For thousands of years, all women have been tormented by almost the same questions. "How to become desirable to a man?" or "What is feminine attractiveness, how does it manifest itself and how to learn to be feminine?" - this eternal themes, about which we can talk and argue endlessly. Every woman has a question about what true beauty and attractiveness means, so there is no and cannot be a universal answer to the question of true femininity. However, there are those who give a clear idea of what female attractiveness is in the eyes of men. Let's find out more about them.
What is the difference between beauty and attractiveness?
You may have noticed more than once how simple and not particularly successful with men than a lady with ideal external data, but with an arrogant and cold look. And you probably have a question: “Why do men pay attention to such a nondescript person at first glance?” The answer is simple: if a girl, who is far from ideal in appearance by nature, is able to competently emphasize all her advantages and knows exactly what a man wants to see in her, then she will always be surrounded by a crowd of fans. As you can see, natural beauty and female attractiveness in the eyes of men are not exactly the same concepts.
Definition of female beauty
They change very quickly: if even a hundred years ago fat women were considered the standard of beauty and health, today they have already lost their former glory. Slimness, lightness and grace - these are the main qualities in the forms of lovely ladies now. Due to the variability of fashion trends and trends, it is very difficult to determine which facial features of a girl are ideal in the eyes of men. And if we take into account the fact that every man is individual and has his own preferences regarding a woman’s appearance, then draw the ideal of a true female beauty it is simply impossible!
A little about female attractiveness
If we are talking about female attractiveness, then we can say with confidence that its basis is, first of all, harmony in the soul and endless love for life and for people. Believe me, if a girl is in love with life, then her eyes will sparkle like little diamonds, that spark of positivity and cheerfulness will shine in them, which will not leave any man indifferent!
The ideal woman through the eyes of a man: what is she like?
We, representatives of the fairer sex, can list for a very long time the qualities that, as it seems to us, an ideal woman should have. However, let's try to look at this question from male point vision. What is female beauty through the eyes of men? A girl can be perfection for one man and the most ordinary, unremarkable one for another. It all depends on the perception of a particular person and his personal preferences. So, for example, for eastern men, brought up in patriarchal families, the main thing in a woman is such qualities as respect for male, obedience to her husband, devotion to family, a sense of deep maternal duty, as well as fear of God. But men with a Western mentality value in a woman her determination, self-confidence, broad outlook and intellectual abilities. Be that as it may, every representative of the stronger sex is endowed with certain instincts by nature. They work the same for all of them, regardless of upbringing, mentality or age. Let's find out what a woman should be like for a man to pay attention to her on an instinctive level.
Instincts of men, or what qualities do “males” value?
Even in our modern world When culture and moral values are so well developed, primitive instincts still continue to guide us in a wide variety of life circumstances. Men are no exception either, so when meeting a new beauty, they almost always evaluate her by comparing her with her internal image ideal woman. Meanwhile, this image is determined precisely by the instincts embedded in us since the creation of man. So, we offer you a unique overview of the signs of female attractiveness that contribute to the fact that men “switch on” the instinctive desire to get this particular woman.
- External data. Men always first evaluate a woman’s appearance, and only then - her spiritual qualities and character. As many studies have shown, representatives of the stronger sex prefer women who have healthy looking, well-groomed hair and If we talk about shapes and proportions, it is worth noting that female body must be able to bear, give birth and nurse a child. After all, every man, without exception, sees in his chosen one, first of all, the future mother of his children.
- Personal traits. It is also important how exactly a woman behaves when surrounded by men. For real “males” it is important to see in her respect for a man, modesty, fidelity, shyness, but at the same time, a woman must have hidden sexuality, accessible only to one chosen one. It is also necessary to be fragile and a little fearful, it is these qualities that awaken in men the desire to protect and protect the girl.
Of course, these components alone are not enough to become an ideal woman. There are many more qualities that a girl must develop in herself in order to be the one and only for her chosen one. Next, we’ll discuss what guys prioritize when they’re looking for a lover not for a couple of months, but for life; Let's name the main signs of female attractiveness; through the eyes of men, let's try to look at ourselves, our loved ones... We may have to change something in ourselves. So...
Signs of femininity: the most charming and attractive
If you believe surveys, the comments of the majority of men regarding female attractiveness can be divided into several groups, each of which also has its own nuances. So, here are the main signs of female attractiveness:
- Women's beauty (through the eyes of a man, of course) is well-groomed. Agree, healthy skin glow, beautiful nails and clean hair has always been and remains the main components of the image of a beautiful woman.
- In second place is the quality of intelligence. Every man would like to have a wise companion next to him, who can support any conversation, advise something useful, or simply surprise his chosen one with new inquisitive discoveries.
- Another sign of an ideal woman is the way she dresses. Her style should be unforgettable, highlight all her advantages, and, most importantly, her clothes should not be provocative or too revealing. It’s not for nothing that they say that you meet someone by their clothes. Below we will give some recommendations on the topic of choosing clothes to create a look ideal girl.
- The ideal woman also has a sense of humor and is no stranger to self-irony. Men can forget like crazy beautiful girl with ideal body proportions and facial features, however, believe me, they will forever remember a woman who can make them laugh and lift their spirits. The sense of humor in women and men has its own characteristics and differences, so a girl who understands men's jokes and can also joke herself is of great value in the eyes of men.
- And another sign is energy. Real woman should radiate such strong love to the world around him, that the man nearby will feel it and transform himself. Women's beauty and the power of femininity (through the eyes of men, as you understand) lies precisely in the atmosphere this woman creates around herself. When a man experiences the effect of such energy, so to speak, on his own skin, he instinctively wants to always be with a lady who radiates this zest for life and energy.
Secrets of female attractiveness: through the eyes of men we evaluate our appearance
There is no single standard for defining female beauty, so there is no point in worrying about your external flaws. After all, there are so many people in the world, and everyone has their own ideal of beauty. Some people like buxom brunettes, others like slender blondes. If we put together all the opinions of men from the most different countries, then we get the following formulation: “Female attractiveness in the eyes of men largely depends on the character and behavior of a woman rather than on her external data.” It is not necessary to have ideal facial features, because men first of all evaluate the entire image: the main thing is pleasant proportions and body structure.
Secrets of famous women
Take a look at the famous ladies who have become symbols of true femininity. Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Jennifer Aniston - these and many other women won the sympathy of men thanks to their tenderness and mystery. The basis of femininity is a light gait, correct posture, a gentle sonorous voice, long silky hair and, of course, harmony in the soul.
The talented Coco Chanel has repeatedly given lessons and advice on choosing clothes, so you should definitely listen to her recommendations. One of her mottos is: “Accessories make a woman a woman.” Use a variety of beads, bracelets, rings and earrings to make your look subtle and stylish. It’s so beautiful and natural to be feminine!
Being a woman is a lot of work, requiring time, patience and considerable expenses. In addition to the gifted nature of appearance, it is worth paying attention to cultivating femininity in yourself. Try to become calmer, more affectionate, kinder and more obedient. Female attractiveness in the eyes of men is respect and submission to all his requests. Remember that under no circumstances should you try to dominate your husband. Thus, you will forever kill in him any desire to be a protector, breadwinner and hunter. A woman can get more from a man with the help of soft, kind and tender words, so try to get rid of harshness and irritability.
How can you keep your one and only?
We have analyzed what female attractiveness is from the point of view of men. An attractive girl can charm any of them, but this is not enough. As a rule, then the question inevitably arises: “How can you keep your chosen one next to you?” There are several recommendations that you can follow to achieve eternal power over his heart. So:
- Learn to be a real hearth keeper. Surprise your loved one with a variety of dishes, learn new recipes and don’t be afraid to experiment! Let him get so used to your food that he won’t even try it anywhere else.
- If you want him to always listen to you, say fewer empty and unnecessary words. It is known that women, unlike men, talk a lot, and you try to get rid of this habit (well, at least next to him).
- Take care of your body. Exercise, eat healthy and don't forget about cosmetic procedures. If a girl doesn’t love her body and doesn’t take care of it, then what kind of man would do that?
You may not have ideal beauty, but if you know the principles of femininity and apply them wisely, you will be able to charm any “hunter”. Good luck to you and... femininity!
Today we will talk about what is the ideal woman Russian man and what is the ideal man for a Russian woman.
Russians are ordinary people and dream of examples of soul mates, with the same beautiful, in their opinion, traits as people all over the world. And if for the majority of men everything is quite concrete and straightforward, then Russian women, like women all over the world, are more abstract in expressing their preferences.
An ideal always implies something unattainable in real life, existing somewhere in the imagination. Everyone has their own ideas about what kind of people should be next to them, but in reality, expectations and dreams do not always correspond to the embodied truth of life.
So, what kind of woman do Russian men dream of?
Even without VTsIOM infographics it is clear that the truth that men love with their eyes remains true . Of course, they love beautiful, attractive people (it is possible that everyone has their own standard of beauty). True, people who have lived a little in the world and have had a couple of buckets of bitter experience are already beginning to understand that beauty will not get you far.
And even if some divorce their “older” wives and marry younger ones, another truth may dawn on them: not only should a woman be beautiful, she should be kind, forgiving and... preferably not very smart (so as not to understand too much or even though to pretend). And, in general, the VTsIOM infographic once again confirms this:
37% of respondents honestly said that the priority quality of a woman for men is her attractiveness,
24% - noted kindness, responsiveness, mutual understanding, 18% - dream of seeing an educated, intelligent woman next to them,
14% - homely, economic,
10% value femininity; decency; loyalty,
devotion,
8% each are interested in the inner world and spiritual qualities of a woman;
just as many are looking for an honest one,
sincere, 6% - open, cheerful, sociable.
Reliability, stability, and confidence were noted by only 5% of the men surveyed.
Many people don’t know what to do with an intelligent woman, even those who want to see her around. What is a “smart woman” is also a question, because many women are sure that they are smart.
Clever woman smart woman discord. Wisdom is a different concept than intelligence. It’s probably difficult to get along with a woman who is not so much smart as belligerent, unfeminine, and it’s difficult to get along with someone who’s really smart, who knows everything in advance, sees right through it, who can’t be deceived, stronger than men, the latter feels it and feels uneasy.
No matter how much a woman hides her intelligence, a man is often not stupid either, and besides, he wants to be the head, not a pawn. After all, when it is clear that a lady is “playing a fool”, being aware of everything and maintaining insincerity, it is even more unpleasant, it is clear that she is not playing herself for a fool.
Although they dream of being smart, most people get along with those with whom family life is possible... or with those who are very smart and are able to adapt to the needs and character of a man (there are, of course, fewer of them).
As a rule, a charismatic, strong, independent, beautiful, strong-willed woman is capable of building strong family relations, but the opposite is much more common. It is difficult for them to get along with someone who should be the leader in the family; they will not be able to “conservate” their talents for a long time, sitting at home, washing diapers, cooking borscht: they will fall into depression, cease to be themselves, wither away and in the end will still leave for free fields . And a man who hopes to tame the shrew will only receive an unenviable experience.
It is also possible to combine motherhood and career; this is a more “gentle” option for everyone. And there are many women around who have become good mothers and wives, just at the expense of their careers.
I believe that in modern society priorities are set incorrectly and the younger generation is given distorted information about the possibility of choice, or rather about its impossibility. Motherhood is opposed to a career; a career destroys motherhood.
“Experts” are looking for the roots in the masculinization of women and the infantilization of men, that, they say, the weaker sex is forced to fight for life because the real representatives of the stronger sex have disappeared, and relying on someone who is not reliable is absurd. So women go into battle on their own, and cannot juggle a thousand complex tasks at the same time, something suffers, often motherhood.
Other “experts” say that a woman, like a man, needs social fulfillment, and she will not be happy if she realizes only part of herself; that the stronger sex is not very interested in housewives who stand barefoot at the stove all their lives when everyone is around is changing, the world is moving forward, in general, life does not end with borscht.
However, from the experience of those acquaintances who did stand at the stove for at least half their lives, I will say that those who judge are superficial and selfish and have no idea what kind of feat this is.
Men also don’t want to see dummies next to them. But according to surveys from other sources - “which woman would you prefer: attractive or with a rich inner world?” — the majority say with confidence that the first.
For the first impression and the emergence of love, a beautiful wrapper is enough, however, as the same men clarify, there is too little external data to continue the relationship. And they are looking for one that will have a more complete set of desired ideal feminine qualities
, fortunately, the alternative choice is incomparable with the female position.
In general, the mind does not exclude ease of character, sociability, and not falling into depression in the spring and autumn.. Hypochondriacs and those who complain about life are hard to bear by representatives of both sexes, but, of course, hardy women are more courageous and resilient. Something remains in the middle:
periodically stupid, fragmentarily smart, brilliantly wise, forever young, beautiful, homely, never sad female creature. Opinions of men (from forums) about the ideal of girls: family hearth and wait for my husband. She forgives betrayals and never even thinks of committing betrayal herself...”
“..The Ideal Girl should not be older than 23-27 years. Right on her 27th birthday, every girl becomes old and boring.
The Ideal Girl must have a higher education. It is clear that this is actually a drawback, but you have to come to terms with it. A girl with intelligence, but without education, will be tormented by psychological problems about her own inadequacy, and this will distract you from the global problems of humanity in the form of the European Football Championship and new episodes of Comedy Club.
A modest girl of Slavic appearance, speaking Russian, loving lard, dumplings and vodka, and wearing skirts - that’s what you need.”
Blondes are also considered the ideal of beauty by those who posted photos of Ordie Hempburn and Angelina Jolie.
In general, the appearance requirements for men are standard: slim (with different variations), well-groomed, pretty, etc.
By the way, questions about the female ideal are readily answered by married men, that is, the ideal simultaneously exists in their head with the image of a wife, or they still do not stop looking for “the one,” even having acquired offspring.
According to many men, a woman should not smoke, drink alcohol, or have other bad habits.
She should not command, shout, be domineering, she should be meek, sweet, easily able to find a prestigious job, and it is desirable that she generally be the idle muse of her beloved man, however, if the ideal of a representative of the stronger sex changes, she will be able to quickly grow wings and fly away .
In any case, do not forget the popular phrase “if you want to marry a beautiful, smart and decent woman, you will have to do it three times.”
What kind of man do Russian women dream of?
First of all, about reliability. This is evidenced by the VTsIOM infographics:
In second place (17%) with a large gap from reliability are kindness, responsiveness, empathy,
16% of women surveyed value smart people
educated men, 15% decent,
and only 9% of women focused on the young man’s appearance.
In general, how strikingly different are the ideas about the ideal soulmate of the stronger and weaker sex: what women value in men is in last place in the ranking of qualities that men value in women. Also, everything is reversed in situations with other qualities.
Reliability, which women so actively value in men, is ranked last in the ranking by the stronger sex. best qualities ideal woman. External data by which most men choose their companion - women in the ranking of the most important masculine qualities placed on one of the outer lines. In general, women are looking for someone who is reliable and not very handsome, and men are looking for someone who is beautiful and not very reliable (though a little faithful and devoted).
As for appearance, there is a good point: men perceive the object as a whole, women notice the details.
Men, implying that a woman should be beautiful, mean that she should be beautiful. What to do for this - women think. Many people do not divide beauties into blondes and brunettes; the overall image is important.
Naturally, many understand that in addition to beauty, such parameters and nuances as a beautiful gait, well-groomed appearance, hair, skin, nails, etc. are important.
It happens that I am driving or walking along the streets of my city - and I notice this thing: many ladies are very attractive, but they are dressed tastelessly or ugly, they slouch, have an unfeminine gait, a dull look, and an untidy hairstyle. There are a lot of combed and cute ones, and at the same time they, of course, look more advantageous, although everyone’s external characteristics may be the same. I once read on an Internet resource about how a fairly well-known psychologist conducted “Bitchology” courses (explained how to become a bitch ordinary women). They came to him different girls
, all ready to immediately transform into self-sufficient and independent people.. But he
I started the training by sending some people to wash their hair, get a manicure, and buy more beautiful clothes. In general, the psychologist said that they are looking very deeply for the reason for their loneliness. Usually in such courses women are simply “divorced”, it’s like instructions to “earn a million in five minutes”, you can’t learn this in a couple of weeks. What does reliability mean, implied by women as the most desirable thing they want to see in the opposite sex? On Wikipedia - let's turn to encyclopedic sources - it is indicated that“personal reliability is a positive spiritual and moral quality of the individual, expressing stability and firmness
moral principles her behavior. Trustworthiness as a quality of character is considered a virtue, along with honesty, benevolence and justice." Also, reliability is inextricably linked with responsibility; a reliable person is often associated with a developed sense of responsibility.
The position of women, in my opinion, is associated with a certain hopelessness, because in fact, both according to statistics and in fact, there are fewer men than women and even fewer worthwhile men. And although men can counterargue that there are few real women left either, the cause-and-effect relationship rightfully begins with the stronger sex.
The despair of the weaker sex is that many, through evil experience, come to the realization of the unimportance of a man’s appearance, to the priority even over the internal qualities, first of all, of the man’s reliability - “so as not to run away... keep his word, be able to provide, etc.”
Hierarchy of qualities ideal man gradually begins to bend, many requests change places, what previously seemed unimportant after a couple of mistakes rises to the pedestal.
A woman already does half the work if she looks good (without vulgarity), by this she shows her activity in terms of desire to find a companion or maintain a relationship. If we assume that a man is a conqueror, then he must show persistence; a woman’s position is more passive, but more significant. Men love with their eyes, but there is another truth: women love with their ears...
Men often (in more than 50% of cases) talk about what they really want, while women imagine a supposed ideal, which is often far from reality. Because in life, ladies often choose men with qualities completely opposite to those that are emphasized as the most important in surveys and conversations. They look for reliable ones, get bored without the strong ones, and fall in love with bandits or lazy people, slobs, irresponsible or unreliable and cute.
Which proves another ancient truth: women often don’t know what they want. They dream of one thing, but choose another... Because they live more by emotions. After all, it is not without reason that love (which is a feeling) often arises in spite of all dogmas and ideals cut out for the frame. As they say, “when you love someone for something, it’s no longer love”... And for men, it turns out that initially there is a calculation on the basis of which feelings already develop; it is often easier for the stronger sex to control feelings.
And women, no matter how they hide it, but for the most part they are not inclined to make calculations... they want one thing... they think that they want one thing, but they act completely differently and fall in love with someone with whom they did not think of falling in love in a cold mind more often than men.
Moreover, reliability in the understanding of many ladies does not mean the above terms at all, but financial solvency, a “big wallet,” the ability to buy whatever your heart desires or at least much more than is necessary. This is where we get exaggerated models of popular modern relationships: a beautiful, stupid blonde and a wealthy man. He “drinks” her beauty, she is his money.
But we are still talking about another part of the people, the sane one, where even if there are stupid claims and unclear requests in their minds, on the whole everything is more unspoiled.
For ten girls there are nine boys...
A song from Soviet times states an ever-existing fact: “for nine girls, according to statistics, there are nine boys.”
“According to the State Statistics Committee, in 2010 there were 65.6 million men and 76.2 million women in Russia, that is, a difference of 10.6 million. The number statistically means that for every thousand men there are 1,160 women.”
The expected life expectancy of men is 11-13 years less than that of women (in Russia). At the same time, 1.5 times more boys are born than girls, that is, the former simply do not live to see adulthood, as if nature were experimenting on strong field, or the defeat of the population occurs precisely through the destruction and neutralization of men.
Men are more likely and more at a young age than women die from strokes, heart attacks (most common cause deaths on the planet), there are more male babies with developmental pathologies than girls, boys are less tenacious, boys are 4 times more likely to be affected by such a disease as autism, which has been gaining momentum lately.
And if previously the physical sphere suffered primarily, today mental complications in men and boys are much more common. Women, despite the fact that they are fragile, in the majority endure psychological trauma more easily and are more resilient, perhaps partly this is the effect of a defense mechanism.
In general, full-fledged, healthy and worthy men Far fewer survive to adulthood than women. As a result, the weaker sex lives by fictitious ideals, and due to the lack of abundance of choice, they prefer those who exist. Men, realizing that women are ready to do a lot for anyone more or less worthy, and realizing that enough women, especially single ones and not knowing what they want, can easily change an unsatisfactory soul mate for another.
Finally, an anecdote on the topic:
“There was one man who avoided marriage all his life, and when he was dying at the age of ninety, someone asked him:
“You never got married, but you never said why.” Now, standing on the threshold of death, satisfy our curiosity. If there is any secret, at least reveal it now - after all, you are dying, leaving this world. Even if your secret is found out, it will not harm you.
The old man replied:
- Yes, I keep one secret. It's not that I'm against marriage, but I've always been looking for the perfect woman. I spent all my time searching, and that’s how my life flew by.
- But is it really possible that on the entire huge planet, inhabited by millions of people, half of whom are women, you couldn’t find one single ideal woman?
A tear rolled down the dying old man's cheek.
He replied:
- No, I still found one.
The questioner was completely perplexed.
- Then what happened, why didn’t you get married?
And the old man answered:
— That woman was looking for the perfect man...«
Questions, naturally, to the unmarried.
Men, what is your ideal woman?
Women, what is your ideal man?
Numerous surveys indicate that men do not like models and women who torture themselves with diets or experiment with their appearance in order to be similar, as they think, to the ideal woman. They are looking for someone else. And this is just a fashion trend that will disappear very quickly, and it is of interest only to those who are professionally involved in the beauty industry, as well as plastic surgeons, who, thanks to low self-esteem in women, become millionaires, and not most men.
Who is she - the ideal woman through the eyes of men
Men like to admire beautiful women. They pay attention to them, love magazines where famous beauties show off their charms, and beaches where young and not-so-beauties bask in the sun in a bikini and even without it. This hurts many women, makes them feel less beautiful, makes them jealous and sort things out, which already plays against them. Because subconsciously this begins to be perceived as doubts about one’s own attractiveness, and representatives of the stronger sex compare their women even more closely with those they looked at.
Women who do not pay attention to this, demonstrating indifference, even if they are a little offended in their hearts, make men think that they are confident in their beauty and are not at all bothered by someone’s appearance and figure. And such confidence involuntarily evokes respect, and the man is once again convinced that next to him is the most ideal woman in the world. Just remember that it is necessary to show indifference to such admiration not just without words, but without a gloomy expression on your face, better with a smile and bliss.
The ideal woman, in their opinion, should always radiate self-confidence, in any clothes, in any situation, even when returning from the store, even when going out for the evening. In her every move, this confidence in her own attractiveness, irresistibility glides, regardless of what size of clothes, shoes, hair color, facial features, age. She knows she's beautiful because that's who she is.
Her confidence fascinates and makes you pay attention to her, the desire to bask next to her, to feel this trail of love that is inside her. After all, only that representative of the fair sex who loves herself is so capable of believing in herself, and it doesn’t matter whether she learned this as an adult or has been able to since childhood, thanks to the love of her parents.
Without self-love it is impossible to radiate the world that you are beautiful and good the way you are at any moment of your life. Self-love is easily felt by others and you really want to bask in its rays. And men are deeply convinced that only one who radiates warmth, knows what love is and knows how to love can be ideal.
Photo: the ideal woman through the eyes of men
They need care, reliability and attention, no matter how old they are. It doesn't matter what color her hair is, what her eyes are, what her figure is, or how old she is, that's not what they're looking at. Only they know what attracts them to opposite field, and why they chose this woman.
Appearance is just a temporary shell that reflects a certain age of a person, so no matter how beautiful a woman is, over time all this will disappear, and nothing can be done about it. Any most beautiful appearance becomes habitual and what qualities a person possesses comes to the fore. And it is not surprising that many beauties remain lonely or unhappy in relationships when there are fewer of them. beautiful girlfriends happy married. There is no point in suffering because of your appearance, adjusting it, trying to be like non-models and mocking yourself, just to please men and become the ideal woman.
Often beautiful women with a cold heart and overly calculating thoughts, they remain broke, even if initially they easily find a gentleman who most often wants to show her off as an exotic item that he was able to buy. Of course, men will pay attention to her and some will even try to get acquainted, but few people will like communicating with someone who is overly indifferent and watches his every word, gesture and carefully considers how to behave.
In addition to external beauty, there are still qualities without which any strong feeling sooner or later it will disappear. No one is uncomfortable being around a person who is cold, stingy with feelings and distant. Indifferent women are alarming, frightening and repulsive. Cold beauty can only freeze, but everyone really wants warmth.
The ideal woman according to men
- For men, the ideal woman may be someone who knows how to make friends and keep secrets. Listen and hear, and not just focus on yourself. She does not ignore their interests, does not think exclusively about herself. She cares what happens to him. She is not focused on herself and her problems and desires.
- A woman understands how important it is for him to have his own fortress, in which he can rest, lick his wounds, come to his senses, and find solutions to the most difficult problems.
- An ideal representative of the fair sex will not take advantage of a man’s weaknesses, his sore spots. Doesn't use what she knows about him against him. He will not betray or abandon you if difficult times come. She will always be there, without intruding, without interfering, without panicking, and without tormenting you with questions. She can give advice if asked, support, and instill optimism.
- Love of life is an important quality in the list of qualities of an ideal woman, which was compiled by men themselves.
- They want to see wisdom and a desire to listen to others in her. So that she does not create scandals, does not make unreasonable claims, does not forbid communication with friends and relatives, understands how important it is for a man to have his own social circle and feel needed and important.
- She will not allow herself to express complaints about him in front of others, but will talk about it in private in a calm and respectful manner. Not blaming him for all his sins, but saying how she feels when he does this. Because he understands that he will hear her only this way, and not when he is attacked and humiliated.
- Men don't like those who are obsessed with appearance, career, or keeping the house clean. They don't like being too focused on something. This frightens and worries them, makes them feel less significant and unimportant. And for them this is a sign of insolvency and weakness that they cannot afford.
- In their opinion, the ideal woman is able to find golden mean in everything she does. She will not sacrifice her interests for the sake of her husband and children, parents or society, since she will cease to be herself, dissolving into those around her. Because only victims who want everyone to appreciate their merits behave this way. But when this doesn’t happen (because everyone thinks that they are doing it because they want to) they get offended and accumulate these grievances long years, poisoning the lives of both yourself and those around you.
- The woman they dream about makes them strive to achieve their goals and desires because she does not forget about her own. She knows what she wants, what she likes and what she doesn't. He's not afraid to say it out loud.
- She knows how to clearly explain what she needs and is important in a relationship, and does not wait for the man to show his telepathic abilities and guess what she dreams or thinks about. Moreover, he doesn’t have them, which means these are new grievances and claims, and whoever likes to feel silent reproach and guilt, even if he didn’t do anything wrong, there’s still little pleasure in feeling guilty.
- She will not make her man jealous by maintaining a reasonable distance when communicating with other men. Will not try to test his feelings by flirting with them. But she won’t allow herself to check his phone or email. And if she finds out that he cheated on her, she knows what she will do.
- An ideal woman will not allow herself to blackmail her husband with communication at night, because this is not a reward for his good behavior or a way of manipulating and getting what you want, but natural communication between people in love.
Photo: the ideal woman through the eyes of men
Love does not depend on appearance or age. They love different people. When the time comes to meet your person, you will be perfect for him. And there is no point in worrying about whether you look like some ideal woman or not. This is all an illusion, especially if you look at photographs of recognized beauties in Hollywood or the modeling business without Photoshop. They are women like everyone else: overweight, with cellulite and not the most ideal facial features, which does not make them any less attractive when they love themselves.
All men, without exception, at least once in their lives dreamed of meeting their ideal woman who could give him great happiness. Naturally, every guy has an image of his ideal girl in his head, some may like shy and smart girls, while others may like stern ladies, and some just like narrow-minded blondes, no offense intended.
But still, in some moments, men have similar desires and opinions. From all this male psychology you can put together a small list that can reflect all men’s desires and requirements for the ideal girl. A man has a clear idea of what appearance and character his chosen one should have.
APPEARANCE OF AN IDEAL WOMAN THROUGH THE EYES OF A MAN
Everyone knows that men love with their eyes, for them the wrapper, that is, the girl’s appearance is very important. I doubt that any of the men around the world dreams of having next to them a girl in a bathrobe, with curlers on her head, unshaved legs and no makeup. A man's brain can evaluate a woman's appearance in a split second and make a verdict - whether she will be rewarded with his attention or not. And here the question arises - what external factors influence a man's choice?
Hair and hairstyle
It happens that women spend hours in hairdressing salons, but sometimes it is in vain. In an attempt to create a monumental hairstyle on my head in the hope of being noticed, but... According to statistics and surveys of men, they will prefer a girl if she has her hair down rather than with her hair up. Another important aspect is that guys prefer girls with natural color hair.
Face and makeup
Cosmetics help girls emphasize their beauty. Makeup should be done in such a way that it is in moderation, the main thing is not to overdo it and to look like an Indian in the eyes of a man who has gone on the warpath. Dark colors in makeup, and especially too much of it, can scare a man away.
Men also really like lips. Most of them will prefer plump, textured and slightly moist lips. As for the eyes, they should have a sparkle (literally).
Figure and forms
Some men like chubby girls With large shapes, but unfortunately such people are in the minority. In their fantasies, they picture a long-legged and busty beauty with a toned butt and a flat tummy. No matter how they deny it is so. If you have not yet reached the desired level or volume, you should think about the prospect of joining a gym.
Cloth
You will find very few men who will appreciate you wearing a Christina Dior coat or an Armani handbag. For men, this is much more prosaic. They will prefer the combination of taste and style, the one that will highlight all the charms of a woman. And with all this, clothing should not be provocative and impudently hint at a desire to meet. Of course, a man will turn around if a lady in a short skirt passes nearby, but they are unlikely to want to walk next to her by the hand.
This is a description of an image that appeals to most men, but not to all. After all, every man has created his own image of an ideal woman in his head, and these images are undoubtedly different. The fact remains unchanged that the ideal woman through the eyes of men is a well-groomed and neat girl, and after that some specific data is taken into account.
THE IDEAL CHARACTER OF A WOMAN IN THE OPINION OF MEN
Despite the fact that men love with their eyes, they, despite external factors, also take into account the character of the ideal girl, who is endowed with certain qualities. After all, they will have to support a family together, raise children, share all the joys and troubles. According to most men, the character of an ideal girl should consist of the following qualities:
- Submissiveness, complaisance. She will have to respect her man's opinion.
- Shouldn't be overly talkative.
- Tenderness and affection, care and attention. After all, all men are grown children, and each of them dreams of seeing maternal feelings in their woman.
- Smart. But in moderation.
- Must be able to listen and empathize.
- Self-sufficiency and self-esteem. If a woman has low self-esteem, then she evaluates men just as low.
Remember that this image of an ideal woman in the opinion of men is collective. This is an indicator of what men pay attention to in a girl’s appearance and character. And built on personal experience and facts from life.
You may not have all these qualities, but you will still be desired and loved. In this case, you will always be ideal for your man.
