Every guy wants to see a caring, smart and beautiful girl next to him.

All people on the planet deserve happiness. I will help lonely guys in search of their soulmate and introduce several useful tips And detailed plan that will help you achieve your goal.

• First of all, women value trust, understanding, seduction and communication in men. To get ladies to pay attention to you, be sure to work on these skills.
• Be sure to decide what kind of girl you need. We are talking about appearance and behavior, figure and age, education, upbringing, social environment and character.
• Think about where you can meet a companion, then go to such a place and start searching. If you want to be with a woman who is interested in sports, look for him in a gym or a city park.
• I don’t recommend choosing the first lady who paid attention to you. Chat with several young ladies. This is the only way to create a portrait of your ideal, which will increase your chances and speed up the search for your unique and only soul mate.
• Start up serious relationship with a girl you like. IN otherwise build strong relationships It won't turn out to be wasted time.
• The girl must maintain balance and express confidence. If this is not the case, nothing will work.

1. First, get things in order appearance. Ladies, when meeting a man, pay attention to eau de toilette, clothes and hairstyle.
2. It’s great if you and your partner have a common hobby, so there will always be a topic for conversation. Girls do not ignore the social status of a potential partner, as they want him to become support and support.
3. Strive for a long-lasting relationship. If your chosen one wants to flirt, it is better to stop communicating with her, and spend the saved time on finding your beloved.

You now have an idea of ​​how to act to capture the heart of a young lady. With the help of recommendations, you will find your loving soul mate.

Does your favorite girl still live in your imagination? Do everything to get her to move to real world. Believe me, she also dreams about this and is waiting for this moment.

Doing this in practice is problematic. After the first “defeat,” young people give up, believing that nothing will work out in the future. For the sake of raising morale, I propose to look into this issue.

• Describe your ideal . I dare to suggest that now the image of a woman is clouded for you. But you have to build a relationship with a person who has flaws and advantages, and not with a vague image. The success of the operation depends on how well you imagine your lady.
• Determine your companion's character traits . External data should play a secondary role, since it is easier to turn a simple girl into a beauty than to transform an irritable “bore” into an easy-going laugher.
• Mentally get to know your chosen one . Think about what she is interested in, where she relaxes and works. Thus complete the image of the ideal and clarify the picture.
• Imagine what kind of man a girl wants to see next to her . Perhaps you have character traits that need to be worked on. Additionally, get rid of bad habits, for example, stop smoking. Girls like it strong men no weaknesses.
• On that note, the creation procedure ideal woman ends . This means that the project has reached the final stage. All that remains is to go in search and not give up until the operation is completed.

Look in the right places. If you like to walk in the park, look there. The ladies you'll meet like to spend a lot of time hanging out. fresh air. Common interests are the key to success. If you set a goal to realize your dream, everything will work out.

How to find a girl if I'm scary?

Every young man wants to find a soul mate. How to find a girl if a guy thinks he's scary? Remember, women are different from men. If the stronger sex pays attention to appearance and figure, for ladies, style and personality come first.

If you are ugly, this does not mean that there is no opportunity to meet a beauty and build a relationship. Give up negative thoughts as they have a negative impact on the individual.

1. Find out how other people solve the problem . Among ugly people there are many ladies' men. Even physical disabilities will not prevent you from becoming a sexy man.
2. Women like integrity . If you demonstrate high status, they will be drawn to you. At the same time, do not brag about your status, but demonstrate it with your attitude and body language.
3. Develop a state of mind . If a relationship with a girl is a cherished dream, pay attention to developing the feeling that it will happen soon. At the same time, don’t keep it in your head negative thoughts, as they will become a deterrent barrier. Do not forget that your ally in seduction is your inner mood.
4. Meet an inconspicuous woman . This will help develop your inner game. Once you have experience, switch to beautiful ladies. The main thing is, don’t hurt a girl if she doesn’t shine with beauty. Perhaps she has similar problems.
5. Women like to be dramatic . When a man tries to get acquainted, he tells lies. Learn to play with women's emotions. Girls claim that men are unable to understand them. By convincing your chosen one that you are different, you will easily get her.

AND handsome men Finding a companion is not always easy. At the same time, there are girls who want to please a man and create a relationship. Remember this and move forward.

How to find a good girl

Young people are characterized by all-consuming cynicism, a decline in morals and a consumerist attitude towards everything. This is especially true for girls, for whom family values together with loyalty mean nothing.

As for the guys, they are interested in the question of finding a good girl, because they want to be nearby worthy man. I hasten to please you, it is possible to find a lady with a normal upbringing. Look in the right places.

Every quality has back side and a good girl can have " side effects" I will give examples.

• Beautiful girls are not deprived of attention from guys. At the same time, not every man who meets a beauty likes this.
• The modest girl you dream about will not understand the hobby noisy companies and loud parties.
• Girls who like to rock will do it anytime and anywhere, which may not suit your lifestyle.
• A smart girl who is passionate about her career will cause blushes due to ignorance.

What conclusions can be drawn? It’s possible to find a good girl, but you’ll have to work hard. Kind housewives and kind girls are rare today.

It may seem that the problem cannot be solved. Believe me, this is a fallacy. It is enough to look closely to understand that we are surrounded by many asymmetrical couples whose lives are happy and harmonious. What's the secret?

1. Opposites attract. True, such people have common interests. This is enough for a comfortable life.
2. Girls value men a little differently.
3. If you have a zest that a lady fell in love with, she will tolerate “jambs.”

When looking for a girl, remember that the key to a relationship is hard work. If you dream about good relations, work on it constantly. Finding the right lady is a long journey, at the end of which lady luck does not always await you. Only the lucky ones find a worthy match the first time, while other guys waste a lot of time and constantly make mistakes.

The search will end in success if your goals coincide with the goals of your chosen one. Finding a good girl is not easy, but there is one shortcut. It's a flirting party. After attending the event, learn how to dance and find a lady with little time investment.

Finding a girl on VKontakte

Today, young people meet through the Internet on social networks, including VKontakte. This dating method is extremely convenient, because it allows people to get to know each other before meeting. As a result, during the first communication, boys and girls experience less discomfort and embarrassment.

So, single guys, if you ended up on this page, it means you haven’t managed to find your soul mate in real life. Don't rush to panic. According to statistics, girls visit the popular site every day, using it as a virtual platform for communication and entertainment. After reading the article, all that remains is to cast your nets into this ocean filled to the brim with single ladies.

1. Searching for a girl on VKontakte requires free time. If you don't have one, review your schedule and take a few minutes.
2. Select a country and city in the search, since building a relationship with a foreign lady is not easy. Please indicate your age. After pressing the key that starts the search procedure, female profiles will appear on the monitor screen.
3. Visit the pages of the girls whose photos you liked. At this point check Family status I'll give. You are interested in unmarried beauties looking for a soul mate.
4. Having compiled a list of candidates for the position of your significant other, study the information provided on the pages. Next, start meeting girls.
5. First, write that she is attractive and you want to meet her. By sending several messages, you will increase the likelihood of a response.
6. After receiving a response, start communicating. I recommend conducting correspondence with a maximum of two or three girls at the same time. If there are more of them, nothing will work, since it is inconvenient to have a conversation with a large number of people.
7. Choose any topic to communicate. The main thing is that the girl is interested in her. Never talk about health or politics. Show the lady your ability to listen. This way you will understand her character.
8. After several days of communication, ask the lady for her phone number, call and offer to meet. Go to the cinema or cafeteria. Although, let her choose the meeting place.

Communication via the Internet is no different from real communication. So be sincere and don't sugarcoat own merits. If you don’t like the girl’s character, get ready for the attempt to be unsuccessful. You should communicate with pleasant personalities. Only this will lead to success.

Guys who say they enjoy being alone at home are hiding laziness. It’s impossible to build a serious relationship without effort, and they don’t want to put in the effort. Perhaps because relationships come with responsibility.

It's not difficult to get a girl to like you. Find out her needs and weaknesses, learn to satisfy them. If you make her happy, she will stay with you and get married. How to achieve this?

• Admire your chosen one. Don't glance at strangers. Otherwise you will be upset and angry.
• Chat with the lady, be interested in the past and plans for the future. Please accompany each opinion with comments.
• Make sure you are present in her life. Help and support. This will create a feeling of security, which will have a positive effect on trust in you.
• Girls like men who are confident and determined. Learn to make decisions right away. At the same time, add a little spontaneity to the process.
• Surprise your chosen one. This is how it will work out for her good impression, buy gifts at